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Hey! I didnt know what to put this under so ya..I am going to be 14 on Febuary 23rd and I dont know what to do for my party? anyone have any good suggestions on what we could do to be kept occupied? lol I have a big *green room* aka living room that we could hang out in but i just dont know what we could do? I am in the country but not like farm country and have a nice size backyard! I will rate high if you give party tips!! thx much!! ♥Andrea
well what I would always do, I had a big back yard also, and i would use the front of myhouse, if your gonna have it around the night time, I would just play hide and go seek in the dark, I know that you might think its kiddish, but im 16 and i still play it with my friends, its so much fun, and even inside your house you could play it :) But also , you could play cops and robbers which is fun too haha, seriously though im being serious, you shouldnt worry like crazy, itll just be fun if you just do something simple , have a dj come maybe and have a dance party or something :) you could like pull a prank on your friends and have a clown come and tell him to make a fool out of everyone...just funny stuff is what makes the party fun :) for my 15th last year, i had balloons...and i put confetti in them and i put them ALL over the ceiling and ALL over the floor and walls and you had to pop the ones on the ceiling with a fork the ones on the wall with your body and the ones on the floor with your butt and its just fun because at the end you have a bunch of confetti everywhere lol its fun!
-Jenn
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Since its winter time my face is getting very dry , does anyone know any good daily face moisturizers. Thanks
you could use the Clinique one, its really good :) I use it all the time, but then again I use Proactive which has an AMAZING moiisturizer with it :)
-Jenn
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My friend told my other friends that this kid likes me, but i don't like him. I like someone else. I don't want to hurt his feelings because i know how it feels. What should i do?
Just tell the boy that likes you that you arent really looking for a bf right now, but you do like someone else, and your sorry but you can still be really good friends with him if he would want too :)
-Jenn
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I am sick with the flu and my grandmother want to give me some medicine that they used to use in her childhood days.Viniger and greentea.how can i get out of this?quick i am getting my next treatment in 30 minutes!
OOO i know! Tell her that you just threw up and if you take that stuff you wont keep it down , I normally do that and it works ...lol so try it!
Okay heres the deal, I have this huge crush on this guy and he already knows and since hes known hes been extra nice to me (i guess hes trying to make me feel special or something which is nice but whatever)anyway he got mad at me because my friend called him like a millon times when I wasnt looking on my house phone and he knows my last name but thats all cleared up now because i talked to him and now were friends again. I have his cell # and home phone # so Im asking....Is it okay if I call him? ~Jacki
well it depends on how long ago it happened...and if i were you, i would just ask him , just say something like "Hey I wanted to know if you wanna do something sometime, if its okay if i call you* and just go from there, trust me lol I wanna talk to this one guy really bad but im giving him his 3 days of space before i call again because last time we talked he told me he likes me , so yeah , anywho! Dont just call him out of the blue,have a reason :)
-Jenn
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Okay maybe i'm just over-reacting, but, me and my boyfriend have just recently become sexually active, and we had sex the first time without a condom, i know i know bad decisio, but it wasn't hardcore sex.. it was a put it in take it out kind of thing. Like an experiment. But non-the-less, it wasn't protected. But we've had sex about 3 or 4 times since then, in the last 3 months. I had my period after the first time we had sex, and I know for a fact none of the other condoms have broke. But, for some reason, I haven't had my period in over a month, going on two! I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said i wasn't pregnant, but i just cant' shake this feeling that I am!! Why haven't I had my period!? I know this is long, but I really need advice. Please help!
Okay well if you just lost ur virginity, then thats the exact answer. When you first have sex, that screwes up ur entire menstrual cycle. My sister lost her virginity in January of 2004 , and after that, for about 6-7 months her period was totally messed up, she went to a gyno and he said it was perfectly normal for a person who just recently lost their virginity, so, if thats your case, dont worry hun!
-Jenn
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I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love yoI love you I love you u I love you I love you I love you
HOw can I fix that
you cant fix " I love you" once you say it...its out inthe open. and I think i know what you mean...u said it to someone, and it screwed everything up or someone said it to you and screweed everything up....
-Jenn
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I'm 13 and wondering...
hm...well...IM ME..and ill tell you lol but its a way of giving pleasure to urself sexually...but only you doing it to urself...like getting aroused, IM me :) Jist1088
i'm a total pimplehead and i have been for a long time.. like.. um.. since grade 5 i think.. i'm in grade8 now.. i've been using these cleanser things they're getting kinda better but i keep on breaking out.. any tips?? *omg i'm so embaressed asking this.. i need help!!*
PROACTIVE. TRUST ME my big sister had BADDDDD pimples, and it WOULDNT go away she tried eevrything . Use PROACTIVE its amazing...seriously....its really good, and cut back on eating fatty foods, with a lot of oil like chocolate and coffee are HORRIBLE for your skin! hope i helped!
-Jenn
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Hey, I downloaded Animation Shop 3 and PSP 9, 60 days ago for the free trial, but now it doesn't work, even when I set the clock back on my computer. I tried unistalling both programs and re-downloading them, but they still didn't work. Does anyone know any sites where you can download them for free?
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hey hun, you could possibly download from kazaa, or Limewire, or any other music downloader thing because they have more than just music, OR you could TRY to see if www.tucows.com has anything , im not sure though hope i helped!
-Jenn
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On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..
Its all about you hun, YOU Have decide, you cant really ask people whether u should or not ( sorry if that sounded mean), if YOU want to do it, and if YOU think your READY...READY being the key word, then do it...but if your bf is pressuring you, which i dont think he is, but IF he is, you shouldnt do it unless you WANT too...hope i helped hun! byeee
-Jenn
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In school theres this kid who is always annoys me and when im around this guy I have A HUGE crush on he always say SHE LIKES YOUUU!! practicily screaming! I feel so embarassed and mad at this idiot. Before winter break let out about a week ago I told him he was a dirty bastard and to never talk to me again since then he hasnt but he keeps coming on to my friend and hes being REALLY PEVERTED and saying peverted things to her? What do I do?
Well hes probably doing it because HE likes you...boys are just weird sometimes lol, they are just going to show you they like you in a way, so, if he doesnt stop, talk to him and be like * listen, Im willing to be your friend and be nice to you, if you PLEASE just lay off all the perverted stuff and everything* or that could be cheesy and you dont WANNA be his friend , then id just curse him out and threaten to tell counselors and stuff cuz he could get suspended even expelled for that stuff. Hope i helped!!!
good luck babe!!
-Jenn
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Hey! I was just wondering if anyone had any advice of how or where i can record songs and music? I have a record studio at my school but i was wondering what else could i do to record? is there a website?
Theres a bunch of ways you could record, the easiest really would be at your school probably, but theres the actual recording studio that you can go to but you have to pay at least $50 an hour...and normally it takes a little bit for you to record cuz you need to do cuts and make ups and all that jazz, OR you could just buy a mic for your computer, get a program off off www.tucows.com that is made for recording and then get a CD burner and burn yourself to a cd :) Hope I helped hunn!!
GOOD LUCK! and if your looking to be a singer or a performer, dont give up your hope! youll make it babe!
-Jenn
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My period is really weird- it comes every 2 to 3 months, lasts for ages (around 10 days), is excruciatingly painful and has a VERY heavy flow. Is there something wrong with me? Please help,
Zoinatrobe.
Dont worry about it, depending on your age, for a couple years after you get ur first period itll just completley be off and weird like crazyyyyyyy, also, if you lost ur virginity recently, it could do that to you, my sister lost hers and her period was doing the exact same thing, so it could be various things, but nothing wrong with you babe :) dont worry about it, your normal haha
-Jenn
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I'm a 16/m thats moving from California to Rhode Island. its the biggest change of my life and i'm not sure what to do about it. How will i ever fit in?? How do i get accepted by my peers? Whats that style/fashion there? Can anyone give me advice on how to make a smooth transition into Rhode Island?? Thanks!
DONT WORRY ABOUT IT HUN!!! trust me, Ive moved around so much, its not really that hard, just be yourself, be nice to people it wont be hard, ive gone from Missouri to Minnesota to Kentucky, to Kentucky again to Alabama, to Virginia, to Virginia again, to Arizona to Arizona AGAAIN. so dont worry , youll be fine :)
im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~
Dont worry about it, I was doing the same thing you were...your getting desperate even if you dont mean to be or even if you deny it, you really are getting desperate, I was too but I held back, im 16 and ive never had a bf. and its not cuz i cant get one its cuz I dont really want one, i dont NEED a guy to make me happy, just think about that :) it should help! love ya babe byee
-Jenn
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can anyone tell me a good site to put digital pictures on besides picture trail because thats not working for me!! thank you
www.webshots.com
I apologize in advance for the potential length of this post.
Lately, I have been having trouble with my father. It seems like he's taking every opportunity to ruin every chance at happiness that I ever had. I normally wouldn't care, but he's really effecting my relationships with other people and my potential opportunity to get into a good college, which is really important to me.
Since I'm only fourteen, I have no way to move out without his complete consent, and I have considered moving in with my mother in San Francisco, but she is physically abusive toward me, so that really eliminates itself as an option.
He's making me feel worthless and like I'm a horrible human being and I don't know what to do. He's called me a slut, a liar, a failure, and a sociopath. Someone please help me.
What your dad is doing by calling you those names is being Verbally Abusive. I go through it too..so trust me I know what you go through, it gets tiring, annoying,and just plain old...Im 16 and im worrying about college, and I am honestly going through the same thing, only my parents live together and my family is falling apart. and Me being the middle child, I have 4 people comming to me with their problems...Im honestly at a breaking point, which looks like where your at also, and my parents tell me IM breaking the family apart. I know this has NOTHING to do with your post but, Its just letting you know that Im going through the same thing, and to ME...there isnt really a way out of it..Ive tried talking and it doesnt really do anything ....but hey! Each person is different...get a friend and vent completley to him or her, or do anything that will make you feel better...hope i helped! love ya ! byee
which day/days of your cycle are you LEAST likely to get pregnant? which day/days of your cycle are you MOST likely to get pregnant, and how do you tell? be specific, dont just say "your period." and dont tell me not to have sex or use protection cause that's not what i asked. thanks!
you cant realli answer this question...because each girl is diferent..so each of our menstrual cycles are different. The point in the month where you have the most discharge is the worst time...and usually a week before and after ur period is when yoou can get pregnant.
Okay, well, I'm 13, and two days ago I went to the bathroom and saw some blood in my...well, underwear...and I didn't talk to my mom about it I just waited to see what happened in a little while after I changed. The next day I didn't get any more blood, I just got big amounts of discharge, and this has never ever happened to me before. My face also broke out, and I was craving chocolate and I was really tired. Does this mean I'm going to get my period soon?
CONGRATS haha your a woman for life now lol, have fun with that hun :) hahah its not realli all that bad, you get used to it, but yeah, first ones are always different and for the first couple years, your cycle changes so you wont always have it towards the beggining or anything...I got mine when i was 11 and im 16 now, and JUST now, its starting to come mid month every month, so itll def change :) good luckkk
-Jenn
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