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theres this boy I like and he likes me and we've been talking.
I'm feel awkward about how jealous I get when he talks to other girls.
I never go up to him and complain about it because I know its not like that.
But,I've known him for a long time now and I just really love him but I hate these other girls who talk to him.
is this is big problem or what?
because I hate feeling like that.
Its another reason because I know these girls like him so I kinda just want to hit them or something hahaha like I wouldn't do that but i just feel like it.
:/.
Anything to help me stop from being like this? (link)
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jealousy is a common problem. Especially among teenagers. It doesn't mean anything is wrong, its actually quite natural. It just means that you really like him and want him to be with only you. Sure, there are limits to jealousy and some go too far, but it seems right now that you just really like this guy. Talk to him about how you feel. The only thing you can really do is tell him, because technically, if you're not going out, he really isn't doing anything wrong and doesnt' really have to change, though you do hope that he'd want to. Just talk to him casually and find out how he feels about you and about your relationship and see where it goes from there. Just give it time and things should work themselves out and don't worry about the other girls.
Hope I helped.
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im 13. i think i have endometriosis. my period hasnt gone away for 2 or 3 months now. i got pain in my lower back. and my period has gotten really heavy. i havent told anybody but my best friend. im not sure if i got it or not. but im kind of ambarrased to tell my mom and go to the doctors and stuff. im to scared. ive never thought of me as a wuss. but i dont want to be diagnosed with it cuz then i no it will never go away. help me get through this plz. all i need are some answers. (link)
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well, you really need to go to a doctor and you really need to tell your parents. I know that its scary, but it will be better in the long run. Your parents will be there to support you and your doctors will be able to help you. If you keep on waiting and not getting treated, then things will be worse for you rather than better. Its very understandable to be scared, even if you aren't normally one who is scared easily, but you really need to talk to your parents. Even have your best friend with you for support as you tell people. A strong support system is the best thing for you right now. I really hope that you are okay and that everything goes alright for you.
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16, female :)
im sooo confused and sort of...hurt..
you see there is this very adorable, sweet, athletic, everything i look for in a guy BUT he has a girlfriend. ive had a thing for him for about 6,7 months now. we hangout occassionally..but never alone..only with my cousins because there good friends with him and thats their neighbor haha. anyways before him and his girlfriend were together we would flirt NONSTOP i mean i loved it haha who wouldnt? this was in the summer and i know that we're both attracted to each other. but he doesnt know i like him. anyways..now that he has a girlfriend of about 6 months soon it makes me so sad to know he loves her and not me.. i mean shes really pretty and i didnt even think they were going to last thing long but there going strong..the thing is everytime that we hangout we still kinda flirt. when im not with him, im thinking about him..like tonight we went to his hockey game..his school played my school and after me my cousins and my friends left and then he texted me a bit after and was like hey what are you guys doing ..wanna go out? and i started smiling. so we all hungout and we went out to eat and my cousin was driving and i was like i get FRONT and hes like ahh nahhh. so we were like at the car and he was like holding me and touching me saying that i couldnt get it and then hes like alright..i'll open the door for you so he opened it for me to get in :) and same on the way home! haha but in the back seat he kept touching my hair and then he was like soo you got any guys you goin for? no boys in your life? and im like nope :( i mean my cousins had to go give their friend something so it was me and him in the car but it was kinda weird..i didnt know what to say! usually i do its weird though. but i cant go through it anymore i hate feeling so sad about him having a girlfriend. i just keep waiting for them to break up or something but then NOPE..6 months later..i can definately see something of us if they were to break up but i just dont know. i try and tell myself to get over him but i love being by him, and then i gave him a hug because i accidently "hurt" him and it was the best feeling. but i cant just give him a hug goodbye because i feel weird. asking for one?! this quote defines me the BEST .. "and even though we'll probably never be together, i refuse to let myself fall for anyone else.." and its true. no guy compares to him. what should i do? even when i dont hangout with him for like 3,4 weeks i STILL think about him and wanting to see him. i dont even know if i'll see him again this break..what do you think i should do? and telling him i like him is something im not going to do because i think he might have the hint but if he doesnt i dont wanna make things awkward. anyways im just so lost its like i like the kid but then i hate him..i wanna get over him and see him as JUST A FRIEND..but then i dont. i think hes just one of those guys that you'll always have a thing for. and the thing is that he only flirts with him i notice..like when its me and other girls and him he wont flirt with them and stuff...i just DONT KNOW?! what should i do (link)
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from your description, i'm torn two ways. It seems in one case that he may like you back, but like his girlfriend as well, or maybe even like you, but not know if you like him and is hiding behind his girlfriend, a girl who likes him. But then, i sort of get the feeling that he may see you as just a friend or even like a sister. I don't think that you can really tell him how you feel, since he is dating someone else and that isn't fair, but it isn't fair to you to sit and wait for him to become avaiable again, especially if he doesn't like you in that way. I think that you should try to get over him. I know that seems like stupid advice and pretty much impossible, but if you keep yourself busy and find other things to do. hang out with other friends, get a new hobby, make new friends, just do something that will keep your mind off of him. If things do happen and the two of them break up and you guys get together, then thats great, but i think that you should try to move on and protect yourself because it doesn't look like its going anywhere any time soon.
hope i helped!
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I feel like I dont fit in at school. Lately, Im very anti-social. Im a girl, but I hate the other girls. I think theyre so annoying. The way they laugh with their friends so loud just to get attention. And they do it in a way that guys will look over at them and think theyre hot. They wear slutty outfits and are so cliquy. And Im not in middle school, Im in high school! Where people are supposed to be more mature? What do I do about this ? I get so angry I leave the class sometimes and say I have to go to the bathroom and then I cry because Im not included and I feel less compared to them and ugly. (link)
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it sounds like you have a lot of emotion inside, and trust me, high schoolers are far from mature. I have the same problem. It seems to me like you may be excluding yourself for whatever reason. Maybe you should try just doing things with your friends and not worrying about others. A lot of girls in high school try to get attention, but honestly, a lot of guys don't like the loud and annoying ones. Try to focus on things you enjoy. Maybe sports or any sort of club. Try to make friends with similar interests and then you won't be focused on the other girls. I know that high school sucks, trust me, i'm living it and its completely hell on earth, no exaggeration, but there are a few things such as friends and fun activities that can make it more bareable.
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well me and my boyfriend have been together for three months now and we've had sex a few times. the last time we weren't planning on having sex so we didn't have a condom with us but im on the pill so i didn't think it mattered. but i had missed taking it two days before. we've continued to have sex since then but i've missed two periods. do you think im pregnant?
i daren't take a test, i jsut don't know what to tell my boyfriend if i am. (link)
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you really need to take a test, especially if you aren't normally irregular. As far as if you are, you just have to tell your boyfriend. If he really loves you and cares for you, he'll be there for you. It may seem really scary right now and especially if you're pregnant, but you will have people there for you, and you will feel better once you know and tell people.
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well i've jsut recently found out that im pregant, i took a test after i missed my last period. but me my boyfriend have had sex since then and really still want to have sex but will it harm the baby? we have a very active sex life and i dont know what to do. how can we keep our attraction to each other without sex? (link)
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no, sex will not harm the baby. Its actually good for you to have sex while pregnant. It won't hurt you one bit. Once you start getting noticeably pregnant, then you should probably tone it down considering you don't want to get hurt and you probably won't be as much in the mood for it either. Make sure and talk to your doctor just in case they have a specific opinion about your body and your body chemistry and structure. Also, still make sure to use a condom because you can actually conceive again even though you have one now, so just to be safe. Make sure you're careful on all fronts. Also, if your only attraction to each other is through sex, that isn't a very good relationship. A lasting relationship should be fine without sex as well as with. So make sure you consider that.
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ive been seeing my boyfriend now for about three months and the other night we had sex for the first time. the thing is he made me bleed. im not a virgin and it hasnt been that long since the last time i had sex. what do you think is wrong?
is it normal to randomy bleed? its not a lot but ive been bleeding for two days now, what should i do? (link)
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it could be your period, or maybe something tore. If he is...well, rather...large...then that could be why. If your body is more used to smaller sizes and now he's larger, then sometimes that happens. I say that if it isn't your period, you should go to a doctor to find out, just to make sure. Because even if you're torn, it would be nice to know and make sure that nothing is wrong.
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So, say my friends April, Vanessa and I are planning on hanging out on Friday. So, Friday night I will call Vanessa and she NEVER picks up her house phone or cell phone. Like, I'll have talked to about hanging out the day before, not made exact plans but mentioned it and she'll be like oh yeah I think I can. Then the day of it, we'll try to contact her and we won't be able to. So then we don't do anything. It's so frusterating because it ruins my night because I'll try to contact her up til the last minute and then it's too late to do anything else. It's really annoying & frusterating. What should I do? (link)
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i have the same problem with some of my friends. I think you should talk to her about it. It may be her decision not to go out, but it may be her parents. She may be thinking she can, but when she asks her parents they say no. Some parents aren't very leniant or randomly just say no, like my parents do. talk to her and see if you can find out what's really going on. Also, in the future, try making plans with multiple friends. Don't base it around her, but invite her to come along. Then, you are still able to do something and she can come or not come on her own accord and you can still have fun.
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i have ...well i used to have this "best friend" and shes always been there for me and we've been through so much together, for 3, almost 4 years you cant even imagine how much we've been through. ever since 10th grade started shes been ignoring me and acting like a complete jerk and im really sick of it. shes not treating me like she used to at all. and the problem is i cant really get away from her because some of my friends are friends with her and i wanna spend time with those friends but not with her. im just so sick of her being like this i tried talking to her and she was just like "im not treating you bad.." should i just get rid of her? what should i do?
PLEASE HELP. =[ (link)
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Things like this happen all the time in high school. Has she made any new friends who act like this? If so, that could be why. She might be going through things at home or with others. I think that you should try to talk to her and see whats going on. If she continues to push you away, just tell her that you're there for her if she needs anything and leave it hanging, just in case there really is a problem. If things don't get better, try talking to your friends about it. Talk to them about how you feel about her and see if they've noticed anything. And politely ask them if they would be okay with just you guys hanging out, without her once in a while. Make sure that you don't make it seem like you're jealous of her or anything and that you're just hurt by it. You don't want people to get the wrong impression. Besides, if she really is being this way for no reason, then she's not worth your time at all and you should make a new friend.
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I see a lot of questions on this site about SEX. I think the weirdest part for me is that the age of the girls asking is like 12 and 13! Im 15 and I havent thought about sex yet..Im just not ready. I think Im MORE mature for it. I dont do it because I dont want to become pregnant. But Im also scared of it, am I immature or more mature than these 12 year olds having sex? Someone just explain to me how they can have sex without any second thoughts. When I was 12 I was like playing with barbies...Im really confused. (link)
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well, people mature at many different levels. I'm 16 and i haven't had sex yet either. It just hasn't been right yet. I'm perfectly mature, but i know that i'm not ready for sex. Knowing you're not ready and abstaining is much more mature than just going and doing it because someone tells you to. I'm sure that some of the girls probably believe its right, but i'm sure that some others just did it because their boyfriend wanted to, or their friends were and they were feeling the pressure. If you know its not right yet, then don't do it. Make sure that you're certain before you actually do. We can't dictate how others live their lives, but i do hope that for all those out there having sex that at least its protected so that they can keep some part of their youth. I happen to be close to someone with siblings who have children and are barely 18, and a close friend of mine had a baby when she was 17, so there we go. Things happen, so people just need to be careful. I think that you just need to worry about yourself and not think about these other girls because they will do what they want to do and we can't change that.
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Well i dont know if this goes in this catagory but here i go. i have been taking ballet since i was 3 1/2 years old. i am now 13 so i have been dancing ballet for a long time. my ballet teacher said that i am now accepted to take the demi-pointe class, but two problems.
1.I take basketball twice a week and i am not allowed to quit.
2. it will cost alot of money and i dont come from a rich family.
what should i do? please help me. (link)
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well, i think that you should talk to your parents about it. If they say its okay, then you should check your basketball schedule to make sure that everything fits. if your parents can't do it because they dont' have the money or your schedule conflicts, just tell your teacher that. Say that you'd love to, but its not the right time. your teacher will understand and hopefully you'll be able to join up later, which you can talk to your teacher about.
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I think I have insomnia, I swear. I get really tired at night, but I cant fall asleep until 3 AM and I go to bed at like 10! Someone help..I dont know what to do. My mom doesnt really believe me. (link)
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that used to happen to me a lot. It has a lot to do with how you act during the day and how you eat. If you have a lot of caffinated beverages or things high in sugar late at night or late in the afternoon, that could be contributing to it. If you aren't active during the day, then that has a lot to do with it because you have extra energy. Try going for walks or runs and excercising throughout the day and try to limit your caffeine intake, especially beyond around noon. If that doesn't help, try not to have soda too late either, and if you're still having problems, talk to a doctor. It could be psychological or they could be helpful in treating you, even if its with a narcotic.
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I already wrote this one in another one but it got deleted but i like this guy named Raul and i want him to go out with me. I have already told him that i like him and i asked him to go out with me but he says he will call me but never does. And i normally cant talk to him without flirting with him. What can i do so he will say yes? (link)
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well, as much as it sucks, you can't make him say yes. He seems like he may not know what he wants, or he's a bit flustered. You never really know with some boys. I'm assuming a teenage boy right? They are the most difficult to figure out. I think that you should probably talk to him about it again and see what happens. Ask him how he feels. Try to get straight answers and dont' let him blow you off. He may have just gotten out of a relationship or he may be going through a lot in his life right now or maybe he just doesn't know how to tell you how he feels, whether he likes you or not. I think you should just flat out ask him and find out the facts because then if he does like you, then great, and if he doesn't, then you can move on to someone better.
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ok....well...i have these bumps on my breast... well on the part (i cant think of the name for it right now!) my nipple or whatever... its been there for like a year... Does anyone know what it is?? (link)
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well, since i don't really know the entire situation, but it doesn't sound very good. If its what i think it is, it may be a type of cancer. there may not be anything to worry about, but i think that just to be safe, you should get to a doctor and get checked out, just to make sure.
Good luck!
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I love clothing that is found at stores like Forever 21 and Delia's, but I don't find things such as clothes to be so essential. (Especially for the prices those stores suggest on me paying). Does anyone know of any sites that have buttons, patches and examples on how to style my own clothing? (link)
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I really wish i was artistic enough to make my own clothes, but i'm sadly not. There are many places where you can get things like Joanne's Fabrics or Michael's. Then you can get fun things at Target or Walmart as well. You'll probably get more of a variet at an actual crafting store, but those tend to be more expensive, though worth it if you wear things a lot. Also, look up crafting stores in your area. You can get fun iron on letters or patches to sew on or sequins or anything like that thats fun and cute.
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Okay, I told you guys how I had this thing for one of my friends. Well, one of my other friends, Laura, who lives down the street from me, tells me today while I'm talking to her on Instant Messenger that she likes me. So I'm over at my house freaking out because I was trying to plan out what I was gonna say to Ashley, the girl I like.
So I tell Laura that I sorta like her a little.
And I could tell she was struggling with her words. This is what we both said:
Laura:Okay... would you ever consider going out?
me: with who?
me: you?
Laura: yes
me: i guess so.. Why?
me: well, that was awkward..
laura: Uh... Meredith
me: uh, meredith what?
Laura: Meredith's helping me with what to say, but, would you go out with me?
Laura: (Sorry, clicked enter too soon..)
me: omg.. I.. I guess.
So, did I do the right thing?
I mean, Laura's been my best friend for a long long LONG time, and our moms are friends, too. I didn't want to make her mad at me, so I said yes. I really do like her, but I'm just not sure if I like her enough to go out with her.
So I have been going out with her for about an hour now. It's 8:50 here in Georgia, so you do the math.
I just want to know if I did the right thing or if I should break up with her and go for Ashley? (link)
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heres the thing, is that you can't just lead her on. It would be easier if you were just honest. If you really do like her, then go out with her and have a good time, if you don't, or if you think you like Ashley more, then you need to be honest. If you aren't honest now, things will get really bad later. Especially if you want to keep her friendship.
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Does anyone know where I can get music videos to put in my myspace or to just watch online for free with no downloads?
thanks =) (link)
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launchcast.com is a good place. You can look up videos to watch and you can rate them, or you can just play your music video station. You can rate songs that you like and skip the ones that you don't.
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I need some good date ideas that aren't totally expensive. I was thinking bowling and dinner, anything under 70 bucks a date - cause thats as much as I can afford right now..... I know, I'm cheap - but I'm getting a job soon, so that wont be too much of an issue soon enough. (link)
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take her somewhere cute. Its a bit cold right now, but if wherever you are it happens to be warm, you might take her out for a picnic in a park or at the beach or whatever is near you. Maybe at night to look at the stars, then, if she gets cold, you're there. Also, other small dates are going out for a walk or just taking her somewhere special. You dont' have to do something big to make her happy and if you do, then she's shallow and probably not worth your time. Just do something that you like and something that you think will mean something to her. Romance is definitely key, so go out dancing or have a nice dinner somewhere, outside, so you get the food yourself and everything. Even just rent a movie and watch it at home. Whatever you two can do together and have fun.
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Well i like this girl but i cant seem to get past the "friends" stage can i please get some advice preferably from a girl telling me what girls like. (link)
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well, first, have you told her how you feel? Sometimes guys don't see what girls feel because girls are a lot more subtle about things. I know that i had a problem with liking one of my friends and i thought it was pretty obvious, but he had no idea. Maybe you should just talk to her about it. See if she is interested in being more than just friends. Try being really sweet to her and compliment her. Girls love compliments. Though, whatever you do, make sure it is genuine. Theres nothing worse than fakeness just to get there because then it just looks like you're using her and trying to get something from her. Just tell her how you feel and things will fall into place.
Good luck!
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ok i know this is a weird question but does any one now what the laststring on a guitar is, i meanlike the thinest string? and if you now how to tune a guitar that could help too thanxz
~trisha~ (link)
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i believe the smallest is the "e" string. And sorry, but i don't know much about tuning guitar...i can't really play instruments other than mild piano.
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