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Throwing Stuff


Question Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 6:30 pm

17/f
Yeah, so, English classes pisses me off. There's this 'gangsta' kid who sits behind me, and his friend. Pretty much they throw things at me. During a diagnostic, he threw an eraser at me, and something else. Today, he threw a piece of paper at my head.

And I'm pretty sure it's him and not the girl who sits beside him, because he's always laughing with his friend.

Seriously, what the hell is his problem?


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Dontyoufakeit13 answered Thursday September 11 2008, 11:29 pm:
Turn around and ask him
"What the hell is your problem "

As simple as that,
And warn him that if the next time he does it, your going to tell the principal.

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WittyUsernameHere answered Thursday September 11 2008, 9:30 pm:
As stated below, immaturity.

Young stupid guys often pick on people whom they want the attention of. 1st graders hitting girls? Same thing.

What you can do?

Well, there are the obvious solutions.

Like pegging him in the head with something that would raise a lump.

Or stopping him in the hallway, grabbing his balls, twisting them, and telling him you'll rip them off like a paper towel next time he decides you make an inviting target.

I can't say I suggest these things, but often times theyre pretty effective, especially the balls thing.

Alternate solutions could include speaking to the teacher about it and asking to have him moved away from you and closer to the teachers desk. If the teacher ignores the situation, go to a counselor next. If its ignored there, ask your parents to speak to an AP or the principal about why the school can't seem to address or pay attention to the harassment of a student. Dropping the word "harassment" usually gets things done, as schools hate being sued.

Ignoring him won't work, because hes found something that will amuse him even if you don't react, he knows it pisses you off and thats enough to keep him doing it. Action of some kind has to be taken.

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Uniq_The_Geek answered Thursday September 11 2008, 7:59 pm:
Gah i know so many people who do this..
one word...
Immaturity.
the only reason they act so idiotic is because they either see you as a target (whatever it may be)... or because theyre just immature and have nothing better to do..
there are two things that might help.
either when they throw something.. stand up for yourself but make sure to superiorize yourself without cusses or anything... because thats just stooping down to his level.
or..
move your seat.. and stick oto your studies. just because they have nothing better to do and dont want to pay attention becaue throwing stuff is more important, doesnt mean you have to suffer as well... its a dog eat dog world... we all have to fend for ourselves you know?
good luck!! =] flirty

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