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Well I'm 12 and I'm getting like wet stains on my panty and it smells like pee but its not! I've gone through everything in puberty already and I've obviously never had sex but I do finger myself what is it! (link)
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Well if it's yellow, then it's pee. If it's pee, you aren't going to the bathroom enough...
If it's a different color, see a doctor right away. It could be serious and you won't even know it.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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What cute nickname could i give my boyfriend? (link)
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Robbie... Hmmm.... There are many nicknames for Robbie.
All I have is Robs and Rob o.
Sorry, but there isn't much of a selection.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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I was raped last year by a man who i didn't know.. i saw him around like twice but i had always told my best friend and this childs protection woman i didn't know the man..
I am Fourteen...
It is so hard i have lack of confidence.. i get stressed way too easily and i just am not worthy of anything.. i hate my body and i feel ugly on the inside and outside. I feel dead on the inside infact ... I am pretty sure i suffer with depression (like my mum) but i haven't spoken to the doctors .. for about a month i would eat and make myself sick.. I got a throat infection from doing it too much..
And i refuse a councellor because im ashamed... How do i recover? (link)
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Aww... I'm so sorry you had to experience this. And since you did, you're traumatized now, huh? It's going to be hard to recover from this because of it, but you can do it.
You shouldn't feel ashamed at all. It wasn't your fault. I do suggest seeing a counseler because it'll help you recover. You should talk to your mom about this. If she doesn't know, tell her RIGHT NOW! She should know! If she does know, talk to her about how you're ashamed (Which you shouldn't be) to see a counseler.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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I never thought I would be saying this... but I just started dating this guy 3 weeks ago and I cant stop thinking about him. I've known him for 2 years now, so I pretty much know him. This is my first real relationship and its scary. It's so weird that I miss him all the time and want to spend all day with him. We just have this connection - we get along so well. So, is it love? Is it too soon? 20-female. (link)
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I wouldn't really call it love. It's more like just missing him too much.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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hi dear!!am 20 years old female(India). one boy loves me sincerely.even i do..he is so much possessive.. he will not let me to talk with any other boys because of his possessiveness..but sometimes i hate him because of this attitude because i will not be able to talk to any other boys even though i think they are my good friend.... he always cares for my proper dressings..always he warns me to dress up neatly..i assure you i always dress up neatly..sometimes without my knowledge my shawl can move aside.. but he never forgive me for that.. always he scolds me in public that i wanted to adjust my shawl..even he has bet me once in our bus-stop before all because of this shawl matter.. i was so much hurt when i asked for the reason crying he said i bet you because your shawl was not proper and so happy that i have full rites to beat you since you are my wife like that he said...also if i put mobile in silent mode then if he is not able to contact me he will get more tension and scolds me like a hell... all these silly matters hurts me a lot.. but still he loves me he cares for me like heaven..he is in true love with me... whenever he scolds me i feel like hating him and i feel like i lost my life totally..Even though i think to leave him my heart is not allowing me..am suffering to see him lonely..because he has no friends in college...what should i do???is this kind of love important??always it ends up with a fight whenever i think to be happy with him... i cant lead a good life..he is the person who can do anything for me.he is my family friend too..am the girl always wanted to be happy..always i should feel free..i hate anyone who comple me to do something..but in this love am happening to sacrifice many things..if i change my character and sacrifice all the things for my guy,wil i be able to be happy?? if i decide to leave him,there will be no one for me who cares for me but at the same time i wanted to be happy..what should i do??please help and advice me.... (link)
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Hi!
So in my opinion, you seem like a nice girl. You shouldn't be treated like this. He can't just beat you like that. If a guy beats you, he doesn't love you - you just think he does.
A nice girl like you shouldn't be hurt.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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One day i was going to skool and i saw a guy that i liked and my friends were asking me who i liked and i said his name and most of them seem like they were serious so they went up to his table and ask him out for me and he said yes so i dated him for 2 days then his ex-girlfriend came in the relationship and i was angry forthe day he broke up with me just for a girl that was my bf and she knew that i was datin him so i got angry at her so when i hear his name around i get sad cause i miss him. So i want you answer should i still be mad at my bf? or not? :(
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You dated for 2 days. 2 days. That isn't really far in the relationship so I just suggest you forget about him. He obviously still likes his ex, which makes him a jerk.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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Okay so this guy is really showing he is intrested in me. He walks me to classes and is always telling me that im preety and stuff like that.. Im a 15year old girl and Honestly i dont want a boyfriend. Im not into the whole relationship thing.To tell you the truth it kind of scares me.. I like being single. Dont get me wrong, this guy is actually super nice and a gentleman but i dont want him to be anything more than a friend. How do i tell him im not intrested in the nicest way possible? Im a person who doesn't like hurting others so i really need help on how to tell him that im not the person that likes all that Relationship stuff. Im too young for that. Please help thanks (: (link)
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DefinedEyes has a point. When you tell him, he'll be upset for awhile but it's the best thing to do.
If he is really interested in you, he should understand. Just tell him the nicest way as you can.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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When you have no family, friends or people who you can talk to what do you do to cope?? I want to be dead, i want to say good bye to everything that I see every day. I have tried all sorts of meds and counseling and it does not help. All my life I have tried to make people happy and it is always thrown back into my face, so why try? (link)
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People who want to go suicidal end up not because they think of the good things in life. If you can't think of any, then you aren't thinking hard enough because there HAS to be at least one great moment in your life.
And if you're gone, people WILL miss you. There are people out there that love you, but you just don't see/notice them. You DO have friends, but you don't see/notice them. I don't know what you mean by you have no family, but there has to be at least one family member (Even if you don't know them). And if you find him/her, talk to them about this.
Good luck.
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im ready to quit construction and find a differant job a job that will allow non smoke breaks and a day off as in not going to work everyday so please what kind of jobs are there ps no construction jobs thank you (link)
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I agree with Flare. Make a list of jobs that you think you'll enjoy, then go look at places that have those jobs and see if they're hiring. If they are, go for the job. If not, go to more places and see if they are hiring.
And also what Flare said - Don't quit your job until you found a new one.
Good luck,
Bella
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Ok... Cut the story short. My friend used to like this boy, then she got over him, she found a new boyfriend, who she fell in love with, then she split up with him. I got really close to the boy she used to like... I think I've really fallen for him, but because my friend used to like him, it's hard and I don't know what to do. I get really jealous when he speaks to other girls or whatever... He's really protective, he always tries to make sure I'm safe, he's always telling me to go home, if I'm out on my own, or something. I was far away from home the other day and he was texting me saying "Go home, it's not safe, don't be stupid" little things like that, he always texts me every single day, but I'm confused if he likes me? My friend has started texting him again :( (link)
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I think you should tell her that you like him. Besides, she is already in love with another guy! Why shouldn't she let you like him when she's in love?
I hope I helped :) and please, let me know what happens at Cookies_Love_You560@hotmail.com because I want to know very badly!
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I lost my virginity a few days ago and it was kind of... NOT revealing as in I was just wearing my cheerleader skirt and black bra the edges were seethrough but he didn't care he tried to unclip the bra but I asked him what he was doinghe said come on in pretty sure those blobs are huge I said duck you and when downstairs should I forgive him and show him what he wants or not???
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Well if you feel uncomfortable, you shouldn't apoligize - He should. It seems like he's using you to GET to you. People really in love do that, and it only seems like he's using you.
When you get a chance, please email me at Cookies_Love_You560@hotmail.com! I'd love to know what happens next!
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Hello i am 18 and trying to plan a baby shower. Anybody had one or planned one that could help me out. Thank you in advance for any help.
P.S. the theme is princess, its a girl. (link)
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Baby Showers take a lot of work to plan. I haven't ever had a baby, but I just know (I'm 14! :) )
Babies R Us sells a lot of baby supplies and baby decorations for baby showers. I've passed through Babies R Us before and i've seen Princess themed items.
Good luck and take care
Bella xoxo
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i'm a junior in high school. i've been depressed ever since last year. i don't cut myself or any of that. i have thought about cutting once, but i never went through with it. i feel like i'm never good enough for anyone. i get let down everyday and i have a great life, but i just don't see it. There's this guy that i've liked ever since i was in 7th grade. he's a year older than me and knows i've liked him. i guess i've been depressed over him because he doesn't want me. and since he doesn't want me it makes me think that no one will ever want me. i just don't feel myself these days. i feel sad a lot and depressed. I talked to the school's counselor, but she didn't help at all. I don't want to go to therapy for my depression. Any advice? (link)
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Being depressed is completely normal. Being depressed over love is also normal.
Time will pass and you won't be so depressed anymore - trust me. Time just passes on.
Good luck and take care.
Bella xoxo
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I am trying to get over my best friend, because he has a girlfriend, so I'm going to stop talking to him for awhile until i don't care AS much as I do now..But in the meantime I recently started this altered book for him, because he really wanted me to make him one, And i've been working on it alot in hopes to finish it so he can have it by his birthday (December 10th) So i'm not sure if i should stop working on that while i'm not talking to him, because I know it will make me think of him a lot, the whole time i'm doing it. Kinda a dumb question but I'm just trying to do what's best for me I guess.
Anything helps, thank you
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Hi :)
Well if you think you'll get it done by his birthday, i'd stop on it. If you don't think it'll be done, keep working on it. I know it'll make you think about him a lot, but you won't regret it - trust me.
Good luck and take care
-Bella xoxo
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How can you tell if a guy is a Player???? (link)
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You can only tell if he dates a LOT of girls and cheats.
Good luck and take care
-Bella xoxo
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I am 12 and turning 13 in november and havent started my first period. My mom started when she was 13 and my older sister started when she was 12. I am worried that i havent started yet because i have all the symptoms
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Hello :)
My mom started her period when she was 16 - Yeah! 16, believe it or not!
You have your period when your body is ready - Your body isn't ready yet.
Good luck and take care
-Bella xoxo
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I'm a 16 year old girl in New Jersey. I went to a private all-girls school for grade 9 and 10 , because I hate myself, my body, my lack of confidence and courage. My parents want to send me to public school next year for gr 11 for they can no longer afford private. I've been thinking about committing suicide and cry myself to sleep every night for about 2 years. I hate everything about me, but my skills and love in ICT. I lack confidence, courage, and am too scared to go out in public. I've kept a lot of secrets for friends and for myself from my family, and not helping out my parents in housework has made them weak. I have 3 younger sisters and a brother who's the youngest.
As much as I hate myself and intend to commit suicide for various reasons I cant explain, I want to watch my brother grow up too. I don't want that I commit suicide, and my mother gets ill from it, and the future of my siblings be shattered. I dont want my family to hold their heads in shame after my death. They've done nothing wrong raising me all this time- it's just that I'm a coward. I have migraines and other bodily problems, I dont want to have sex, I hate my body, I dont want to have children and get married, I dont want to step out in public, I dont want to go to college; I'm just too shy and nervous. The problem here is I cant visit or call any one without my family knowing, and I'm planning to get rid of myself before grade 11 starts. I want to die and rot in hell for the bastard and sins I am and have done, but I wanna see my family and sibligs and their future as well. I dont want my death to split the family apart; I'm a horrible rolemodel and my siblings arent that good as they should be either.
I honestly dont know what to do ; I'm too big of a coward for many reasons, but I'll miss living as well. Yeah, this is awkward, but I'm done with convincing myself I can do anything good. I'm lazy, emotional, and a little more than average in beauty. What should I do? (link)
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"I intend to commit suicide"
Never. Don't ever do it. If you don't like your life, change it. See a counseler if you need to. I suggest the suicide hotline. They'll help you too.
Good luck and take care.
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13/F I am having some anger issues and i keep forgetting to control them. Every time someone gets on my nerves my blood boils and i can't stand the anger that's in me and i let it out. At school in music kids talk none stop and it gives me a headache when i ask them to stop nicely they tell me to shut up. Than i get really mad and i yell at them telling them to put a sock in it. They keep talking and irritating even more and i get made fun of after that. I get really upset at my self. Also i hit people a lot. Sometimes when i play around and or when kids make fun. I try to stop but i keep forgetting. Once i tried and i actually did stop hitting and being mad at kids in my class but it turned out to be the worst day ever! I thought i would get them to stop if i was nicer but instead i was made fun of even more and called names. It became a habit and i don't know how to stop it. So basically my question is how can i improve myself? and some tips on how to be more nicer? thank you. (please don't tell bad comments cause i don't want to hear them i know i am mean but i am trying to stop.) (link)
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I know how it is. But, there is a method you can use. Also the cure to stop cutting yourself... Ok, so put a rubber band on your wrist AT ALL TIMES. When you get mad, or yell at someone, SNAP your wrist with it. It can take out your anger. Hope I helped!
-Bella
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Should I be offended if a guy I'm interested in takes an hour to text back? :/ thanks! (link)
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Nope. Just being annoyed.
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I need help. My boyfriend loves kissing me.. he loves to make out and dry hump and stuff but im not to into that stuff.. What can I do to get used to doing it and like...make myself fell more comfortable doing that kinda stuff?? And kissing in public is a big issue for me too. Help? Please? (link)
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Tell him. Relationships are about honesty.
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