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kiss help
me and my boyfriend will have been going out for a month tomorrow. We havent kissed yet and my friend keeps making fun of me because she's almost 2 years younger than me and she and her boyfriend have already talked about 2nd base. Its not like I havent kissed a boy before. I don't think he has ever kissed someone before. So I want it to be special for him. But I'm kind of getting bored. I really want it to happen. Like I pine for it. I find him so irrisistable. Why can't i just do it?!
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being since you two are together, he obviously likes you. if you have kissed someone before, make the first move, guys love it , it takes the pressure off of him. (:
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Maybe your boyfriend wants to kiss too. Have you asked? Maybe you guys should talk about it and decide what is best.
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heyyy. okay well i think that you should just go for it. theres really no reason he wouldnt want to kiss you right? if youre already going out then i dont see why he wouldnt want to kiss his girlfriend. shy guys sometimes need the girl to make the first move. trust me, after the first kiss it will be perfectly natural. just wait for the right minute and go for it ! good luck =]
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Talk to him, don't talk to us, if you want something to happen. You're fourteen years old, you have the rest of your life to experiment, and as "irristable" (which is actually irresistible, btw) you find him, give it a year and you'll most likely be disturbed that you ever thought so. I can predict you'll rate me low for this, but seriously, relax.
Guys get pressured into doing things as easily and often as girls do. So calm down your "pining" for him, unless you're willing to grow up and talk.
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There was nothing unsure about my answer. So, little miss "I always rate 5's, cause it's not fair to screw up ratings!" you can change the three any time you want to. Either that, or stop trying to make yourself feel better.
And besides, you're 14. Get over yourself.
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Don't ever rush things in a relationship. In my last two- that's why they ended.
So you shouldn't rush yourself or your boyfriend. You said you want to make it special- so make it special. Waiting for the right moment is SPECIAL. Rushing it ISN'T special.
Maybe talk to him about it- but make sure to approach it in a way that doesn't make you seem like you're desperate or whatnot.
--Jack
(16/m)
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