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I am 14/F, maybe like two weeks ago I was hanging out with this kid that I used to like and my parents were out of town for the next three weeks! Me, my best friend and him were at his house just hanging out, he;s in 10th and I'm 8th grade.My parets are racist and he's Jamacan! A while ago me and him would hang out alot and we were best friends! But my parents were driven by to find me one day and saw me in his garage and thought I was givin him head! Never!This was last year! Now since they have left i wa shanging out with him! He came over my house wit my best friend and we started blowing kisses at each other and then pop kissed! Later when he left I talked to him on the phone for about two hours.I sneak out of my house to meet him and we started making out for an hour or more! He told me that he has liked me for a while! On halloween he dissed me infront of my friends and then came to me school and my friends asked him about me and him! He said that I was "dirty and disgusting" and he regreted makin out wit me. Then my other guy best friends told me it was because he was embarassed about making out with an 8th grader! I become really attached to him and want to cry thinking it was stupid to make out with him and then get embarassed! I need some help! Seriously
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Don't worry about him. He's not worth your tears or your time. There is someone better for you out there and if he's going to act immature and talk bad about you then that's his problem. Everyone has their regrets, but the key is to move on and learn from them. Next time, make sure the guy is worth your time before you deal with him.
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Well talk to him and tell him hes a jerk that he made out with u and then regreted it and why would he do it if he suposivly didnt want to
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This guy is a real dick & he needs to get over himself. Don't cry about it hunny because he's the one that's gunna be crying when you get over him and he realizes what a great girl he lost! It's not you hunny, it's him! ~Steph~
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Your other guy best friend maybe right. He is being an asshole in front of his friends as he doesn't want to be hanging around with an 8th grader. That's not your problem, its his. He obviously really likes you but he can't be nice to you one minute and then diss you the next. You have to tell him that if he likes you then he can't ignore you when it suits him. You have to let him know that its all or nothing ie: if you are friends/more than friends then you talk at school even in front of his mates and he DOESN'T ignore you. Otherwise you don't see why you should have to put up with it. Its confusing you and upsetting you and the sooner you tell him this the sooner he will understand.
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what a jerk. ok, talk to him and just be like ok, no, i really liked u and i still do but obviously you dont like me, then be like i went through a lot of trouble to hang out with you because i thought you liked me and cuz i liked you. then just ask him why he made out with you if you were so "dirty and disgusting" i mean what a freaking jerk!! you can do SO much better than a jerk who would do that kind of stuff to you.
<3 Jen
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Don't listen to those guys. They don't know what they are giving up! Don't let it get to you. Maybe later on down the line you could talk to this guy and tell him how you feel. That is, if you are still having feelings for him. It may just be something he is going through. And I'm not trying to get you upset or anything, but he also could have been put up to this. He may have been leading you on or something, I've been through that. I would just forget about him though and move on. Don't show him that you still like him because sometimes guys tend to enjoy stuff like that...Knowing girls are crazy over them. Try to make him jealous :)!!
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FORGET HIM!
you dont need a guy like that trust me and if he was embarassed then he dont deserve u at all.
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hi sweetie, forget that jerk! if he's embarassed because of you, then you don't need to waste your time on him! that is such a load of Bull! i mean, it's okay if he wants to diss you, but he shouldn't have led you on, made out with you, and then told people you were disgusting and dirty just because of his OWN insecurities! if i was you, i would go out with one of his good looking friends or something, or hang out with them more often. 1) you can make him way jealous and 2) you can get your mind off of him. i mean i can understand why he might be embarassed because of the age difference but he shouldn't have even considered spending time with you if he didn't like you or w/e. he's immature. and you should move on as soon as possible. im sure you are a smart, pretty, and awesome girl. dont let him change any of that! good luck and boys can really suck sometimes! <3 x o Brittany * merry x*mas *
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well if hed b embarrased bout makin out wit som1 younger then him then hes just immature. it shouldnt mattr that much if ur only 2 years younger. i think he does like you so tlk to him bout it n see if hell get ova it.
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get over him hes suck a fliipin loser if he acts liek this n if he kalls n wnats 2 hang out DONT! cus tehn it is liek syain ok u can treat me like shyt but dont worry eveyrhtin will b ok! dont let him treat u like that!
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ok hes just being a dick like every other guy out there! dont let it get to u...just move on and eat icecream!
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