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I have a boyfriend for about 3 months now. For the past 1 and 1/2 months I have realized I dont really like him anymore. Every time Im out I always check out and flirt with all the guys. The only reason I have been going out with him is because I have someone to go to the movies and someone who will spend their money on. Am I wrong? Should I break up with him and if so how would I do it?
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i believe you are treating him wrongly.. and you should break it off b.c he may end up really liking you and no one deserves that treatment! Just tell him you lost your interest but you still wanna be friends and hang out! but you reallly needa end it but yet.. agian you might wanna think about it cuz you may not like him right now.. but you might if yall stop spending all this time together you may get lonely!!!!
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There was this guy that was 2 years older than me. He was my brothers best friend. I had a huge crush on him. He would always come over and snowboard with us afterschool. One night he spent the night.While we were all watching a movie he put his arm around me in my bed. He started to play with my belly button ring. Later int the night he was feeling me up. All over my boobs and my butt. He started biting my ear.He made me really nervous. THis was all in front of my brother. I had to go to bed he came and layed down with me. He thought he heard my mom and jumped up so he knew he was doing something he shouldnt of. The next day it was like nothing happend. Was I used??
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Well it depends.. i mean maybe your brother was like man .. thats my sister you know i think i would talk to my brother.. and if not.. talk to him.. and if you really like this boy.. you got him heated once do it again =]
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Ok so I kissed this guy last night. I like him and he I think he likes me. People have told me we look cute together and they think he likes me too. I was really nervous but I did it, it was great blah blah blah. The thing is, he would much rather make-out. He was my first kiss, and I don't know if I'm ready to make-out. I've always been scared to, and I'm not sure why. I think it's because I don't exactly know step by step how to do it, and I'm scared I won't be good and i'll do something horribly wrong. I don't want to just not do it cuz im not ready. I wanna be ready and go for it, but those fears keep coming back to me. Is there anything I can do about this? This guy is way more advanced than I am but we still like each other to some extent. Any advice? (link)
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Just go for the goal.. it isnt as big of a deal as you are making it out to be!! .. just dont choke him with your tongue =] good luck you'll be fine - Katherine
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i dont know if this is under the right category.. but whatever. see i have really low self esteem. i hate that! i mean i dont like my hair.. only when its straight and that doesnt matter cause its straight like all the time.. anyway. i think im so ugly! i mean i have a great complextion and really pretty eyes.. but thats all about.. i mean can you guys help me? i wanna look prettier! i mean i just moved to a new school and i wanna make a great impression since no one knows me there. can you help me? like can you tell me what kind of make up to wear.. like what color eye liner? my eyes are blue and my complextion is like olivish.. my hair is brunette with blondish/light brownish high lights i have that side hair cut. im just not impressed!! HELP! (link)
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Girl you should totally EMAIL me or IM me and i will C0MPLETELY help you i have soo many tips that would work right with you!!!!!!! seriously please email is FCheerinchick4u9@aol.com and instant messager is C0MPARExC0NTRAST.. and from your old school.. did people think you were pretty?? and from the sound of everything you listed you sounds pretty!!.. blue eyes.. dark skin.. and brunette hair is a good mix.. and HUGE turn on for must guys!! please please please get back in touch with me i can help you tons!! - Katherine
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I know i give advice but this time i need help. i am 11 and i weigh 64 pounds and people at my school call me anorexic.. i am deff not! its so funny cause i win eating contests at my summer camp i go to! and to make it all worse i just got my braces and i dont know if you had them but for about a week its hard to chew and for me to swallow so i didnt really eat and at school for lunch people wud be like LOOK SHE ISNT EATING and they wud pressure me into eating even though i couldnt, i dont know what to do! I will Rate HIGH if you give me adivce plesase dont delte this its urgent! (link)
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0kay girl, i have braces.. and i am 14 and i wiegh 90 pounds but when i was 11 i probally wieghed less than that.. and yes your first week of braces do hurt! there just being mean and they dont understand.. but i mean you eat and everthing so dunt worrie about it its just kids being kids.. and if they werent talking about you they would be talkin about sumone esle so just dont worry about it it will blow over.. and the important thing is you know you arent aneroxic so screw that other say - Hope i am a bit of help RATE me please - thanks - katherine
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well my boyfriend is really nice. I just met him and hes really interesting and we really click. Except he seems a little too nice. Hes always telling me that he loves me and that im hot and pretty ALL the time! Then he asked me if I ever made out with anyone. I said no and he said, "oh who do u plan on making out with for the first time?" But still he really loves me and he is so nice.
Do you think hes using me? (link)
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No i dunt think he is using you b,c i mean if you havent ever mad out with any one.. and he still loves you and everything.. once he found out that .. then he knows for one that you arent FAST.. and then if he is really nice what more to ask for - Rate me Katherine
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what is scene?
all the "emo" kids say it.
"your so scene"
what exactly is it? (link)
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umm i anit really a "EM0" kid so i cant really anwser that.. but i would kinda think it would mean like " you so scene" either your noisy like you gotta be in the middle of a scene.. or like your so dramatic cuz you start stuff but i really have no IDEA.. sorry.. please keep ?'ing me - wihs i could of helped more on that one tho.. Katherine mucho love
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ok. here's the deal. I loved my boyfriend sooo much. we went out for 3 years. I went to flordia and one of my friends asked him out and he said yes and dumped me. I know...harsh..right?! well...we're still really good friends and him, my bf, and me went swimming bout a week ago and we ended up making out and I almost lost my virginity. He told me that we would go back out. The next day I saw him and his girlfriend making out. I asked him why and he said he was drunk yesturday(of course I didn't believe him) and that he didn't remember a thing. but he really was drunk cause my friend went to a bar before we went swimming and she said he was hammered. So..he said he was really sorry for what we had done and we made up and all that crap. yesturday, he said he was seriously considering goin back out with me and then his gf left and we hung out and he was laying on my lap and and holdin my hand and he kissed me (only a peck) once. Shoould I believe what he says? I really need help! PLEASE HELP! =( (link)
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i think he is kinda trying to lead you on . and use you b.c i mean jeez behind his girls back he wants you but no telling what he is telling all his friends or his girl.. but THIS girl.. DITCH her.. i mean she may be your best friend and that is hard. but you dunt TAKE your best friends boyfriend that is just wrong that is just a D0 N0T D0O .. if she did it once she will do it again! but i mean just see what happens. i swear i think he likes you.. but he's just confused i hope i helped - Katherine rate me
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Ok well at camp this summer, i had a boyfriend 3 years older then me. You know we would hold hands and stuff and kiss and everything but like everyonce in a while he would grab my boobs and my butt and i didnt really like it but i just threw it off. anyways when i got back home, guys were all calling me a slut, and theres this guy Diantrey, and now hes like all over me grabbin my slappin my ass grabing my boobs tryin to undo my bra and stuff its getting so annoyin. now its starting to spread around my neighbor hodd now people are tryin to like hook up with me say hey baby wanna come over to my hosue tonigh. anyways i've been puttin it off but now its startin to get to me. does anyone have any advice how i can stop all of this??? (link)
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this is just not good.. this happened to me before and i punched the shit outta the boys.. i would just let them know you are sick of it.. and i mean that is sexual assault so you can hit them or anything esle i mean doesnt your boyfriend get mad about this.. he should take up for you! i thinkyou just needa tell them to back the flipp up!! - rate me please - thanks hope that helps good luck - Katherine
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ok.. me and my mom get into a lot of fites.. like everyday..... my mom has a step daughter which is my half sister.. i love her so much.. but my mom hates her.....so wenever we get in fites she brings her up....... because they got into big fites just like me... but they got into one so big that my half sister ran away...... that was wen she was 18.. my mom was happy.... i finally got a hold of her and we talk so much..... im planning on going to a college near her so i can move in...... my mom always says oo your talking to her so much your turning into a brat just like her.. im so mad..... my mom always takes her problemz out on me....i hate her.. i literally do. she alwayz gets my whole family to turn up against me.... just please help me... (link)
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0MG your mom is a bitch that is just wrong and conseded of her to do sum kinda shit like that.. i mean i WOULd keep in touch with my sister or whatever too.. but i mean idk what to do about your mom.. that is just awful for her to treat you like that.. just try not to fight with her and maybe things can get better sumtime !! sorry i couldnt be a bigger help - Katherine
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okay i need advice, my best firend stephen( he is a he) and i, got in a fight and he is pissed at me and everything. well he is pissed at me bc is bro's firend put a stupied thought in is head that i used him but i didn't and now we r not talking. i called once after we got into the fight and said "sorry about this and i hope we can be firneds again" but it didn't work :[ but he also likes me more then a friend and i have a boyfriend.
sincerely,confused friend
p.s i'm a girl (link)
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i think he will get over it if yall are best friends he shouldnt just throw it away over gayness of he said she said shit its just pointless for you to worrie about it you tried to make it better.. it will blow over.. hope i helped Katherine
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ok I like this boy who is a year older than me...where neighboors and i really like him!! sometimes when my bff comes over we play soccer with him and his friend..how can I tell if he likes me? And should I ask him out? plaese help (link)
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well is he sending you any signals.. touchy feely.. flirty smiles does he call you.. or talk to you on the internet.. does he go out of his way to see you.. any thing like that could be a sign he is interested - hope that helps katherine
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ok, this house has nothing to eat at all. what are some things i could make? we have peanut butter, grape jelly, bread, (im not eating pb&j anymore!!!) and milk. everything else is rotten. and it's 11:53 so i dont think we can order pizza. and we dont have any money....help. (link)
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not trying to be mean are you saying your poor ... well i mean being poor is not your fault but rather or not you dont have many you have the internet so your parents should have enough money to buy you food!!!!
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i have wavy hair that is a little past my shoulders ..it only takes me about a half hour to straighten my hair using my straightening iron (helen of troy) my hair stays straight for a little while, but then it starts to get a little wavy afterwards ..and this happens all the time ..i dont think its cause from sweat, becuase i dont sweat alot, but idk why it does that ..my hair is also layered and the top layers NEVER stay straight for a long time ..i use hairspray in it sometimes to try to keep it straight but it dosnt seem to work ..does anybody have any advice on what i can do to keep my hair straight? thanks! i rate high (: (link)
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well i would get straighten balm.. and alot of times if you are outside.. and its HOTT .. or its humid it messes up your hair and it will get all wavy and frizy i would just get that and then just straighten your hair really good.. and maybe not redo it every day that you wanna like starighten it like if you wanna do it staright again the next day just re starighten it but dont like wash it and everything all over - hope this helps .. Katherine
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im a teenage girl who truly hates her parents to death. They've both cheated on each other, and not just once. They dont think or care about me or my careless little 9 year old brother. They have me in the middle hoping i'll pick or protect one of them, and they've said no matter who i pick, i'll still lose one of them and wont get to see them ever again, but their both literally whores. Worst thing is, i suffer from severe depression, and i cut myself, sometimes to much and sometimes to deep, i've taken 2 overdoses, but have ended up getting the pills pumped out, i might as well kill myself, but i've decided to go 2 my home country, the Dominican Republic, to do high school over there, i no i shouldn't be trying to escape my problems, but it's better than commiting suicide, wat else can i do? Can someone please help? I dont think im a freak, just misunderstood. Please write back (link)
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i think both of your parents are idiots and dicks.. if they dont see you and your lil brother suffering they are not good parents and maybe you should call social services or get them to go to counseloring as a big family or sumthing idk i dont think you should run from it or anything but you needa do sumthing.. and Cutting yourself and making your self feel bad is NOT THE ANWSEr cutting is such a bad habit that you should realli try and get help for! my mom works at a hospital, if you would like me to ask her about anything about that i can! just dont do anything stupid! find a good friend to be there for a shoulder! hope i helped - katherine
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hi.im 21 years old.studying in university.im having a hard time in my life.i want to love and to be loved.i never had a boyfriend before.guys have asked me to be their girl but i dont see the sincerity in them.in fact friendship with boys never lasted long.im just another girl for boys.no one ever treated me special.i always feel left out.but i always laugh and make jokes as if im the most happiest person on earth!give me advice what should i do? (link)
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aww you sound so unhappy .. when you say you NEVER had a boyfriend.. like never ever? well i mean if people like you or whatever maybe you should just talk to them cuz you can never fall in love unless you attempt it! hope that helps good Luck i hope you get to being REALLY happy no more faking - rate me please - katherine
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I dont kno him this guy likes me. He calls me like 4 times a week and we talk for like hours, If he likes me i dont want to hurt him cuz i dont like him that much. I have a bf and i want to tri to make this work. But this guy is talking to me alot and i might start having feelings for him. So i dont kno if this guy likes me or he might just like me as a friend. I dont want to break up w/ my bf just bc he likes me. But im not sure if he likes me.
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First off how long have you been with your boy friend. and is this person just a random guy or do you know him and he has just started calling you?
well i wouldnt break it off for my boyfriend, but if you and this phone character can carry on converstations for hours.. yall must have sum kinda vibe.. your heart will make the right decision no matter what anyone tells you =] Good Luck hope i helped love always Katherine rate me
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ok me and a really close friend of mine that are about to hook up are going to the mall together on wednesday and i noe we going to do stuff like hold hands, kiss, make out and yea. i have never had my first kiss but i am not worried because i like this guy and i am just goin to fallow his lead. but anyways he lives across the street from the mall and his parents want to meet me.. i dont know what to do.. i am scared they may not like me or if they ask me something and i answer in a way that i shouldnt?? i am only goin to talk them for 5 minutes because i am not supposed to leave the mall anyway but yea what should i do??? o yea i am 14 and he is 15.. thanks (link)
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Well i am a outgoing person.. and you may not be.. but if i were you i would just talk to them and just dont worrie about it dont be shy show you are independent and you can handle yourself.. just try and make a great impression and rub off on them! - Hope that helps - Katherine
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my boyfriend and i have had sex now. im really worried about if i get pregnant. should i tell my parents about it?
oh im 14 and hes 15 (link)
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i think you should make sure you use protection.. did you? and if you didnt take a test.. if its negative.. then i wouldnt worry about it but if it is.. then i would def. tell your parents - katherine
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get ready for a long one..please help!
ok well one day i met this girl online, jackie, she seemed cool..over time we became best friends and called eachother all the time and stuff, gave eachother b-day presents in the mail (( by the way i live in fl and she lives in Ny )) and yah well one day i scammed her favorite sn and jackie didnt know it was me..yes she has a verry good reason to dislike me!!.. so0o its been about a year and i told her..she hated me for a while, but we soon became friends. now on the othher hand, jackie has a friend named paige and she is always trying to break me and jackie up..well she finally did, paige hacked all of jackies sns and then changed the password to caroline,((that was the pw of the sn i scammed)), and made it look all like i did it but i didnt and jackie doesnt belive me, now shes leaving me nasty messages and mean calls on my phone and i didnt hack it i tryed to explain that to jackie, but i want my best friend back, please help me!! will rate HIGH
luv, x3 hannah
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Well girl i just lost my best friend... and it hurts ... but what i would do is just talk to her and wiat a lil while for her to calm down.. and if you talk to this paige character SAVE the converstation for proof!! and if friends try to get you to stop being friends with other people they anit very good friends!! if you need more advice about this you can IM me - C0MPARExC0NTRAST - Hope i helped mucho love Katherine
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