Q: Hi all
My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago, I still really wanted to be with him but he didn't show any signs of wanting to get back together, although he said he "still wanted to be with me" and he "still loved me" He was upset when I said I didn't want to speak anymore, I felt I couldn't move on if we still spoke. I started seeing a new guy recently, and my ex boyfriend found out. He text me saying "I know you are seeing other guys so there is nothing I can do but you never know what will happen" I said what do you mean? He said "Things change, you don't know what will happen in the future. You could break up with him and then we get back together"

Why would you say that to someone you don't want to be with????

Q: Ok so I have been masterbating for about 2-3 months and its making me feel horiable like i stop a day or 2 at a time then just start up again i realy need help i know people will say its good for you but it makes me feel horiable plz help

Q: Okay so im 16 bisexual girl
I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend. well my question is should I brake up with my girlfriend because one we arent how we use to be before I started dateing this amazing guy. I mean dont get me wrong I love them both but I love him more. plus my girlfriend has a boyfriend that I know has a past and every time i try to to talk to her he either pulls her away or she defends him. she doesnt have a problem with my boyfriend but I have a problem with hers and I cant be with someone who doesnt listen to my advice because im usally right. this guy has cheated and lied he's no good for her I care deeply for her but when she doesnt listen it makes me debate our relationship. I've been with her for 5months he's been with her for a week and he's stealing her from me. what should I do?

Q: f./19
Ok, so I have a really good guy friend and he and I hang out a lot when we go out to parties and stuff. He has a huge crush on my best girl friend. We talk about her and I'm trying to help him get to know her more so she can see what a great guy he is. Sooo. One night while we were out, me and my guy friend hooked up. We decided not to tell anyone because we thought if no one knew then it wouldn't matter. Well my best friend (girl) read my phone and figured out what happened. She confronted me about it and I told her everything. SHe isn't mad in the least bit because she doesn't care that much about the guy, she was just mad because she thought we were better friends that I could tell her stuff like that. She knew something was up right away and only when she saw my phone did hse realize why. Even though she isnt mad at me and we've talked about everything I can't help feeling guilty everytime I talk to either my best friend or the guy I hooked up with. It's making me sick to my stomach thinking about it. I don't knwo what to do or how to get this feeling away. I mean she's not mad at me so why do I feel guilty? Any advice on the situation would be amazing.

Q: I have been having a lot of stumoch pain and it it just getting worse. The pain also involes my legs and migranes. The pain in my stumoch hurts mostly after I eat certain food and it hurts my upper stumoch. But like right now im having lower adominal pain and it hurts on and off I get back pain. I am only 19 and i feel like im 90

Q: Okay so I've had a crush on this boy brian pretty much since the day I met him.. which was about a year and a half ago..we've been hooking up for the past year on and off..sometimes drunk sometimes sober.. I really want to ask him how he feels toward me because I honestly don't believe its solely physical..how do I go about asking? I need it to be casual, I'm so nervous! Thanks

Q: My best friend and I have been friends for about 3 years now. He's funny, smart, caring, all that good stuff.....and I've had a crush on him for the past 2 years. I have never been able to tell if he liked me, so I told him a few months back that I had feelings for him. He said he wasn't sure if he felt the same way. But lately, he's been acting a little different. He seems like he likes being with me, since he drags me everywhere he goes. He gets a little quiet when I talk about another guy friend of mine, and he refuses to talk to me if I'm talking to a guy friend of ours. Our friends keep telling me that he likes me and that he flirts with me, but I've always been oblivious to that sort of thing, so I have no idea if he actually does.

Q: I am a female senior in highschool and I currently like a guy who is a freshman. He's three years younger than me. Is that wrong? What should I do? I'm afraid to tell anybody because I think I'll get teased, but on the other hand I really like the guy and hes way mature for his age :) Help! Im so confused.

Q: Okay so my boyfriend has already mentioned to me that he was so excited to see my reaction to his christmas present and he's kind of a romantic type. I'm not all that romantic or anything and I have no idea what to get him. We haven't been together for too long so I don't see him all that much so I don't know him that well. And even if i did I still would have trouble. I'm really bad at getting people presents. I want to get him something cute, but kinda generic i guess... not in a lame way though. HELP?!?!

Q: If you're going to tell me that this is wrong, stupid, immature, against God's wishes (I'm an Athiest) and/or to be myself, please don't respond.

There is this girl that I really dislike in school. She is fake and very annoying. I guess you could call her my "frenemy" in a way. We're friends and be talk but I secrety hate her. How can I make her jealous?

Q: What do you talk about after sex? I mean right after too like while your still lying there. I just feel like it would be really awkward. Like now what? Are there any topics that are generally more appropirate for the situation then others?
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Q: usa female.. i have been friends with this guy for about 9 months we hang out and go do do things togethers we talk and when one needs something the other one is alwys there.
something happen to were he almost had to move away and he was so concerned about us that things wouldn't change. and i told him my ex was back and he wanted to no if i wanted him back i told no i wanted to be with somebody who is honest and trusting. and he said good. he's a very loving person when we do get together . he never said anything about haw i look or anything just that i make him smile . and at one point i told him to stay away from me he hounded me for 4 days tell i gave in to him. i'm usually the first one ask about hanging out he does sometimes. i get confussion signs from him i don't no what to think.

Q: i want to find out a job for the future but i have so much interest to pick from.i just cant think of what my future job will be.how can i pick the best one.

Q: I started dating this guy freshman year (last year) when I was fourteen. He was a sophomore and sixteen. Well, we had a pretty good relationship in the begining. We had fun and laughs and he made me feel special and all that jazz... Well after about two months of dating, while we would be making out, he would slip his hand down my pants. And I'd pull it out... He'd put it back, and I'd pull it out... and it just kinda went like taht. We never really talked about it... then one night I don't know what happened but I just let him finger me... And I dunno, it didn't feel like a big deal at the time. After that things in our relationship started changing. He got a lot more possessive and mean and I became a whipped little puppy dog to him. I would do whatever he said and that's NOT the kind of person I am... I really really liked him though for some reason. To the point where I fell in love with the guy. It was a strange love but I DID care deeply about him... He continued to finger me when we'd hook up and eventually around month four he started asking for handjobs. And I'd keep saying no becuase I dont know, I was fourteen and I just wasn't ready for that. Well.. One day he basically just pulled down his pants, grabbed my hand and started making me rub his dick. I tried to pull my hand away, at least I think I did, but I couldn't. Either because his grip was too hard or because I was just so shocked that he did that. Then I started crying... and he let go but we didn't even talk abotu it! I just let him get away with it, I don't knwo why I was such a stupid stupid idiot. Month six rolls around he wants a bj... No, no, no. I kept saying no but he would aslmost try and perseude me. He'd say things like "If you loved me you'd want to make me happy. And I make you feel good but it's completely one sided." I started to just feel so guilty (and he had me so whipped) that I just did it... God you have no idea how much I wish I coudl take it back. I was sooo stupid! He dumped me four days later. He said he didn't even like me anymore but he wanted the bj before we split. He said he only stayed with me for the last three months cuz he liked the physical part of me. He told all his friends and basically the entire school, "she put out. We'd make out aaall the time and she gave me head". And I guess I deserved that... I was stupid for believing him. And letting him just used me like that. I just can't over this... I'm still hurting and I don't know how to make it go away. All of that physical stuff made me SO connected to him. And I was so owned by him that I don't even feel like my own person anymore and it's been like five months since we've broken up... I like this new guy but now that we've started kissing and stuff I feel so... Ugh I don't know. I just can't get over what happened and I don't want to trust guys... or myself. And as crazy as it is... I still like my ex... Whats wrong with me?! Can anyone please talk some sense into me. I don't even know what I'm asking withthis question I'm just lost and I don't know what to do... Please help. (I'm fifteen, sophomore)

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