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my boyfriend and i have had sex now. im really worried about if i get pregnant. should i tell my parents about it?
oh im 14 and hes 15
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See, this is why I don't think you should be even HAVING sex. You can sit there and say you're "ready to have sex" ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL you want. But the TRUTH is, Hun.. someone isn't "ready to have sex" until they are "ready" to... SUPPORT... A... BABY... BY... THEIR.. DAMN... SELF!!!!!!!!!!!!
My advice to you is to quit having sex altogether. If you're even the SLIGHTEST bit worried about getting pregnant, then you KNOW you can not support a child on your own -- making this a BAD idea!!
God, did you even use protection????????? You must use condoms AND birth control!!!!!!! So yeeessssssssss, I think you should tell your Mother. She might say 'No way, you shouldn't even be HAVING sex', and she's ABSOLUTELY CORRECT there, but hopefully she'll realize that if you want to do it baddly enough.. you will FIND A WAY to do it. I think if you INSIST on having sex, it's best to have protection. Hopefully your Mother will feel the same way...
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i think you should make sure you use protection.. did you? and if you didnt take a test.. if its negative.. then i wouldnt worry about it but if it is.. then i would def. tell your parents - katherine
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hey, you are 14 years old, dont you think that is too young for you to have sex, think about it.
anyway i say you tell your parent about what you have done either way when you get pregant then they know that you told that you have had sexx already. Good luck and i hope i helped.send feed back.
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The time to worry about getting pregnant is BEFORE you have sex. If you think you might be pregnant they will of course have to be told. You need to be put on birth control so this isn't a worry in the future. You need to use condoms at the very least. :)
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If you're determined to continue having sex (and personally, I think you're both much too young - but that's just my opinion), you need to have SAFE sex - both to avoid getting pregnant, and to avoid the chance of catching something.
That means using condoms EVERY time. It means both of you reading the instructions on using the condoms. It wouldn't be a bad idea to go on the Pill, if your doctor or OB/GYN will prescribe it for you. Condoms are not 100% effective, so using more than one method of birth control is a good idea. But only condoms (or, I have to admit, abstinance) protect against disease as well as pregnancy.
If you're already pregnant, you should tell your parents - unless you really think that they might physically hurt you. Yes, they'll be upset and angry, but you're their daughter. They'll almost certainly get over it and help you.
And you'll need help, no matter what you decide to do about the pregnancy.
If you ARE being abused by your parents (I hope not), or if they do go overboard at the news, talk to a counsellor at school, a teacher that you trust, or some other trustworthy adult. But remember, your parents ARE very likely to be extremely upset at first. That's totally natural.
Why should you tell your parents? Because they're going to notice as the pregnancy progresses. It's better to tell them now rather than have them notice that your belly has gotten really big. There's just no way to hide that, you see.
Good luck!
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for 1, did you use protection,2,were you forced into having sex,3,do you think telling your parents about it will help, will they support you if you are pregant, well first off you need to find out if you are actully pregnent and not just you geting worried if not then there will be no reason to tell your parents unless you feel the need to tell them your having sex incase you ever do get pregnant so they will no you didnt lie to them, if it turns out you are pregnent i think you should tell them yes they will be dissapointed in you but im sure they will stand by you and whatever you choose to do thats what parents are for just go to a chemist or clinic and get a pregnancy test you need to find out for certern hope it turns out to be the answer you want good luck jess xx
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My advices to is DON’T HAVE SEX, if worried about getting pregnant; the best way to prevent is to not have sex in the first place (until you want to have a baby). Beside there are far worse things out there you can get from being sexually active (and not just STI/STD). I’m not trying to scare you but STDs / STIs can not be prevented by a pill, or any other “Protection”. Not to mention if other people find out you could be label as someone who just want sex and nothing else (and I think that is not something you don’t to be know as).
I hope this helps you. (Let me know if it did) sorry if wasn’t what you are wanting to here but as I have stated to many others, I don’t aim to please but to Enlighten.
~Teen Guru~
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My advice to you would be dont tell your parents because they will flip out.. only tell them if you feel comfortable enough and trust them like that! Remember always to use condomns, and you could always stop once in a while to check if it broke.. And dont to it too oftenn! Maybe once every 2 weeks would be good!
--emily
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