14/f
So, lets start off.. if you even think this kid likes me. Before, I make a total idiot out of myself.
-At this soccer game, he like would sit right next to me & like not talk or anything. Just sit there looking at me.
*which was kinda weird, but okay.
-He constantlyyyy stares at me where we go.
-He smiles at me & looks at me.
-Wherever I go, he like doesn't come up to me.. he like will walk RIGHT past me, to the point where he bumps into me.
Its like weird, he always does stuff like that. & I don't get why. Does he just wanna like come up to me & be friends with me? or does he like me? My friends did go up to him & told him I thought he was cute, which I didn't really want them to.. but whatever.
SO. what do you think is up with this kid?!
& if you do think he likes me or something.. I see him tomorrow, should I go up to him?!
Ahhh. Please help! Thanks in advance.
:D awh, i had something kinda like this happen to me before, and you know what? i bet he thinks you're cute, maybe he wants to get your numba, and all dat stuff, so since you see him around so much, i think you deffinently should go up to him and talk to him, just be like "hey, i've seen you around :)"
hope i helpeddd!
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Should i stay with my kids dad even though I am unhappy? My kids would be crushed if I left him and I just want them to be happy too. Its been 12 years that we are together. Female, 32
if you're unhappy, then you need to get away from that, don't stay in something that you're unhappy with, you can work things out with them, you just gotta let em know you're not happy with it :) ya know?
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13/f/usa
Hey, I had this friend when I was in 6th grade,(I was 11 at the time) Let's call her carrie,and her brother used to always come home drunk at night. Well, she used to tell me that she was really scared that her brother would do something to her. Well one night, when he came home drunk, he raped her, and the night she told me, she committed suicide. Well, now I'm in 8th grade and the memory of her and her story just sorta haunts me. my brother comes home drunk all the time now, and to make it worse, he has anger issues. well, now I'm really scared that he might rape me. Can you help me please? I'm like really paranoid.
oh my god, that's horrible. if i were i'd say, you really need to talk to your brother about his coming home drunk. tell him what happened with your friend, and explain to him you'd really be emotionally, and physically scarred if he ever did something like that to you, tell him, if he wants to come home drunk, then he needs to not be around you, and he needs to keep his distance from you.
and if he doesn't listen to you, then i really think you should talk to your parents about it.
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OK... theres this girl at work that im REALLY into, and i know shes feelin me too. Shes currently with her girlfriend of about almost 2 years now, but their relationship has been on the rocks for awhile now. Before, i was giving her advice, and just trying to be there for her.. but things happened from there, and now i cant get her off my mind. The thing is.. we hooked up a few times, and yes... she is still with her girlfriend. She tells me that she doesnt know if she WANTS to be with her girlfriend, but she really does still love her. She tells me that she still wants me in her life, and i do want to be there... I know she has feelings for me... but shes just in a hard spot.
Now that her girlfriend is doing better, and her relationship "seems" to be doing ok... should i just find a way to drop my feelings for her and let her work on her relationship? Or should I keep things the way they are, and continue to be there for her?
I do want to be with her... but i want her to be happy..with me.. or with her girlfriend. I want to be here for her, to let it be known that im going to be here for her, but the way things are.. im the other woman.. and i dont like this feeling. should i back off?
ooookay, in my opinion, if you have hooked up with this girl before while she had a girlfriend, think, how would YOU feel if your girlfriend hooked up with someone while you were still dating them? eh eh not good. :/ i mean, i think you most deffinently should be there for her, but maybe just let her work things out with her girl, you know? and if those two end, then you should go for her, if you still have those feelings for her. :) good luck.
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Um I'm super shy around everyone and everything. My face just automatically turns red and my voice gets shakey when I read outloud or even when attention focusses on me for one minute when I answer a question in class. And when I talk to anyone(girl or boy or even teacher) for more than 2 minutes my face gets red and my voice gets shakey. If I stay in front of the class for a long period then I feel like fainting (I was so close one time too..). This is like something serious it isn't like one of those things when people say your just shy because this is like EXTREME!
Is this some medical condition I should be worrying about?
i have never really heard of a medical condition like this, if you ask me, i think that you're just EXTREMELY shy, but if you think it might be a serious problem, then i think you might want to tell your parents about it, and have them take you to a doctor. i used to be EXTREMELY shy, but man, that's changed, i used to be shaky, and nervous, all the time, maybe you just need to expand your social skills :) and talk to more people, that might be able to fix your problem, and when your talking to them, play it cool :) or try, as hard as you can.
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There's this kid in my school. He's like a best friend to me. But he told me he likes me. I don't want us not to be friends anymore. But I don't like him like that. He's like a brother to me. But I don't want to tell him that I don't like him. I don't want to break his heart. What should I do? Please help!
wow, i'm in the same exact situation,
so, what i did is, i told him that i just liked him as a friend and that's all :) just make that clear to him, tell him you value his friendship, and you don't want to loose him as a friend :) don't be a bitch about things, be nice, :) and just play it cool, missy.
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hi I'm a freshman in highschool and my mom just told me that I need braces I don't want to have braces!. I already have acne and need glaces I'm gonna look like a total geek. I don't know what to do. Is there anyway how I can fix my teeth without using braces?. Is there any invisable one?. Any ideas. Please.
oh dear, well have i got some advice for you :D
okay, ready?
there is nothing you can do to fix your teeth without using braces, there are these retainer like things called invisalign, you could ask your orthodontist about those.
AND another thing :D
get contacts? :]
andand i have another suggestion.
in order to get rid of all of that acne, wash your face every night, and every morning, with a facial cleanser that's for acne,
if you don't have severe acne, then i don't recommend using the an acne cleanser all the time,
it will dry out your face to the extreme, so you might want to try a gentle cleanser :)
good luckkkk!
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Well I was thinking about being a gothic girl for holloween. But since my mom doesn't like holloween she won't buy me a gothic costume. Any ideas what I could wear?. It has to be like things that I could get at home because I have no money thanks!
haha, okay,
this is VERY easy :D
black shirt,
trip pants [the big baggy pants with chains],
or if you can't find trip pants,
you could try a dark colored mini skirt with black fishnets,
paint your nails black,
wear a WHOLE bunch of black eyeliner,
use a light sheer powder to make your face paler.
you could use boots? or converse?
or skater shoes?
something like that :]
if you don't have absolutely any of things, ask your friends :D
see if they have some of that stuff.
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I met this boy and I really like him. Sometimes when I talk to him he seems really interested and other times he doesn't. It's like hot and cold and I don't know what to do. Should I ask him if he likes me? or should I just let him tell me eventually in his own time if he does?
if i were you, i'd throw him hints :) maybe then he'll get that you like him, or maybe you could tell him you like him, maybe he's just waiting for you to tell him? :D
maybe you're giving him the idea that you don't like him like that.
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one time me and this boy I liked were one on one
at my house on my trampoline.
He said " you used to like me didnt you?"
and Im like "yeah" [which was akward enough]
then he said " i used to like you "
2 seconds later , he says " just kidding"
whats the deal?
WTF?
what an asshole.
if you ask me, this boy appears to be a total jerk, if i were you i wouldn't want anything to do with him :)
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I dont have a best friend, I never did, I am not in a clique, and I dont have many friends. Sounds fun, right? Yeah right. There is a major clique problem in my school-- I figure, If i cant fix it, find the clique I fit in. Idont fit in any clique. The popular kids rule the school. I'm friends with indivudual Pop ular kids but together, i'm a no one. Most kids in my school dont like me, dont ask me why but i really want more friends. I tried out for cheer. and kick. and didnt make it, I was dissapointed because I really wanted to be part of a team. And have those girls to sleepover with and have my 'group'. Help?
I rate high!
(13/f)
aw. i've never had this problem, i'd say you need to start making more friends, when i was in 7th grade, i thought trying out for cheerleading would help me get more friends, i ended up not trying out, and suprizingly i know a lot of people know. you just have to be nice. and something else, don't be too quiet, because if you sit there, and don't say anything, it might make people think that you think you're too good for them, just be nice :D anyone can make friends, and so can you, i guarantee you :)
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Ok so here's the thing I have a lot of acne. I tried everything proactive clearisil but it just won't work my mom doesn't want to buy me any expensive products. So I get teased in school. Any ideas?. Also I get teased because I have big lips. Any help?ideas?
oh goodness...
if you're acne is that bad, i would say your mom should really take you to a dermatologist, that could be the only thing that could help, and if she doesn't want to pay for the product, then you need to save up your own money, and pay for the product yourself.
by the way, big lips aren't a bad thing :)
everyones different, don't let people bother you.
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16/f
I'm running out of date ideas... I really need some unique (inexpensive) ideas! anything would be greatly appriciated. :)
make dinner, hang out at your house, watch a scary movie together [so you two can cuddle of course], or, go to a park, make a picnic, :D and if it's at night, stargaze, and cuddle.
oh god, i'm so corny. :)
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what are some ways to show a guy that your interested in him??
14/f
tell him? :) or you could just throw little hints, liiike, hang out with him, call him on the phoneee, have long conversations with him, make him laugh, make him smile, be flirtay :))
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My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. It was my first real relationship and I lost my virginity to him way back. He said he wasn't happy anymore & that we argued everyday. I was destroyed and it still hurts very much. The thing is, I miss him & he hasn't tried to contact me at all. It seems I'm out of his life and mind, but we had an amazing relationship for a year. Is it really that he wants to move on or he's trying to hurt me even more? Would it look that desperate if I spoke up first? 18/f
i'm sorry, but it would look desperate. i think it's time for you to move on :) obviously, he wants to move on. i mean.. people get tired of eachother, they move on, they find new people, people they're happy with. i'm sure you can find someone that's gunna make you happy, happier than that boy ever did :D
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Alright, so basically there's this guy who you could say is interested in me; i'm interested in him too. The only bad this is, his mom has made it clear that she'd rather he date someone else than me. I have no idea what i've done wrong. She's constantly encouraging him to find another person to hang out with, call, or whatever. They've already gotten into a fight because she was trash talking me.
I have no idea how to deal with this.
help?
maybe you've made a bad impression :)
and maybe you should try to make a better impression, make her cookies? bake her brownies? be a total sweetheart. basically, suck up to her, but not to the point to where it gets annoying. just do it to where she'll be like "she seems like a nice girl." be polite, always say thank you, and you're welcome, and yes ma'am, and no ma'am. and another thing, do NOT dress slutty, or anything around her, be as conservative as possible, without looking like a nun :)
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i'm in 8th grade, and every year, 8th graders have this free day where they have like activities and eats lunch together and stuff. my friends and i wanted to do something for it. like, last year, there was bands playing, a fashion show, etc. they're all set-up by us and we don't have to do it or anything. but it would be cool if we did. this year, my guy friends are making a band and they're gonna play rock songs. so i was wondering if any of yu have any ideas on what we can do. we don't wanna do like playing instruments or singing. we want it to be entertaining and funny. so any ideas would be VERY helpful.
thank yu!
if i were you, i'd dance to nsync.. or sexy back :D
that'd be ahhhmazing.
fer realz.
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i don't really get much pimples, but when i do, it's usually like, 2 or 3 at a time. and i HATE it! they're usually in between my eyebrows, on my nose, or close to my nose. i don't really want my mom to buy me cleanser and stuff, so i need advice on what i can do to prevent this from happening. yea, i know it's not ever gonna b flawless, but i don't want it how it looks like right now, either. so any advice on what i can do will be GREAT!
thank you.
this might sound weird, but toothpaste dries pimples out.
if you don't want your mom buying you facial cleanser, then just kinda rinse your face off with water, and like.. a gentle wash.
the more scented things are, the more likely they are to dry out your face.
:) so if you're gunna use some kind of soap, make sure it's not too heavily scented, otherwise, it might dry out your face.
or you could try to ask your mom?
nothing to be ashamed about :) if you wash your face every night, and in the morning, your skin should stay pretty clear.
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13/f
ok so theres this guy i like named cody. were kind of friends but not really. i talk to him on myspace and aim sometimes. so one day i see hes on aim so i say hey to him. heres how it went..
me-hey
cody-what do you want now
me-umm i dont know
cody-then dont talk to me
--cody signs off--
im not exactly sure what i did to deserve that. my friends are saying maybe he was in a bad mood or hes under alot of pressure right now (he has me and my friend ashley chasing after him you could say. she asked him out and he said no and he also knows that i like him). anyway when i read that i almost cried. what should i do??
or maybe he just doesn't like you?
just because talks to you on aim and myspace doesn't mean that he's gunna talk to you all the time.
it's just aim.
i mean.. if you don't really know him,
then for all you know, the boy could be a complete asshole.
i kind of had an ex boyfriend like that,
we barely ever talked in person, and i mean we went out for like.. 6 months.
but we barely talked in person.
it's not worth it.
i would much rather have someone i could talk to in person all the time.
boys are moody, no matter what.
they just kinda tend to have little mood swings, and believe it or not, there is something that's pretty much PMSing for men, it has to do with their testosterone [i probably spelled that wrong] levels.
basically, if i were you, don't worry about it, if you really wanna talk to him, then try to get to know him a little better, don't cling to him, don't be annoying, be cool, a little flirty, but not too much :)
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how can you get blackheads out?whats are some REALLY good things to get them out ??
alright well,
you could try some new facial cleansers.
or if they're really bad, maybe you should check out going to the dermatologists to get a special medication for your blackheads, i'm not exactly sure how bad they are.
but check around in walmart,drugstores,or some sort of grocery store? and look for stuff that is made just for removing blackheads. :]
try that, and read the back of the boxes or tubes or whatever to find out which one you think would remove them the best.
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