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For Christmas I may get my belly button peirced, I need to know a few things. Does it hurt? How long until you can change the belly ring. How much do belly button rings cost? Thats it... thanks in advance. (link)
My mom and I are getting it doen for Christmas probably so if my mom can get it doem so can you. From other people's experiences I've hear dlike getting your ears pierced it does hurt but it will go away. Make sure the people who do it are licesned. They can answer any other questions you have.


hi, next month i have my first appointment for the gnyo, becuase im 15 and have had my period irregular since i starting getting it 4 years ago,so my mom made me an appt...so anyway my concern is that, a couple months ago my boyfirend and I of 9 months decided to take are relationship a little farther and he fingered me, quite intensly and has done it a couple times..(but I have never had sex, and dont plan on it anytime soon)I am worried that the gyno will tell my mom,(becuase i know the gyno will be able to tell,becuase i am quite stretched out from it) and i really dont think that my mom wants to hear "oh by the way your daughter has been fingered" and she will be quite dissapointed in me. If i ask should the gyno keep my information confidential?

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Your gyno might know but since your hymen isn;t broken she wont be able to tell. She doesn't have to tell your mom anything and yea ur just 2 stressed out she wont tell her becuase its conifedntial


ok i am an awesome bball player but i get nervous when boys come and watch me play.. im afraid they will laugh if i miss a sot or somthin....what should i do...help me and FAST (link)
I feel the exact same way!!!!!! omg i know how you feel i get so tense and i usually don't play as good as i usually do. You just HAVE to pretend they aren't there but hey at least you know some boys are coming to watch YOU


umm after im finished playin basketball or volleyball, im usually sweating a lot. my face also is very red after practice. is there any way that i can keep my face from being so red? o ya and im 13/f. (link)
No... but right after wash your face sao the sweat doesnt clog your pores.


Hi I am christian, and I have a friend who is jewish. I want to get her a "holiday" present, but I am not sure what to call it, or if she would think it was rude. I am also not sure when i should give it to her. I don't know when haunaka is. What do you think? (link)
hannukah is going on right now but it will be over soon. So you can buy one now and give it to her. Of course she wouldn't fidn it offending on the card you could just write happy holidays an dhappy new year! i'm sure she would be flattered not think it was rude. you sound liek a great friend to consider all fo this


OK listen boy friends brother told me that my boy friend says that i never call him or any thing and he was mad at me for leaving his house to be with my friend this one time and his brother said people were tellin him that im a big hoe and before i went with him i sucked alot of guys a yeah ok so i went home and called him to get it all straightin out and his sister picked up and i asked for him and she sed hold on and i heard her call him and he told her that he'll call me back well he never did i just don't know what to do with that i mean he says i never call but when i do he says he'll call back and he never does! can some one please help on this?? thanks (link)
You have to get him alone and confront him face to face be open and listen very cloesly. Try to make more of an effort. Alothough maybe he's just beign pressured by his friends since before they didn't seem, to liek you since they were saying bad things about you. Well idk how he can say you never call if you did call and he never called you back. It seems like he's the one who needs to make more of an effort but you should try to too.


I'm a teen girl going through puberty and my private has losened up. I never had sex before so it couldn't have "stretched" that way. Also, around the edges of the viginia it's turning a dark tan color. What is this and is it normal? Also, are there any exercises i can do to tighten it up?

thnx so much, i really need your help! (link)
During this time practically everythiung is considered normal cuz all kinds of weird things are happening. This is perfectly normal but if you have any other quesitons and don't want to asky uo mother-figure or doctor just post them here or ask me.


What the hell do i get my boyfriend for xmas? of course, he told me not to get him anything but i have to. im lost for ideas. hes 13..he likes pink floyd, jimi hendrix, and ppl. help me please (link)
Get him a cd of those people! thats great advice from a kid named nick!


ok well my friend is to emmbaresd to ask but she is 14 and she hasnt got her period yet..WUTS WRONG??
is this normal?

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Hell I've had mine for a year and im 12 . its not weird tho


is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit? (link)
NOo0o0o0 way itz totally fine. Although some parents may be apprehensive to let you baby sit there girls childrwn.


If you took a rat on vacation with you, but kept her in one of those mini cAges, would that be too stressing for the animal?? (i'd keep food, water, and toys in it)
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It would be best to just leave the rat at home and have someone else watch it. It is stressful for the animal even with the toys and food.


hi theres this guy that likes me and wants to have sex with me cool!!!! but theres one problum hes 35 and i'm 14!!!!!! :~( what should i do he said if i don't i'll be sorry help!!!!!! (link)
Tell him he'll be the sorry one, he can be arrested for that because it'd be considered rape. PLus, why would you want to your obviously having second thoughts.


im 16/f
my parents offerd to by me a car. whats a good 1? (link)
The most expensive one they'll buy you! Duhh thanks for the answer Leah


Does anyone know what song this is??

So cut my wrists and black my eyes
So I can fall asleep tonight and die
Because you kill me..You know you do
You kill me well you like it too


Thanks.
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Ohio Is for Lovers... WeLcOmE!


I am in love! Is anyone happy for me? (link)
I am!!!!!!!! I am very happy for you! You go girl/guy!yeah!


how do you know if a girl is devirginized based on her physical outlook and socialization??
does it easily show?
thank you......... (link)
Why do you care? And no, you really can't tell but if she shows some signs of sluttiness then she might be. You really shouldn't care though.


At school I was in the locker room and I was taking a shower and then a brat came by whe nI got out and told me she wanted to show me something and I only had 5 minutes before the next class so I just was like fine so when I went to see what it was she got about 3 of her friends to take off my towel and pushed me out side with all the other people and then the classes where changing and the locker room was locked and every one say me naked I mean butt naked and now ever one makes fun of me saying I should be a striper and all (link)
OK you didn't ask a question... but I would tell; ana dult immediately. Honestly., it doesn't sound toooo bad cuz you say people are telling yuo to be a stripper. Thats good cuz that means they like your body. That's the only good thing you could get out of the experience, I'm just trying to help :)


my rat has been loosing a lot of weight lately. i know rats have respratory problems,but their is no sign of blood in his nose or mouth. he gets plenty to eat and seems very happy.if you have any ideas what could be wrong please let me know. thanks. (link)
Call the vet ASAP! she can help you


i didnt no which one i shud put this under illness or relationships/school well anyways.... my friend rachel has 9 bros and sis's and her mom just found out that she had cancer! rachel is the oldest and is only 12! if i try to talk to her about it she just acts like she doesnt care that much and shes telling everyone! if it is possible i want to get her on extreme makeover home edition bc her family deserves it! and if her mother dies then there will b a widow father who has to raise 9 children on his own.

~*****please help*****~
!!!!!i rate high!!!!!!! (link)
Be as nice as possible! bring it up at leats if she gets mad she knows you care and she has someone to talk to. It will be so0o0o hard so help her out. My dad was one of 10 and his mom and dad were both dead by the time he was 13 and he was th eoldest! he had to take care of babys and toddlers! so be strong and help your friend


yah i really dont know what to do anymore i swear my boyfriend is going nuts on me. just because i dont tell him what is wrong. i mean i cant tell him my feelings he has to go all pyscho on me. i dont like it i dont know what to do. plz help me. (link)
My b/f was like that... i just told him it doesnt matter myob. I mean if he doesn't respect your space he's not worht it but maybe hes just concerned about you.




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