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My name is Hailey. I love giving advice to people ! Because it makes me feel wanted in this world, and that people trust me and my oppionions. And im not exactly the best speller. So sorry if I spell things wrong. Spelling isn't my strong point. I will try my best to give you advice your happy with. I will always be 100% truthful ! No matter what it's about. You can drop one in my inbox at anytime ! & I will answer as soon as possible ! I appreciate anyone who has me as a favorite columnist. And it makes me feel really special like I give good advice. & Id really appreciate it if you rated me so I know how my advice was !
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I am looking for a breed of dog (mixed is fine) that is especially good for children, and it would be great if it did not shed much. Thanks for any suggestions!
I have a what you call a bichon fris (SPELLiNG). It doesnt shed at all. & Personally I think a boy dog is better expecially for childern. Because the girls bite more then guys. All though the boy dogs bite to. But Girls bite more. My dogs a guy & he never bites. There white & they sort of look like a poodle but not really.
heres a few pictures of them (its not mine) :
http://www.chiots-france.com/Trouver-votre-chiot/La-Grande-Equinoxe-Bichon-Frisée-1.jpg
http://www.binis.hr/g05_bichon_puppies_s.jpg
http://www.bichon.selkirkrex-vom-zwergengarten.de/images/allegra/bichon-fris%E8_allegra_50.jpg
& basically there hair is just curly & not fluffy like that if you dont brush it alot.
Hope I helped
I was really late to catch up on the trend, which is probably like a year old, that's why I begged my mom to let me buy a miniskirt. B4 the whole legings thing my mom would never let me look at a minskirt when were shopping. I ended up buying a mini + leggings and was planning to wear it on the 1st day of school. Is this a good idea or would i end up looking like the fashion disaster i can always be when i try to go for a look diffrnt than the usual [jeans + tee]? What i fear the most is what evry 1 else is gonna say. School starts in 2 wks and i cant make up my mind. The 1st day is one of the only days i get to look especially nice. The outfit i was planning to wear looks nice w/ or w/o, IMO. I have to wear the mini and leggings to school or my mom would deem me as wasting her money. This isnt the 1st time i would look at something and say "Oh,that's cute" and buy it and wear it to school, to then realize its not that cute of a shirt or whatever and never wear it again. Like last year when i bought a bright pink cropped hoodie/sweatshirt... Lets just say that color pink was definetly not my color.
Anyways, what should i do?
Thats what im gonna be wearing on the first day of school. Unless its to hot I have a backup outfit. But honestly that trend hasnt gone out. & Belive me you`ll look cute. Like I bought a pair of brown ones & im wearing a jean miniskirt with some brown in the back & im wearing a brown tanktop with brown flip flops. Dont wear to much different colors because then it`ll look kinda stupid. So whatever color leggins you bought I would wear the same color shirt. A little off isnt horrible or anything. But belive me if you match it nicely togther you`ll look cute. Hope I helped
hello i just wanted to ask you a queston and i'll explain later.
everytime i ask a public queston it always seem's to get 1 or 2 answers and or get deleted. somtimes i do ask long and detailed questons but i see other people do it all the time and they get more answers then me. and it seems like the simple questons i ask get deleted. i always give good advice and pretty much always get 5s i just always have trouble with questons. could you maybe explain to me maybe why no one seems to answer my questons or they keep getting deleted. thanks, bigboy13
Okay well im not exactly sure why your questions keep getting deleted but maybe your questions are getting deleted because you can some how look them up. My questions I ask always go through. Sometimes people dont feel like answering a question because they dont know the answer or they just think its really stupid. Im not exactly sure though because im not a moderator. But I hope this helped you a little
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I had this one REALLY close guy friend, Jason, who I had been friends with for three years. Recently we told eachother that we have stronger feelings than 'just friends.'
Since then nothing had happened between us and I was okay with that but I REALLY wanted to kiss him. So last night we were at a party and when he arrived I kissed him. It was shortlived since it was just a 'hello' kiss, but it was our first (and last?).
Five minutes before this I told one of my best friends, Ann, that I liked Jason a lot. Ann has a boyfriend.
Just after I kissed Jason, so did Ann. We had been drinking (Jason hadn't) so I thought it was kind of funny and she only kissed him on the cheek.
About thirty minutes later Ann, who was NOT drunk, said 'Jason, I want to kiss you' so she kissed him on the cheek again. As she was pulling away Jason started to make out with her and they frenched for about 30 seconds. I was shocked but blew it off. I was SO turned off by what Jason had done and he looked at me right after he did it. I don't know what was going through his head.
I quickly left the room and tried to forget about what I just saw. I was shocked that Jason would do that.. and shocked that Ann would too since she knew I liked him.
Once it came time to go back to my house (Ann was sleeping over), Ann and I were saying bye to everyone. Then Ann went up to Jason and they french kissed and it was obvious that he likes her now. I couldn't even look at him, nevermind say bye, I was disgusted.
Should I ever talk to Jason or Ann again? Right now I am telling myself not to be upset (since that never helps anything) but I need to make a decision. I don't know if I should even continue to be friends with Jason. Plus, Ann cheated on her boyfriend by doing that but Jason doesn't know she has a boyfriend.
If I stop being friends with Jason I will probably lose 20 friends since he is always hanging out with them and I won't want to be there if he is. And he is usually the one to invite me to be with them. I have a lot of other friends since I'm one of the 'popular' girls but I really like being with them (I get straight A's but that gets boring so I like to party and drink with them.)
I am thinking of forgetting of what Jason did and if I run into him at another party I could be like Ann and make out with him and then he could like me again.
Sorry that this is SO long, advice is greatly appreciated so thank you so, so, SO much. :)
Ok so honestly you should NEVER let a guy come between your's & ann's friendship cause its girls before guys theres no questions asked. But I think you really should talk to her about this & tell her how she hurt you by making out with him & expecially RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU & she knew you liked him. I mean if she was drunk completely different but since she wasnt she obviously knew what she was doing & could control it. & Remind her about her boyfriend. Cause cheating is never okay. No matter what the situation. If she truly liked her boyfriend .. she wouldnt wanna be making out with some other guy. She'd only wanna kiss her boyfriend & only her boyfriend. But dont be like her & just make out with him to get him to like you again. Cause honestly thats not a way to make someone like you. & When it comes to Jason talk to him about it. Ask him if he truly likes Ann & ask him why he does. Cause if he doesnt have a good enough reason he truly doesnt like her. He may just think she likes him cause she made the move on him since Jason doesnt know Ann has a boyfriend. So if he doesnt have a good reason .. he probally just likes her because he thinks she likes him. & Also maybe you should tell Jason that she has a boyfriend. But maybe Jason only wanted it to look like he liked her, but he really likes you. Boys are werid like that. Well I hope I helped ; need anything else drop one in my inbox
13/f.
Im getting contacts in a couple days (monday) and i was just wondering if anyone can tell me anything about them. IS it hard to put them in? Can they actually like slip down in your eye where you cant get them out? how long can you wear them? What will I have to do when i go to get them? Any tips or anything would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. :)
Ok contacts are pretty complicated when you first get them but most things are. I just got them last november & it took me forever to get a hang of it. But everyones different. If you arent a fast blinker or whatever you wanna call it like you can touch your eye with out blinking chances are you'll get a hang of it quickly. But when you go into the eye doctor they will show you how to do it properly. I have the ones they show on TV & there pretty good. So chances are you may get them to. & Basically you can wear them all day long, but you have to take it out when you go to sleep cause then your eyes will hurt & turn red. (belive me I fell asleep outside once with them in & my eyes were red for a while). They'll give you solution & probally eye drops to. So when you take them out make sure you clean them the way they show you & then put it in the solution in the case. & Before you put them in the next day clean them again. Basically that just kills the germs or something off them while its the case. & Of course make sure you wash your hands before you touch them because you dont wanna touch your eyes with dirty hands. Hope I helped
well i really like these 2 guys but the one guy broke up with me and his life is really messed up but hes willing to take me back and the other guy is soo nice and sweet but i like the other guy more. im a 13 year old female.
Ok the best thing really is to follow your heart. Your hearts telling you that you like the guy who broke up with you more. But you also like the other guy who is a nice sweet guy. But you should listen to your heart & go with the guy you like more. Because you will be alot happier with the guy who you want to be with. Hope I helped
OK, this isn't a "random weirdo" question, it just doesn't really fall under any other category. Any way, on with the question:
Is it normal, for a girl, to shave around the crotch? I don't mean shaving all of it, obviously. Just enough so that hair doesn't stick out when I wear a bathing suit?
Yeah its completely normal. Alot of girls do it. You wouldnt want hair sticking out thats kind of gross. & Even some people shave all of it. But just so it doesnt stick out is completely fine. Hope I helped
If ive only had mine for like 4,5 or 6 months and im 13 yrs old ..how many days should my period last.?
Every girl's is different, because everybody's body reacts differently. But it usually will last from 5 days to about a week. But it could last less then that sometimes & its completely normal. Hope I helped
okay . well my best friend is going out with this kid that i really like and i am going out with his friend & i dont really like his friend at all . and i just started going out with him yesterday , i like him like as a little brother not a boyfriend but idk. i dont want anyone mad at me if i break up with him . what should i do
Honestly you should NEVER go out with someone who you dont like in that way. Because its mean cause the person likes you but you dont like them. I mean its understandable you dont wanna be alone but you shouldnt go out with someone you dont like in that way. I think you should break up with him, no matter if anyone gets mad at you. Because its not fair on his part that he likes you, but you dont feel the same. So break up with him & hopefully you guys can stay friends. You can always say to him "I think were better off friends because I think of you more as a little brother then a boyfriend" or something like that. Well hope I helped
I saw this bulletin posted on Myspace titled "do you like polos???" and it said, "Hey! I have a friend who works at Lacoste and she just told me about a new promotion they're having!!! They're trying to gain popularity with the MySpace audience so they're giving away two free polos to MySpace users at their site! Just fill out some quick stuff... and enjoy their famous polos!" Is this REAL or do you have to actually buy the polos? Is there a catch and is it safe to do?
Yeah ive seen one of those bullitins tonight when I was looking on MySpace. It's deff. a scam. Because they'll never just give away 2 polos for free & theres no way of even getting them. Thats to fake. & Chances are its a virus. Some of those bulltins are just vires. Hope I helped
Alright, so you know how there are things you spray in your hair before you straighten it to protect it from the heat? Like, the products that come in spray bottles (VO5 miracle mist, tresemme heat tamer, etc.) Well, the directions say that you should spray it in your hair before you straighten it; but my question is, should I let the spray dry? Because the directions say nothing about letting product dry and then straightening it, but when I don't let it dry and I straighten my hair, it makes a sizzling sound and it gets all smoky and stuff and I've heard before that you're not supposed to straighten your hair while it's wet or it will get fried. So yeah, is straightening my hair while the product is in okay, or should I just let it dry? Thanks.
I have something like that. You spray it after you have blow dried your hair. But you really shouldnt straighten your hair when its wet cause it cause more damange then it would if your hair was dry. Hope I helped
what are some good quote sites? especially for like love or crushes kinda stuff. thanks!
here are a few sites i like
http://www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net/
http://www.quotemania.2ya.com
http://www.xanga.com/quoteme_x33
& on the last site you can view other xanga's with quotes on there profiles to
hope I helped
does anyone no some remidies to relieve the pain of a period, she has pretty severe ones, she is 13 if that helps. so yea, if anyone knows some home remidies to relieve some pain and make her feel a bit better plz tell me. much apreciated
Aw thats so sweet. what you can do is make her soup as werid as it sounds soup really does help ! & The best pill to help get rid of cramps/headaches/backpain's etc is Midol ! it works awesome. You can probally get it in CVS or something. & Warm a bath/shower helps you feel better to. Also if shes going to be sitting up in bed have nice pillows to make her feel more comfortable. Hope I helped
earlier this year i dated a guy. we dated for almost 2 months and then i broke up with him because i felt that i didnt really like him any more. and now we are friends. i know that he still has feelings for me because his best friend told me. but lately ive felt like i like him again. but im afraid that if we went out again that the same thing would happen again. should i tell him i wanna date him again or should we just stay friends?
I think the best thing for you two is just to stay friends. Because chances are you may stop liking him again & break up with him. & chances are the last reason you broke up with him may happen again. & if you guys break up again chances are it may ruin your friendship for good. So just stay friends with him & you never know another guy may come along. Hope I helped
17/f
Okay, I'm friends with this guy, and for the past few days we've been talking about dating. He's been telling me a lot of stuff convinicing me he wants to be with me or whatever. Well, I'm best friends with his niece. They're only a few years apart in age, & he's four years older than me, so don't freak out lol. Anyways, we've kissed & made out & he was supposed to take me to a movie last night. Well, he got back from work and said something came up, so I asked him what and he said he'd tell me later. I found out from someone else that he spent the night in a couples hotel with his girlfriend. He didn't tell me he had a girlfriend, so now I feel stupid. I don't really know what to say to him about it. Any ideas? =/
Aw im sorry. This guy seems to be like a complete a**hole, & he just wants it from you. To bring it up just ask him what exactly was that something that came up. You can say something like "hey I was woundering what was that something that came up the other night?" & If he says oh its nothing really or something then ask him what. & tell him you've heard somethings. I think the best way to do this is over the phone. Because if he starts to struggle you know the rumor is true. Just try & bring it up out of the ordinary so then he has to answer. Hope I helped
Do guys mind if girls ask them out? Usually, it is the guy who asks the girl so I'm just wondering if it is okay for "her" to ask "him".
Of course its fine for the girl to ask out a boy. Girls usually dont ask out guys for several reasons. But if a girl asks a guy out its completely fine. I dont ask out guys cause im not the type to take rejection well. But its perfectly fine if she does. Hope I helped
How come every time I like a guy and he happens to show affection towards me, i clam up, build a wall up against him, making him think that i don't like him? i just don't understand why i would do this. Any suggestions to stop this?thanks in advance
I really just think you afraid to let people in. Because you think your going to get hurt some how by this guy. Dont worry this happens alot. Because people are afraid to get hurt & have there heart broken so they think if they shut others out theres no way of getting hurt. Just figure out who you can trust & who you cant. And sometimes you may make mistakes but learn from your mistakes & you wont make them again. Hope I helped
Is thirteen too yong to know what your sexual orientation is? Because I think I might be bisexual or lesbian. I am not sure. Can someone help me, please?
You are deff. not to young to figure this out. Heres some ways to out if you a bisexual or lesbian
- Do you find yourself more instrested in girls ? such as wanting to go out with one ? Do you sometimes find your self wishing you can kiss that girl or something like that ? If you think of things like this you are most likely a lesbian.
- Do you think about boys & girls ? Do you like both girls & boys ? If so than you are a bisexual.
- And straight your just intrested in boys.
hope I helped
Ive been kinda chasing a girl for awhile named sarah. Shes a cheerleader and very cute. I recently found out at a basketball game that a different girl, Brooke, that i have always thought was crazy hott would date me if i asked her. The funny thing is at that same basketball game, I ran into a girl in my grade that I and others would say is very outta my league. This girl's name is Lauren. Now i was at home later that night and Lauren calls me up asking what I was doing and we all know she wantde me to ask her out. What should I do? HELP!!!!!!!
You need to pick which girl you like best. Do you just like Lauren because she wanted you to ask her out yet shes outta your league ? Or do you just like Brooke because shes "crazy hot" ? Or do you like Sarah since youve been chasing her for awhile. Pick the one you like best outta those 3 girls. And than you should go out with that girl. Because what a girl whats is a guy whose crazy about her like she is about him. One who thinks the girls perfect in her own way. So pick the one your crazy about. Inside & Out. Hope I helped
I was thinking about getting an iPOD nano. But, I have one question. If I do get one, do I have to use iTunes? Can I use Windows Media Player, or Limewire?
Even if you have Limewire or Windows Media Player in order to put music onto your iPOD you need itunes. But the bright side you dont need to get music off itunes.You can get it off limewire.
This is what you do to transform music onto Itunes and into your IPOD :
1)After you download your music you go to Libary.
2)than theres a middle section between that and its playist and you click : Explore : and you will have a file come up
3) After that open Itunes up.
4) than on your libary you drag the files from what opened up into your libary.
( and im guessing you kno how to add songs you already have but if you dont here it is..)
5) after that you press copy
6) than after that it will update and you paste it into where ever it says ____ IPOD
hope I helped