My best friend and I have been friends for about 3 years now. He's funny, smart, caring, all that good stuff.....and I've had a crush on him for the past 2 years. I have never been able to tell if he liked me, so I told him a few months back that I had feelings for him. He said he wasn't sure if he felt the same way. But lately, he's been acting a little different. He seems like he likes being with me, since he drags me everywhere he goes. He gets a little quiet when I talk about another guy friend of mine, and he refuses to talk to me if I'm talking to a guy friend of ours. Our friends keep telling me that he likes me and that he flirts with me, but I've always been oblivious to that sort of thing, so I have no idea if he actually does.
Bethanywren answered Wednesday November 3 2010, 5:35 pm: It sounds like he may like you. Some of the signs are there like him not really wanting you to talk to other guys. If you told him that you had feelings for him and he didn't run away that's a good sign. I think you should sit him down and tell him how you feel again and let him know if he still isn't sure that this will be the last time you bring it up. If he says he does like you go from there. If he says he doesn't or he is unsure don't bring it up again and start talking to other guys. If he changes his mind then he'll come talk to you. That's probably the best way to find out what you want to know and keep the friendship together in the process. [ Bethanywren's advice column | Ask Bethanywren A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.