Hello! Umm...let's see. What would people want to know about me? I'm a Capricorn (lol). I love the word uber, dislike the word moist, and dancing silly in my room lip-synching the lines to the song 'Rock Lobster' into a hairbrush is a pretty cool pass-time in my eyes. :)
I like helping out giving advice. It distracts me from my owm problems ( Ha! Ha! jk)
Love hearing from you guys! Hope I help in some way or another!
E-mail: bee_pee_tee421@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: origionally from Missouri, but right now im living in Maryland
Occupation: i babysit occassionally. When it comes to taking care of kids, I put Mary Poppins to shame.
Age: 17
Member Since: July 21, 2010
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When waz ur first kiss? (link)
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I had my fist kiss when I was 14. Although that isn't neccessarily the latest, I had guys that would joke around and tease me about it. They would also tell me that I could use them to get the first kiss over with, but I declined. And I'm glad I did, cuz my first year of high school I met some one very interesting ( he was 2 years older than me, and that did pose some probs with my dad... :p). When we kissed it was nice, and in the library of all places!lol
If you want to talk some more about it or you have another question, here's my email:
bee_pee_tee421@yahoo.com
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This guy told me he likes me because i'm naive? what did he mean? (link)
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:p It's not that big of a deal, he could mean that you act very innocent often or maybe that you're still learning when it comes.. to other things. Or there could be a chance that he's saying that you aren't the smartest monkey in the barrel. If that's the case, I give him credit for atleast being polite with his word choice (but still, it's not nice)
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I'm a tomboy and none of the girls like to be friends with me and boys I like only like me as a sister?
My brother is always telling me that guys don't like tomboys. most of my friends are guys or other tomboys, they're exactly like me and i'm sort of a misfit or a person who doesn't fit in with anyone else. I have a couple of girls that are my friends. I still haven't had a first kiss yet. And I'm such a tomboy that one of the guys i like called me his sister. I don't like dress,skirts and heels. I don't feel comfortable in them. Most of the girls wear them and it always gets my guy friends attention and I don't ear that stuff. My friends tell me that they don't think i'm ugly they just think of me as a home girl because I like the same things they do and I hang with them too much and I don't dress girly. Is it bad to be such a tomboy that most girls would've dressed nicer like a dress or skirts everyday but I wear jeans and tennis shoes? And how do i know if a guy likes me? (link)
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Let me just say this: DON'T CHANGE JUST TO PLEASE OTHER PEOPLE. Stay true to yourself. I'm a pretty big tomboy myself and I'm proud of it. I have friends that make me happy and a boyfriend who is really great. He likes me just the way I am. Stick it out, girl, cuz if you act like yourself, things will fall into place. It might take time but stay patient.
If you ever want to talk, here's my email:
bee_pee_tee421@yahoo.com
c ya and good luck!
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I have been with my boyfriend around 2 months now, we were friends for about 5 months before that. I always thought he was attractive etc but I didn't know he liked me and vice versa. He is the sweetest guy ever and he totally understands me. He says he can imagine us being together forever, and I am not naive but I feel it too. He's like the other half of me, any way the problem is the first few weeks we started dating I got butterflies around him; but I don't anymore. I haven't any less feelings for him - if anything my feelings have grown so much more. With my previous boyfriend I always got butterflies, but I think it's because I liked him more than he liked me. Do you think it's anything to think about or do you think it's normal? My friend said it's just because I am so comfortable around him and I never was with my previous boyfriend. (link)
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I think it's great that you have butterflies! It's nothing to worry about, in fact it's something to celebrate! Older relationships crave that kind of thing and you should be thrilled that you have that with him. The only thing you should worry about is if this feeling is making you too nervous to talk to him or it makes you act differently than you did before. Make sure to be yourself and not to worry! Good luck with your blossoming relationship (lol)! :)
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Hi all :) I'll make this as short and simple as I can to conserve your time and patience.
I have never had sex and don't intend to engage in doing so for a good while. In the meantime, my boyfriend has fingered me many many times, not to be rude or anything. By this time, my hymen is already broken, no big deal. Yet I still bleed, kind of excessively. And it's really annoying.
Now I'm not sure, and I apologize if I sound ignorant, but I think I might have a hunch at why this is happening? I thought perhaps because the uterine lining is built with blood to nest a baby or shed during menstruation, that's he's possibly irratating the lining and causing a large amount of blood from the lining to end up on his fingers and in my underwear? Not too sure.
If you know anything about why I keep bleeding, please inform me.
P.S.: even if his nails are short, this keeps happening and I can't think of anything else of why this would keep occurring.
Thank you so much (link)
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I'm not sure why you are bleeding exactly, but I can tell you that it is not him irritating the uterine lining. The uterine lining is furthur in your body. See, there is the area where the penis (or finger, in your case)is inserted, then at the very end there is a tiny opening. Inside there is where the lining is and the egg preparing to be fertilized. I will do some research, but for now atleast you can cross that off your list.
Okay, so I've done some research. How long has it been since he broke your hymen? Because the bleeding can continue for 1-7 days (even more in some cases). It all depends on the person's body. As for it happening during the act, your vagina secretes a thicker whitish liquid ( its supposed to help when it comes to lubrication for things to be inserted more easily). I'm guessing that when your body start to let that out, some blood from the same area is coming with it. Hope this helps!
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Some friends from school told me that having sex will make your boobs grow. I have really small boobs and I hate it so I thought I would give it a try. I'm not sure I'm doing it right though. I just dunno but I want my boobs to be pretty big.
I had sex with 7 boys from my grade at school but nothing really changed for me and my boobs were still small. I was talking to my dad's friend on Facebook and he said he thought sex made breasts grow only if the girl had sex with a guy older than her. So, we ended up having sex, obv.
It just seems like this is taking foreverrr and I just want my barely A cups to go to like a DD. I know that's a big leap but it's what I WANT. After having sex w/my dad's friend I think they seem to be a little more full but not much.
I went on and posted some match ads online and there is 4 guys who say they want to do it with me so my boobs will grow. My first thinking is that if I do it with them all at once then my boobs will grow faster all at once. They're all up for it but I want to know if it will still work that way. I don't want to like have sex with them all together and then my boobs don't grow at all. Does anyone know if you have sex with more than 1 guy at a time if your boobs will still grow? They're all a lot older than me so that shouldn't be a prob.
((And before you start answering don't worry about me getting pregnant. I know the guy has to cum in you for this to work but I haven't started my period yet so I can't get pregnant anyways.)) (link)
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wow, i have to agree with sweetascandy7634. If this question is real, I grieve for you and I hope that you have better judgement in the future because, your father's friend took complete control of you and it's very sad and disheartening. Also, you might want to have yourself checked for an STD, since there is a great chance that youve gotten one and maybe even gave one out along the way. I think you have acted completely ignorant and i hope you gain some common sense.
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i am a 16 year old female. he is a 16 year old male. okay so on sunday night my boyfriends mom made all these new rules and stuff and i couldn't handle it so i broke up with him. (i regret it and i did not mean it. i said it bc i was pissed.) he went insane that night and i found out the next morning he spent the night in the hospital because he threatened to commit suicide. we hung out that day for 2 hours to talk bout the break up. he said he did not mean it when he said he wanted to commit suicide. he asked his mother if we could hang out longer and she said no. he went insane again and went back to the hospital. i havent heard from his since. i called his cell 3 times yesterday and on the third call, his mom answered. this is our convo.
Me: hey is ****** there?
her: no he is at the hospital, you can't visit him
me: okay well can u have him call me back when he gets out:
her: no, you guys aren't allowed to talk anymore or see each other.
me: ok.
there was a little bit more. but yeah. so now we are not alllowed to see each other or talk ever again. it's hard because he completes me. i am not sure if this is a test to see if our love is really this strong. but i am scared that he is gonna come back and not have any feelings for me anymore. so i don't know what to do at this point. She is controlling him and has the whole relationship. I have talked to a lot of people and all i can do is blame the mother. She makes him uncomfortable which makes me get uncomfortable which then makes him freak out. i really dont know what to do.. please help. i need imput and advice (link)
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1st off, let me just say that that really sux. I'm sorry things aren't going too well. You might want to look at this story from some one else's shoes, like the mother's for instance. I'm not sure what her new rules were, but I'm sure she meant the best when she began to enforce them. And when you broke up with him because of her actions I'm sure she took it as badly as a slap in the face. Now that things are over between you and him, she probably wants to protect him from the events that occurred after the break-up. She's just trying to keep her child's safety in mind, although it seems to me like she's making things worse in the process. I think your best chance of making a happy ending for this story is trying to reason with his mom. Try to be as nice as possible, or else she may not waste her time talking to you. There may be alot of restrictions and even more new rules if she lets you see him, but you might not want to compain this time around...
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is cuddling with a guy friend considered cheating? no kissing, no grabbing or anything just laying next to someone basically and hugging. (link)
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I would feel a little hurt by the action, but not everyone would. Just to be safe I would check out how your bf feels about it and set boundaries that you both are comfortabe with. You may need to compromise but that is what a relationship is all about. :)
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Alright, hi, I am 15, female. My bedroom is very.. pink! I liked it when I was little but now I want to repaint it and make it more teenager-y and chic. I am artsy, I love music, my friends call me a non cutting emo, haha. But I want to paint my walls like a reddish or a tan and put a really chic maybe brown lace border around the walls but I don't know how to decorate. I have alot of my artwork framed and hung up, but I just want more, family pictures, cool trinkets you can think of, anything will help. Thanks! (link)
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You're artsy? Well, i kinda consider myself an artsy person and when i remodeled my room a few months ago, instead of buying some throw pillows, i made my own out of some ribbon and cloth. I interlaced the ribbons for one side of the pillow and cut out a piece of cloth, snipped the edges about one and a half inches in, making enough for the amount of rows of ribbon i had. Then i tied the ribbon and cloth together.
But, i also have a huge comb and paperclip hanging on my wall as decoration. So what do i know? :)
Heres a website to help since im...not the best at giving directions so this will help you out:
http://familyfun.go.com/crafts/ribbon-pillow-785013/
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Is 131 a normal weight for a fifteen year old girl? If it isn't, please tell me the target weight I should get down to, I'm pretty short, around 5'3 and I come from a family of biiiig bones. Haha. Thanks! (link)
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Don't worry, you're perfectly fine! Actually for a person of your height, your target weight is around 139 pounds so nothing is wrong with what you weigh.
If you have any other questions or you just want to chat you can hit me up with this email:
bee_pee_tee421@yahoo.com
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if i gave my boyfriend a hand job and he got sperm on his hand and then fingered me could i get pregnant? (link)
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yes, it's possible and not as unlikely as you might think. Sperm can live up to an hour outside the body and about six hours inside your vagina. So, you might want to check it out.
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how can i sexually,satisfy my girl when she is on her period
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Have u tried yet? If you have, you should know that it's sorta gross. But if that's what you want, try massaging her, kissing her neck, ect. Things don't have to be completely sexual. I'm sure she'll be happy that you're paying attention to her and trying to make her happy.
Cuddling is always good :) *hint, hint*
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my boyfriend and i just got back togeather agian,and i just found out that he was dating me and another girl,and both of us did not know what to do,so i am wondering what should i do,because every time i jump him he keeps begging to be back,and when i said NO!!!! he fliped out and hit the wall and said that next time it would not be the wall but instead my car. (link)
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Wow, that sounds pretty scary. I think that things between you and your (ex?) boyfriend are beyond repair and you are ready to move on. Obviously he's not listening to your requests and is threatening to do damage to your belongings. I would try one more time to end things with him, trying to be firm with him, but also understanding. If that does not work, I believe that you should really get a restraining order on the guy. I know that may not be what you want, but there doesn't seem to be much choice by what you've told me.
This website will help you if you decide that the restraining order is the best way to go:http://www.wisegeek.com/how-can-i-get-a-restraining-order-against-someone.htm
Remember to keep your safety in mind. He's hit the wall and he's threatened to damage your car. What's next? It could possibly be harm to you.
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