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I am a 14 year old girl, with lots of expectation from life, I am in Love with my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, I am not into the dating thing, i was in it and got my heart broken and now, Jesus and i are "dating" i guess you could say ..I've been on a spritutal high ever since .. I refer to biblical stand points to all of my advice, i am a servant to all that asks, I love to talk and sing and i am trying to figure this think out called Life and see what my purpose is on this earth .. l0l


Promise me Women of Jerusalem, by the gazelles and the wild deer, not to awaken my love until it is ready.. Song of Solomon 2:7

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I am a thirteen year old girl and I have a close male friend. We usually get on quite well and we are always talking and hugging. We used to be attracted to each other and he on/off still is to me but I don't feel that way about him. Everyone says we act like we're a couple and that we should get together but I honestly don't want to. We are very close but are we too close? I admit I hug him more than my other friends but I don't have any feelings for him. So is it wrong to be this close to him if we're not in a relationship?

Well, I have a friend thats that way .. The only reason i think that they are to close is because I like the guy .. So my advice is that you make sure that none of your friends like him .. And just explain to him how you feel .. Good Luck !!
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My family is extremely well off money wise. And so are the kids that go to my high school but my family kind of has more money then most of the people in our neighborhood.

Well, I've been talking to a few girls at school about our prom dresses and theirs are around 200-500 dollars. Well, I found the perfect dress but it's 1,500 dollars. I'm supposed to go buy it this weekend but there's a problem. It's not that we can't afford the dress, because we can and my parents think that it's a good amount to pay for it. It's that I don't want to be the only girl there that paid over a thousand dollars for a Prom dress. I don't want people to talk about it or anything.

Should I get the dress even though it's 3 or 4 times more than what everyone else is going to pay for theirs?

I think that the answer is clear .. Get it, if you have the money to get it then get it .. I mean it's not like your going around telling everyone how much the dress is .. I'd go for it ..

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I am jewish, people tell me all the time that in their religion there is a trinity of some sort. My question is how can Jesus, The Holy Ghost, and _________ make up G-d? I dont know the third one either.


I'm just a little confused.

~Nokomis~

The Trinity is the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit in one, here's a example :

When a man and a women get married they become one .. Well it's the same with the Trinity they are one ..

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Ok, so there's this kid at my school that is obsessed with me, and we talk on the phone and internet and hes asked me out several times already, everytime i said i wasn't sure, what my question is is that do you think it would be smart to get to know him better, or is it "bad" to have an obsessive boyfriend? I don't really "like" him yet, but hes one of the sweetest kids i've ever met. Okay.. sorry it was long thanks

ashley

Well, I'd tell him what you just said .. be truthful with him .. obsessive boyfriends do get on your nerves though ( or they do mine ) LoL .. Just tell him what you think .. Being truthful is the best way to go ..

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ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE!

Well, some guys are shy about being open about who they like , b/c they are afraid they'll get turned down .. Just ask him plain out while your talking to him on the computer .. Just tell him that you'r confused about all of it .. And if he likes you then he'll come out and tell you .. ( I've had that kind of a problem too ) =)

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alright i am a 13 year old male and i am friends with this one girl. She already has a boyfriend but he goes to a different skool and she doesn't really get to talk to him. And i like the girl sooo much... What should i do ask her out??

If I was you I'd tell her how I felt about her .. Girls like that kind of stuff .. ;)

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ok theres this one guy at school that i sorta like but i really never se him out of school and he really doesnt liek me like that.
but then theres this other guy hes a grade lower than me and i hang out with him all the time and im starting to like him. should i stop like the guy i go to school with or what? i dont know?!

Personally, I wouln't go out with the guy in the lower grade b/c guys are already immature and to go out with a guy younger than you he'll be REALLY immature ... But that's just my advice ..

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DUDE! I know you! Who am I you may ask!? You will have to ask me later. I am FunnyCide. You have my aim s-n. Dude, horses rock my socks, and we go to ballroom dancing together. Any ideas?!
lol

FunnyCide

Let me think ...... Anna !!! No ... umm ... Bob !!?? Nope that's not right ... ALICIA !!!!
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i am so shy around guyz i dont know. I dont try to be but i can deffinately tell i am. I dont see how this is when i am always making friends with the other girls. How do i be less shy?

I'm was the same way .. I dunno .. i haven't found out completly yet .. LoL umm .. Just be yourself and have confidence in yourself .. Guy's will like you for that .. And you'll be more comfortable ..

** Been there done that **


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girls say they love you, but they dont show it why is that?

How do you expect them to show it ?? Some girls don't know how to show it .. Then some girls do know how to show it but there afraid you might run off .. It just depends what the girls personality is ..

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Hey, I have a question. Do you believe maybe you could answer it?

What's the question ??

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my mom always makes me go to bed so early!! shes like okay 9:00 is your bedtime ..but im 13!! She makes me do this during the week and im never tired till like 1 am! And i have a laptop that im sneaking on with right now but she ALWAYS catches me..what do i do?>

My mom does the same .. But i homeskool so she calls it apart of the "schedule" You'll live .. Just talk to her about it .. Tell her what you think about it and maybe discuss a little later .. But don't get all defensive that will blow EVERY chance you have ..

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well i am moving to Colorado next year before school starts and like i am really outgoing and stuff and i play volleyball, and that starts before school so i can meet people by doing that to, but i am like really scared of the change and i dont know waht to do to make the move easier????

Please help me out

Everything changes for a good reason .. Um .. Just know who you are and have cofidence in yourself ..

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Can you go to your regular doctor to get on a birth control pill or do you have to go to a gyno.?

You, should be able to get it at your regular doc ..

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If I take my cartilidge piercings out for like 30 minutes every weekday for gym class, do you think it'll close? I've had one of them since June '04, and the other since August'04 =) thanks.

Nope .. It takes a lil longer than that for them to grow up .. Even in gym class, you don't excersise your ears .. LoL

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Everytime I bend my knees they crack, what does this mean?

Mine do that too .. I think it means that they aren't stretched out well .. So next time when they crack just strecth them out ..

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ive been goin out with mi b/f 4 2 months almost 3 and i was wondering for valentines day if i culd get hm a cute card maybe a teddy bear that says i love you ? wuld guys hate if they get a teddybear ? wats relle sweet and cute to get them?

Okie Dokie .. Yeah I would go for the sweet card and the teddy bear .. But don't give it to him in front of his groupie b/ guys don't like that .. LoL

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okay, ive been going to the gym like everyday, or every other day for the past 2 weeks or so. and ill work out really hard, like ill run for 25 mins on the tred mill and ill do like 175 crunches, and ill build up alot of sweat.. ill work out really good, but then the next day im never sore at all. shouldnt i get atleast alittle sore after all that work out?
thanks.

Well um to some people that are not in shape hey would get sore .. But abviouly you'r in really good shape .. SO don't worry about it .. Just push you'r self .. NOT to hard ..
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