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I have been dating my boyfriend for one and a half years now. He was in the same college, two years elder. Passed out the year we started dating and started working. We haven't ever had major problems except for once when he couldn't clear a major exam and his parents blamed it on his distraction because of me but we eventually got back because he got a good job and he loved me.
We just spent the last ten days together on a holiday with his friends and a couple of mine and then at his place alone for a couple of days.
We got into a petty fight two days back and he told me he really thinks we should see new people. He feels since I'm just 19 and he's 22 there is a lot more in life then getting serious for each other.
I let him be for a day and when we met next to talk this out he said he doesn't want to see new people. He was just saying that to make me angry. But he feels like we should break up because he thinks relationships are restrictive and he feels bound and he can't be himself. He told me he wants to still be with me and do all the things we used to do like go out for dinners, watch movies etc but he can't be physical with me. He feels when we do he gets too emotionally attached to me and he doesn't want that .We are too into each other.
He accepted that he still loves me and will because I'm a huge part of his life and he doesn't want to feel this way for any other girl. But right now he feels like he isn't fit for relationships and he can't see himself in one ever, even in the future. He knows i'd wait for this to work out but he said he didnt want to give me false hopes. He would try to make this work out too but right now he cant.
He feels now that we are bound by a relationship he would be able to express his feelings better in front of me. He loves me as much as he loves him mom and best friends and he wants me to be there but he said he can live without the sex.
We agreed on neither breaking up or dating. And I couldn't accept calling this a friendship so we just agreed on not defining it till he clears his head. But I can't stop feeling hurt and insecure.
I love him. But I can't understand what happened to him suddenly. What am I supposed to do? I'm in a delimma because I want him and this relationship back. Is there a chance ? Is this just a phase and should I just play along by giving him time? (link)
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He said he doesn't want to give you false hope, but that's exactly what you're trying to grasp in the situation. You're still young, don't waste another day holding on to what is really just an important and meaningful lesson in how to love. This is one kind of love, but not the kind you'll ultimately enjoy from someone who wouldn't even think of letting you go. You don't want to be on a list with a guy's mom, you want to be his object of worship and his every eager breath. It is not a phase, and even if it were, you don't want to teach a guy that your time doesn't matter, that you will sit around and twiddle your thumbs through his idiotic phases. Go flirt with the world and seek out magnificent challenges in your career and personal growth. This is a time you won't get back, don't waste it on someone who has clearly told you he would be wasting your time if you stayed.
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Am I sick if I like to sniff my dirty underpants when they're hot and sweaty (link)
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You're fine, dogs sniff each other's bums all the time and LOVE it. In fact, it probably means you're not sick, because illness would be indicated by a very unpleasant smell! :) Just don't do it in front of people, like picking your nose, etc.
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So the other day I moved back in with flatmates while I'm at Uni-into a house.
There are 3 boys and 4 girls (including me-girl).
So the other three girls are really cliquey and I'm feeling very left out. For a start contact over the holidays wasn't much with them-because I'm always too busy to keep up with conversations on messenger.
But they're all turning 21 and I'm the young side of 19. So now for one of their 21sts they've planned to take her to see a musical-I'm not involved...
I am trying to be in the kitchen/lounge all the time but I still feel left out. What can I do to improve this?
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I remember being the new girl in a quad and I ended up fitting in better once I started putting myself out there more: inviting them to things, planning game nights or movie nights, baking for the house or picking up some neat new treat from the Asian Grocery nearby, sharing crazy online videos, putting up a big message wall (dry erase or chalk or just paper like I did) where everyone can say positive things to each other. They are still my best friends, so those little things made them see that I was interested in being involved, and I think it was a worthwhile risk in my case.
With the one girl's 21st coming up, maybe you can think of some way you can make your own celebration for her with cupcakes or decorations. Worst case scenario it falls flat and you'll find friends elsewhere.
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Fourteen ; 5'3 ; 125 pounds.
Hello, there. For the past two weeks or so, I've been wanting to change my weight and health. My problem areas are my stomach and face. I do some light exercise inside aswell, here's an example of what I do daily:
300 jumping jacks, 120 lunges, 100 sit ups, 120 squats, 400 kick ups, and maybe some more if I feel like it.
Here is an example of what I eat daily:
For breakfast, I make a yogurt parfait (Low fat greek yogurt, granola, strawberries, banana). For lunch, I may have a vegetarian bean burrito (Checked the nutrition aswell). For dinner, maybe a vegetarian hotdog or something along those lines. I don't have many food options because I'm not sure what to have. For dinner, I sometimes bake a potato and have vegetables for sides. If I want any snacks, I'll eat fruits or vegetables.
At this rate, will I lose weight? If so, how long? And am I doing anything wrong? I want to be 110 pounds (I'm really thick and am not proud of my body at all) before 2015 or December, if that's possible. (link)
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Here's the most important thing to think about: you're only 5'3". There's a good chance you're not done growing? You may find what you're imagining to be thickness is really your body preparing to grow (think of how babies store a lot of mass before a growth spurt and then slim out when they grow into kids, the teenage years often have similar growth cycles). If you restrict your calories at your age, you risk stunting your growth, which in the long-run often makes weight gain more pronounced, because more height can lead to natural slimming. Put off restricting calories and just choose nutritionally-dense calories and eat as much as you're hungry for to see whether you're going to continue to grow.
Eat a balanced diet and don't forget lots of veggies, protein and fats, because your body needs these! Your brain absolutely needs fat, so don't drop that from your diet in an overzealous attempt to lower calories. What's more, people who eat full-fat dairy have LOWER belly fat than people who eat reduced-fat dairy products. This study is one example: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3656401/ One thing I also know from being vegetarian is that those foods are often really processed and not as nutritious as actual foods: beans, nuts, colorful veggies, dairy, grains like quinoa or oats, and fruit--and watch to make sure you're getting iron and B12. I recommend nutritional yeast sprinkled on microwave kale chips. SO YUMMY!!
When you're 14, your facial anatomy is youthful and that natural padding may seem like a negative now, but that padding is what women pay $$$ to try to inject back into their faces to look younger in a few years! Facial fullness is a universal marker of beauty and you really don't want to target facial weight loss.
It seems like a lot of exercise and a lot of it isn't the most effective kinds--sit ups aren't that good for belly fat and they can cause back injury. Push-ups or planks or yoga might do better for ab definition. Instead of trying to do a TON of repetitive movements, it's much better for definition to do short bursts of higher-intensity strength training. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be healthy, but maybe doing a sport or group classes could be a fun way to stay fit and to have that social aspect that will keep you from driving yourself so hard that you end up with an eating disorder.
Think about all the wonderful things your body is capable of doing as you move and nourish it, try not to make it all about whether it meets some arbitrary standard. You'll find yourself growing naturally into the kind of person you want to be and feeling proud soon.
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what does it mean when a guy winks at you? (link)
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That he acknowledged your presence. He may like you, he may be flirting, he could be making a cheesy joke, he may be saying hello, or he may be giving you the "go" signal for a secret mission you forgot you'd planned with him. He doesn't dislike you, but don't read toooo much into it, it's not a marriage proposal.
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What can I do to get pregnant fast (link)
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I found the app "My Days" to be helpful in tracking ovulation to know when pregnancy is most likely, it involves counting the days from your last period. Usually it's about two weeks after that ovulation occurs, with about a 4-5 day window where sperm could reach the egg. The semen will need to be fresh and deposited inside your vagina, which could involve a sex partner or a sperm donor. There are drugs at fertility clinics that can increase the number of eggs your body ripens during ovulation or that can reset your cycle to make you able to conceive at a different time than usual, but these are very expensive and not covered by most insurance, especially if you don't have any documented history of infertility.
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hi I am in so much pain..i love my boyfriend very much.i cant live without him..but my parents are not agree to marry me with him..today I I wanted to commit suicide but when I see this site..i just give up my decision of suicide..if I commit suicide my bf will also commit it..what can I do
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Here is one fact: you CAN live without him, and at at some point, even in the best of circumstances, will probably have to. Nearly everywhere in the world women outlive men, often by as much as 10 years, and in the majority of couples, the man is already older than the woman. Even if you did marry and stay together for 60 years, you would very likely outlive him. Let's say he dies peacefully of old age. Now at 70+ years old with your children and grandchildren you raised together, would you commit suicide and leave them all without any parents all at once? NO! That would be a cruel and selfish thing to do, and your boyfriend (then husband) would want you to be stronger than that.
So even in the best possible of outcomes, you can live without him, will likely have to live without him at some point, and are strong enough to live without him. None of that that makes the love you feel and the experiences you've shared any less meaningful. Dying doesn't improve relationships. Even if your worldview allows for an afterlife where you imagine being together, is suicide permissible? In most religions, it's forbidden and would keep you apart in the afterlife as well. I don't know what happens for sure, but I feel confident your bargaining power here on earth is stronger than anywhere else.
Do you want your parents to agree to the match? Stop acting like an insane little 12 year old driven mad by infatuation and incapable of reasoning and without skill in getting what she wants. It's no wonder that your parents are hesitant to feel happy about a union that drives you to selfish and childish ideas like suicide over what will someday seem like a minor delay or small frustration. Here is the truth, you will be able to marry him one day if you are determined and use your negotiation skills, but you have to gather your strength and make a better case for it than just quitting at life as soon as a small difficulty comes up.
Your parents do not own you, and even if it seems like they do now, they won't forever, and even if they "owned" you, you can find a way make them see that it is in your and their best interest to choose your love if he's really as wonderful as you believe. Rationally engage your parents in dialogue. Figure out what it is that causes them to object. If it's that you're too young, give it time and you will be less young every day. If they see a serious defect in his character, tell him to act better, be more responsible and level-headed, don't be so ready to kill himself, for instance, over a minor roadblock.
You can do so many things while remaining alive. First try talking to your parents. If that doesn't work, wait until you're old enough to move out on your own. As soon as you can support yourselves, you could try just leaving together. Be tougher, strengthen yourself for when you really will have to live without him, because you won't have any say in the matter when old age takes him, but the years full of joy and love between now and then will make you glad you persevered with this life.
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I'm 20 and I broke up with my first love a year ago. I loved him with every fibre in my being and did literally everything for him, even if it went against my morals. I spent all the money I had on getting him expensive gifts and I stuck with him, even when he couldn't care less about me. When we broke up because of the fact that he didn't wanna deal with commitment, at this stage in his life, he wasn't upset, not even for a day. It's been over a year and I've been the only one carrying all this pain and I've been holding so much hope that we could get back together, someday. We still see each other and he kisses me and that's what gave me hope that he still likes me. But last night, he told me that he'd never even think of marrying someone like me and that he needs a submissive kind of girl who doesn't pick up on the wrong things he does, like I did.I always picked up on all his lies and everything he hid from me. It hit me all at once, last night that he's been using me this past year and using my vulnerability. I cried in front of him for two hours straight and he kept saying the same things like "You're not my first love so I can't hold that much love for you" and "I told you I didn't want a relationship" "My first made me lose all my emotions" . I don't know why I'm so attached to him or why I'm even this devastated over a jerk like him. I just need someone to talk some sense into me. I worry, that I'll never be good enough for someone. What else can I do for someone to make them appreciate me? I allowed him to cross so many limits of mine and went above and beyond for him, and I get this, in return. How will I expect the next guy in my life to appreciate what I'll do for him and not break my heart again? (link)
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You already know how that he wasn't worth your affection and it's just a matter of time until you learn who is worth it. Don't see him anymore. Don't listen to him that you're not submissive enough, if anything, you're far too submissive. Show yourself respect and only spend your valuable time and energy on someone who will respect you as much or more as you do. I would recommend the book "The Rules" if you want to find someone who treats you well. It has a lot of great tips to help you fake it if you don't feel valuable or know how to act like you're special. Good luck.
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I sent a few nudes to a guy I met online and he's sent me money in return for them and now he's blackmailing me saying if I don't send him something else then he'll post all my pics on the internet.. Is there anything I can do to stop him? Can the police do anything? (link)
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Yep, you're being blackmailed, go to the police. Never put your face in a nude and don't send pics you don't want out. Best of luck, this guy sounds like an jerk.
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I want to have sex but I don't want to get pregnant. I'm only 13 almost 14. If there is anyone that will do this with me secretly please do. Parents cannot find out. (link)
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It's natural to be curious, but you are absolutely not old enough, and anyone on the internet who would be willing to have sex with you secretly is not the kind of person you should trust. You need to find someone you can talk to, like a female school counselor, and learn more about your body and turn-ons, figure out exploring yourself what feels good, what doesn't, and how to assert yourself with someone you like, so you can have more satisfying sexual experiences in a few years, AFTER you have seen a gynecologist and have been placed on a reliable method of birth control.
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Hi,
I had sex wid my husband on last week 16 aug, and i took ipil on 17 th if aug aftrn 1.30. last tym wen i had sex wid him i used to peroids with in nxt 8 days, but this tym i didn get any periods can u pls help, im cinfusing wethr imprgnt or not. (link)
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It sounds like you might be using the "morning after pill" as your regular birth control. This is not how it is intended to be used. You need to see a gynecologist. Planned Parenthood can supply you with birth control that you take once every day.
It will save you money because 1) the whole month's worth of pills costs less than one morning after pill and 2) it is more reliable so you will not have to consider the more expensive options like abortion or having a child. There are also options that you don't have to remember to take so often as the pill--the doctor can give you a patch you can put on your skin once a month or a shot that will protect you from pregnancy for a few years to an IUD implant that can work for an entire decade. Some of these options may even still be available to you now if you hurry.
Please consider your health; it is also less stress on your body to take a small amount of hormone daily than it is to take a large dose every time you have sex. It is also far more reliable. The morning after pill fails for 1 out of every 8 likely pregnancies, normal birth control fails from 1 out of every 50 for normal use of the pill to 1 out of every 1,000 for an IUD! Please make an effort to be seen as soon as possible.
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A few years ago I had a fling with a guy from school but it was just a fling and never came to anything special. Last year he got with an old friend of mine and they have been together ever since. Me an him are friends an bump into each other occasionally and we have chemistry with each other but recently we ended up getting rather close and things happened but now all my old feelings have come back and I do still love him but he's with her and now I'm stuck for what to do. (link)
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It's always tough to feel something more strongly than the object of your affection feels for you, but love isn't the right word, lust is. "All your 'old feelings' were just from a fling, they're not like he was a long-time relationship or an ex-husband. Your old feelings were simple attraction, those are not feelings worth hurting a friendship over.
Besides which, he's with her, and I'm sure he remembers your fling and could have made more of an effort to keep it going or could have made some move to break things off with your friend, so he's probably not reciprocating strongly. You're attracted to him, but you don't have any of the components of lasting trust and deep friendship that comprise love. Don't attempt to grow closer to him, either. If he were to act while he's dating her, it should lower his credibility in your eyes because if he feels it's ok to cheat on her, there's a good chance he'd feel the same way in a relationship with you. Besides which, friendships are more valuable than chemistry.
Chemistry is much, much more common than you think. Ask him or your friend to introduce you to nice guys. You'd be surprised how quickly you can feel those same flutters for someone else. Someone available.
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I had sex with someone I've been seeing. For the first time, I had anal sex. I was not expecting that to happen. If I knew it was coming, I would have done an enema ahead of time. He still treated me well and acted as if everything was fine afterward. But now, he's not talking to me as much. I know that if you do anal, it's going to smell like poop. Now I'm just hoping he didn't try smelling his hand or whatever.
So, do guys get turned off if their penis smells like bad after having anal sex? Or are would they be satisfied that they even had sex, etc? (link)
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So, I'm guessing you're a troll, but trolls need to know: if you're in a poo-hole, don't be surprised when it smells.
The biggest problem with the scenario you're describing was that you were not expecting that to happen. It's really kind of a big deal to have anal for the first time and you should have talked about it enough to the point that you were consenting enthusiastically and felt prepared and ready for it in whatever way you needed.
Please turn your thinking around and get in touch with how you feel and what you want and don't worry so much about whether he's adequately satisfied with how he smells after a sex act it sounds like he pressured you into. Most likely, he has something else going on that has busied him and that is the reason he isn't talking. You need to take care of you. He can worry about himself.
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Hi! I'm asking this question for a friend but do u think this is good for a 12 year old to get (link)
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I think the salon workers might have a problem with it and may not be comfortable waxing the child without parental consent, and I think that parent should stop and really ask why a 12 year old wants a Brazilian. The reasons for it are probably pretty dodgy, and I wouldn't want to allow such a young child to have those connotations attached to how she/he views his/her body even before high school.
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Hello Advicenators,
My father told me to start translating a book, so I started translating it about 3 days ago. Its a self help book, anyways, today he tells me that he plans to publish my translation and sell it as a book. I was thinking more along the lines of uploading the translated self help book online on scribd and torrent websites so that people could download it for free. Who has better karma in this case? me who wants to give away the translated self help book for free or my father Who in this case came up with the idea to translate the selfhelp book however he would like to sell it at a price?
I would appreciate some advice.
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Selling something at a reasonable/nominal cost is a way to make sure the people who receive it value it and it still serves the community. The act of selling isn't wrong if you're not gouging.
Since it's in the public domain (though you may want to check on that for sure, because copyright vests at the moment it is created, the author doesn't have to register it to keep the rights), a translation can be sold, and it does have value.
Him profiting off of your work, however, when you are volunteering for the purpose of donation, however, is wrong. That is similar to taking from a charity jar because you "had the idea" to take it. If you were doing the work to be a gift to him, then he can do with it what he wants, though it would be a little rude to sell it. If he will share the profits with you in a fair way and you'll accept them, then it's no longer a donation, and you're engaged in a joint venture. That is also fine.
The intention with which you began the work matters. However, try to get on the same page. This isn't worth creating a major rift in your relationship over. You can convince him to give it away and both of you are elevated. You can change to a joint venture and preserve your father's karma, which improves yours, too. Or you can quit and he can find someone else to do the work for him. A fight within the family isn't worth the 3 days of work you've done.
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How do I act at school to be liked and to get more friends? I am from England Uk (link)
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Be friendly to others! Think about how you like to be treated: smile warmly, give a sincere compliment, get involved in teams or clubs and help and encourage others, and also, be non-reactive. When you're nervous, it's easy to alienate people by being defensive or sarcastic. Instead, take an open, curious posture to people when they approach you. If you feel someone is picking on you, seek to understand and ask why. If it doesn't help, and it's truly malicious, seek help to stop it, you deserve to be treated with respect. Respect others and reach out to people you see hanging out alone, they're most likely looking for friends, too.
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my boyfriend made another facebook account hidden from me and the cover photo was a picture with this girl whom i do not know. i accidentally saw their pictures on july 2 2014 and i confronted him but he said that its not what i think thats why i decided to ask the girl..she said that my boyfriend was his boyfriend and she is pregnant. i ask him to choose and he said that he cannot leave the girl for the meantime since her pregnancy was quiet dangerous. he said that he was sorry and ask me to give him a chance to fix the mess he made. i ask for an explanation and he said that he met this girl on facebook march 2014 and courted her for fun. they ve been in a relationship on may 8 2014 but personally meet on june 2 and had sex. they meet again june 20 and had sex again. but now he is not sure if the baby is his thats why he is pulling away from the girl. and said that he is starting to fix the mess that he made. he also deactivated the facebook account that he temporarily made to prove to me that he wants to fix our relationship. i love him so much that i think i cannot live without him in my life. is it possible that the baby`s father is my boyfriend if they had sex on june 2 and june 20 only, and the last period of the girl is may 16-20? i have 3 things in my mind right now (1). move on and start all over again (2). give him a chance if the baby is not his because this is the first time he cheated and i think he deserve one last chance though i wouldnt give him a chance if the baby is his because our life would be complicated with the mother and his baby around (3). give him a chance and let him prove himself for a year or two that he is worth another chance. and also to test him if he can now be faithful to me. if he was able to that then i will marry him. what do you think is the best thing to do? we are in a long distance relationship. (link)
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Yes, he had sex with her during a potentially fertile period, but that's not really the issue at all.
You need to recalculate: 3 months, 2 UNPROTECTED sexual encounters (that you know of), 1 secret facebook account presenting them as a couple, WHICH he lied to you about. That's not a one-time mistake, that's a full summer of lies. It doesn't matter if he is the father of her baby; he is not what you're looking for in a spouse.
Even his apologies devalue you--he's pulling away from her because he's not sure the baby is his? First, too late. Second, that has nothing to do with valuing your relationship. He won't leave her since her pregnancy is dangerous? How supportive of her is it that he's maintaining a relationship with you? She thought he was her boyfriend, too! Your life will be complicated not just by this woman, but all the other women he decides to court on facebook in the future and have unprotected sex with and have other children and very likely STDs with them. He is not marriage material in any way if you are looking for monogamy, or even just honesty and respect.
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***I'm not sure who this question was initially sent to when I wasn't logged in, but I wanted it sent to the entire pool, so if there is a duplicate, please delete the other, wherever it landed.***
My husband travels a lot for work and is currently away for a few months. We've always talked several times a day whenever he's been gone, but 3 days ago, he said he needed a break to focus on work, but since he's still using his personal email a half dozen times a day--I know because it syncs w/ our home computer so I can see what he does, but I didn't look at it until it had been nearly 60 hours since hearing from him--I know he's not THAT busy because he's emailing plans for a big drinking/strippers party with his buddies. Originally he told me to save the date so I could go to an event that same weekend, but he's writing everyone else that no wives are allowed.
So we did have a fight, which is undoubtedly the real reason he doesn't want to talk. He claimed I "wasn't on his side," in a conflict, and it drove him crazy that I didn't think my friend was wrong.
My husband constantly asks me to look up other guys on dating sites to sleep with to make a sex tape for him, and I'll help him fantasize about it and say filthy things, but I've never actually gone looking or taken it seriously. He suddenly contacted two people on my behalf without asking me, which is really embarrassing, because we know them. One is a friend of his, who politely declined, but to teach my husband a lesson for pimping me out to his friends, I sent him a series of texts that made him think it happened for six minutes, during which time he was going crazy with jealousy and fear, so I thought it was over. Then, when I was planning on visiting my friend and his wife (the center of this conflict), my husband got the idea to propose to him he make a tape with me. So the offensive thing my friend said was he would do 1st & 2nd base, but nothing below the belt--and since he "told" my husband what would happen rather than collaborating; whereas I felt my friend & wife had their own limits, and since they were well below what my husband was requesting, he was merely asserting how far he was willing to go. Husband said the tone showed he was trying to move in and alpha-dog him, so I can't be friends with them. He's never made this kind of rule, and it would have been awkward for me anyway, so I didn't visit them.
I want to make my husband happy; I don't know what drives him to these powerful, almost obsessive fantasies of me cheating on him whenever we talk dirty, but I know for sure he doesn't want it in real life and neither do I. I actually worried that he was cheating because being cut off is so unusual. I asked about other women and he said no one could hold a candle to me, I was being insecure. I believe him with about 98% confidence, but I still feel shut out, even if another woman's not the reason.
Last time we talked, my husband threatens/jokes about being celibate, because he says that the only fix for one extreme is another. I feel like he's being unfair, but I don't know how to make him see/care that he's not treating me well when he plans juvenile parties, tells people to sleep with me, and cuts me off instead of talking it out. Also, if my friend was wrong, I'd like to be convinced so I can agree with my husband and make him feel better. (link)
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So your main concern seems to be the aggressive fantasies and the lack of communication, especially after a conflict. If you really want monogamy, you are functionally celibate while you're apart, so maybe jokes like that aren't a big deal. You can't know if it's just a threat until he's back. Also, since he's away, it's harder to build back up any lines of communication, and there's nothing you can do if he's being distant. You simply have to be strong and find other things to fill your time that fulfill you. You want to have your own life to fall back on in case anything goes wrong here. Don't check his email again, it's not going to make you feel any better, assume he's still being juvenile so long as you don't hear from him directly.
The sexual fantasies are worrisome in so far as they don't respect you, assuming you were clear that in going along with the dirty talk that you were simply fantasizing and not actually out to sleep with anyone else. Imagination is powerful, and maybe you didn't want to kill the mood by being forthright? Again, there's not a lot you can do about someone else's fantasy life. Whether your friend was right or wrong doesn't really matter, there probably wasn't an answer your friend could give other than a solid "no" to make him happy, and if that friend said no, he'd probably try someone else. Regardless, it's not good sportsmanship to cut off contact if you disagree with him. How long have you been married? This kind of communication breakdown doesn't usually lead to a long relationship. This kind of bullying isn't good for you and it won't make him appreciate you more to take it.
Take whatever steps you need to in order to make the life you're wanting with or without him, because you can't make someone respect you, but you'll have a better shot at being respected by yourself if you act as if you deserve respect.
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Here's a picture of me: http://i.imgur.com/e2uF7w6.jpg
I have a stupid haircut and i don't look good.
I have no idea what hairstyle would look good for me, but could someone tell me what hairstyle would look best with my face? Every time I've asked this, people have just made fun for how I look; I know I'm ugly, but I just want legitimate advice as to what would look good for me. (link)
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Is this how Internet culture is now that people have convinced you you're ugly because they can make anonymous rude comments? Or are you looking for people to tell you otherwise? This may not help your self-esteem, but I think it's great--right away your face shape reminded me of Hugh Laurie (House) when he was younger. Since Netflix streamed "A bit of Fry and Laurie," I've found him super cute, so the kinds of styles that look good on him would suit you as well, since you have a long, lean face. So keep it pretty close-cropped, the added height you have now exaggerates the length of your face and isn't necessary. Always think classic, if you go for a timeless look, it's less likely your kids will have something to make fun of. Here's a cut on him I find cute. http://www.bbc.co.uk/comedy/people/hugh_laurie_person_page.shtml
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I am a 25 year old female and I haven't been to a wedding since I was 13 years old and my cousin who is a preacher is getting married September 13th of this year and I don't have any idea what to wear . (link)
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A conservative dress, not too short & not too much skin on top. Low heels can go with pretty much anything. Look at the invite for clues for how formal it will be and whether a flowery cotton print, striped suit, or satiny dress is more appropriate. Use the colors and prints the bride chose as inspiration, but don't match the colors in it exactly or you may be mistaken for a bridesmaids. Obviously not white, either!
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