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whats a good new change for me ... i wanna change my look .. my pics are on www.fallingtears.piczo.com ..

Cut your hair and get some layers and die it either a dark brown or platnuim blonde. Your really pretty. Take advantage of it:)

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Is it true that if u get your hair thinner at a salon then the next time it gets even thicker? or what happens..n how much does it cost. ty

Ahh don't ever get your hair thinner. It gets frizzy. When they thin your hair they trim peices of hair and they break off and make your hair waaaaaaay frizzy and you see them little hairs stick up. I did it to my hair alot and I regret it BIG TIME. I don't think it gets thicker, thou it may look thicker from everything frizzying out.

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hi im 13/f and my mom still wont let me babysit. its rlly embarrasing bc i am 13 but she thinks im not "matture" enough. i feel like im being treated like a baby. how do i get her to let me start babysitting so tht i dont hav to hav a babysitter? thanx ~steph~

Talk to her about and tell her how you feel.

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what does rofl stand for

rolling on floor laughing

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hi does anyone know a good quote i could put in my profile about : me and these girls became friends and i wanna have a quote about how happy i am that we became friends then under it put there initials! please help!

go to www.quotemania.2ya.com, www.sun-kissed.cjb.net or www.hellz-angelz.cjb.net. They have some quotes like that.

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well i met my bestfriend on newyears last year and we've been really close since..its just lately since the new school year has started we really havent been as close..this always ends up happening and i dont want to lose another bestfriend.we go to different schools and all..but it just seems we can never find time to chill with each other and when we do we never have anything to talk about or do because we dont really have anything in common because i guess our personalities have changed becuase now we hang out with different and i just dont know what to do..somneone please help

**desperate need**

Try making plans like a week or 2 ahead of time. Like on the weekend, go to the movies or something. Stay at her house or she can stay at yours. IF you can't find nothing to talk about, talk about boys, who do you like, who does she like, blah blah blah. Find out what she does at school, what classes she takes. You guys are best friends, you should find something about it.

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i need to get a halloween costume for halloween but my mom wont buy one and she wont take me somewhere to buy one! i don't really want to make my own costume because nobody will help me and i can't do it by myself without it looking really bad! i don't know what to do!! Should i just keep trying to convince my mom? Or make my own,really bad-looking, costume?

Why don't you start making your own costume, but keep bugging your mom. Don't let her know your making one because then she will say no because you already started on your costume. But if she says no then you will have a costume that you made.=]

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Hey, well I go to a Church and we are having some problems getting more people come to our youth group. My brother asked me to figure out some stuff girls can do at youth group. Because the guys always play sports and the girls dont like it so we dont play and were bored. So what are some of the stuff girls can do? I thought about cooking..like making a quick snack for all of us but thats all I have. If you can help me with more ideas I'd appreciate it. And if you go to youth group at a church, what are some of the stuff you do? Thanks so much and I rate all 5's!

xo_sherry_ox

Why don't you guys take some pictures and make a scrap book. Like you can take pictures of the boys playing some sports and you guys cooking and all the other stuff.

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ok is there a way u can get ur arms like..more strong like more shape cuz mine have fat that needs to go..like wut helps? dont say pull ups..lol cant do those ..but if neone knows ne work out ways like explain it ..um that would help thx

Start lifting weights, like do some curl ups or push ups, but if you can't do pulls ups then most likely you can't do them. If you don't have any weights go to the gym, there are probably some people there that could help you. Good luck

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me and this boy have been going out for almost two months..i really like him but he has cheated on me..but he was honest and told me..i also like his brother which likes me too..i dont know if me and my boyfriend should breake up and i should go with his brother or stay with him..can you help me?

Break up with him, it's only going to hurt you in the long run. Find someone that makes you happy and won't hurt you.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

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I am going to a whole bunch of places this year and i need to save a lot of money but i'm really bad at saving money because i always go shopping with my friends and stuff. What should i do?? I'll rate.

Get a bank account and shove all of your money in there. At some banks they have where you can lock up your money for like a month or so and then you can start taking it out. But I don't think that is at all banks. Try consulting with a bank

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I have a pretty hard life, it's not easy in this town. I always have alot on my mind, but since last year I've been counting on beer to clear my mind...I wanted to know why a little alcohol makes me think about nothing...even when I'm not drunk?

It's a depressant. It lets you run away from your problems. Most drugs can do that for you.

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Hi ! Well i was wondering what would be a good hair color for me to go with this fall/wonter i want to go darker but i don't want it to wash out my face ya know ?? So like my skin is like a creamy natural color not to light not to dark..and my eyes are greyish/hazel !! Yeah..right now my hair is Light Ash Blonde !! Thanks !!!!

Try a honey brown. It's really pretty and it's not to dark and not to light. It's almost perfect.

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Hey... im making my Xmas list. I need advice on how to get my mind to think up what i want lol... or does anyone have ideas that a girly girl prep 13 yrz old girl would like........................................


thankx xoxx

Clothes and make up?

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What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her?

I wouldn't set a age limit, if it's too young then it's just that puppy love it's not like they will rush into things like sex at the age of 10. And to be completely honest, you can't control what the kid can do with him/her because if they are going to do something they are going to do something, there's no way of stopping them. There is soo many ways around it.

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I have a big problem.Over the summer I was smokin,drinking and doing alot of bad shit but know im here know and I want to change everythin in my life. I dont want to be so despreased or sad. I want to be happy.I'm trying to say that I want to change alot of things that has happened in my life.I also want to stop cuttin myself I try to but I just cant.So can you just please just help me a little that its all that I'm askin I dont want to be this way anymore.It's horrible!
So please help me!

-Amanda Marie

Try making new friends. If you went to rehad for all that shit they would make you make new CLEAN friends. LOL it's dumb but it is some way to help. Find some self control. Find something else to do then doing drugs. Go shopping or hang out with new friends. Take up a hobby, maybe a sport of some kind that will take up most of your time, then that should help alot. Oh another thing is start reading up on some of the drugs and stuff you've done and read up about how it hurts your body. Maybe it will change your mind. I know how hard it is. Been there done that. I hope everything works out.

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Well.. First of all me and this guy have been "dating" for about 2 months.. And well we are truly in love I mean you have NO IDEA!! And I really really like him SOO much and we are just like the best couple ever... And WELL Yesterday he told me that he kissed another girl!! And I donno what to do.. I mean he said he didnt feel anything and he regreated it and I mean he told me himself what he did... But I donno what to do b cuz i mean I love him soo much.. and YAH!! I don't kno if i should be mad or what.. So will SoMeOnE PLZ JUST HELP ME!!!

Well I think it depends. Did he tell you that he kissed another girl or did someone else tell you. Now If he told you I would forgive him but don't forget he kissed another girl. I mean what happens if this happens again. Now if someone else told you then I would dump him. Once a cheater always a cheater. But its all up to you, you know. I know its going to hurt if you do end up breaking up with him but it's going to hurt even worse in the long run. I hope everything works out well. Good luck

xoxo

Brit

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hey i have a problem with cutting and i dunno how to controll it and today 10/22/04 i wound up cutting my self agian because my b.f broke up with me and im like in love with him and ahh...hard to explain and well i need some advice on how to stop or atleast trying to controll it please help me!! ill rate you high and i would like some advice from ppl who actualy do it or used to thanks soo much and if you wanna takl to me more about it im me on
babi beautifulx3 or email me at babii_thug_699@yahoo.com

thanks so much!! ill rate ya a five if ya get at me

love always courtney

Ahh that is really hard. You have to make a commentmit with yourself that you can't do it no more. It's like a drug. It's really hard to stop it. If you don't have enough self control to stop it maybe you should tell someone that could help you out. But If your depressed I seriously suggest not taking anti depressants. They make you go crazy and suicidal. If you are suicidal you should deffinetly get some help. I know how you feel so if you ever need anyone to talk to you can IM me at BRitchellex3.

xoxooxoxox

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Our 21 year old daughter had to move back home, because her roomate moved out to go to college. Our daughter couldn't afford rent on her own, so she moved in with us. She got a job working as a cocktail waitress in a real dumpy bar, now she has started dating a "regular" from the bar, and he is a 23 year old drug(meth)dealer. I have pleaded with her not to go out with this loser, to no avail. Question: Should we throw her out and risk her moving in with the boyfriend or try to put up with it, in hopes that she will see the light and dump him. She says she really likes him. As far as I know, she is not using meth, but does smoke pot. I am really scared.

Well speaking out as a kid or "young adult" or whatever, I wouldn't throw her out. If my mom ever did that to me I would never talk to her again. My brother was dating some chick from hell and my mom told him that she wasn't aloud to come over anymore and it pissed him off and she moved in with her and my brother and my mom just barely talk anymore. It's your choice. I wouldn't though because you could loose everything you have with your daughter right now.

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Is it considered cutting if u only scratch to where u have scars? I went to a website and it said it is considered cutting.

I'm pretty sure thats not considered cutting. REALLY SURE indeed. That just sounds corny. lol if you know what I mean. There scars, It's not like you cutt them you just scratch them.

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