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Hey I just got my cartilage pierced yesterday and Im cleaning it more than is required cause I dont want it to get infected. I cleaned it for the 3rd time today and noticed a really light red color on the cotton I was using. Should I worry about this? (link)
piersings do tend to bleed a little during the first week becouse of the constant movieng of the ring inside the whole which might scrape of a little of the healed tissue, its perfectly normal and theres nothing to wory about.


I have a friend, well he's actually a sisters friend, but I would also consider him my friend and I'm sure he would do the same. He's in 9th grade and I'm in 10th. One day while we were out we were on the topic of God and he said he didnt believe in God. He says he thinks Jesus existed but that he was just a normal guy. He said if God existed then he wouldn't have diabetes.

Now I want to educate him about God and help him accept him into his life. I feel it is my duty as a Christian to guide him to a better life with God, because you are supposed to help the people who don't believe. He is a really sweet boy, and I told him that I was going to teach him and he said "you can try but it won't happen" so if he said I could try I'm going to make every effort too!

My problem is I don't know how to approach it. How should I start off with this teaching and showing? I've considered asking my pastor but I decided to come here first. Thanks for any help! (link)
i wouldnt advice you preaching to him or anything like that.
things like that can end your friendship

there are many people that do not believe in god (such as myself) and i personaly dont like any 1 trying to make me believe in something that i dont believe in, its anoying. i have nothing agains it but every 1 i know who doesnt believe in god doesnt like to be preached about it

EDIT: Based on ur feedback id just punch u straight in da frikin face, if any 1 would be brichin anything to me they wont be standin around me so f u


My new modem shows my connection speed as 115Kbps, but I thought that was the speed the serial port ran at?

Is my ISP just happier with this modem? (link)
what do you mean "is my ISP happeier with this modem?"

ISP is internet service provider which is the company that provides the servirce.

it you have dsl or cable that speed that you told me is VERY slow. verizon runs at around 1.8mb/s even thou they advertise 3.0mb/s cable is a lil faster then that

just so u know that a dial up modem works at 58 kb/s

www.yahoo.com
search "bandwith test" ull get a few results on first page, see what you really have


Me and my bestfriend had a fight...I told him that I was talkin to someone that he doesnt like, im the kind of person that doesnt judge before actually getting to know a person, so he got really mad and told me never to talk to him again. I dont know what to do he wont answer me when I talk, and he ignores me. It's hard to just say "oh well i'll move on" because we shared so many things we even thought about going to prom together (im a girl) and now he doesnt even want to talk to me or anything. I dont know what to do I want him to be my friend again. I know he wont talk to me b/c he is doing it (not talkin to her) to someother girl who was talkin to his ex. He is the kind of person who holds grudges alot and cant forget things easy.
I just want him back :(. (link)
that exat thing has happened to me yestorday, i lost my best friend over a stupid thing. :((

hope it gets better for both of us


i have a sprint cell phone and i really want a new screen saver/ringtone, does anyone know how/where i can get one?


(its a sprint sanyo) (link)
www.vodi.ru

once you find what u want it tells you what to type into your wap browser to download it.

first you have to go throu computer and find what you want then enter the adress to download onto your phone.


GUYS ONLY ANSWER PLEASE THXok well im a realy hyper person and funny always making joke you kno that type of person but i want to take it down a noch or two cause its starting to bother me a ltl but heres the real q wich personality do guy like most please mostly guy answer thx (link)
i personaly dont like girls that are shy but those that like to chat and sit and do nothing all the time.

what u explained isnt a bad trait to have in my opinion


i usually crack my jaw.. is that bad? (link)
its bad ina sort of way, i do it as well
you cant really stop dooing it becouse you constantly move the joint.


ok i asked this really beautiful girl. and well i asked her out on a date to the movies. but the problem is that well she is going to be the first date i went on with a girl. also its her first date too with a girl. and i wanna know how i cant stop my self from being so nervus and what can i do to make sure i dont screw up this date i really like this girl and i mean alot!

p.s. 14/f and my name is joanne (link)
just be urselfs and try not to make urself look stupid. You said that its both of yours first date so theres nothing to worry about becouse i bet shes going to be nerveous as well.

being urself is the key, try to hug her in the theatre or something, be creative

hope i helped


I've started school and now it seems like i don't have the time to exercise except wwhen i go to yoga on tuesday nights. Is there anyway i can make time to do my school work, AND exercise? Thanks in advance! (link)
i just included weight training into my program so i work out daily with the help of trainers in school.

or you could just do crunches while watchin tv, thats what i did b4, lol sounds weird but it works


I have a real problem with a flatmate of mine. I am mixed caucasian/african and he is South African. The first time we met (I am the newest flatmate in a long established shared house) he just glared at me , didn't smile or introduce himself.

Now, he is forever accusing me of not doing my share of the cleaning and making a mess in the bathroom, which is unfair. Up until now, i have just aplologised in order to keep the peace, but his unjust attitude(which i suspect, as i have implied, is caused by racism) is really starting to bug me. Any suggestions? Thanksx.

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id just come up to him and ask what his problem is.

explain the situation to him and say tht you do everything that needs to be done.

try to look at his behavior around other people form different rases to see if he indded is a resist or is just there to piss u off.


ok so basically i had a schedule i was very happy with...
1st period study hall...i liked it because if i had a long night i could save homework for the morning..then i had a really cool fun ss class with my friends AND a cool teacher..

what happened was my schedule had to get changed because of health accademy..and now my ss class is changed..and the teacher! im not happy..and my 1st period study hall is gone..if i want to keep my 1st period study hall and ss class..i would have to give up lunch..what should i do?
i reeeally liked my study hall and ss class..but then again i dont want to give up lunch..what would you do? (link)
it sounds like your a freshman ina highschool, every one hates the first year or cycle of the year

all you gota remember is that your schedual changes 4 times a year (for me it does at least) and that you may even have a better shcdual.

i thouyght my shcedual is gona suck this year and i got the ebst ever

i dont have the first 4 classes so i dont even have to go to shcool untill like 12.


first time you have sex is it better to have it with a virgin or a already experienced guy?
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id recomand that you lose your verginity with some one experianced and knows what he/she is doing

thats teh advice my parents gave me when i was like 14 and it helped. just explain to the person that your a vergin and believe me they probobly wont mind


ok this question is for all STRAIT boys :) ok first what do you do to show a girl you like her, like what do you do around a girl when youre crushin? also, what do you like in girls, like do you like them to come to talk to you or what? please only tell me if you know what youre talking anout ;) (link)
this is my personal preferance of a girl

to show her that i like her ---

-never ignore her
-never get mad at her in any sort
-try to be with her as much as posible withoutanoying her
-sometimes just plain out tell her

in grls i like

- when she has something to talk about
- has a life (doesnt just sit home all day)
- personality
- the way she kisses

these are some random things i could think up off the top of my head.

hope i helped


my boyfriend tells me he loves me. but he never calls me... he says he's shy ...but, he is sooo not shy. what should i do? (link)
call him, sometimes guys promise to call and just doze off or just plain forget that they have to call you whn they have something important to do.

if he promises to call you and doesnt just call him and ask him why he didnt call you back. (theres usualy a reason)

My gf sometimes does it becouse i foget to call her back while im at work or am busy with somehting... it just happens.


What do guys like? Like what do they like to talk about and stuff.. I wanna talk to this guy but I need to know how to keep a conversation going.. what do I say? Should I comment on his clothes like.. "I really like your shirt" Or would that make me sound stupid? HELP! (link)
most of the time conversations start outa nowhere, for me its usualy just a random comment that gets a conversation going for hours.
you dont neseseraly have to talk about his shirt, try somehting else such as.
wona hangout after school? "sure where ya wona go"
how about to the park? and so on and on, just an easy way to start chatin.

different things work for different peaple so you havto kinda make something up on your own for the moment.

hope i helped


ok so ages ago i thought i would buy a small pack of tampons.My mum knows ive started my period but she probably does not know i got these tampons and she found them.theres only 2 of them. in a tiny box. be cause she thinks i use pads which i do. So what im asking is what if my mum asks me where i got it? erm or something? 17/f (link)
just tell her that you bought them, dont think your mother would have a problem with it at your age.


I have a wart on the back of my hand. I heard somewhere that it could go away by itself. Is this true? If it isn't what are some things I might try to get rid of it? (link)
it will go away eventualy but its anoying, go to a pharmasy and see what they can recomand.
there are these special (freeze bottles or what ever) that you can buy and it gets rid of the wart in minutes


well i am planning a camping trip for about 13 teenagers and adults. We'll have a 5th wheel (Camping Trailer) so we'll have a stove, Mircowave, oven, etc... but I'm having trouble of thinking of simple (but yummy) dishs to make that dont require too much cooking, or preperation. Our Campsites will also have a Grill. Anyone have ideas to help me with my menu?? Thanks so much!! (link)
lasagnie, or however you spell it doesnt take that long to cook and almost everyone likes it.

thats the only thing i can think off atm lol


is there anyway i can get my hair to grow faster? (link)
there are shampoos that claim to make your hair drow faster, that and the natural way that ive ever heard of


I really, really need help here-serious help only, please. i've never really said this to anyone before, let alone a bunch of strangers over the internet, but here it goes. I think i'm gay and to make it worse, i'm madly OBSESSED with this kid in my class. Now, I go to an all boys high school, but i've had these feelings since before i went there. I first met him when we were both taking the entrance exam to get into the high school. now we're really close friends and i am just crazy about him. i mean, to the point where i have pictures of him on my computer. But i don't know if he feels the same way though. I highly doubt he does. what i want to know is should i come out and tell him(and the wolrd) that i have feelings for him, or should i just keep it all inside? i am seriously asking for your help on this one because i really need it. (link)
a prime example to what happens becouse of all boy and all girl schools.

personaly i dont think that you are gay.
this kid might be your best friend and you kind of developed a bond ina way.
love can exist beetween 2 man in many ways (botherly love etc.)
you wont really know that your gay unless you get arroused by gay pron/naked man and such.

many solutions and explanations to your problem, i suggest u talk to some 1 that you know and think can help you with your dilema.

hope i hlped




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