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i'm breaking down here help me
Okay so i used 2 have this best friend! and then about a year or so ago we had this HUGE fight! Over an ex of mine. but then later on we both apologized, so we were friends. but we really havn't talked much since then, I guess we drifted apart. BUT i just got an email from her asking why i would spread mean rumors about her around the school! She said that she wishes we were friends,
WhAT do i do, i didn't say anything bad about her.
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I was in a sitation exactly, to a T, like yours. My advice to you is that you really need to have a long discussion with your friend, about everything. You need to tell her upfront that you didn't say anything bad about her. You need to think about if you want to continue your friendship with her, because it seems like she misses you. From my experience, I know what you mean about not talking and drifting apart. It may always feel a little awkward with her now after that fight. But you have to think, she was your best friend. Could you put it all behind you or should you go your seperate ways. Its all about whats best for you. SO, think about that. And deffinetley have a talk with her.
Good luck!
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Ok so you didnt say anything about her
Its simple
tell her that you never spreaded any rumors about her and that you dont do those kind of things
tell her that you guys drifted apart so why wud u spread anything about her?
If she doesnt beleive you thats her problem,Not yours.
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Just tell her the truth: "listen, I know we may not be as close anymore, but for the sake of the friendship we used to have, I would never lie to you. I'm sorry we've drifted, but that doesn't mean I've become your enemy! And even those I don't make things up about, just for the hell of it. I'm not that kind of person, and I thought you'd know that after all we've been through. Anyway, do your research somewhere else, cause it truly wasn't me"...she'll get the point.
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