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Q: Does anyone have any ideas on how to keep a relationship fresh? Like what activities could be done(expensive and inesxpensive)? I need help because I don't want my realationship to fall apart.
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the key thing to a relationship is comunication and to always know whats going on with him...and his life what he's thinking and everything! and also activities probably comunication games or like try to play what he likes...and stuff like that! hope that helps =)
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Q: The guy I like has a girlfriend and Im friends with her but i really really like him alot and i wanna go out with him but i know there prolly not gonna break up for a LONG time if they even do at all. But heres the thing. HE LIKES ME BACK. I just really dont know what to do. And i like this other guy and hes single but I dont know if he likes me back or not bcuz im scared to ask him and have him say no then ill get embarrassed if he tells all his friends. what should i dooo??
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lets just say this the first guy that with a girl you should'nt date him that only proves that he can like 2 girls at the same time so when he's with you then he'll probably like some other girl too..and the single i sayy go for it don't be scared guys like it whenn girls arent embarrsed or care that you get rejected and maybe you'll get a yes..another wayy to find out if he likes you is to tryy to make his friends ask him see if his closest friend will ask..the guy you like if he likes you 2! hope that helps =)
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Q: Well I started dating this guy and we've only been dating 4 like 2 weeks but we talk less now than we did b4 we started going out and I hardly ever see him..and then theres this other guy I like and talk 2 like everyday and I see him more than my bf so I'm thinking about dumping the first guy 4 the 2nd one...but how do I let him down easy?? or should I just stay with him and see what happens??? Thanks!
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oh wow i've been in this like 2 weeks ago i went to the other guyy but i found out that the guy that i dumped was the guy that was really for me and it was too late so then i was stuck with nothing so i sujes you stay with him and see what happens for about 2-3 days try getting close to your bf and see if you guys still feel the same but if you guys don't and feels like you guys fading then go with the other guy! hope that helps =)
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Q: Age: 14
Gender: Male
Okay, so there's this girl I really like (E), and this other girl (B) my best friend likes. My friend really loves B, he's told me a million times, and he's loved her for a really long time. I've loved E for a long time, not as much time as my friend has liked B, but still pretty long. Ever since I told my friend I love E, he's been nicer and nicer to her. Which I wouldn't mind if it was just the friendly type of niceness, but it's not. It's the "gotta crush on ya" type of niceness. I've asked him about this, and he says he's treating her exactly the same as he always has, but I've noticed a difference. I just am really confused. Do friends normally do these kind of things?
Thanks,
-Fyce
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well the thing is maybe i think your friend wants to compete with you because maybe he wants something he can't have. the thing is you have to talk to him if he still says the same tell him if that is true try to make her go out wit me let me know if she likes me...or do what he's doing to your crush and if he starts chowing he is jelouse then you tell him see i knew it you like her..you got to get inside his brain see whats gong on! hope that helps =)
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Q: I really like this girl but am to afrain to ask her out or talk to her from fear of rejection. I really like her and want a relationship but i dunno what to do. Any advice?
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you know what if yu fear of rejection do it over the phone or even and e-mail or note so you don't get rejected in front of your face. but the thing ou have to lear is that if you say it ask and you get rejected be like ok don't act like yo care because if you show that girl your strong she might just like you and maybe she migt like you too you neer know! hope that helps =)
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Q: okay, well, im just gonna say it: im really popular at my school. i think im pretty, and so does everybody else. im not gonna go into detail. cuz you know how popular kids are. well, this girl at school thinks that shes better than us!! WE dont even have that attitude!! we dont talk about how rich we are, or whatever, we just like to have fun and hang out!! she is always like screaming through the hallways, "omg jenny, do you have my ipod and louis vuitton bag??!!" and everybody else can see that shes trying to impress us. but we dont know why. shes really slutty and only has a few friends. she moved into my neighborhood a few years ago, and i asked her to hang out with me and my friends. after she did and we went back to school in the fall, she felt like she had to impress us. why is this??!! because she always copying our websites and stuff and badmouths us!! she is soo annoying!!
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she is trying ot impress yuu so she feels like she belongs maybe she is jelouse of yuu and wants to pretand she is betterthen yuu tellher yo okay we get it ur rich blah blah lets uss chat and chyll abt sum else...butin a nicer wayy...hope that helps ashley
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Q: my birthday's coming up in 2 weeks. i know its kinda late to think about this, but i have no idea what im gonna do. i might just not do anyhting, but i kinda would like to do something with some of my close friends. any ideas?
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maybe go to a lil picnic wit juss yu n ur frends or go sumwhere guyz all go all the tymme but juss hve mre birthday stuff like kake ballons and a byte to eat...or juusss hanging out is wun of my faves -hope that helps =)
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Q: Our one year is coming up soon also so is our birthdays...what should I do for our one year&& what should I get him? Another thing what else do I do for his birthday? I tried to get him tickets to the Pistons game cuz I know he loves them...but they're all sold out, what now?
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think abt his personality...like if he likes neclaces get a dogtagg wit a pik of yu n him togther and if he likes jerseys aybe get him tht or and airbrush shir tht says his name and for ur 1 year anniversary yu shud go to the place yu oth had ur first date and hveur 1 year anniversary there wut to do wit his b-dai well kall all hiss frends and make a surprise party somewhere he likes to chyll hope that helps =)
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Q: Okay...Like i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months & i just get the feeling of not liking him or liking him...it just he loves me soooo much its like hes attached to me he wont like get off & let me have some room you know but i told him that & he kind got mad at me & he never ever wants me to break up with him but i have a feeling that i have to sometime...i have been there for him alot i have helped him billion times & stuff. but if i lose him he will be lost in his world & i dont want him to be lost.But iam saying is i really love him & all but there is just somethings arent right like hes constantly want & want from me you know how can i stop that...?? i still want to have him as my boyfriend..i need some tips.. thanks
xoxo
-Lauren
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ask him why he likes yuu stopp doin half of the stuff he says yet do sum of the stuff he says for examle if he says ur nice sweet smart cute and pretty be cute pretty and nice and don't be smart or sweet hope that helps =)
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Q: im a girl im 13 and in the 8th grade
i like this boy in my class he sits right next to me he shows no signs of intrest in my but i need 2 find out a sure way if he likes me or not before i start 2 crush hard and get hurt worst
luv bunny
help me plez
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well bunny i think the only sulution well there are alot but wun of them is to task a friend to go up hi and ur frend shud sayy heyy wutz ur name yu shud go out wit bunny i herd she likes yuu i think yu shud ask her out..hope tht helpz =)
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Q: I can't stand my relationship with boys. Whenever I meet a really nice guy I say something stupid and blow my chance of ever being with them. It must be that I'm nervous and I'll say something mean to them and they will never talk to me again. And if I do go out with a guy, sometimes I'm really mean and snappy online which I don't mean to be, I'm not like that in real life AT ALL, but they end up hating me. And then when they hate me, they do stuff to embaress me and maybe everyone in their city know my name and hate me. I do something stupid in every relationship. Every single freaking relationship I've been in, the guy has walked away hating me. I can never just be good friends with a guy!!! It always is the same way, I date them and then we hate eachother. I don't like have enemys but I say mean stuff to get them. I'm not mean to my friends I'm a good person maybe it's just that I'm bored or nervous. I don't want boys to hate me because they tell there friends who tell there friends and so on until all guys hate me. I just wish if me and my next boyfriend break up, we could just be friends afterwards, NOT arch enemies. And if I ask my friends for help, then they become friends with that boy and I get jealous. What can I do from keep guys my friends and not hate me? And how can I stop saying mean things to them to make them hate me in the first place?
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yu noe is yu get nervouse..and start saying things write everything to say on a peice of paper and morize it so then once a uy talk to yu yu noe wut to sayyy and if he says sum thats not on the list think abt wut yu wud write on the list and sayy it..and if yuu start burting things out stylll tell him yu like him but yu get nervouse around hiim guyz like it wen gurlz admitt there mistakes..hope i help =)
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Q: My boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago and he's gotten over me easily, but I just can't get over him. Every boy I go out with no matter even if I didn't like them a lot I still can't get over them. I've been trying to find hott guys and I've found some and they asked me out but I turn all of them down because I love my ex. My ex has moved on and won't even answer my calls or anything. We blocked eachother, we arn't friends on myspace, and I just deleted his number so there is no way I can talk to him. But I still can't get over him. Even when I see a wicked hott guy I just don't get the same feeling I did when I was with my boyfriend. How do I get over him??
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wow this almost sounds like me but the thing is yu have t tryy...and to get over him i think yu should think of things he's done that you did'nt like that another guy could have done cuz if he got ovr yuu sweetz and yuu did'nt he truly did'nt like orluv yuu he ain't worth it!!
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Q: I have a friend that needs major help.
He has a girlfriend and they're always off and on.
Whenever she breaks up with him he breaks down and gets drunk or high.
Recently she broke up with him and he almost committed suicide and was put in an asylum for 3 days.
He's only 14 years old. He doesn't listen to anyone when he's with her. He doesn't realize that there's other people that care about him.
And no I don't like him, we used to really good friends. He was my best guy friend, and I barely talk to him anymore. I miss the old him.
How am I supposed keep him fromhurting himself or potentially killing him self if sh breaks up with him.
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wow that is very dramatic if this girl hurts him she ain't worth it i think maybe yuu shud go tell him all the fun tymes yu guyz had and yur memories and say do yu want to throw our frendship awai and hurt yur best frend who's been by ur side for a gurl..telll him how yuu feel abt wut he is doin..
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Q: I want to make a website but I do't know how to. Someone please help me. Thank you in advance to those of you who answer.
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well there are a couple of websutes that will show yu step by step how to make a website the first website is www.piczo.com
www.tripod.com hope that helps =)
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Q: okay, well, tomorrow is my last day of summer break. i have to stay at home all day by myself. i have a computer, tv, drums, 2 guitars, keyboard, stereo, ipod, and thats about all i have to keep myself entertained. any ideas of how i can spend my last day??!!
ps i live out in the country so i can go to friends houses....i cant drive yet.
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hmm hard well maybe yuu kan try to make songs wit all the instruments yuu got..make yur own band juss by urself that would be cool or try thr fone chit chat wit people on the fone or computer...
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Q: I've been dating my best friend for almost a month. I really care about him, but right before we started dating i met another guy. At first i had no interest in him, and now that ive gotten to know him, im really beginning to like him. I'm 16, my boyfriends 18, and this other guy is 22. I really like this 22 year old guy, and he really likes me. Today one of his friends took me and my best friend and the guy I like out to the woods to walk on some trails. The guy I like and I were holding hands like the whole time. On our way home, we stopped to get food and drinks and I was alone with this guys friend. I was asking him about the guy i like and he told me that hes never seen him act like that around a girl. He's never been the type to walk around holding hands and to show affection.
Should I break up with my boyfriend and just be friends with him and date this other guy? Or should I leave it alone and just stay with my boyfriend??
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if yu feel more effection tord wun guy then the other take the guy yu reall ylove listen to ur heart not ur brain on this wun whitch guy makes yuu happiee whitch guy will be able to take kare of yuu..answer those questions to urself..
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Q: all of my friends have boyfriends, everytime i sleep over one of they houses they talk on the phone wit them and i tend to get really depressed cause i dont have one... there is this guy that i reeeally like and i think he miight like me but i am not exactly sure i want to ask him out but i am to afraid...what can i do to handle the depression and what do i do about asking him out?
ADVISE PLEASE!!
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ask him out in a note it'z much easier and i mean i have had this before i would think of all the good things i've done that have made me happiee without a bf now if yu want wun yu gotta get out there gurl and ask him!
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Q: I know this question isn't as important as most of these on here, but this bothers me! Ok, so there's this guy (haha classic opening line.) and we've kinda been talking and hanging out all summer, so uhm..yeah. let's just call him ian. So anyway, I was online tonight, and this guy who a long time told me he liked me (let's call him Charlie.) and he knows I don't like him, yet he told me to call him. Ok. One, I don't like him.& Two, I don't want to like you go behind ian's back or anything..not that we're going out. Charlie has talked to me before and told me to like meet him at Tacobell. (The only places to hang out around here are fast food restraunts, haha.) but you know I don't like him! and when he told me to call him, i told hima lie and said I couldn't. I really hate lying to people!! But I don't want to hurt his feelings and be like look charlie, I don't want to call you because I don't like you. and I don't feel like talking on the phone with you. I mean god I'm not a bitch! So does anyone know anyway I can get him to stop asking me to go places, without confronting him about it? and please, don't be rude.
Thank you so much!
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well i think yu shud give him a message be like charlie yur the bestest friend i ever had lets not change that our friendship means the world to me and i never want it to be more or less
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Q: i have a guy friend who was definitely in to me at some point. he called me every night, and we talked on the phone for hours at a time -- sometimes until seven in the morning. we never ran out of things to say, and if we did, the silence wasn't awkward for us. i told him many times that i didn't want a boyfriend, and wasn't interested in any one at that time. when he kept asking about it, i told him maybe there was one guy i sort of liked, but i know he was positive it wasn't him. (even though it was) basically, i played hard to get to the highest degree possible, but it turned out wrong for me. i made it seem like i didn't like him at all, maybe not even want to be his friend. now he has a girlfriend, and i don't know what to do. he's in love with her, and i don't think anything we ever had would compare. i don't know how to let him know i liked him, was more into him than he thought, that he has a chance, but i don't even know if him and his girlfriend will ever break up. she has so much more to offer him than me. what should i do?
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be a great friend as yu kan try to get him to hang out wit yuu mre then how he hangs wit his gf and as yuu guyz spend tyme the gf willl bound to mke a mistake and he'll dump her cuz he found out she ain't yuu..try to win his heart by being a good friend.
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Q: i am not really sure how to KISS a guy, there is this one guy that i like and i know that he knows how to kiss good and i am gonna ask him out but if he says yes at sometime we are gonna kiss right??? so um how do u kiss or makeout with a guy and i am to embarrased to ask my mom or any of my friends.
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ohh don't worry i mean when yu kiss a guy itcomes natrually just be calm and wevr he is doin do the sme...if he wants to kiss it'z okay go wit the flow..and if ur embarassed..don't be alwais ask a friend because they will alwais be there for yuu..
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Member Since: August 15, 2006 Answers: 70 Last Update: June 24, 2009 Visitors: 3485
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