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He loves me but he needs space. I don't know how to do that. I seriously can't stop...it is like an addiction. I love him so much and can't just stop talking to him. I am so worried that I am going to screw this whole relationship up if I don't stop!!!
Help me stop!!
Well. obviously if you are "addicted" to him , then you have a little too much time on your hands. so, pick up new hobbies, hang out with your friends, do better in school, etc., you know what i mean. Try not to think about him. Let him call you for a change.
hope i helped.
how much does unlimited text messaging cost for verizon? ive searched the site and still cant find out. the plan i currently have is 500 minutes (they dont have it anymore though) and 250 texts. Also, if i added unlimted, is there a way to do it so that my whole family plan can use that and not just my phone?
30 dollars. if you want it for all lines for unlimited texting.
so my boyfriend fingered me for the first time the other day and it felt great and i wanted to know what else we could do sexually wise without having sex.
well. there are many things sexual wise without having sex..
fingering.(you've already done)
eating out.
blow job.
hand job.
69.
i mean those are the basics..
my bf is being weird!! up until very recently he was always talking to me and stuff but all of the sudden he isnt talking to me very much and doesnt seem interested. Sunday was only our 2nd month! we have been best friends for a couple yrs and liked each other on and off the whole time. we love each other very much but idk what to do about this. also i really need to talk to him! so what should i do?? thanks
Maybe he is rethinking you twos relationship , or maybe there is something on his mind that he's not telling you. you used to best friends with him , so talk to him like a friend . ask him what's up.
good luck..
ok well i shave down there usually but im not sure if what i do is enough. like if i were to do something with a boy would he think i need 2 shave more.! soo how much is like regular shaving.? i will be sooo imbarassed if i go to do something and he wont because of it .! but i do shave so i guess what else im asking is do boys want you to be completly shaved or is it ok for their to be a little something there.?>>
I think it's better to be safe then then sorry.
If you want to do sexual stuff like that, then obviously you need to take care of that, but uh i think its a guys preference. some guys are freaked out by that, and then others are okay with it.
Is it a turn-off to guys if a girl has low self-confidence or in other words is shy?
um , actually any guy i have ever talked to or dated thinks its annoying for a girl not to have confidence.
me and my boyfriend will have been going out for a month tomorrow. We havent kissed yet and my friend keeps making fun of me because she's almost 2 years younger than me and she and her boyfriend have already talked about 2nd base. Its not like I havent kissed a boy before. I don't think he has ever kissed someone before. So I want it to be special for him. But I'm kind of getting bored. I really want it to happen. Like I pine for it. I find him so irrisistable. Why can't i just do it?!
being since you two are together, he obviously likes you. if you have kissed someone before, make the first move, guys love it , it takes the pressure off of him. (:
you know how on the side of your finger nail theres like.. strands of loose skin that, when pulled out, hurts like hell. anyway, a piece of skin was sticking out from under the side of my nail and i was dumb enough to pull it out. it hurts a LOT, and i need it to heal by friday because i have to play violin for a concert and i cant b/c it hurts so much when i push on it.. so.. erm. what are some things i could do to lessen the pain and get rid of it altogether before friday?? ><
oh i feel your pain. i have districts on thursday and i just got a hang nail and tried playing today, and it hurt reallly bad. but uh when this happens to me , i usually just put a band aid over it so that it gives it a little support, other than that you have to tough it out. ):
how do i become better friends with my casual friends. i just transfered to a private school in the beginning of the 2nd quarter and i have made some really good friends and a few good friends and some casual friends but i want to improve the friendships (the casual and good ones)to something closer. thanks so much! :)
well, if you want to become good friends with acquaintances, then start making plans with them, like outside of school, don't be just school friends, but anyways, don't lose your already good friends, you are going to have to be able to keep a balance.
My face gets really dry ad flakey. What is a really good moisterizer that will keep my face moisterized all day?
I just started to use this moisturizer that is called "oil-free moisture by neutrogena" i started using it because my face was oily in certain areas but dry in others so i am currently using the combination skin one, but for you, you would probably like to go with the dry skin one.
hope i helped. (:
F/14
Ok. the frist question is one of my friends has had a crush on one of our guys friends((Lets call my guy friend Marc and my friend who has a crush on him Rosa))Anyway,Rosa has had a crush on marc for who knows how long but the problem is rosa and all my other friends know marc is gay.Rosa was going to confess to marc last week but she was soo nervous to say anything to him that she had a chance to tell him she left running away leaving all her things with me.
A friend of ours who knows Marc really well((I'll call her kate))Kate told Rosa that if she tells marc he'll be all 'Ewwwww.....how gross' to her,and she do'sent want that((even though there is a high possibilty he might say that since he can be really cold))I just dont want her to feel hurt.Besides she also likes someone else and I tell Rosa that she should just get over marc.
But she is soo determined to tell him and I dont want marc hurting her feelings.
So should Rosa tell marc her feelings or should I try reasoning with her and tell her to get over marc and go for the other guy she likes?
My second problem((though I really dont think its a problem or not i dont know))on valentines day i told my crush that I liked him.But he said he only liked me as a friend and nothing else.But the whole time I confessed to him he was blushing,scratching his head,smiling,I was ready to yell in his face and tell him to stop doing that cause that made me even more nervous that i was.
It's already been about a week since I told him and he still somewhat stares at me like before i i confessed to him.I just dont know if what he told me was true or not cause maybe he does like and is just too scared to admit it or is just not ready for a realtionship,or maybe his parents dont let him have a girlfriend.I dont know but he still gives me the signs saying'I like you' but just not that frequently anymore since I told him.
I'm sorry for the longness,but I serously need help for my friend and me.
first off, if rosa knows marc is gay then she should know that they can't have a relationship , because he wouldn't be into her.
so try to reason with her to get over marc, so she doesn't tell him herself so that she doesn't get hurt, being since its not marc's fault.
um , and secondly, if he says he doesn't like you, you can't tell him he does. he might end up liking you, or maybe he does and he just isn't ready for a relationship, but you have to go by what he says.
15/f.
i don't even know if this kid likes me, but here i go. basically, he moved here this year. never really talked to him. this trimester in school, he switched into my lunch and one of my classes. we STILL don't really talk. so one day he started talking to me online, and since then he's been nonstop flirting with me. we've been talking for like two days, and today he sent me a text message 'hey cutie :)' and i haven't led him on or ANYTHING. i've talked to him like i would my friends. also, the other day i told him i was going to be working and what time, and he came in during my shift. luckily i was on drive-thru and he went to the counter, so i was safe from awkwardness. and i don't know, but i have a feeling he likes me.
the thing is, i REALLY don't know him, and i don't really want to. that sounds horrible, but i really don't have any interest in getting to know him.
what do i do?
i think that the stopping by your work thing was very thoughtful, but if you don't think that you want to get to know him, suggest to him a friend that he should start talking to. um, basically every time he texts you, you don't have to answer ALL THE TIME. i mean overtime if you keep letting him go a trifle he'll get the point and move on.
Wel...there is dis boy and today he gave me a hug three times right and he is in the same lunch as i am in and he grabbed my hand and we hugged and e swayed form back and forth and we hugged for a long time and then we was in class me and him were talking and i he kept staring at me and im like are u spacing out??? And he was like no its dat your maadddd sexy and i w waz like ok and he kept saying it and I dont know if he likes me he i sda sweetest boy i have ever met IN my entire life he is so sweet and we have mad stuff in common so i dont know if he likes me becuase he treats me differently then all his other female friends????
Yes, he obviously likes you. Who knows if he wants a relationship though, many boys don't like commitments. You said you two are friends. So, ask him what's up, like if he wants to have something with you. Go for it.
Good luck (:
I want a really pink lipstick of lipgloss that really shows its pink. I live in MO and i've checked walmart and walgreens ... so what places should i check.?
Victoria Secret's "very sexy" line has alright quality make-up. They have really cute lip-glosses. Also, Bath and Body works might have a variety.
Okay so i know how to do it its findging one that works. Can anyone help finding me a code to hide comments on myspace one that works?
That would be a big help!! :]
Thankss.
goo to whateverlife.com and go to hide stuff and it will say comments. i would give you the link, but i don't know if it will show up.
My mom really does seem to yell at me alot. Today, we had grocerys in the car, and they feel to the foot of the backseat, like they do, and she got out of the car, and started yelling at me for it, and she almost hit me with some plastic wrap box!!! She was like " GROW THE FUCK UP SHELBY!!!!!" " ITS NOT FUCKIN FUNNY!!!!!!" And then she started yelling at me so loud that when she got done, she couldnt even talk barley cause her voice was so cracked.I am seriously done with all of her shit. She thinks she's the greatest mom ever, but she needs to stop treating her kids like shit if she wants that title. One time she hit me, because I asked her to help me find a pair of my shoes, but that was kinda along time ago, so that doesent really matter anymore. I'm really loosing all my respect for her. I really dont know what to do about it. She is always getting mad at me for no reason what so ever. And when she dosent get mad at me, she takes it out on me. Once, when I was younger, she called me a dyke just because I didnt clean my room.And usually when she get's mad, she yells at me, and is mad at me for 10 minutes, and then just completly ignores me for the rest of the night, or sometimes even longer. Her and my dad are divorced, and she always got mad at me when it came close to me seeing my dad, just because I was seeing him. She would ignore me, and barley talk to me, and she kept saying that I was choosing my dad's " whore " over her, and that I wanted to live with the both of them. She got all of that, just because I liked to see my dad.I had to choose to stop seeing him and have my mom like me, or see him, and have my mom hate me. I havent seen my dad in weeks.... I really dont want to talk to her about it. So, what do youi think I should do about this problem? Thanks for all the help you can give me.
I think that if you are really that upset with your mother, when she is not home call your father and tell him about what you are going through and how you want to see him, maybe you can live with him until she straightens up. i mean you have two parents for a reason..
good luck
14f How old do you need to be to get your belly button pierced? I dont want to tell my mom but I want it done. Is there anyway around that?
Could you pierce it yourself? I seen it done in the movie thirteen.. they made it seem easy.
You'll need your parents permission.
Yes, you can pierce it yourself, but it's not a smart decision.
I've heard horror stories.
Talk to your mother about it, and try to make a compromise with her..
oh, and i have also heard it doesn't hurt that bad to get it done.
well im 13 old and a female and i have this amazing boyfriend who is 14. the relationship is fine and everything except there's one problem. his ex girlfriend still wants him back. she's determined to get him back. she even told his sister that she's going to marry her brother ( my boyfriend) she keeps saying that she loves my boyfriend more than i too. and she's leaving messages saying that someone else is was telling my boyfriend all these things and that kathy( the ex) isnt real. but i know she is. what can i do to stop her please help
You need to tell him how it feels, he probably doesn't know that you are jealous, he probably thinks you don't care or you find it humorous. So tell him that it bothers you, if he says that he cannot do anything about it tell him that you will talk to her.
just tell her point blank that you had a chance with him, and now it's yours.
My best friend and I are working on the whole friends with benefits thing. Except he's never kissed someone before. I've only made out once so I don't really know much? And he's really nervous and intimidated I guess you could say. So basically, what I wanna know is what would be the least intimidating way to go in for the kiss and how could I make him less nervous?
yeah, um, friends with benefits thing is really risky. you usually get a bad reputation and someone usually gets hurt in the long run..
but anyway, if you want to kiss him lean in when the moment is right, he'll hopefully get the point.
16/f..i broke up with my boyfriend a week ago..and i got over him, he's a jerk and all he wanted was sex..
now he's trying to make me jealous by listing all the possible girls and "omg so many girls asked me out/hooked up with me"
Yeah, If he is annoying. Drop him. You sound like you don't have any emotional attachment to him, so don't talk to him, or if you don't want to lose him as a friend, tell him that you want to be friends, just that you don't want to know any of his "hook up" details.