about

You may call me Brittany.

But, do not call me Britney, Britany, Brittney, or any other form of my name.

Just Brittany, is fine.




I don't like my middle name so don't ask.




I'm 16. and i guess that's pretty sweet, huh?

Yea, I thought so too!







I reside in Decatur Illinois.

it's not the most interesting place.

BUT, we make the best of it!







I love helping people!

I'm a PROUD LIFESAVER AT MY HS!

St. Teresa! =]








I'm always late.

And, I don't like school.

It's pretty much a waste of time.

But, we all have to be there.. so minus well get over it.









I like to be myself.

And I like who I am when I'm with my friends.

I L0VE MY FRiENDS!

They are the best.








I like to sing in the shower, eat french fries, and dance in the rain.

I also like hockey games, chewing on straws, painting my nails, & talking to my sister.

We have a tendancy to be best friends sometimes.







I also have a tendency to enjoy doing jumping jacks and laughing.

yea, i like to laugh.. alot.

do you like to laugh?

I like to laugh!

And I fall for people easily.

Drinking Hot Chocolate is nice too.


I like to say and do random things, it's pretty sweet.

I enjoy talking to my friends on the phone for excess amounts of time.

Oh & staying up all night talking about stupid things.


I hate people who think they're better than you.

They're not.

No matter what they think, they're not.

You're just as amazing as the next person! =]






Hmm... I like rainy days, dancing in my underwear, scary movies, the color pink, and hugs.

I like my doggie, too.


I do NOT like Fried chicken, typically my x-boyfriends, stuck up girls, and overly judgemental people.








okay. that's about it cuties!

advice

i recently moved with my mom and brother just into town. i still go to the same school and everything. we dont have alot of money, while my friends do. i know for christmas i'm not going to get very much, and i'm ok with that.. but my friends go on about alll the stuff they're getting, and i dont want to hear about it. what's a polite way to tell them to just back off and shut up?

hey sweetie * im not sure what you could tell them exactly, it just depends on how easily they get mad @ things, or upset! but then again, you don't want to feel akward or w/e because of their bragging. so if i was you i would just tell them how you feel. say something like 'listen, i don't mind you guys saying that your gonna buy each other gifts, don't get me wrong im just as excited for christmas as you are, but what gets to me, is how u brag on how much or how great everything is your getting. so if you don't mind, could you guys just maybe not talk about it as much when your around me?' and if they're good friends, i guarntee they will understand. well good luck hunny! merry x*mas!!

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My boyfriend and I are over. He broke up with me and I thought I was okay and didn't still feel for him but I do. He broke up with me because we weren't right for each other but I still love him. I need him more than anything and I can't get over him, don't tell me just to forget it and move on because I can't.

hey hunny * i kind of understand your situation, cuz i've been there before. you never really 'get over' somebody, and as much as you try to tell urself to get over it and move on you know deep down you can't and you don't want to give up, but eventually those feelings won't be as strong. and yea you won't 4get about him and what you two had, but you will learn how to live without him! if i was you, i would just call him and ask him if you two could at least be friends, because you still care about him. and if he doesn't want to just be your friend, then he isn't worth your time, space, or even the same air you breathe! and by being friends, you will still see him so you don't have to live without him completely! and you never know, maybe he could introduce you to some of his better friends, or even just listen to how you feel... if you haven't told him how you feel, you should. well i hope i helped ask me if u need *ANYTHING* else. good luck hunny! merry x*mas

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I know this isn't really a sex q, but it sorta is!

i was trying to play songs on my windows media thingy, and i cxlicked on "library" and a porn, well not exactly, but a little clip on a threesoe came up and i think it was my dad who put it on there, but i am way to scared to ask him or even tell him! please help me!

hey hunny * if i was you i wouldn't even bother. it happened by accident. you weren't snooping around or anything, so you shouldn't feel guilty or worried. just try to think that it was already there. even if it was your dad, it's his buisness, and his problem. so try no to be so concerned, and if he asks YOU about it, just tell him the truth. i mean honestly, you can ask him if you want to, but sweetie i dont see the point! u didn't want for it to happen, and u didn't mean for it to! so just 4get about it! and everything will be ok! hope i helped! merry x*mas! muahz*! brittany

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I am 14/F, maybe like two weeks ago I was hanging out with this kid that I used to like and my parents were out of town for the next three weeks! Me, my best friend and him were at his house just hanging out, he;s in 10th and I'm 8th grade.My parets are racist and he's Jamacan! A while ago me and him would hang out alot and we were best friends! But my parents were driven by to find me one day and saw me in his garage and thought I was givin him head! Never!This was last year! Now since they have left i wa shanging out with him! He came over my house wit my best friend and we started blowing kisses at each other and then pop kissed! Later when he left I talked to him on the phone for about two hours.I sneak out of my house to meet him and we started making out for an hour or more! He told me that he has liked me for a while! On halloween he dissed me infront of my friends and then came to me school and my friends asked him about me and him! He said that I was "dirty and disgusting" and he regreted makin out wit me. Then my other guy best friends told me it was because he was embarassed about making out with an 8th grader! I become really attached to him and want to cry thinking it was stupid to make out with him and then get embarassed! I need some help! Seriously

hi sweetie, forget that jerk! if he's embarassed because of you, then you don't need to waste your time on him! that is such a load of Bull! i mean, it's okay if he wants to diss you, but he shouldn't have led you on, made out with you, and then told people you were disgusting and dirty just because of his OWN insecurities! if i was you, i would go out with one of his good looking friends or something, or hang out with them more often. 1) you can make him way jealous and 2) you can get your mind off of him. i mean i can understand why he might be embarassed because of the age difference but he shouldn't have even considered spending time with you if he didn't like you or w/e. he's immature. and you should move on as soon as possible. im sure you are a smart, pretty, and awesome girl. dont let him change any of that! good luck and boys can really suck sometimes!

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How can i find peoples criminal records online.. for free? plz help i rate! i need to find out about a family members past!

hey hunny * try goodle or askjeeves.com! and type in keyword 'free criminal records online' or something along those lines and i'm sure you could find something to help you! hope i helped and good luck! *merry x*mas * x o Brittany

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My moms new boyfriend has a 13 year old daughter and she is the only one in the household that I can talk to, even though she is 3 years younger than me, she is very mature for her age. She is a great person and I talked to her about everything and we shared some great moments together. Here lately she has thrown me away, its like she doesnt want to be around me anymore. i feel like an inconvienence. I feel like there is no reason to stay here anymore, she is the one that gave me the courage to go on living! Now I want to die, just thinking that for some reason she hates me. I am a cutter and have attempted suicide several times in the past. i feel like I am a failure now and have no reason to live!

hey hunny * ok maybe she is just worried or concerned about you. maybe you put too much pressure on her, or scared her? not saying that you did, just maybe. if i was you, instead of automatically putting yourself down for it, ask her about it or ask her if she wants to go out for dinner or lunch or something and then just ask why she doesn't seem to care anymore. maybe if you address the sudden change in feelings then she will open up to you and tell you whats on her mind! well i hope i helped. you can ask me anything if you need to! good luck and dont ever feel like a failure, im sure your a great person and im sure you shouldn't worry so much! *merry x*mas * :) X o * Brittany

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plz dont delete this question i need answeres fast!! okay..today is wednesday and next wednesday im going to make an appointment to get highlights...but saturday im leaving to go to hawaii and i was wondering if i can swim with my new highlights and them not get discolored or faded?? i REALLY want to get highlights over christmas break and im busy everyday except wednesday..help!!

well, if your going to get them done at a hair salon, and they're permanent then yup! they should stay in! that is so weird, i got my hair highlighted the week before i went to hawaii too, LoL. thats cool, and mine stayed in! so the chlorine in the pool might discolor them a lil bit if they're blonde but the ocean water shouldn't change or discolor your hair! have fun on vacation hunny! and Merry Christmas! x o *Brittany

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What's the step below going out? This guy said he likes me and wants to be the step below going out, because he doesn't think "going out" at this age is a good idea. We're more than friends though, I know that.. Any ideas on what it could be?

well it sounds like you guys are what all of me and my friends call 'talking' as in you guys really like each other and it's a mutual feeling. and you couldd go out if you wanted to, but instead you guys are talking as more than just friends. so if i had to say sumthin below 'goin out' but 'more then friends' id say you 2 were talking. ;). hope i helped. and good luck w/ur boy, hunny!! Merry x*mas

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okay so im a 16 year old girl who likes a 14 year old boy, I honestly dont care what people think about it, but thats not myproblem. my problem is, i like him a lot, and hes a really friendly guy and i met him not too long ago so yeah but i cant tell if theres anything there yet, like, im friends with his sister, and ill call for his sister to talk to her, and the guy i like will pick up and talk to me too...and i asked his sister if he always does that, as in pick up the phone and talk to her friends at the same time she is, and she said, hes NEVER done that before, so i thought that was really cool, and so yeah, i went to a party at his house yesterday a christmas party and everyyyyone was there, which was a lot of fun, so we were hanging out, and i told his sister that i was gonna put my jacket in her room, so i ran upstairs and 10 girls followed me, and it was really crowded up stairs like REALLY crowded, and then adults came up too so i was like stuck, and my someone opens the guy that i likes door, and he kinda looks out and sees me and then the door closed, you hear him run and open the door and he goes "JENN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" and i was like HEYYY! and then we chilled for the ENTIRE night, we were up in his room just laughing at everything possible he was shooting his air soft gun at kids that botherd him we were just being dumb lol, then we went up to his attic thing where he has this HUGE car racing thing set up and everyone was up there, and me and him were talking and he kept on looking at me, a lot, he was just looking at me and stuff, and yeah, so thats how it was the whole night, and then at the very end we were on his trampoline and i had to go so i jumped off cuz he was talking to everyone, and he goes "JENN!" and jumps off and hugs me and then he was like "ill probably see you in a year" and im like " DUDE...SLEEPOVER REMEMBER?!" and he was like OH YEAH! and so yeah, cuz were ALL having a sleep over like 30538304 of us together so itll be a lot of fun but what my question is, is do you think there is ANYTHING there?? because i mean i know you guys dont know him or me, but hes 14 and im 16. I really like him and all and hes just a REALLY nice guy, so i dontknow if hes just REALLY nice and always happy to see me and talk to me on the phone or if he has a lil sumthin for me....oh, and he broke up with his gf 2 weeks ago and he said that he found out that 20 girls like him at his school and i was like "well are you gonna ask one of em out" and he was like " I dont kno, theres this one that i might but i dont know what the concept of it is, like i dont get it* and im like * well...if you want her to be your GF then you ask her to be your gf...if you want her to just go out on a date with you, then you just go out on a date* and he was like * I dont know, they all want me to be their bf* and i was like * well do what you wanna do :) its up to you* and he was liek * yeahh* and so yeah, he still hasnt asked her out or anything so HELP ME PLEASEEE I dont know what i should do, i really like him

hey hunny * if i was you, i would just tell him exactly how i was feeling. just tell him that you have all these feelings for him, and that you've kind of noticed that MAYBE he has a little sumthing for you too! and if he denies liking you or just tells you straight forward that he doesn't like you and that you got the idea all wrong just say 'alright, well i wanted to tell you how i was feeling, and now that i know how you feel, i can try to move on' i mean your gonna regret NEVER telling him how you feel about him, and knowing what COULD BE, then not telling him, and never really knowing how either one of you would react! so babayy, GO FOR IT! and i really like your attitude on not caring about age, and what others think.. thats the trouble w/people today, age is way over*rated! but you go girlie! and if he doesn't like you then just 4get about him and try your hardest to move on im sure ur a beautiful girl with a lot of stuff going for you, but he does seem like he likes you too! GOOD LUCK! feel freee to ask me nething if u need to. Merry X*mas~ x o *brittany

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Okay how long should u wait for a guy who says he isn't ready for a relationship because he's busy? he says he likes me!

hey hunny, DONT WAIT AT ALL! boys like that are just looking for an excuse. Trust me! i'm good at advice with boys! if he SAYS he likes you, he would have made a better effort to not be so busy, and to make time for you, but by just telling you he likes you, that doesn't mean anything except for an easy way out! so if i was you, i would tell him either to stop lying, and be straight forward about his feelings, or ask him why he's soo busy ALL the time, or what makes him not ready for a relationship? who knows, MAYBE, his excuses are good. but like i said, you shud move on. cuz a guy who isn't going to make time for you or care about your feelings, is a waste of YOUR time! so find a new boy, one whose ALL about YOU! good luck babe * ~ merry christmas ~* x o Brittany

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I know I'm in love but I don't know if my parents will except it they think we should be 15 before we date but I don't want to wait til I'm 15 to date the guy I love cuz I don't want him to go out with any one else before the 9th grade in June...What should I do obey my parents or do what's right?

-Jasmine

hey hunny * heres what i think you should do, wait. i mean, if he likes you, as much as you like him, then he will understand your position and maybe then you can approach your parents about the matter.. show them how mature you can handle yourself, and then i'm sure they would trust you to handle a relationship too. you should deffinetly talk to the boy also. maybe with his help you both could convince your parents.. like maybe you could tell your parents that you've met someone you really like, and you want to date him, but didn't want to go behind they're back, then ask if they would at least take the time to meet him, and maybe you could just bring him over to the house 4 dinner.. or out to eat with your family!! well i hope i helped if u need nething else feel free to ask me!* bye ~ and go0d luck _ Merry x*Mas _ x o *britta

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i want to lose 10 lbs in 3 months cuz on my bday i am geting money adn i want to buy clothes but i want to look cute in them i am 118 and i waer size 5 but i am not satisified.oh i am short i am like 5'3 ish.. My question for you is this: A) is that unrealistic? B) anyideas on how i could do that?

thanks a bunch

hey hunny!* ya know.. i understand ur situation about not bein 'satisfied,' b/c ive been there, and felt that way! but the first thing to lo0sing weight, is KNOWING urself. you have to want to lo0se weight for you.. not for ne body else. :). 118 pounds isnt big. but i understand what u mean.. i weigh 100, im 5'2, and sumtimes i think im fat! but neways... ill give u some advice..

A) that IS realistic! this is gonna sounds 'cheesy' but you can do NETHING you set your mind to! ;)

B) heres how to lo0se weight: you can workout.. at first you might seem to gain weight. but really, its just the excess skin turning into firm muscle. and if that doesnt suit ya.. you could always eat healthy, and RUN!! running is a GREAT source of excersize! and it may not sound fun.. but i promise.. its enjoyable!!

if you need NETHING else feel free to ask me a ?. leave one in my inbox! toodles.

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How do u know u are really ready for a boyfriend?

well, you are ready for a boyfriend, when u fall in love. or feel like you REALLY like sum1. i mean a SERIOUS relationship.. prolly doesnst start till ur in ur teens.. but i mean ur never to young to like sum1. and ur never too old. hope i helped. good luck! *brittany*

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I have an exboyfriend that I don't like-like but I do like him as a friend. I want to be his friend but every time I get around him I don't want to talk becuz the last time we did he said why did you break up with me. I ran off so I couldn't answer but I broke up w/ him bcuz I think that i was using him. i haven't had a boyfriend in a while so i wanted one real bad so i went out with him. we hugged but didn't kiss and it still didn't feel right. How do I talk to him without hurting his feelings or making him mad? (sorry its so long)

hey hunnie! just talk to him. try to be his friends. if he keeps bringin up ?'s about ur relationship.. then tell him it was in the past and things juss werent right.. or tell him the truth. but running away from it doesnt make it go away.. or make it any better. but if u address the problem.. then it will go away. sometime we have to confront people about the issues we have with them. and just DONT go out with sum1 just b/c you think it'll b fun or co0l. cuz that other person has feelings too. and u didnt accomplish ne thing by doing what u did. and personally i dont get how u can use sum1 for hugs.. but thats okay. i understand what u were trying to say. go0d luck. hope i helped. and if u need nething else.. drop one in the inbox! c ya. L0v3. brittany

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hey guys..i need help writin a poem about the season of fall. any ideas?!?! i need one asap!! please help!!

the wind whips the leaves its a co0l fall breeze. and the mid afterno0n still can freeze. the seasons changing its awfully cold. but fall is beautiful, the leaves are bold. they fall from the trees with each passing moment, and gather upon the ground, the color is magical, you can see it all around. Summer days have faded, now fall has left us JaDeD. and winter is still in the race. its coming up, its gonna win, but its runnin at a steady pace. -- haha -- thats pretty gay.. i just made it up. o well. hope i helped~!* Go0d LuCk! * x o * brittany

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ok i just got home, its halloween, sucks im in so early right? well ok my cheeks hurts, my friends and i went out, there were like 13 of us and we're just goofing off, having fun, being normal teens on halloween, egging... and some van pulls up and stops in the middle of the street, there were like a LOT of gangbangers in there and they started shotting.. i thought it was eggs and stuff and we didn't know they were aiming at us, i mean we dont even know who the fuck they were, and my friends are all dodging and i am to but im a lil slow, and i got hit and they run off. i touch my cheek and its HUGE ... and green, then i find out that i got hit by a paintball, so i put on soo much ice, i don't want my parents to see it cause they'll start bitching, and well i put cover up on when i got home. i dont want people starting roomers at school, and i need some explanations i could use. we came up with i popped a pimple, lol, i scratched my self, something bit me, ... and i need something better. its not too big but its noticeable. does anyone have any ideas i can use to get rid of it faster and what cover up is good? thanks a bunch!

ps ... by the way im 14 if that helps! =) thanks again. ill rate you!

why dont u say that when u and ur friend were running.. someone was holding a branch and they let go and it snapped on u, rite in the face. or just tell em that someone was throwing candy and u and they nailed u in the face with a frozen snickers bar. haha.. idk.. hope i helped. lemme kno if u need more... happy halloween. x o *brittany*

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I know that you can get online summaries of books all over the net, but does anyone know of a site that would allow me to download the actual book. Or at least hte first few chapters. I know those kind of site exsist. Thanks! :)
Oh, and I tried pink monkey, but for the book I am looking for, it does not have it.
:)

hey..what is the bo0k called!?! drop one in my inbox.. and i will find the story 4 ya!* its kinda confusing. x o Brittany

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I have a xanga... and I have a webcam and I want to put videos of myself on my xanga... and I know I need to host my videos somewhere.. does anyone know a free place where I can host my videos?

freewebs.com... or if ur just wantin to put up a photoalbum with pix.. try photobucket.com or mbihotspot! hope i helped.

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i have this really long closet...and im just wondering if there is any ways i can re-organize...

color code. put all ur red shirts, pants, and wut not first. then go to black. do the whole R O Y G B I V thingy.. ya know the colors of the rainbow?? LoL. and then it wont make it soo hard to find stuff.. cuz if u need a certain color.. u know JUST where to find it. nd like, organize the colors. for example, once you have all ur clothes, color coded.. lets say the reds.. u can put the long sleeve first the short sleeve next..and all the others last. hope i helped. ;o). ((i have the same issue)) LoL. toodles. x o x o Brittany


HAPPY HALLOWEEN!*

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Ok I really don't know what to do. My sister is having her boyfriend over (my sister is 17... i am 15) for halloween. We have a really nice basement with a great TV system... but its the only place with a little privacy since its secluded from my parents who are upstairs. I am having a guy friend over too. My sister invited me to hang out with her and her boyfriend but 1. I don't really like her boyfriend and 2. It's going to be really weird if my sister and her boyfriend start like making out because me and my guy friend are ONLY friends. I really don't know what to do. I know we could hang out outside but we really wanted to watch a scary movie and that is the only TV, besides the one in the family room which my parents are always in. Any suggestions?? I'll rate!

well make a compromise with ur sister! im sure she will understand. just be like, ok i really appreciate that u offered to lemme hang out with you guys, but me and my friend we dont really wanna feel obligated. so if u dont mind can we have the TV down here later on? and then u and ur guy friend cud just hang out in ur ro0m for awhile. then when ur sis and her b/f r done downstairs.. or after sum time.. u can ask her if they wud go up to her ro0m so u can watch a scary movie with ur guy! hehe. OR u cud always ask mom n dad 2 let u have sum alone time. since ur sis and her b/f r in the basement. parents were once ur age too.. im sure they will understand. soo i hope i helped. feel free to ask if this plan doesnt suit you~!* haha.. toodles. good luck! nd happy halloween!* x o Brittany

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