Member Since: February 28, 2005
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Last Update: June 11, 2005
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Everytime I fight with someone I start shaking, is this normal? (link)
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Yes its normal, just your nerves getting worked up
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ok so me and my boyfriend went out for 6 months... and then things started to change. so i broke up with him. then the next day he asked me back out and i said yes. and then after like a week i broke up with him again because it was different then before and i didnt like it. and he keeps calling me when hes in tears and i dont know what to do.. if i went back out with him ide be doin it because i feel bad for him and i dont wanna hurt him. more and more people are telling me "he'll change for you... he'll be different" and its all retarted and i dont wannna go back out with him.
any suggestions on what to do next???
thanks in advance
13/f (link)
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13 is kinda young for a 6 months relationship
BUT im not here to lecture im here to give advice
Tell him how you feel -- Dont lead him on to think you still like him, tell him everytime you guys go out it changes and you hate that, maybe you two could work things out and give him another try...or you can just tell him striahgt up how you feel, no harm done
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hey.. im a 23/m... my mom and my xgirlfriend are like really close. well, we all live at a campsite and we are all really close, there's like, a bunch of friends living together, but i dont really have to explain that. well, they are really close because we've all known eachother since we were like 6, and all the older ones were like, 40. anyway. well, i really think i still like her, a little, but we broke up because i came in drunk and she got upset, and well we were gonna get engaged but it didnt work out. nd now her and my mom are really close and its bothering me a little, because now im all awkward around her, even though ive known her my whole entire life. (link)
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Well its kinda fuzzy to me...if you have aim you can im me cause i kinda need more detail..its hard to go back and forth from infor
Aim: LilPeppa18
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Hey! Im looking into seeing broadway shows, i love watching them and i was wondering if anyone had some they'd like to recomend!?
THanks a lot! (link)
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Rent: about teens who party in NY and have to come up with rent or they get kicked out, young love with G.f's and b.f's has to do with Gay people and stuff
Caberet: Berlin, Germany/ Jews before Hitler took over
Chicago: uhh lol the movie was out..dunno if you saw it
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Next year, when I'm in 9th grade, I want to join color guard. The thing is I have no experience at all.I have a good figure, but at times I'm kinda clumsy and I'm afraid I will drop the riffel or something. Also, it takes me a little bit longer to learn a routine than most people because I have never done dance or anything of the sort.
Does anyone have any suggestions that will help me be more cordinatted? (sp)Thanks!! (link)
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After awhile you get the hang of it..its hard at first but gets easier and its TUNS of fun
You can always practice with a broom or somehting lol stupid i know but if you practice throwing and catching itll be good for when you start
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heyy, you answered one of my questions before, and i really appriciated your advice. let me just spill it on the table top for you. I cut myself. I have been doing it for not too long, but i know there is no way i can stop. i have tried over and over again...lets put it this way: i know that how i cut isnt life threatning...so i wont stop. anyway, i am guessing that you cut too...its just a LITTLE bit obvious...lol (tho its not funny). Where do you cut? its so frustrating because people always see where i cut and it pisses me off when they comment about it. i hate it. i wanted to cut where it can be visible, but covered. like on my arm? idk where. i will rate you 5 no matter what you say. (link)
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Hun you could rate me a 1 and i would still give you advice
There are ways you can stop, dont tell yourself that lol yes i do cut..and im getting help for it now because my parents found out, now that i see someone i cut on my hips or on my upper arm so they cant see it
I understand how it is for people to lecture and bitch..my dad grabbed my arm when he saw it and screamed at me and alot of other people just dont get it
If you want to im me on AIM feel free
AIM: LilPeppa18
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Hey I just have a little question, everytime I am in the shower after I wash my hair and rinse it out and even when I rinse the conditioner out a lot of my hair just comes right out! Like not in huge chunks but in like a lot of strands and stuff! Is there any reason that this is happening? If anyone knows could you please help me? It usually only happens in the shower, not when it is dry! (link)
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Its probably because your moving your hair alot
And pulling out random strands -- its normal to lose 100 strands a day..yea alot i know but thats what the hair dresser told my sister when she thought she was losing her hair
If your still worried talk to a doctor
You could have nutrience deficency
(Not enough in your body)
Happenes to anorexic people...
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hi, it may seem a little early to be talking about swimming but can you people pretend it is summer?! okay i cant purchase regular bikini bottom because of the hair..down there. i have to wear shorts and i really dont want to! every time i shave it gets bloody and itchy and burny. ive tried using a fresh razor and waxing, and using baby oil...lots of shaving cream..stuff for sensitive skin, conditioner, stuff for bikini area...etc and they all seem to irritate it. and i have really sensitive skin and that makes it worse. someone said to use bikini touch but i used the other one that is not for bikini area but just like it and it hurt! someone help please! (link)
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I know how you feel:
Let the hair grow back fully
Then get a sensative skin razor BRAND NEW
Buy skintamint shaving gel and after shave gel
Or Caress lotion its good for your skin
When you shave use alot of shaving cream
BE VERY GENTLE altho your using sensative skin you still have to be careful!
Shave the way the hair grows at first to get it off -- Then if there are stubbles be careful and shave against the hair
Usually lifting one of your legs helps get the hard to reach spots
When you get out of the shower or bath tub
Dont whipe the watter off PAT it off
That way your skin wont be irritated
then apply lotion as soon as you get out and dry off
Then you have to wait for the hair to grow back so you wont get bumps and itchy
hope i helped :)
If you need anymore help you can im me
AIM: LilPeppa18
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okay well i bite my nails .. and friday night my friend is havin a birthday party & we are gonna get out nails done .. is there any way i can get my nailsz to grow? i mean there really short.. please help me !!
- ShoRt NaiLsz :-/ (link)
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They have fake nails for that hunnie
There is no way you can grow your nails by friday
but in the future there is a certian kind of stuff you can buy so when you bite your nails it taste bad
Go to your local drug store and go to where they have the nail polish and nail supplies, there bound to have somehting to help your nails be stronge, hard, and something that will keep you from biting them..
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I've read all the "how do you know you're in love" questions in the archive, and I've asked a few friends, and all the situations involve either knowing immediately or not knowing for a couple of years. My Boyfriend and I have been going out almost a month now, and I *think* I'm falling in love with him. the thing is, people keep telling me "you'll just know... love isn't rational". I'm an overly analytical person. I need evidence.
And i've never had a boyfriend before, and he's never had a girlfriend before, so we have no experience to base this on. to be honest, I'm not sure how we knew what we were doing the first time we made out. As far as background goes, we were friends for over a year, I agreed to go to his prom as a friend (my exact words were "If you're desperate, I'll go with you," to which he responded "I was going to ask you, but I didn't think you'd want to go"). whenever one of us called the other to iron out the details, we just kept talking. our first date was the friday after his prom. we both entered this completely inexperienced, and plan to wait until marriage for sex. Now, I know I love him... I don't know how. That is, am I in love? is this a mutual crush? are we just really close friends with a some lust thrown in? I want to figure this out before I bring it up with him. this is a big deal and I refuse to use the L word until I'm absolutely sure. That's why I need all the help I can get :) and maybe I'm just going about this all wrong. (link)
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Love is something people dont find the meaning for until there married -- And even after that it takes a few years -- Its hard to ask someone if youre in love because your the on in the relationship, Its kind of a feeling of missing them when you havent talked to them or seen them, knowing there the person you wanna be with, that theres no one else out there that could make you feel the exact same way -- But when you've only been with one person you question it, like how do i know if i havent been with anyone else -- Youll know if your in love or not (ok so i just said the same thing everyone else did lol) Its a great feeling of happiness, joy, and your just glad to be with them...
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I have music playing out of my PC and I have NO IDEA where it's coming from!! I'm not sure when it started because I left the PC while it was starting up. There's nothing on the toolbar, desktop or when I press ctrl alt + delete that suggests music - there's nothing that isn't normally there. It's almost like a radio station. I've checked my CD drive, media player and there are no pop ups or anything this music could be coming from. Does anyone have any idea what it is or how I could stop it?
Thanks loads!! (link)
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If you have AIM, MSN, or YAHOO it could be comming from the messenger box
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i am 18 and still a virgin! when i see people on tv having sex they make it look like it last forever.does it? i masturbate and the sensation only last about 10 seconds! so will it be like that when i have sex? (link)
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It doesnt last forever -- It will last longer then 10 seconds dont worry lol, its hard to have a REAL orgasim when you masturbate, It might not be EXACTLEY what you thought of when you have sex -- unless you plan out every detail
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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused (link)
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You have to realize there are alot of drugs and things out there now -- Some girls want guys to notice them -- And some girls mature in there mind and think of alot more then just "Lets go hand with the girls tonight and watch movies" -- Its different now, i just lost my virginity this summer and i was/am 14 (my mind wasnt like a kid i thought of more older mature things) everyones different
If you wanna know more you can im me on AIM:
LilPeppa18
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im having the worst problem..ok me n my bf well we had sex and i mean i love him with my whole entire heart and we went out for a year and hes my world..and well im not tryin to be mean at all here but he got with this extremely ugly girl thats like 5 inches taller than him..and he tells her all this stuff and they had sex on vday and shes denyin it all and i mean atleast he had enough man in him that he could tell me bout her n all this and i forgave him and now hes telln me he still loves me and he wants me back and i just never thought id ever forgive him but i have no idea what to do i mean today he came over and we messed around which i shouldnt have and his other girl has no idea ..but shes always with other guys too and he just doesnt care and he still likes her but he tells me he loves me and i mean i know its kinda like well hes just wantin some more but its just not like that and i have no clue what to do and im not easy its just that i think im so inlove with him. just i want someone elses advice on this ..im 14 female (link)
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Well you have to think of the sides here
If he could cheat on her why cant he do it to you
BUT, if your the only girls hes doing it with then you mean somehting to him because he could go off with anyother girl right? but he doesnt, maybe he still has feelings for you and hes scared that you dont feel the same way -- Talk to him about what happened, find out whats really going on in his mind about you -- Im sure you guys can hit it off again
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i suffer from Acid reflux and irritable bowel and im only 13..i take prilosec for my reflux and fiber for my irritable bowel..my question is if i eat something like pizza which i havent had pizza in almost a year..will it hurt? cause i get indigestion soo freekin bad and feels like a heartattack...i have lost about 30lbs because i hardly eat anything..and i feel kind of weak..i eat alot of meat and stuff but no greasy, spicy, or fried stuff...another question is..is it possible that i could go annerexic if i hardly eat anything? (link)
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The pizza might not have any affect at first but im sure it would still bother you because your body is used to the same kinds of food -- The reaosn you feel so weak is because your body is limited to the foods you can have -- Its not that your anorexic, because it sounds like your eating -- Anorexcia is only if you starve yourself to lose weight
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Okay well, alot of guys like me and i don't like them. My friend told me to talk to every single one of those guys and tell them that i don't like them. SO I did, well only to one of them. And I told him I didn't like him more then a friend and that was that. He said o. Sadly. Then he was like no one likes me. And i was like sure they do. And then he was like no they really don't.(I am thinking I really don't give a care.) And then he sad he was going to cut himself with a knife. I was like no please don't please and I tried to tell him not to but I think it was to late. Well, I told the friend that wanted me to talk to these guys and then I told her about that guy. She was like like I care.... and you are telling me why. I said I thought you would be happy that I talked to him and that I told him that I Didn't like him. She didn't care which I really thought she would. I don't know about her she says that I am her BFF in the whole world and I think she is mine but I really don't know if she really is. Also I am worried about this guy...what should I do?? PLease help~! (link)
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He's probably just saying that so youll be sad for him and say i like you -- Kinda saying so he can use you ot his advantage -- And for you "BBF" if she gave you the advice and didnt care then theres somethings wrong there -- A "BFF" would wanna know how it went, Seems liek she just said it to get you off her back -- When you get older youll realize some people are fake and some are real
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i went out with this really amazing girl.but then her n her best friend got into a fight,so her best friend told me that my girlfriend likes my best friend n my best friend like her,which wasnt true,but when i talked bout it 2 him he promised he wud never do sumthin like that 2 me.n then 2 months later my girlfriend says she wants 2 break up cuz she feels vulnerable.n then my asshole best friend moves in on her n now theyre goin out n r deeply in love.sum girl liked me when i was goin out with my girlfrnd but she kept her distant n didnt make a move.my best frnd was just being a bastard n seduced her n stabbed me in the bak.its been 1.5 months since we broke up but i still miss her more then nething.she was my first love n its just so hard 2 move on (link)
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Its hard to get over someone you have a connection with -- Time heals everything, she wasnt good enough for you if she would go and do a thing like that, you can do better then have a girl go for your friend, theres always payback which is a bitch -- But it would be wrong :) Do what you feel is right
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Okay there is this REALLY nice guy and I like him a lot.. and he REALLY likes me.. but then there is my ex bf who also likes me.. This new guy chris I havnt gone out with yet.. and I went out with my ex steven 6 times already and it didn't work out.. I am thinking Chris but a lot of my friends r picking Steven.. Please help me..
Chris or Steven?? (link)
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Hun if you have gone out with Steven 6 times and it hasnt worked yet -- Then why try again? Chris is a new guy, you could give him a chance, gives you a chance to start over to do things differently this tim
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my dad hits me. and i'm really afraid of him. when he comes home from work i stay in my room. but whenever i do something wrong. even when i get less than an A on a test he'll hit me and say i'm not living up to my potential. i don't know what to do. He hits my mom to and i get badly bruised from the battles. what can i do? who can i go to? and is there anyway possible that i can get out of my house and be adopted or something? help me Please. (link)
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You can go to the police, or someone at skool -- Dont be afraid to talk, your dad has no right to do that to you or your mom -- Both you and your mother can get out of there -- They will put you in a program and get you a family...you have to be open though
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My best friend is really sweet, but isn't so popular with the boys. I happen to be (not to me boastful) Anyway, when ever I tell her about my boyfriend or that a boy told me he likes me, she says "at least that guy likes you" SO I can't talk to her about guys. I don't know what to do
PLease help (link)
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Give her a make-over -- Go out have fun -- Just be girls, show her theres more to life then just guys
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