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Every time i talk to the the guy i like I talk to much and get really hyper! How do I stop?? && if theres other crush tipps let me know PLEASE!!
Thank You in Advance
haha honestly what i do is if i know im talkin to much ill be like "Ya... i talk alot dont i? "
Try to make a joke out of it
Then it would be less embarassing for you
and if you wanna stop talking to much
Before talkin to him
Pay attention to what you say so you dont get carried away and not notice it.
:)
Okay so i used 2 have this best friend! and then about a year or so ago we had this HUGE fight! Over an ex of mine. but then later on we both apologized, so we were friends. but we really havn't talked much since then, I guess we drifted apart. BUT i just got an email from her asking why i would spread mean rumors about her around the school! She said that she wishes we were friends,
WhAT do i do, i didn't say anything bad about her.
Ok so you didnt say anything about her
Its simple
tell her that you never spreaded any rumors about her and that you dont do those kind of things
tell her that you guys drifted apart so why wud u spread anything about her?
If she doesnt beleive you thats her problem,Not yours.
I'm going to have to start from the beginning to explain everything. So here it is. This guy and my school asked my sister out last year. She declined his offer. My sister's and myselfs best friend started talking to that guy online. The my sister and I went to Arizona over the summer. So our friend talked to this guy and they started dating. They're broken up now, but she's thinking about gettting back together with him. Also I really like this guy at my school, and so I pointed him out to our best friend (mine and my sisters) and she said he was cute then she said she liked him because she the guy I like and the guy she dated/ the guy who asked my sister out, is friends with the guy I like. I heard my best friend talking and she said she made out with the guy I like. Should I be offended by this? Am I overreacting or is this just sort of crazy? What do you think? I'm sorry if it was really confusing for you
Ok so wait your saying that your best friend likes the guy you like and kissed him?
Hell ya you should be angry
Hun shes not ur best friend
Not even considered a friend to begin with.
15/f
Theres this guy on my bus and he liked me the year before last ALOT.
Well today on the bus I was shocked when he compared our hand sizes and marveled over how small mine were, and then he held my hand like fingers laced. He held my hand for a minute, then let go, and kept doing that at random times. But he finally held on for the rest of the busride before we had to get off
and he gave me his aim and his cell phone number even though it got taken away.
I dunno if he likes me or not because hes pretty flirtatious but I soo hope he does but what do you think?
He may like you.
Since you said that he liked you the year before the last then he PROBABLY still has feelings for you
But you could never be sure.
But from what im hearing
I think he may.
Ok so I've known this one guy for a little over 2 years. I went out with him twice back then, but I broke up with him because I did'nt know him as much as i wanted to. It was pretty lame.
So now, 2 years later, I really want to say.. that I am completely in love with him. He has no idea either. I've liked him for so long and it's killing me inside. He's the only one i want to be with for the rest of my life.
I was hanging out with him once out of school, and it was like the best day of my life.
He held my hands so i did'nt fall when attempting to skateboard, we laid down together everywhere, and even tickled eachother(haha).
I'm with him almost every second at school.
Everyone thinks we're going out.
But we're not, and I'm so confused on what to do.
I thought about telling him that I like him so, but I'm too scared of what he will think. He's like my best friend, and i don't want to ruin that.
My question is, Should I tell him how I feel? I'm just scared he won't feel the same way.
Thanx in advace. And sorry if it's too long at all. =S
Lol, well obviously he feels the same way towards you since you said that you guys lay down together and tickle eachtoher and hold hands, so like i think the both of you are just to shy to say anything and maybe he feels the same way as you and hes scared that it may ruin ur friendship,
so maybe you should give it a while and get closer and closer to him and im sure he will tell you.
Goodluck.
i'm really nervous about uploading a pic of myself on myspace.
My whole family has been threatening me.
"If you put a picture of yourself on myspace some guy can scan your picture and get your adress and stuff and stalk u and rape you"
im really scared!
haha but all my friends do it and they done get raped!
what should i do?
okay haha.
theres no way in hell
that you could get raped by puttin a pic of yourself on myspace.
thats jus....stupid
your family is jus trying to scare you
But they can take ur pictures
tahts why you should put your profile on private.
i just been sick and i think it was blood aswell well it was red what could this be?
Perhaps more information?
Whatever it is it doesnt sound good.
Go to a doctor.
im gonna keep this short and simple.
my boyfriend and i live 200 miles away from each other
we see each other once every 1-2 months
meaning we dont really have sex alot, yaknow?
well okay he wants to talk dirty on the phone
i dont
it makes me really uncomfortable/ awkward
he said he doesnt care, it makes him bored
& im a boring, selfish gf because i wont send pics/talk dirty.
what the fucck is that?
i told him to go find someone who would do that because he obviously doesnt care that i dont feel right doing it
and he was like yeah will do
SO SERIOUSLY wtf, now i feel bad for saying that
but that's wrong of him right? or am i being selfish..
17/f
hes 19
Oh my..Oh my i cant beleive your accually asking this question
Ofcourse your not being selfish
hes the one thats being selfish and dumb
Your better off without him
Tell him that he should show you some respect.
Wow.
I want to see who looks at my myspace and i tried like profilesnoop and stuff like that but it wasn't working correctly. Does anybody know how to see who looks at your myspace?
Nope..sorry to break it to you but theres no way
you could find out who views your profile.
mkay. I'm 17/f. for a while I've had a some ''extra weight'' if that's what you wanna call it, since 9th grade. before then i was a size 5. so I've pretty much always been a little thick. but since 9th grade-12th (present)I've been a size 10(about 145 pounds)and I'm 5'2''. like i friggin shot up in weight outta no where. I've been eating the same way i always have, it's not like i eat cookies and brownies for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. but like..I've gotten so depressed with my weight, that I've actually stopped eating anything except for breakfast. and its been like a week and i already lost a little bit. i mean i know its bad..but no other way works. I've tried dieting healthy and working out everyday for a long time, it just doesn't work. i know all the consequences of starving yourself and blah blah blah..i just want to loose the weight. it seems that no matter what i do, i just cant loose the weight! I'm not diabetic, i have no sicknesses. I'm normal. but being overweight has shot my life into depression and i don't want to live like this. my question is..does anybody have like a weekly plan i can do that includes working out and eating right(that's fairly cheap) so i don't freakin starve myself?
thanks in advance
Jill =/
Starving yourself is gonna get you NOWHERE trust me ok.
Look you NEED to eat more than only breakfast,
I used to be 160 pounds i dropped to 120 in 3 months,I Worked REALLY REALLY REALLY hard
i worked out EVERYDAY and i ate right.
Maybe when you wer working out you werent working out good, maybe you should try a little harder you know?
For breakfast eat like oatmeal
and a fruit or a little sandwich
for dinner you could eat whatever your mom makes but in small portions,for night time you could eat like an apple and a yogurt,
do NOT starve yourself,seriosuly one day yur going to tick and eat EVERYTHING youv always wanted to,Patience and determination is what it takes to lose your weight
and also if you get cravings for chocalate
or chips or something
you could eat it once a week.
Dont cut off junk food COMPLETELY.
jus dont eat it alot.
Tell me how this goes.:}
my friend texted my crush and asked him if he is going to ask me to homecoming
he said maybe?
we have a history of crushes on each other bue he never trys to talk to me like puts no effort in our "realtionship"
what does this maybe? mean
well uh no one on this site is gonna be able to tell you what hes thinking, well maybe he will ask you maybe hes shy or something since you said that he never puts effort into the relationship.
So maybe and maybe not.
heyy, i know this is long but please answer if you can. im so lost any suggestion would be amazing.
the first boy ive ever loved, kissed, gone out with, all of that is still in my head. we started daitng 3 years ago (wer both 14 now) and hes been in my head ever sense. i know he feels the same way and its scary because no matter how many times we break up we aways go back to eachother. it feels like we were destined to be together. and ithink we might be eventually. but...
whenever we have a relationship it gets so serous that im scared to even talk to him. if i do, we flirt nonstop, make all of these plans, and im scared where ittle leade. ive never been able to really get over him, i get butterflys just looking at him and i know he feels the same way. but i dont want to lose a high school experience by being with him, it hurts to talk to him because i feel it getting more serous and stronger by the minuite, but it hurts not to becayse i miss him so much. and i see him in shcool everyday and he just makes me laugh and hes never broken up with me i always break up with him because i feel myself getting too attached and i get scared and run away. i think i might really love him even though i know its not likely at this age. i know i love the way he makes me feel but icant let myself accept it. and he says he dosent want a relationship now but i know i could talk him into it but im not sure whats best. do you think theres a way i could really get over him? not talking to him isnt really an option, it would just be really awkward. hes in my classes so i have to see him everyday. i know i could try to get over him, but im not sure how to get over him for good. the second he looks at me or texts me all is lost and i fall for him again. please help
thanks SO much!
awww.
I know how it is to like someone but not want to get too attached to them,If you REALLY want to get over him the only person that will help you is yourself, Stop looking at him and TRY to stop thinking about him even though its really hard, gettin over somone you really like really isnt that easy not at all, becasue you like alot of things about that person, but if you really want to get over him then jus try to stop looking at him and try to not talk to him too much,
& whenever you start liking somone else Try not to get yoursef TOO attached like Dont go wherever he is dont alwayas look at him because doing those things make you more intrested in them.
:) i really hope i helped.
Tell me how it goes okay :):).
okay please only muslims answer.
i am a muslim girl. and i had sex before marriage. i regret it so much. it happend in such a blur. i regret it 100%. will Allah ever forgive me? what can i do to make up for what i have done.
Asalam alaiakaum!
Sister, I am muslim as well. And you know what, Everyone makes mistakes, big or small its a mistake. And whats so beautiful sis, is the fact tht you feel guilty. regret is a form of repentence. and MashAllah, InshAllah Allah will forigve you. What happened.. happened. And nw you kno what you shouldnt do next time. Allah Alhamdulilah promised us forgivness no matter how big or small our sins are. Hes always there for us no matter what. Theres still hope! And you just feeling Guilty is a step that you took to achieve that forgivness. Just Go right now Quickly and repent! and make duaa ( supplication) to Allah and ask him to forgive you, with sincerity and also TRY not never return back to that sin. Now you know wrong to right and inshAllah Allah s.w.t will guid you. Also remember sister the story of the Prostitute who gave some water to a dog because he was thirsty. Allah swt forgave ALL her sins at the moment mashAllah. You are not dead yet, And Allah is still there for you, :) never worry. Just keep askig for forgivness and be sincere.
You know Allah is kareem
and most forgiving.
Allah with you inshAllah:)
Asalam alakauim :]
LMAO...what does that mean?
Laugh my ass off.
Ok so I'm a 14 year old girl in 8th grade... ok anyways, I don't really consider myself popular, I'm actually pretty quiet, and I don't think I'm beautiful or hot or whatever, just pretty. But the thing that's always confused me is guys love being around me. Like, they love teasing me and making me laugh and just being around me in general, and not weird ones, either, like, really cute popular guys. I don't really know WHY though. I love hanging out with boys, I get along with them better than I do with girls. So, could it be because I have a really good, boyish-sense of humor and I laugh really easily? Do boys like making girls laugh? Anyone wanna help me out here?
haha they probably like you because of your personality or because you dont think your all that and they jus like you for who you are and that you dont try to hard to get their attention and stuff so they probably find you diffrent.
Iam 15 female &een dating my boyfriend for a year and i think it's about time for us to be sexual but i don't want to have actual sex and i want to know of somethings that we can do to each other without having sctual intercourse.
please don't try to talk me out of it.
Haram!
17/f
Yeah, so, English classes pisses me off. There's this 'gangsta' kid who sits behind me, and his friend. Pretty much they throw things at me. During a diagnostic, he threw an eraser at me, and something else. Today, he threw a piece of paper at my head.
And I'm pretty sure it's him and not the girl who sits beside him, because he's always laughing with his friend.
Seriously, what the hell is his problem?
Turn around and ask him
"What the hell is your problem "
As simple as that,
And warn him that if the next time he does it, your going to tell the principal.
I don't want an answer to make me feel better. I just want an opinion. Is it ever okay for a guy to cheat? Even if he said he was drunk when it happened and he had sex with someone else, though he rememberes what he did during the sex?
I think its a stupid excuse, and he remembered everything but his girl. I just want opinions. I say cheating is NEVER okay.
Thanks.
In my opinion
No. it is NEVER okay.
Okay, so in the song 6 minutes by The Jonas Brothers who is singing?
There's like to of them singing?
One with like a little tiny girly voice.
And one witha a normal-er voice.
Who was it that was singing?
My sister let me hear one of their songs and she was like listen to this,and one of the jonas brothers had like a little girl voice and iwas like "WHO IS THAT? " nd she was like its nick jonas before puberty
so yeah probably lol.
I just started hs, n the guy i like is in 10th grade, so i dont have any classes with him, except for lunch because everyone has lunch together.
anyways, this guy, lets call him Jack (thats not his real name), first saw me in the hallway one morning, and ever since he has been standing there every day. Also, during lunch for the last two days he has been eating 10 ft away from me n my friends with his friends. also, the other day, as i was walking with my friends, his WHOLE group of friends turned n looked my way. and last night at the football game, he kept looking my way.
so, im pretty sure he likes me , and i know i like him too. so, now what do i do? I can't go up and talk to him because he is always with his friends, either that or he is always listening to his ipod. We are friends on facebook, but we never talk. & last night, on my fcbk, for the "what are you doing now" thing, I wrote a verse from REalize by COlbie c. and then he wrote some verse from some song, it said "you take my breath away when you walk. you tk my breath away when u r near me. you tk my breath away when u r away. i just wanna be with you even though i am too shy". HELP ME!!!!
Ok so OBVIOUSLY he likes you lol, hmm he seems like a really shy guy, if you dont have the courage to go up to him and talk to him wait for him to do it orr you could write him on facebook and give him a nice hello and then you guys will start talkin and when you see him in school you both will jus talk :)