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i had sex but im not preagnant i feel horrible

You might feel horrible because you lost a huge thing in your life, sex is a huge step, you only have a first time once.. Maybe it was an awful experiance for you..

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i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do?

Well I would wait for that one special guy, I mean you only have your first time once, you want it to be special. Im waiting until im married. Hope I helped

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I had sex with my boyfriend 2 nights ago (4 times)and yesterday afternoon i started bleeding in that area. I'm not supposed to get my period for another week .. and im still bleeding..

can sex cause u to start your period early?
or is it because i was having sex for only the second time and i got my cherry popped?

why am i still bleeding?

Okay you might have your peroid, and it came early, sometimes that happens
OR
he popped your cherry, should only last for a couple days, maybe.
OR
something down there got ripped and you should go see a doctor.

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If you use a condom, can you still get an STD?

YEAH! Condoms don't protect diseases, alot of my friends (that are guys) used condoms, and some of them even got their girls pregnet cuz the condom broke. Anyway condoms dont fight off diseases, be safe.

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I'm 13, and my boyfriend is too. we've been going out for an exact week, and we've already kissed. I know all guys a pervs, but he shows it more. Him and his friends always make stupid jokes on how he wants "a whole can of me" or how he thinks im so hot and he wants to have me for breakfast, lame stuff like that. but they also say he wants to stick me, and sleep with me, like how theres a "room in his queen sized bed". but he still always says im hot, and not how he likes my personality. so now im not so sure if he likes me for me. errrgh. what the hell should i do?!

It sounds like he just wants wants you in bed or do sexual things with you. He might have said that he likes your personality..But how would he really know your personality well after only a week? If this guy is really irrating you, then dump him. Tell him how you feel though.. And ask him why he likes you, and if he doesn't bring up something about your personality or something like that. Drop him like he's hot

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i went to a party at the end of skool in the middle of june. i got drunk n was unconsious. i've been throwing up and noticed a little bulge below my belly button. could some guy have fucked me while i was unconsious?HELP PLZ!

Yes he could have had sex with you, or raped you. You could have morning sickness which women ususally get when they're pregnet. And your starting to notice a bulge...I'd to see a doctor or take a test immediately, but no matter what anyone says..Don't have an abortion if you are pregnet. Hope I helped you out!

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me n mi boyfriend have been tagether for almost a year now nd we've done everythin but have sex and well tanight he was fingering me nd that nd it got a little out of control nd ima virgin nd hez lyke well jus let dem meet nd i waz lyke k nd he did nd there wasnt a condom nd it wasnt long but im really afraid that i culd get pregnant i dunt no what happen lyke with him 'down there' but im so scared can i get pregnant from that it was only like a minute but idunno is there a possibility ? PLEASE HELP im way to young ta get pregnant im so scared

You could be pregnet, it doesn't matter how long it's in there for. And second of all, you are no longer a virgin. Seems like you didn't really want to have sex with him? If you said no to him then thats rape also.. But as far as i'm concerned, i'd go to a doctor and see if you are, or go to a drug store and get a pregnacy test.

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Ok like, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while now. And I just haven't really been in the mood all that much anymore. I think it's because when ever he sees me he wants to do something sexual, and I don't really want to. So because of that I NEVER want to. And he gets mad and claims that he's forcing me to when he kind of is. It's really rare that I actually want to do something anymore. I would like to just spend some time together for once and not have nice things done for me without being expected for sex in return.

I don't really know what to do. It's really hard to talk to him and I have also been thinking about breaking up with him. I talked to him about taking a "break" but he got really upset and we argued for hours. But now we are still seeing eachother. And I can never talk to him because he won't listen.

He says that we could take a "break" from having sex but when I brought it up again he got mad...again. I'm just really torn and extremely confused. I'm glad I can finally ask help from somebody. Thanks so much.

Sorry it's long.

your boyfriend might be expecting sex now because you guys had been having it regularly.. But still. Every girl wants to be felt like shes needed, and not just pushed around. If he can't except the fact that you dont really feel like having sex anymore, it's his problem. Maybe he's addicted to sex, some people can be. You have tried to talk to him, just tell him maybe I really want a break, from eachother. Because face it, you've tried to explain yourself a couple times, he won't listen. So just move on, he isn't worth it if he can't even listen to you. Hope I helped you out in some way!

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omg!! i just contacts and i dont seem to know how to get them on or off* i have to like play around with it for 1 hour until it comes out* if ne advice plz answer me*

In order to put them on try looking up and then put the contact below your eye a little, then roll your eye down so it slides onto your eye. To take them off sort of pinch the two sides together and pull it off. It takes awhile to get used to, because the feeling is so weird.


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- - ok, me and my best guy friend Mike keep getting in fights over shtuff. Like EVERY SINGLE time i talk to him, he has to bring up his girlfriend, who is like one of my friends and he KNOWS I HAVE THIS MAJOR CRUSH ON HIM!! and we always get in a fight over it, cuz how would you feel if you asked your best guy friend out *not the brightest thing to do i guess* and he said no he isn't "ReadY" and then went and asked out your friend..? My god!! and now i dunno what to do, cuz i'm sick of fighting with him......

what do i do?
Signed..
- Stupid Best girl friend

Wow you sound Just like me. I had the same problem. I think your just frusturated becaues he keeps talking about her, and you have feelings for him. All you really want to do is talk to your best guy friend without her getting in it. Why would he bring her up right? Exactly, I think he's doing it to make you jealous, which you maybe are, but hey, who has to know? Don't yell or cuss at him! I made that mistake and lost my best guy friend.. Just ask him why do you keep bringing her up ya know? Or maybe talk to him in person or something, that might be easier. Tell him how you feel.. That could clear up alot, it made me and my old best guy friend..ALOT closer.. Hope I helped..

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doing all the excercises ive seen on here no one has said how long it takes to get a 6 pack, sooo. HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE TO GET A 6 PACK! im male/15 thats fairly slim.

Well it depends on what you eat and how much you work out, if you eat healthy and cut the carbs, it might be sooner. but if you have a fast metabolism...That's different. Just keep doin those sit ups and crunchers.. Also that helps sit in front of the television at home in your room or something...Lay on your back, then pull your chest with your neck up to where it burns then pull up your legs so that your neck and chest with your legs form a V..hold that until you reach a comercial.. that really helps and it burns..but if it isnt working, lower your chest until you feel more burning. Do this in reps.

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hey, if you have cut yourself on the arm really deep 3 times and your parents found out so you cant do it again, you do on your chest a couple of times because you really need to but it was only a couple of times and you feel like your gonna die if you feel relieved after does it mean ill end up killing myself? is it a major thing? like do i have serious problem here? ive only done it a couple of times but i cant control myself not when i feel like i really need to. help? please? anyone?

My friend had a cutting problem.. It was serious, she went to bed with a knife everynight. This is a serious issue, it might make you feel relieved, but your still hurting yourself, it will leave scars and remind you that you hurt yourself because you are hurt. when your angry, work out or something. Try going to a counselor..They help alot. Everytime you get the need or the urge for it, think of something else immediately, you could kill yourself if you hit a vein

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I'm going into high school, and I'm a smart person (3.75 gpa) But VERY disorganized, I've gotten 2.6's on my report cards because I'll do assignments, then lose them, or procrastinate on projects. And I'm so afraid that's going to happen in high school, because I know how important high school is, and the college I want to go to is out of state and a VERY hard school to get into, and the other one, though not as hard is still out of state (I refuse to go to college in this state, I hate it here) and my only chance is probably a scholarship because it's just me and mom so there's not a lot of money.

I just need tips to help my organization skills, because I'll have a lot of sports and other things going on, and I know that I really need to get it together soon. And advice would be lovely.

First of all.. Get for example ( 6 classes, get 6 folders) and on the front of them name a class on each one thta you have, then get a notebook. And write down your homework in every class and the books that you need, then at the end of the day go to your locker and double check your notebook (where you put down your homework) grab the books you need then put them in a book bag go home and do your homework, but for each homework page or whatever that you do put what ever subject of homework that you are doing in that folder, it makes things sooo much easier! Keep an agenda for sports too! don't forget!

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im a sophmore in high school but i moved and im starting a new school and i dont know ANYONE!!!! im sooooooooo nervous....i was jw if anyone had 2 do this?!?!

I went through this when I was going to a new school a couple years ago. Before class starts if no ones really talking (the person thats next to you) don't be afraid, just maybe comment on something that their wearing or crack a joke, everyone loves to laugh! I mean come on, the movies that we see, not everyone can be that stuck up, and hey a few guys or girls depending which sex you are, might hit on you, go for it.. Start making friends, it's easy I promise. Just keep your head up and smile, everyone notices someone whos smiling, it attracts people actually, they want to know what's up! Good luck!

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i have a problem of keeping a thought during class, i often daydream and get off task, and im always forgettin himework, is there anything i can do to fix this?

I in fact, used to have this problem. Class is so boring right? Just try to concentrate on what the teacher is thinking and concentrate on the book. If things are bothering you like a relationship or someone that is special to you, try to not think about it wait til after class don't let it bother you during class. If you actually listen it isn't that bad, but don't be surprised if you feel a couple yawns here and there. Keep an agenda with you or a notebook to write down your homework and when you go to your locker at the end of the day look at it so you can grab all of your books and keep the notepad so you konw what to do!

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ok, well, before i go to school i want to look really good for the first day, and im scared because lately i have been gettin pimples on my face (not for the first time) and i want to know if anybody has any tips on how to clear your face, or products that work over night (and actually work) plz tell me!

second, i want my teeth to be white, but the white strips are like 20 dollars, does anybody know tips about that too! thanx alot! bye!

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I have some friends who have problems with their skin, try not wearing makeup for a little while and use face moisturizers, ones without alot of oils and aloes, but something that will keep it fresh, wash your face when you wake up and go to bed because things throught the day can get into your pores. I use "Phisoderm" if you have acne then get that kind of that brand, they have different choices in it, but just get the face scrub. A face mask might make you break out, depends on if you have sensitive skin or not.

In order to get your teeth to be whiter, if you drink alot of pop, STOP! drink things like milk and water, LOTS of water, pop stains your teeth with brown and yellow, YUCK! but hey, it tastes good right? i know i know, once in awhile isnt bad but if you drink pop, try it with a straw it helps so it doesnt touch your teeth. But also, don't brush your teeth too much you could rub off some of the important things on your teeth. Just brush them 2 or three times a day MAX.

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