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HEY EVERYONE THIS IS A PICTURE OF ME AND MY BOYFRIEND I LOVE HIM SO MUCH ANYWAYZZ IM 14 YEARS OLD I THINK I GIVE PRETTY GOOD ADVICE AND I LIKVE TO ANSWER PEOPLEz QUESTIONS!! SO ANYONE CAN ASK ME SOMETHING AND I WILL NOT THINK OF ANYONE AS DUMB OR THEY HAVE A DUMB QUESTION SAY ANNYTHING AND I WILL TRY AND GIVE U THE BEST SULOTION !!
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ok, i just made out with my boyfriend for about an hour and now i have a little bump on my lower lip...its not red, but it hurts a little because my teeth are right by it... is because of us kissing for so long...(he was sucking, biting softly etc.) or something else maybe? hes a virgin still, hes only fingered a girl once...will rate 5's thnx! (link)
O_o.. i think its Herpes but youll be just fine its not the std type... youll be fine just get some chap stick or blistex ect. ok hope i helped ya out there buhbye!!! and i hope you two have fun fun!!!


Do females find guys with ape like hairy chests sexy? (link)
i guess some do but i dun really find that attractive ok hope i helped buhbye


ok theres this boy in my school whos in 6th grade and im in 8th. hes really shorter then me to. i dont have a crush on him but theres just something about him and i cant get him off of my mind, what should i do? (link)
Well just stay friends with him and if things go right you might find yourself going out with him dont worry what thers sayeither i mean my friend has been going out with this guy for almost 2 years and shes in 10th and hes in 8th and there relationship is just fine!!ok hopei helpe!!! buhbye!!*~*MUAH*~*


im a 13/m
and i have a lot of pubic hair. is it normal to shave it? (link)
UmMmM YeS WaY NoRmAl HeHe!! JuSt MaKe SuRe YoU Do It RiGhT LoL!! Ok HoPe I HeLpEd BuHbUy!! MuAh!!


is having sex before marriage a sin (link)
Well it depends on what religon you are and what your beliefs are!! I dont really believe in sex before marrage!! Ok well hope i helped buhbye!! *~*MUAH*~*


i hate haveing hair down there so i was going to shave it but my friend said that doctors dont want you to because your not suppose to. i dont know what to do i don't want to ask my mom but then again i want to shave there badly i need help!
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shaving down there (link)
The doctors wont say anything!! If you wanna shave down there go ahead just make shure you do it right !! Alright if you have nayore questions just ask!! Ok ope i helped buhbye!! *~*MUAH*~*



ok well its been like to weeks sense ive had ex an we didnt use a condum an im afraid that im pregnnet im not going to get a pregnecie test because i have reasons why, but i know the syptoms but , could you not know your pregnat for like 3 weeks i mean when i go to the bath room i have white stuff on my underware an idk my friend told me thats because im pregnat an idk i just need help .. i know i shouldnt have had sex im a really goodi girl so dont judge my parents are into polotics , an if they found out that i was they would shio me off to bording school or somthing even worse so please help me?? (link)
Itz called discharge everyone getz it!! Dont worry and it doesnt mean your pregnant!!ok hope i helped *~*MUAH*~*


im 14 and going into the 10th grade and ive never kissed a guy. and all my friends all have lost it. and i feel like im being left behind. and when my friends talk bout it they ask me hats the most uve done w/ a guy and i cant say anything cuz i havent even kissed 1! what should i do? (link)
Well just wait untill your ready dont do it becuase everyone else is!! Ok hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*


Is it bad for you to use a tampon when your not actually menustrating? I am supposed to start today or tomorrow and i just don't want to get caught by suprise. Would it be harmful if i put on in while i was still clean? (link)
umm... i wouldnt because you might be in ris of tss (toxic shock syndrome) or something just wear a smaller pad until you get your period!! ok hope i helped buhbye!! *~*MUAH*~*


is porn a bad thing to do? (link)
No i dun think so!! Its normal!! Hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*


Fourteen.Female.

so last night before getting into the shower I look and my left breast has what looks to be stretch marks almost all over it [exaggeration]. My right one is perfectly normal.
I thought it was growing or something?
Is it normal? (link)
Its normally to have strech marks on your boobs hehe!! Strech marks are from your boobs growing soo its perfectly normal!! Hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*


what is the difference between giving heads and s blow job! i kinda know what they are but then someone used it in a weird way and i just want to make sure i have them straight! thanks a bunch!
love ya! (link)
Its the same thing!! Ok hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*


Hey,Im 13/f (but mature for my age so dont say im too young for serious dating)
This guy is really inlove with me, and im just not feeling it. We've made out and..honestly i get bored with him.I've already broke his heart twice and we just hooked up about a week ago.
This seems to happen a lot. I like a guy for awhile, then we get together and the likeness factor soon goes away. Whats wrong with me? Am in not straight?I dont think i like girls or anything, but im scared that if im getting bored with these guys after a short period of time.Youknow? Well..maybe you dont.
Should i break it off with him? I mean we are really good friends but i dont wanna ruin that. Should i take a break from him? I cant really take a break though if we havent been together long can i? Oh i need help!
I rate high for good advice! (link)
Wel maybe you shouldnt go out with him!! Since your getting bored hehe!! Im also 13 and i get bored of guys really easy to!! But i did meet this one dude and i dun think i could ever get bored with him lol!! But i dun thin ur a lezbo or anything i think you just havent found the right guy yet and believe me youll find him sooner or later!! I know what your going threw the and if you need any more advice go ahead feel free to ask!! Ok well i really hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*


well I have a girlfriend and I love her to death but idk if she knows that i love her as much as i do. how can i tell her how much i love her? (link)
Welll just tell her you love her!! Tell her the reasons why you love her!! Also like ask her out somewhere were you guys can be alone and tell her how you feel about her!! Ok well i hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*


i broke up wit my exgirl a couple months ago but i cant stand bein away from her i want her back i feel like i cant live wit out her wut should i do? (link)
Ask her back out and see what happens if she still likes you she should say yes!! I think its cute how you say you cant live with out her just make sure she hasnt moved on to another guy tho!! Ok i hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*


OK my ex boyfriend calls me everyday to talk about his day. He slips in a sentence about me and him then he talks about his girlfriends. Yes that is plural. He has more than 1. He asks me to rate him on how hot he is on a scale from 1-10. I rate him a 7 and a half. He has a nice body but he's not niice to me when we date. This guy, does he still like me or not? I rate! Sorry so long. We had a relationship for 2 months before I found out he cheated on me. (link)
Yeah i think he still likes you if he calls you and talks bout stuff!! But i think he wants to know if you still lik him and he askes you this by asking you to rate him on how hot he is!! Ok i hope i helped!! But if he askes you back out i think you should turn him down cuz once a cheater alwayz a cheater!! Ok i hope i helped if you have any other questions feel free to ask me!! *~*MUAH*~*


I really like this guy and well I try to tell myself that I don't. I have been going out with him on and off for a few years and well everytime we go out after a while he likes another girl and he goes out with her (he's done this twice to me) and so he breaks up with me.. we are still friends and talk but it kills me and I try to tell myself I don't like him because he's sorta a "player" but I don't know what to do...?? (link)
uhnnn.. not to be rude but you deserve better!! That means hes just breaking up wth you for some one he likes better which is dumb!!I say dont stay with him!! Ok i hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*


Does anyone kno where i can like listen to music for free and has a bunch of songs. and i mean really super free.i rate high (link)
Umm.... you can go to launch but you have to be a yahoo member and its free if you dont buy the songs and you can whatch the music vidios to!!Hope i helped!!*~*MUAH*~*


well 13 months ago my doctor said i was gonna get my period in 6 months to a year.. but then a year passed and i still hadn't gotten it.. and then i went to my physical 13 months later and the doctor said another 6 months to a year.. but ive gotten like everything such as my growth spurt pubic hair.. vaginal discharge.. etc. but im active.. cauz im a runner... but i haven't ran since the end of may cauz i have an injury.. so i know like you shouldn't want your period or w/e.. but i just wanna get it over with because all of my friends have it except me and i feel so left out.. and my best friend just hers and she says she won't feel comfortable talking about it with me until i got mine.. so i feel so bad.. when do you think i'll get mine??.. do you think i'll have to wait another year?? (link)
Well you should be sooo freaking glad!! Who cares about it if you havent started yet you will soon its all normal its just some people get it later than other!! But you should be soo happy periods SUCK!! I stil wish i never had to get mine!! Well i hope i helped you out!! If you have any other questions feel free to ask me!! Ok *~*MUAH*~*


i dont feel comfortable telling my mom i got my period...how do I tell her? what do i say so i dont feel so embarassed? (link)
Omg hehe!! Its pretty weird!! But she should have her period and all gurls get them and they all have too tell there parents!!It may feel uncomfortable but im sure she knows your supose to be starting it soon!! Soo just tell her it will be ok dont worrie soo much!! Ok i hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*




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