my boyfriend and i just got back togeather agian,and i just found out that he was dating me and another girl,and both of us did not know what to do,so i am wondering what should i do,because every time i jump him he keeps begging to be back,and when i said NO!!!! he fliped out and hit the wall and said that next time it would not be the wall but instead my car.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? BeePeeTee answered Wednesday July 21 2010, 1:06 pm: Wow, that sounds pretty scary. I think that things between you and your (ex?) boyfriend are beyond repair and you are ready to move on. Obviously he's not listening to your requests and is threatening to do damage to your belongings. I would try one more time to end things with him, trying to be firm with him, but also understanding. If that does not work, I believe that you should really get a restraining order on the guy. I know that may not be what you want, but there doesn't seem to be much choice by what you've told me.
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Remember to keep your safety in mind. He's hit the wall and he's threatened to damage your car. What's next? It could possibly be harm to you. [ BeePeeTee's advice column | Ask BeePeeTee A Question ]
tobinator answered Thursday July 15 2010, 6:43 am: Dump him. He doesn't care for you as a person. Tell him you want nothing to do with him. If he threatens to or does hit you or any of your things, call the cops. End. Of. Story. [ tobinator's advice column | Ask tobinator A Question ]
vicious27 answered Thursday July 15 2010, 2:58 am: I've been in this situation before so i know where you're coming from. You either need to tell him to choose one of the two of you or just break-up with him and in my situation he chose me but he later broke up with me well cheated on me. I hope this helps =) [ vicious27's advice column | Ask vicious27 A Question ]
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