Well, I really love helping people with stuff, it makes me feel good, and I am going to school to be a psychologist and fashion designer(kind of, haven't decided). I'm 18 and my favorite movie right now is The Wedding Date, because the lines are really cute. Oh and I think the hottest guy ever is Spike(James Marsters) from Buffy the Vampire Slayer, he isn't the only hott guy I like but he is on top of the list.
I have a knack for understanding guys and girls I've been told, and thats good because I don't think I would have made it through school if I didn't.
Well hope to hear from you soon, and by the way just because I'm 18 doesn't mean I'm not mature, I may be young but I know about the world. So questions from all ages are welcome.
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Hey i was wondering, can anybody tell me a good way of lasting longer in bed, like an hour of sex without cumming, so that i can please a girl more. Thanks for your help (link)
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Practicing holding it in, works and increases your pleasure when you hold back until you are ready. So practice that should do it, and if not, go to a GNC they have some stuff. Tantrics can work too, if you have the patience. Hope I helped buddy.
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When there's any sort of social gathering involving alcohol, my fiance always gets drunk. Not completely drunk, just a little drunk. It used to not bother me at all. But lately, it's blown up into a huge deal.
It stems from the fact that my mother was an alcoholic when I was a child. Also, when my fiance and I were split up for a month, he went through a depression and would drink every day and smoke a pack of cigarettes every day, and almost got kicked out of college.
So now when I see him drinking at all, it angers me to the point I want to explode immediately. Since he has informed me that he will still drink no matter what, we've decided upon a compromise; he can drink on special occasions, but not get drunk, even a little bit. BUT, even that angers me!
When he started smoking, I did everything I could to stop him, but I failed. He is finally quitting now, but I'm afraid that alcohol will one day be the same way, especially if we hit a rough patch in our lives. He makes excuses for drinking, such as saying it's the only way he can be himself in a crowd, and that scares me!! But on the other hand, I don't want to be completely irrational and fight about this all the time.
What should I do? (link)
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You've just got to tell him what you are feeling, it hurts you to see him like that because your Mom's problems. If he can't then I don't know what to tell you, he needs to understand that you feelings are deep rooted in pain. Hope I helped it was kinda rushed, sorry
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I like 80's music; but I don't know the names of many of them. So far I've downloaded "In the air tonight" by Phil Collins. "Tainted Love", andTheres another song called "What is love?".. I Think. It goes "What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more".
Anybody want to give me some more 80's music?!!
Or hits of the 80's?
I love 80's music! !
THanks!! (link)
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Go here, for top 80's songs
http://www.alaskajim.com/polls/2002topsongs1980s_results.htm
http://www.onmc.iinet.net.au/trivia/eighties.htm
that should do it.
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My friend likes someone and I know who it is. I want to tell other people, but I'm afraid to tell other people who they like because they might get mad at me and we might not be friends anymore. So should I tell other people or should I keep it to myself? (link)
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Why do you want to tell other people, thats not very trustworthy on your part. Totally keep it to yourself, you would be betraying a friend if you didn't.
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I like this boy a lot. I want to tell people, but I don't want everyone to know. When someone knows something in my school they tell everyone and I don't want that to happen. So should I tell no one and keep it to myself or have everyone know? (link)
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If you can trust your friends then yeah tell your friends but if you really don't it to get around and you can't trust your friends then no. Unless you secretly want it to get around that you like him, so you want have to go right up to him and tell him you like him. I think having everyone is better than keeping it to yourself, who want to keep the hotts for some guy inside, plus then he'll be wondering why you stare at him or stuff like that, and this way he will know, and maybe he likes you too, and it getting around will make him want to ask you out. Hope I wasn't too confusing and I helped.
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ok so me and my friend's * lets call him bob and harry * .... ok well we wanna pull a huge prank for our eigth grade year at our skewl... we r like the 3 best friends..... and were just sooo much alike..... but it has 2 be something that would be !!!AWESOME!!! and would totally get people.... teachers.... other classes..... principal.... and if you have any answers that would not get us into 2 much trouble but be aweoms and get revenge on sum1..... those would be awesome... thanks in advance....
chase (link)
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Possibly if I knew what it was, it's kinda hard to say if it would be funny, because I ahve no idea what you are going to do. But watch out on the revenge thing, it will come back to bite in the butt.
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hey im a guy. on the 2nd of this month i was running down the stairs, slipped, then sprained my ankle...and continued running. then for whatever reason, actually did exercise right after. i didn't feel anything at first, until the next day. for about a 4 days i could barely walk and everything hurt. things started to feel alot better, so i worked out again on monday. i thought that if it wasn't 100% healed, i would have felt it by tuesday. i didn't feel anything. as the day went on today, i started to feel the same pains again on my ankle and now on my knee, only much worse. i dont know what could have caused it, i havn't done anything physical. should i go to the hospital tommorrow for an xray and check up? or just walk it off and schedule an appointment in 2 weeks. would ice help on this one or not - neither are swollen. thanks in advance (link)
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It's possible you mildly sprained it. In which case your tendon was stretched, so the time you were off your ankle it got better, but you irritated it by excercising. Keep off it for a couple of days, then gradually get back into your routine. Ice can help it to not be so painful and make inner swelling go down, just because you can't notice the swelling doesn't mean its not there. Going to a doctor would be a wise choice. Hope I helped.
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My boyfriend is 24 and I'm 22 and we've been dating for at least 2 years. We love eachother dearly and are serious about one another. The only issue he and I occasionally discuss is religion. We do have a lot of the same morals however he's Christian and I was born into a sect of Hinduism, which I do believe in. Although we do respect and appreciate eachothers beliefs, I kinda get the feeling he wants me to convert. I really don't want to label myself something I'm not comepletely. Is it possible to have a healthy 'interfatih' relationship that works in the long run?! (link)
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Yes, as long as you both know each others boundaries and respect them. If you love each other it will work it self out. I've been in a relationship with a guy who was hindu, and it was great, we broke up but not because he was hindu, it was other stuff. He should just respect your choice and let it go, and the same goes for you. I sincerely hope I helped.
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I made the stupidest mistake by falling for one of my best guy friends and I really want to ask him out. Everyone (even his sister and his cousin) are telling me to go for it and ask. But I've been waiting so long that I think some other girl is going to ask him before me. I'm clearly losing time to ask because everyday the two seem to be getting closer and closer. Do I just come out and ask him finally and risk losing him as a friend? Or do I watch some other girl take him away? (link)
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If you think he is worth it, and you really like him, then what are you waiting for, go get him. Taking risks is part of life this one could go either way, but would you rather have an awkward friendship, or watch him go out with another girl, a girl that could have been you. I say go for it, love is a risk, but a risk worth taking. Hope I heled you, and good luck.
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I was working at Old Navy for the past few months as a seasonal hire and they recently laid off all the new hires because we did pretty badly during our Christmas season. They told us that we would always be welcome back in the spring though but I don't really want to work there anymore.
1. I know this is a bad time for job searches but should I try looking for a new job anyway?
2. Before Old Navy, I only had volunteer experience. Would a store manager take a closer look at my resume because of my Old Navy experience? Do Old Navy employees have a particular reputation that might cause store managers to prefer them or look down on them?
3. Do you think a few months Old Navy experience is enough to work at specialty stores like American Eagle or Espirit? (link)
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You don't have to work there if you don't want to later, but if you really need money and you know they will hire you, then I would suggest you go back. Anytime isn't a great time to look for jobs the way our economy is going, but yeah, go look for a job, looking is always good, you never know what you will find. Volunteer experience is good to have, it shows responsibility, reliability, and actually loyalty to your work, so with the volunteering and ther old navy experience you should be a shoe in for hire. As far as the managers looking down on you for working at Old Navy, don't worry if they see the volunteering it will be fine, and as far as I know, Old Navy doesn't really have a bad reputation with their employees. Anyways AE and Espirit hire teenagers to work there because it gets more teenagers to come in. Sorry the was a bit long, but I hope I helped and if you need anything else my e-mail is on my column.
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how do you get rid of pimples by, lets say, tommorow? ill rate 5's (link)
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1/4 teaspoon of apple-cider vinegar, with 1 drop of tea tree oil, Soak up the mix with a cotton swab, dab it on your face, put a band-aid on it overnight, and that should make it go away, or if its a giant zit, then it will make it really small. Hope I helped.
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Im religious. I believe in God and everything, but lately Ive been thinking about the devil and excorcisms. I dont know why but its taking over my life. Im constantly thinking about it! I havent even seen the Excorcism of Emily rose or anything, but I HAVE seen the Excorcist. Im just really scared it would happen to me. In that movie and the excorcist, why DID it happen to THOSE people?! Please help give me more info about what it is
No websites please! I kind of just want an answer! I give 5s! (link)
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If you are "saved" then a demon or the devil cannot possess you. I know that sounds weird but it is true in Christian theology.
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me and my gf r getting pretty far sexual wise and its to the point where im fingering her....im worried im gonna pop her cherry n she will freak out...cus weree not havin sex till marriage....i need some advice (link)
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I call fingering having sex, and if you are doing that, sex will come soon after, so I would suggest you two have serious talk about everything.
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Hey guys! I need help. I need to know about having sex, you know, the kindsof sex, how to do it, how it feels, consiquinces. You know! Any advice or websites I could go to? Il rate 5's to every answer.
Michaela (link)
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I don't think I should give advice on this considering you can't spell consequences, but if you want to know, don't just look up sex on the web, it will take you to really bad sites. I suggest books actually, or maybe friends, the internet isn't the greatest place to go. I have one site, www.sex101.com. Good luck with all that.
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Hi everyone!
My name is Todd, and I am a 15-year-old teenager. Well, my question is whether or not I should take the next step. Let me explain.
About close to a year ago, I met this girl, Andrea, in my Freshman year, and she and I didn't date, but we were good friends. We were both the same age, but I was about a month older. Through the months, we knew more and more about each other from our last names to what candy we like.
As strange as it seems, I've never had a relationship, much less my first kiss. I am trying to see if Andrea likes me or not, but more than a friendship. Some relationships can be harsh, so I don't want to try that, but I just want to know if she has the same or at least similar feelings that I do for her.
I am always glad to be around her, and sometimes I hang around her more than some of my other friends. I've also noticed that when I am with her at lunch, she wants these other girls at the table to go away, since they're annoying, but I'm not sure if it's just because she wants to be alone with me or something, since she and I usually sit alone.
As far as hanging out goes, she and I have hung out at my home once, and we've seen each other at school. I've been trying to hang out with her more, but she has a dysfunctional family which makes it tough for us to hang out on weekends. She is also depressed, so I try to help her through it.
I have been trying to show her that I love her by telling her that I care about her, how much I do care about her, and by doing things for her, like buying her gifts or getting things for her. Whoa, lot of "her"s in that one. Well, anyway, she never freaks out, but she always smiles and sometimes nods her head up and down a little bit. She might say things like "that's nice" or "thanks", but I never really can tell if she is nervous or anxious. I remember when I told her that I did really care about her, she smiled but she kind of laughed, and she said "I'm sorry for laughing...".
So, I would like to ask if I should take the next step and try asking her out. My parents have said I shouldn't because of her family, and some of my friends have said to go for it, just because she's single.
Thanks for reading this.
Todd (link)
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I know that lots of people have answered, but let me take a whack at it.
You are a resally sweet guy, and guess what, that is what she needs. Sometimes girls in dysfunctional families tend to not want to get in relationships for fear of turning out like her own family. Tell her that she can trust you, and that you won't hurt her like everyone else does, becasue you care for her, and want her to be happy. I know this is probly going to sound dumb, but you could be her " Knight In Shining Armor ". Even if she does reject you, it could be just like I said before she is scared, so if she says no, keep caring for her, being there for her, like always, eventually she will get it, and will look at you one day and it will click, that she really likes you, and wants to be with you. Sorry that was long. I hope I really helped, because you deserve a good answer. Good luck!
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one of my good friend's father just died of a heart attack on christmas. i left her a message on IM saying i was sorry and that i'm here for her and love her and all that..but what else do it do? has anyone here's parent died? what would you want? i'm guessing she just wants to be with her family. we are sending them a card. should i call her or go see her or..what? (link)
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She needs to be close to FRIENDS and family. Right now she just needs comfort, maybe wait a day then go see here, ask how she is doing. When my friends father died, I brought her a picture frame with a picture of her dad in it, if you can't afford that or just don't want to, you can bring her anything, something that she can cherish you know? Just be a shoulder to cry on, her friend, simple enough, the rest is up to you, you'll know what to do when you see her, your mothering and friend instincts will kick in. Good luck, hope I helped.
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I am a student of 10 class, I like a girl of my class she has rejected many proposals even my friend's she says she likes someone else(not to me but to those who have proposed her) shall I propose her after boards? (link)
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Are you british by any chance? None the less, I suggest maybe asking her once more, but if she says no, maybe think about other girls you like, I'm sure there is another girl you like, or a girl that likes you already, look around, you've got some time on your hands. Good luck with the ladies. You sound cute, you'll be fine. Hope I helped.
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i just got fingered by my boyfriend a couple hours ago and now my lower stomach hurts. any thoughts? (link)
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It would help if you told your age, but ok. It's possible he could have gone to far in, but that would be kinda odd. Also, you could just be starting your period. Thats all I've got for you considering the lack of information. Hope you feel better.
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my bf and me just broke up and its hard for me to cry and crying is the only way i can be okie. Whats a good sad love movie i can dl. thanks and no not the notebook. i saw it and didnt like it. If someone dies in the movie that helps, or if they dont end up story. (link)
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First, why do you want a sad movie, where someone dies, will that not make you more sad, therefore sinking into depression and such. Not to be all rude, but sheesh, he is a boy, you can be ok without him, you are a strong girl. However, if you are specifically looking for a movie where the guy dies because you are pissed at the moment, that I understand. I would suggest Moulin Rouge, it's awesome. I don't really know any movies where the guy dies, its always the girl, which is stupid. hope I some what helped, and sorry this was a wee bit long.
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Hey Guys, This Has Really been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I Knew what sex was when I was about 6 years old. I'm 13 Now. But I'm Worried that I wasn't Raised Right. I mean Most Kids don't even know what Making Out is When their like 7!! But I Knew! Was I or Am I Normal??? No SmartAzz's About This....Thanks (link)
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I knew about sex, making out and all that stuff when I was young too. It's no big deal, you are fine, perfectly normal. Your parents probably just believe in telling it like it is. I mean, do you have moral problems? Don't stress about this stuff, it will make you grow up faster, and loose your childhood and teenage years. I hope you feel better about it, good luck, and Happy Holidays!
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