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♥ Hey!! My name is Allie Ribley.♥ I'm 15 years old turning 16 in April. And I live in Springfield, Illinois. It's pretty boring and theres not much to do. That is why I am so thankful for all my friends, they keep me busy and give me things to do! :) We like to go shopping,♥ some times go see a movie, but we like to rent them better, hang out at each others houses, and party! I love to party!!♥ Some people say I am wasting my life by just partying all the time, but my theory is that you only live once, so live it how you want!! And this is how I want it, so don't tell me to change it! :)



♥ I am not single anymore! I have been dating my boyfriend, Derek Betzer, he is also 15. We both go to Pleasant Plains High School.♥ And we have been together for 3 years. He has brown hair and blue eyes.

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♥ My family is not so great though. Both of my parents are alcoholics, I have an older sister [20 in February] I talk to her about some of it but I don't think she fully understands because she is not hardly ever home to know what I have to go through.♥ Their drinking problems really bother me. There's not much else to say about them.



♥ I have a lot of different sites. Here they are.



♥ [ PERSONAL XANGA SITE. ]


♥ [ XANGA LAYOUT SITE. ]


♥ [ MYSPACE. ]



♥ CHECK THEM OUT!!



♥ Also, I can help you with any questions that you have! That's why I made this column. I hope you enjoy it, I try to get around to it every day! I have some other sites as well..If you want them, then you're gonna have to ask for them! =p.♥



♥ Hollister, Abercrombie, and American Eagle♥ are my life. I love pearls, and long necklaces.♥ Rings are a must. I'm a really nice person, unless you piss me off, I can be a total bitch! I speak what's on my mind. Some people don't like me for that, but whatever get over it. Don't be fake around me, cuz thats annoying. I hate bitches, but I love mine. I love glitter, ♥ and bracelets. Many other things as well. As long as your nice to me, I'll be nice back. Please don't ask me stupid questions. && we'll be okay. ♥

advice

me and this guy have gone out 4 times today he dumped me and wants to knoiw if we should still be friends i was wondering the same thing. should we still be friends?
**Sleepiesheep**

♥ well of course i think you should still be friends. Why lose a friendship over nothing?

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I'm 13 and my mom is getting on my case about EVERYTHING!!! Now adays...i just wish she would leave me alone. I mean she's always watching over my back when I'm on the internet, asking who I'm talking to when I'm on IM or on the Phone...and to top it off. When the guy I like comes around she just stares and I feel uncomfortable. My question is, how do I keep my mom out of MY buisness?

-Beyond Joking

♥ talk to her about it and let her now how you feel without getting in a big fight. Let her know that you appreciate her looking out for you but you think that she is being a little to protective.
♥ good luck with it. hope everything works out!

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ok im 13 and a female. my period is three months late! its has been coming steady and iv had it since i was 11 so i shouldnt have missed it. I told my mom and she said i could be pregnant but iv never had sex before! the farthest iv got with a guy is makeing out i wont even let him take my shirt off. im worried that it is something serious. i know it could be stress because im under a lot this month but i wasnt last month OR the month before. somethings really wrong i know it. if i dont get it this month then what am i meant to do? im afraid to ask my mom to take me in to the doctor's about this and my family doctor is a guy! please help what should i do?! and im very sorry this is so long.
**sleepiesheep**

♥ wow. well hunny, i think you should get a doctors appointment. and you probably won't go to your family doctor, you will go to a gynecologist, who specializes in this type of stuff. so good luck and i hope you get back on track!

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Ok, i really like this guy and he is really really sweet.I have known him scince the beggining of the school year and he knew that i liked him but then someone told him that i didnt so now he thinks that i only like him as a friend. Well, we usually walk to class with my friend and on Friday he waited outside for me and we walked back to class alone and he seemed alot like he likes me so what are a few signs that he likes me?

♥ awe, well that sounds like a pretty good sign.
♥ just see if he like flirts with you a lot.
♥ and if he smiles a lot
♥ maybe you should go for him. it sounds cute!!
♥ good luck!! x3

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i want a cute screen name & im wanting opinions.

-really long legs
-brunette
-tall
-likes ae
-something cute?? haha
-silly
-lazy

etc etc!! anything really

thanks!!

♥ xBRUNETTExBABYx
♥ AExISxLOVE
♥ BRUNETTE PREP
♥ BRUNETTExISxLOVE
♥ AExLOVINxBRUNETTE
♥ TALLxBEAUTY

♥ there are a few, good luck, hope you find one. x3

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I am 16, f, and I once had some friend (pal-friend, not boyfriend) who was in my class. When I got put into another one, he'd just ignore me. What I want now is to trigger some remorse for him, making him want... anything, no matter, as long as he shows he is sorry and at best will talk to me about it. The thing is that I can NOT talk to him before that happens. Since this is not about reconciliation.
How do I do that? Any ideas? PLEEEEEEASE...

♥ maybe you can just try to totally ignore him too.

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What exactly does this mean?

And does tampons and ''pleasureing'' break this?

please hlep asap!

Thanks

♥ yes, tampons could break it, sex could break it, but also just other types of things could break it. Those aren't the only two possible ways.
♥ pretty much its just extra blood in the vagina. and it only happens once.

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can someone tell me how to do my hair like this?

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=10057523&imageID=281432190&Mytoken=139187F3-6EAD-7CEC-F99FA1484C8D6BC842982114

and can i have some cute ideas for hair styles? im so sick of just straightening my hair.. *i rate 5's!*

♥ this is how you do it.
♥ first get the amount of hair you want up
♥ then you pull it back but not tight, that will cause the poof.
♥ when you are done, hairspray it so it will stay in place.
♥ you have to use bobby pins or clips for this style though because hair ties don't work.
♥ some more cute hair styles are like, half ponies, ponytail, scrunched hair [using gel and hairsprey], curly...anything . be creative!!
♥ good luck!! x3!

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One of my friends has been with her bf for ever it seems like. A few years. Anyway, they are in a tuff spot right now and possibly heading toward a break up.

Ive never been w/ a guy for 2-3 years so Im far from knowing how she feels. All i would like to do is be there for her.

Any suggestions to how I can help w/o butting in to there relationship?

♥ oh my god.
♥ that SAME exact thing is happening to me. only I am the girl. so I think i'll know how to help you.
♥ me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years. and we are also going to break up soon i think, and yes it is veryyyyy tough.
♥ honestly. i don't think you should do anything until after they break up. and let her know that your always there for her and that your gonna like help her get through it. that's what i would want. just let her know that you're sorry.

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16/f
Ok, so I caught my boyfriend (of 3 months) in a lie. But I haven't confronted him yet. See, on New Years, he came over, and told me he had to leave by 11:45 because his parents said he had to be home by 12 because it is illegal to drive past 12 if you are under 18. So I was sad because I couldnt be with him at midnight. A few days later, I found out that he actually went and spent the night at a friends house. Should I confront him about this lie? If so, how should I confront him? Should I act upset, or not? thanks.

♥ awee man. that's sad. and i'm sorry
♥ and yes, i think you should confront him. if you are upset about it then let him no.
♥ maybe you should just be like _______ (his name) i know you weren't supposed to be home by then. and i know you went to ________'s(friend) house.
♥ let him no that it bothers you. tell him that you probably wouldn't have minded too much if he would have just actually told you the truth.
♥ just be honest and let him know how you feel.
♥ good luck, i'm so sorry, thats sad.

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if you are about 5 feet and 2 inches tall and weigh 86 to 88 pounds is that overweight or is it like less than I should weigh?

♥ That's too little.

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Ok, so there's this guy, well more than just a guy, he's one of my best friends. That is cool n all but like whenever we are alone its kind of akward. its like we both are thinking we should be doing something sexualy but niether of us really talk about. i kind of like him and think it would be fun to hook up, but i don't really know how he feels even though I'm pretty sure he would go for it. i dont want it to ruin our friendship or make us more awkward. i just want it to be more comfortable when we are alone together... and more fun. what should i do? what would you do in this case? and how would i aproach him without being weird? thank you for at least trying to help.

♥ well you can either, just go for it, when you are alone sometime.

♥ or you can talk to him about it. and see what he feels about dating.

♥ i'm kinda shy about talking about those types of things, so i would just go for it. buttt you might be different. but those would be my two choices.

♥ good luck!!

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If I'm on my period, and I have a tampon in, what should I do if, while making out, my boyfriend starts to put his hand down my pants? Should I assume he is going to finger me, and immediately warn him that I have a tampon in? If so, what/how should I say it? OR should I let him do whatever he is going to do, and then IF he DOES begin to finger me, should I THEN tell him to stop? Thanks for your help.

♥ oh yes, mine has tried this before too. I get so nervous. But now I usually let him no when I am on my period, and he doesn't really go down there to finger me, unless he is gonna do something else. Maybe you should just let him know when you are on your period. Also, another thing is you could just pull his hand out when he starts to go down there. I've done that before too. but he my get offended, so be careful with that one! Good Luck x3!

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what does the phrase "pop the cherry" mean.. and how do you do it?

♥ when a girl has sex for the first time, her cherry may pop. Or when you wear a tampon for the first time. Really it can happen anytime at all. It's just like a little pocket of blood inside the girl's vagina that pops. and more blood than usual will come out.

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what the hell is a "micro mini skirt"

♥ well i'm not for sure, but i'm pretty sure it's just slang for mini mini skirt. like really short.

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ohk. my friend has been goin out w/ my other friend for quite some time. i dont wanna use names b/c well .. you know. lol. so lets call the girl uhh .. jill and the boy jack. lol. anyways .. jack LOVES jill, but wants to break up with her b/c they live so far apart [they met b/c of me] so he has to call her and stuff and it cost wayyy too much. so he doesn't know if he should break up with her. plus he never gets to see her at all .. should i encourage him to break up with her, or tell him he shouldn't?

♥ well, i think you should just let him decide. Don't tell him exactly what to do. But if its really bothering him that much maybe he should. Honestly, it's one of those questions you just have to ask yourself. But Good luck!

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Can anyone give me advice on how to fake sick? Thanks in advance. 13/f if that helps..

♥ hahaha.

♥ that's cute.

♥ cough a lot.

♥ and make your forehead look like its sweating.

♥ stick your head by a heater or something to make it hott and feel like you have a temperature.

♥ change your voice a little bit too to make you song more sick.

♥ good luck. x3!

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The pores on my face are so big, therefore, my face gets so oily. I wash my face 2 times a day. About an hour after I put on my makeup after I washed my face, my face gets oily and my make up wears off. My make up is OIL FREE too. What home remedies that work for you would you suggest to me to tighten and reduce the size of my pores and to eliminate excess oil? Don't give me that stupid google bar, I've tried google.

♥ well I don't know of anything that can make your pours smaller, but you can get blotting tissues.

♥ These are just little thin pieces of paper that you 'blot' your face with whenever you need, and that should pick up the oil and leave the make-up on.

♥ I hope this works, good luck!

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ok,my delema is split ends. First off im not sure i i even have them. My sister (18 years old) told me that new hair strands grow and they are shorter than the rest of your hair,therefor thats what i have,is this statment true?My hair is layerd so its hard to tell wich is a split end or not.i have been using the straightener for a while,but my hair hass always looked so healthy. Do you have any tips on identifying a split end?My hair is not actually split and the end of my hair,but in the middle,can they split in the middle of your hair,or is my sister's statement true?i will rate to what i think is appropriet.

♥ A split end is at the end of your hair. [hence the name] You can pick up a couple pieces of your hair and look closely at the bottoms, if there is one piece of hair but is split and has two different pieces coming off of it, then it is split. If you find them, then all you need to do is go get a trim. Straightening your hair does give you these.

♥ If you need more help then just leave one in the inbox. x3!

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Okay I have this freind and she is so pretty
all the boys hit on her but when they hit on her they dont notice me I fill, Ugly or left out
I dont know if I am or not like for instance:
We were out @ the mall and this guy came close to her and winked and just look at me like what the He** you looking at or something like that I have no clue what to do
sorry its so long
i rate high

♥ Awe babe. I'm sorry. Don't get down on yourself. Maybe if you really wanna do something about it start wearing make-up [if you don't already] and if you already do change it up a little bit. You know, anything. Be creative ;)

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