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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love his family to death. Since he's away at college they invite me to visit them alot and I stop to see his mom at work whenever I go to the mall. I have a problem, though- I got his Christmas gift and everything, but should I get something for his family? His mom seems like the kind of person that would get something for me, but I would feel really bad if she did and I didn't get them anything, and I bet she would vice versa. He has an older brother, a younger brother, a sister, dog, and mom and dad. They're really nice to me, but I'm lost on the dating/present etiquette here. Should I get them something, and if so, what? (link)
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You should probly get something for everything is his family (except maybe the dog lol). These presents can be "just in casers" like just in case his mom or other family members gets you something you have those back up presents to give to them. If they dont get you anything then juss casually give them something. Dont make them feel bad if they dont get you anyting. These presents can score you a bunch of brownie points with his family which is always a MAJOR plus! Happy Holidays!
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I'm a 13 grl. I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 5 months.. I really love him and I always want to be with him and he feels the same. We say we r going to get married someday.. well! I have a best friend and we've always kinda've liked each other and our friendship is growing.. my bf is going to high school next year and im going to be stuck behind for a year... he skipped a grade. but he's still my age. well! I don't know wut to do bc i want to kinda give our relationship a break when he goes to high school and get back together when i get there... but he wants to stay together.. and i dont want to break his heart or anything. please help!!!
confused girl (link)
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Well if you really feel that you want a break then do it. Just expect taht its probly gonna hurt the guys feelings. But why would you want to risk a perfectly good relationship that you have? Chances are that if you do take this break that he will go to highschool, find another gurl and might forget about you. I really dont think its a good idea but thats just me. Do wat you think is rite and will be the best for you.
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Okay here's the deal I'm a freshman in high school. I know, I know ugh freshman. Anyway this's the deal I like a guy, and he's kind of a senior. He's taller than me and we... sort of get along. We argue about almost everything, I love it. Only thing, he has a girlfriend and there's a three year age difference. Now I know some of you are going to tell me to move on and try to find someone my age, but I really like him. =(
And I don't want to tell him I like him at least not yet, I love him and his friends, and I like his girlfriend too. So if I say something then they're all going to act ackwardly around me. (link)
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You can always be just friends with this guy but still have feelings for him. Just dont let those feelings get out of hand. I really dont think its a good idea that you tell the guy how you feel. Especialy if he has a gf. You dont want to get in the middle of all that. Especially if your only a freshman. His gf could start to hate you and turn the whole school against you and thats never good. If you juss be friends with this guy soon enuff your feelings for him should die down and you will find a better guy for you. Hopefully one that isnt 3 years older than you! Good luck!
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'i'm being sexually harrassed by this guy i know, and so is every other girl in myclass except for two. His sexual harrassment is getting me in troubel with some of my teachers. It's cometothe point that i'm afarid to be alone with him because i'm afaird of what he'll do to me. He's grabbed by breast slappmy ass, rubbed on my crotch and other things. he's messedwith other girls in my class but he seems to dothst tome the most.Lately he's stop but i'm afarid he might start up and do it again. I tell him what he's doingis wrong but he doesn't care.Iused to think of himas my friend untill it all started.Now i don'tknow what to do. (link)
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You definitly need to stop hanging around him. Stay as far away from him as u possibly can. And NEVER walk alone! Always walk with one of your guy friends or close gurl friends. Guys like this are really dangerous and you need to let your parents or another adult know that he's doing this. It's wrong and a felony. If he does it again, get help as soon as you can!!! Let some one know that he might be a rappist so that he can be stopped immediatley!
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I have this guy friend that i have liked more than a friend for a while. I thought he kept dropping hints such as putting his hand around my waist, talking to me alot and gointo the movies. But when I asked him to go to homecoming with me he said i dont know. he still talks to me in the hall after that but it took a while. Should I keep flirting with him or just leave us as good friends?
~*Confused*~ (link)
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I hate when guys do this!!! Well gurls do it bak tho! lol! I think you shouldnt give up on flirting with him cuz if you like him why not give it a chance. He probly said I dont kno to you out homecoming cuz maybe he wasnt comfortable with you yet. Keep getting to know him and if he doesnt ask you out soon enuff then maybe you should move on and stay good freinds with him. Having guy friends is always a major plus! There's never any drama and their always fun to kick it with. Maybe he is JUST guy friend material.
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Ok, there is this boy I want to have sex with but I dont know what he will say, and I dont know how I should ask...I trust him, all tho me and him arent realy like best of friends or anything, I dunno, I am so comfused, what should I do and if I ask how should I ask?? (link)
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Ok first of all how do you know for shure that you want to have sex with him?? Did it juss pop in your head one day that hes the guy you wanna bang?? I think taht kinda sounds ridiculous. And if your not that great of freinds with him then how do you know you trust him. I personally think you shuld calm down on your hormones and find someone you truly love and trust to give them your everything. If you ask this guy to have sex with you it will probly creep him out. Just calm down gurl, you got a whole life ahead of you...
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Hey! Ok: so I have hundreds of pictures in my a box in my room. I take a roll at every other week. My question is: How can I display them in my room (without frames) I have some along my mirror. But what is a cool way of hahging them up? Thanks so much! (link)
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You can make a collage type thing on posterboard and display them in your room! It looks so kewl after your done and its really creative to make! Have fun with it!
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Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school! (link)
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Well if his ex says that he needs a few weeks to open up, dont rush him. That will just scare him off. JUst wait for him. And for the whole hand holding and kissing thing goes, some guys like for the girl to make the first move. Maybe after a few weeks after he opens up to you, make the first move. That will show that you really care and like him enuff and it will take all the burdens of his shoulder. If you want to make it last over christmas break, MAKE AN EFFORT TO SEE EACHOTHER!!! You guys can always go to the movies or juss chill with some friends. If you never see eachother when your not in school, then that has got to change! Make an effort to see him out of school and things will unravel from there
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a month now. We dont get to see each other that much because we go to different schools, but im going to his school next month so things will get better. Well this weekend he wants to do somthin, but its up to me to find out somewhere for us to go on our date. We went to the movies last weekend so i want to go somewhere new. So if you have any good date ideas, please help. (link)
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You should go putt-putt golfing! It shows your guy how you can really cream at putt-putting. Or if your not a golfer (depending on the weather) you should go swimming. Or if that idea doenst float your boat, double date with some people! That always breaks the ice and its fun for everyone!
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Alright, well I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday that I had been dating for 2 months and some days. And we had tried going out like 8 times before and this time it worked out for a while. Well as the relationship went on the attention he was giving me slowed down immensely and he started talking to other girls way more than me and hardly called me anymore and stuff. We talked about it for hours and he didnt change so I finally decided that I could do better. I was pretty happy when I first broke up with him. But then I listened to a song that I used to tell him was to him and tried talking to him online and that upset me and I cried a lil bit but after I stopped talking to him I was better. And he suppesdly still likes me and cares and crap. Should I try and go back out with him or just get over it considering he doesn't want to pay attention to me when he had plenty of opurtunities to change.. thanks xo (link)
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My advice is to not give him another chance. If you have given him 8 opportunities to treat you right, that is waaay more than enuff. He should have learned by now. If he still likes you then he should have treated you well when he had the chance. I say move on gurlfriend and find a better man that will give you all the attention you need and a man that you won't have to give 8 chances to until he finally figures out what he's doing wrong. Chances are if you do give him another chance, hes probly juss gonna mess up again and you dont want to get hurt again. Move on
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im thirteen and i was datin this fifteen yr old until i found out what an ass he was...he always tried to go down my pants and kiss me...so about two weeks ago i broke up wit him...i still went to his house and we r really good friends...after i broke up wit him i met his uncle who is 19...and i found that he likes me....then he called me and asked me out afta we got to kno each otha...(IM NOT GONNA DO ANYTHING WIT HIM BECAUSE I KNO THATS RAPE!!) i said yea so eva since we have been goin out...i luv him a wicked lot and he luvs me to but all my friends say i should dump him...i dont want to but my friend kayla gives the best advice and shes the main one who makes me feel like i should
>should i dump him or not?
thanx a bunch (link)
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Well first of all...do you really think that since you are only 13 dating a 19 yera old is such a good idea? If you do, then that's totally up to you. But anywayz back to your question...if you really think you love this guy and you think that this relatonship is going to last a long time then you should do whatever you want. It is your life. But your friend Kayla is just looking out for you it sounds like. And that's wat true freinds are. But if you really beleive that this guy is more importnat than your friend than stay with him. If not, then break up with him cuz its not such a good idea to be dating a guy 6 years older than you. It's not only dangerous but a little creepy. Hope I helped
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My boyfriend and I have been together for around 3 and a half months. I really like him and he says he feels the same but we never talk. He acts like all he cares about is seeing how far he can go with me. When we are not hugging or kissing, we just stand around not talking. We just never have anything to talk about. I don't want to break up with him because I really like him but our relationship is based on physical contact and no emotional support. So what should I do? (link)
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I used to have this problem. Ok what you need to do is right before you and him get into it, juss bak away and strike up a convo! It works everytime! Just ask random stuff about his life. THis way it will get him off you for a while and you will get to kno more about him. Also just tell him taht you think you guys should take it slow and not rush into things. Tell him how you are feelin. If he likes you enuff he will respect this and tru his best to give you what you want.
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On Monday I broke up with my boyfriend that I had been with for almost 9 months. Sunday would've marked 9 months. Anyways, I really love him but I think he deserves someone better. We both knew we'd end up together in the end. Well yesterday we were talking and my friend told me that he told her that he wanted to get back with me so bad but he didn't think I wanted to get back with him. So I told him that I wanted to get back with him more than anything. This was all on the net so he told me that I would have to ask him out in person, which I was planning on doing anyway. Well last night we were happy and we were talking and he said he didn't know whether or not he wanted to get back with me because when we're together we're one and he has no control over his life. I said "I get it.. I'll go" and he said bye forever. He didn't even try to stop me. I told him I was going to do something really bad and he said he wouldn't feel guilty about it. A bunch of things were said between each of us and he ended up saying he wanted to talk to me just not then and he knew we'd end up together in the end. I just don't know what to do. Should I just stop talking to him and try to forget him (impossible), or should I wait? I need help. He was my last hope and last night after we stopped talking I cut myself and OD'd. I'm sorry it's so long but someone please tell me what to do. (link)
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You may think you love this guy, but if he's hurting you to the point that you want to put your life in danger, then hunny he is soo not worth it. Especially when you told him that you were gonna do bad stuff and he didnt even try to stop you. That right there proves that all of the time you spend on him isnt worth it. You need to get bak out there and find a real guy who treats you right and wont be playing games with your mind. The worst thing a guy can do is play games with you. In the end he will figure out wat a great gurl he gave up and then you will have the opportunity to walk out of his life forever and never look bak!
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I like this guy. But my guy friend HATES him and i'm so close to going out with this guy but my guy friend says he'll never talk to me again if i go out with him. my friend is begging me to stop liking him but i like him so much! I don't want to lose my friend but i want to gain the guy i like. what should i do? (link)
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Well it seems to me that your guy friend may have more than "just friends" feelings for you. Or maybe he doesn't like the guy that you like for a reason. If so, then find out the reason. If your guy friend just hates the guy you like out of spite, then try to get them both together and get their problems solved. Sometiems that doesn't work so you need to choose between the guy that you like and your guy friend. I know it may be hard but life is all about making decisions...go with your heart...
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