My friend "Liz" and her boyfriend "Lucas" never talk AT ALL. I hooked them up so this is my problem. He never has anything to say to her, and vise versa. He reallys likes her and i know she likes him. How do I get them talkin?
Signed,
A confused friend
Go on a double date with them...and when you do don't go to a movie bc then you can't talk anyways. a good place to go would be to the bowling alley or out to dinner. both those places will kind of break the ice. Also, having you there would definetely calm both of them down. Good luck!
*FallenAngel*
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I need advice and your opinion.
Hi, I have a bit of a confusing situation, but maybe it's just in my head and so could you help me out? I'm 22 and see, I've been a friend with this guy for the last three years. I met him my freshman year at college and we went on a double date with his roommate and his girlfriend. After that, we saw each other around campus but not much else. He would im me every once in a while though to talk. I noticed last January he had left school and he emailed me that following February or so telling me that he was in Iraq. I freaked of course, worried about him instantly. Since then during the summer we emailed each other off and on and messaged each other but he was the one to initiate most of the conversations while I emailed him most of the time and he was good about replying every time. Then in September he brought up the idea that he was coming home for 15 days of R and R and mentioned he was coming here to get transcipts to transfer colleges when he got back and would i want to get lunch with him? I said yes of course and he came, we had lunch and he cracked me up the entire time. He then went to get his transcipts and I went in with him, and sat for half an hour but after that time he said I didn't have to stay but I said I wanted to hang out with him and didn't mind. While all of this, he was opening doors for me and the gentlemanly things and said thanks for staying with him. We talked for about five minutes before he left and then I gave him a hug, he hugged me back of course and said he would email me. When he got back to Iraq he did email me to tell me he was safe and then we kept emailing each other off and on until Thanksgiving. Well after thanksgiving he couldn't get emails so he mentioned I could write him if I wanted. So I've been writing him since December and we write each other about every other week or so. He started out signing his letters As Always, or something like that but then switched it to love. And he says how great it is to hear from me and writes alot to me. He keeps me updated on when he thinks he is going to come home and mentions getting together this summer once he gets out of Iraq. The last letter I got from him, he told me an official date since all the changes and said he wasn't going to tell his parents though since the dates have changed alot and he just didn't want everyone knowing he was going to be home and how he wanted to be by himself for a while in peace and quiet. I've always considered us more of acquiantances before we started writing and was wondering if you thought he might be interested in me as more than friends? or does it just sound that he now considers me to be a friend, the thing is that I have never had a guy sign love to a letter who wasn't romantically interested in me and I really do care about him and have come to like him as more than a friend, am I just reading hidden signals because he didn't have to invite me to lunch or keep in contact?. Thanks :).
-Mixed but likes
Hey :) I truly think,from what you have written, that he is romantically interested in you. When he came home that time, I'm sure you were one of few people he saw, and that shows he really really cares about you. Also, since he told you the date he was coming home, and he didnt want anyone else to really know, i think that means he really wants to see you. Also, he obviously loves to talk to you since he has written to you a lot. I bet he finds comfort in you, and he finds you someone he feels he can tell anything to. When he comes home, you should try and see him. Keep talking to him and eventually you should ask him how he feels about you. Tell him you are interested in him and ask him if he would want to go on a date with you. Good luck!
*FallenAngel*
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i need the toilet all the time, but when i go for a wee nothing comes out. why is this?
im no doctor...but it may be some spasumns u may be having in your bladder. It's a common problem. You may want to talk to your doctor about this...good luck!!! :)
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my friend Breanna is pregnant. But she smokes and drinks every month. What do I do to stop her from killing the baby?
You should sit her down and talk to her. Let her know that if she drinks and smokes while she is pregnant then her baby can be born with many different problems. I'm sure if you talk to her she will try and do anything she can to make sure her baby is born healthy. Let her also know you will support her through everything. She'll really appreciate it. Good luck hun!!! :)
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Another happy poem :)
Life is life
Love is love
Angels are blessing
from above
you are an angel
and will always be
my heart bears a lock
but you hold the key
you are my sunshine
on a cloudy day
one who washes my tears away
my lifes been so much better
since ive meet you
i wish i could tell you
i wish you knew
if only you knew how much
you mean to me
thats what my only wish
.... would be
Good job :)
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this is for c talon since he/she wants a better type of peotry instead of the "self pity"
My Friend
Life is full of ups and downs
smile laughter tears and frowns
but with all life's changes
its good to know
i have a friends to whon i can go
and no matter how hurt that
i have been
you always remind me i have a friend
my life has been blessed becaus eof you
your loving ways
and allt hat you do.
Happy this isnt a self pity poem!!!!
your very talented...and dont listen to c talon...poems come from the heart and if you are depressed, that's what comes out. don't worry hun...you are obviously a very good poet :) hope to see more of your poetry! :)
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Everyone says I am really rpetty, (if you wanna see me, then go to http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=winona1992
but Ive done everything to look different. When I have a new boyfriend, he only wants to have sex...help
(PLEEZ SEE MY COLUMN SO U CAN HELP ME MORE)
first off...i agree with ferngully...i think that picture is of mandy moore. and your name is winona ryde which is very close to winona ryders name. but if you are telling the truth then dont stay with a guy if he only wants you for sex. thats not right. obviously they dont appreciate who you are so instead of being with someone who only wants sex, find someone who will make you happy and treat you well.
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i've got a horse and i really love her the trouble is im getting unable to handle hermy mum wants me to sell her an choose another career but i dont want to an she wont let me have another horse if we sell this one and now i dont know what to do
Animals are very important to me. I have had pets all my life, and truly, they are like family. I don't think you should sell your horse. You should keep her. Horses are a lot of work, but I know how much you must love her. Talk to your mom, tell her how much your horse means to you. Tell her how much you love your horse and you really don't want to lose her. I'm sure your mom will understand and help you in whatever way she can. If you tell her how much your horse means to you, I do not think she would sell the horse. Good luck hun! If you need anymore advice later I'll be glad to help!!!! Hope everything works out, tell me how it all goes :)
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Alright, someone help me and try to tell ma few diets. I know about Atkins, I can't go on Slim fast, I need more info on low Cal, I need a way to loose from 30 - 50 pounds I'm not in a hurry so anything can be good really. Please help!
A really good diet is Weight Watchers. You can get info by going to one of their meetings, which I'm sure there is one close by you. My friend and his family are all on the diet and it has worked really well. It's easy and really helpful. Also, while you are on the diet you should excercise too. This will help the process along quicker. Good luck hun! :)
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i have a bf who is cheating on me and wat shold i do
He's cheating on you? Dump his sorry ass. You can find someone that will treat you much better than that. You're too good for him. Don't let him walk all over you, just move on. He doesnt deserve you.
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My friend got fingered by a guy, and she has had her period. I was wondering can you get pregnant from being fingered. Does that also mean ur a no a vergin anymor?? PLease write back thanx
No, you cannot get pregnant from being fingered. The only way you can become pregnant is if you have sex with a guy and he "finishes" in you. And yes, she is still a virgin. If she had sex then she wouldnt be a virgin anymore, but she didnt.
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I've liked a certain guy for over a year. I know that he used to like me, but I don't know if he still does. Whenever I get a friend to ask him, he won't answer them. But he always stares at me, which is really confusing, because it's in a good way. Like, he'll smile as he looks at me. But his friend said that he doesn't like me that way. I know that I should just get over him, but it isn't that easy. There's no other guys like him.. He's the only nice, sweet, and funny guy at my school who isn't taken. It's all so confusing.
You should talk to the guy. It sounds like he really likes you, but he must be shy. I don't think he's going to tell anyone that he does like you because he's scared you'll find out through the grape vine. I think the best thing to do is talk to your guy about how you feel about him and then ask him how he feels about you. good luck!!!
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HOW DO YOU TELL A BOY YOU LIKE HIM. BUT YOU ARE SCARED?
Telling someone how you feel about them can be very scary. For one thing, try and get to know him and try and feel really comfortable around him before you tell him how you feel. If it's still too hard to tell him in person, you might want to try and tell him in a letter, on the phone, or online. Good luck hun! :)
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i need to loose weight! what should I do!!!!!!!!!!
a really good program is weight watchers. my bf and his family are on it and they have all made amazing progress. Also, excercising would help too. jogging, crunches, and push-ups are a start. good luck hun :)
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IS THERE ANY GOOD CAMPS TO GO TO IN CALIFORNIA THAT DONT COST MUCH LIKE CAPS THAT YOU GET TO STAY FORA 2 WEEKS DOES ANYBODY KNOW ANY GOOD CAMPS???? IF OU DO PLEASE ANSWER THIS ASAP PLEASE I WANT TO GO TO A CAMP AND IN CALIFORNIA ONLY?? HLEP!
Pali Camp in Running springs, Camp Augusta in Nevada City, Mountain Meadow Ranch in Susanville, and Rock-N-Water camp in Coloma. A good website to search for camps is http://www.campresource.com. Good luck! :)
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I had the scariest day of my life the other day. I am an advicenator as well and the other day, i was walking to the park, and a guy sexually assulted me. The worst thing he did was finger me but it was still scary. I don't know what to do. I can't tell anyone because i already have enought problems as it is. I am only fourteen and haven't even had my first kiss yet. People are always spreading rumers that i am not a virgin and i was okay with it until now. Please Help me
Violated
oh hun :-\ I know how scary that is. I've had it happen to me and trust me, you need to talk to someone about it. I know youre scared about your reputation and all...but you should at least talk to someone in your family. Also, the cops should know about this. You don't want this happening to anyone else so telling the cops would help catch this bastard. I hope everything works out hun...if you ever need to talk to someone about all of this, you can IM me (DevilsHalo03).
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what are some intelligent, in depth questions i could ask a world war 2 veteran for an interveiw
*Where were you located during WW2?
*What was your "job" in the war?
*Did you enlist or were you drafted?
*How do you feel about war?
*Were you involved in any battles?
*What about the war will you never forget?
When the veteran answers each question you can most likely figure out even more questions. I interviewed my grandfather for a school project about WW2 and trust me, whoever you're interviewing will definetely have a lot to say. Good luck! :)
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dodododo....stop.....and go.... in your eyes... stop... and go.... let me go...
Why are Llama's Man-eating Spiting machines?!
What song is this from...
Leave me alone... I'm in control... I'm in control... Girls act too much... Boys act to Tough... Enough is enough... We're on the minds of other men I know she was... I said jsut take it or leave or take it or leave or take it or leave or take or leave it oh just take it or leave or take it or leave it?!...
A) Weezer ... B) The Strokes... C) Phantom Planet...
D) other...
B)The Strokes :)
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I am 19 and i have a boyfriend. Im thinking of going on the pill. BUT I want to find out the side effects. Does anyone know of any? Ive tried searching on the net but I didnt really get anywhere.
I went on the pill to regulate my period a while back but I had to be taken off of it because it caused me to have migrains. Some other possible side effects are nausea, dizziness, upset stomache, and blood clots. The pill can cause blood clots, but you only have a small chance of getting one unless you smoke (then your chances increase greatly). My suggestion is talk to your doctor about all of the possible risks and side effects. There are soooo many different pills and they all could effect you differently. You could also go on Orthro Evra, which is a patch. It's more convenient. So, just talk to your doctor about all of this, I'm sure he or she will be able to help you :). Good luck hun :)! I'm sure your boyfriend will be there to support you through whatever happens too! :) but only go on the pill if YOU want to.
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I have liked this guy for a really long time and i really want to go out with him. He really likes me too. The problem is neither one of us is brave enough to ask the other one out. So do you think i should make the first move or wait for him. I hear him talking about me all the time. What should i do?
I say go for it. Just spend some time with him and then casually bring up the subject. I'm sure it'll work out for the best.
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