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well i met my bestfriend on newyears last year and we've been really close since..its just lately since the new school year has started we really havent been as close..this always ends up happening and i dont want to lose another bestfriend.we go to different schools and all..but it just seems we can never find time to chill with each other and when we do we never have anything to talk about or do because we dont really have anything in common because i guess our personalities have changed becuase now we hang out with different and i just dont know what to do..somneone please help
**desperate need**
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Try making plans like a week or 2 ahead of time. Like on the weekend, go to the movies or something. Stay at her house or she can stay at yours. IF you can't find nothing to talk about, talk about boys, who do you like, who does she like, blah blah blah. Find out what she does at school, what classes she takes. You guys are best friends, you should find something about it.
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alot of people lose bestfriends by going to different schools.. if I were you, I would call her up and say that you miss her and that you want to get together once in a while get some pizza or something and just chill out and talk. It might just work
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If your friends means a lot to you then you will have to make the effort, reschedule any other plans to be with your friend, try out different things together or talk, talking will help you find out what your friends interests and hobbies are. Hanging out with other frineds doesn't mean leaving the others behind, talk to your frined about how distant you are feeling, have a sleepover or do something you both would enjoy. Don't worry doing things together and making time for each other will help you get close again
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You could make the effort to hang out at the weekend but it sounds like you guys are finished. If your personalities have changed then you're growing apart and there's not really anything you can do. It's probably best to let nature take it's course and make the effort to find some new friends and hang out with them.
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Hi Sweetie,
Yeah, that tends to happen to many of us. I personally move on... Got used to it. ....Maybe I'm subconsciously anti-social. Anyway, back to you. Well.. do you guys (or girls.. or guy and girl... you know what I mean!) have eachother's numbers? Or screen names? Get your buddy to get a yahoo account and get one too if you don't have one yet. Other things you can do... GET A NOTEBOOK! When you have it write letters on how your day went and what issues that are going on. Then when you see your buddy give it to him/her and have your buddy write to you whenever he/she has time.
About you guys being different... that can actually be a good thing. Now you have stuff you can talk about and discuss... friction.
Well good luck! I hope you don't lose this friend and I hope I was of help. Blessed Be...
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