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okay i'm 14/f and i already have my ear lobes pierced. today i asked my mom if i could get my cartilage pierced and she went off and said no. i was like wtf? the only reason she had was that ears aren't meant to be pierce their ears there. i even offered to pay to get it done but she still wont budge.. how can i get her to let me get it done? im about to just do it myself.. (link)
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im 14 aswell ((:
well basically i was in the peircing place and i called my mum and asked her and she said no
so when i got home i told her all my friends had it done, that the peircing place was really clean, and that its not a big deal because its only my ears.
she let me get it done ..duno if it will help with ur mum tho
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18 years old female.
i like this boy. weve hooked up before, we actually went pretty far- ive given him head twice.
this past summer i thought wed be hooking up- but it turns out he didnt want to, for some "unknown reason".
but then at the very last day of summer we ended up hooking up,
he went away for this year but he just came back recently so i texted him. we were flirting and he was beig really nice saying well chill this summer and stuff.
the convvo died eventullaly tho.
im almost positive he knows i really like him but im not sure hes into me as much
what do i do? i want to hang out with him. do i just wait for him to text me since now i know hes home and has my number again and knows im avaiable?
i jsut want to get the boy.
-thanks! (link)
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Just ask him straight- 'Do you wanna hook up?'
If he does actually want to spend time with you and stuff he shouldn't be leading you on, saying maybe and then ignoring you.
If he's doing this, its probably because he's insecure and " Wants to feel wanted " if you get me.
but if it's just a casual thing, no relationships involved maybe he just doesn't want to ? x
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Does getting your eyebrows hurt?
i want the truth please (=
ive heard many things about it
and i want expreienced people.
mmkthanks i rate (link)
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I do mine all the time! After a while it doesn't hurt anymore... but it does the first few times
I think its more of a small sharp pain or an itch lol thats the only way I can explain... you just need to get used to it.. hope this helpss ... :) xx
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Okay, this isn't the easiest thing for me to ask but it's pretty much anonamous, so here it goes. I'm completely unhappy with my privates. It's a point of severe lack of confidence for me and i have no clue what i can do about it. I am most hesitant about being intimate with anyone because of the way i look down there. It grosses *me* out. And it often hurts to masturbate because of the little, erm, flappers. I think they're called labia? They are all messy looking, and messy feeling as well. I don't feel like this is normal at such a young age.
Well I'm not sure what, if anything, i can do about this. Does fixing this problem absolutely require plastic surgery, or is there anything else i can do? Please help me! I am at a complete loss as for what i can do about this, and i think i mentioned already it takes *such* a toll on my confidence!
Sorry for the length of this, and I appreciate anyone who helps me out, greatly.
Also i apologize if this is the wrong category, but it seemed to fit better here than elsewhere. (link)
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don't worry about this one. All vaginas are weird looking and none are the same.!
have you been on the channel 4 embarrassing bodies website? (if your english) because they have a gallery of what is normal it might make you feel better
also dont feel bad about being intimate with someone because if a boy loves you and truly cares he wont give a shit what you look like down there. and if he does he must be a bit inexperienced to think that they are all perfect. or maybe he looks at to much porn :)
you could mention that if any boy gives you trouble lol
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17/f
Okay so I kinda like a guy at my school, he's a freshman and i'm a senior but I don't see age as an issue. We've been texting back and forth but ever since I got on my vaca he jus randomly stops answering. Last night he told me the guy that walked up to me thought I was hot and said he had good taste. So basically he told me I was good looking. I said aww thanks :) ur sweet...and I didn't get an answer...so wtf is he not interested?! In tired of the mixed signals like that!! Also I wanna ask him to my prom but now I'm afraid he will just say no. What do I do to make this better? I need to know if he's interested bc sometimes he makes comments like he is and other times he either doesn't answer or outta nowhere says um I'll let you go. Ahhhhh help! Thanks. (link)
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Im not to sure about ages since im not from america
(freshman...senior..?!)
but maybe since your abit older than him he feels intimidated ? maybe he thinks if he gets to close that he will have competition with older boys? or he might feel abit inexperienced compared to you ?
he just needs to get to know you and open up i think :)
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My "best friend" seems to get in the middle of all of my relationships,crushes,men,etc.I guess its shame on me for staying friends with someone like this,but we've been friends for 6 years so it's hard to just drop someone and she hangs out with the same people as me.But ,one time while i was sleeping she hooked up with the guy i liked (we werent dating) and ofcourse i was younger and immature,and it made me feel like crap but i got over it.Then this year,there was this kid i liked.He wasn't very good looking but i still liked him and he liked me..i talked to him almost everynight and we started to hangout and stuff. I would bring my best friend (val) and he then started flirting with her! She took no interest in him,but she gave him her number and he'd text her all the time.Instead of just not responding,she would respond ALL the time and hangout with him..and he got the wrong idea and thought she liked him ,but she continued to talk to him anyway and he stopped liking me..for her.i was mad,but again ...got over it because i got over the boy. My current ex (went out for 3 months and broke up 2 weeks ago) is the new issue.While me and my boyfriend were dating,i had a little party at my house (ofcourse everyone was drunk..) i fell asleep upstairs and the next day,my boyfriend confessed to me that him and my best friend were flirting and she sat on his lap etc.etc.they didn't kiss or anything but SHE never confessed any of this to me.He cried to me and begged me to forgive him and that he wouldn't want to lose me over her.i accepted it,because he told me the truth and even had the guts to cry.He broke up with me ,2 weeks ago..because he needed some space and was just with me way to much.We are still VERY good friends though ( obviously i still like him and i dont know how he feels about me ) we still hangout and chill and stuff.but my best friend seems to be getting closer with him.I have a class with him and so does she. She told me today that they were talking the whole class period and he asked her to hangout and that he "kinda doesnt want to get into anything " with me anymore (besides just friends..)She flirts with him all the time and he says he thinks shes annoying and a hoe and whatnot but in front of my face,he flirts with her sometimes too(idk if he does that to make me jealous or what).So it's two faced on both sides!I'm still crazy about my ex boyfriend and i feel as though ive lost his attention because he's already "been there,done that" kind of thing.We are all in the same circle of friends because i brought him into our group and we will all hangout probably this weekend.I basically want him back ,but i need tips on how to get his attention.I was gonna try ignoring him and then letting my friend just annoy him so he realizes that he lost me.I don't know what to do because it's hard to avoid hanging out with him ! help! we are on good terms too so idk what to do! (link)
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Oh gosh :/
Your friend is a bitch, sorry x
It's all about insecurity though.
I had a friend like her once, but as soon as she hurt me in the way you have been hurt, I ditched her.
People who bring you down in life are not worth it, people who are so insecure about themself that they feel the need to hurt others??
just wrong.
Your on a completely different level to her, seriously. Your better than that!
Don't put up with her any longer, shes had 2-3 chances and she isn't changing.
Also, when she told you he said he "kinda doesnt want to get into anything " with you , how can you be so sure she isn't lying.?
She could be saying it so you try to forget him and she can have him for herself :(
If he says she is annoying and a hoe, but flirts with her in front of you..... to me that sounds like he's trying to make you jealous!
from past experience I have learned to just get on with it and keep the true friends close, if it is meant to be it will happen.
Have a chat with him maybe ?
anyway I hope this helps
A xoxoxox
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Like I had dis problem with my girlfriend see I really don't like my girlfriends to drink cause who knows wats gonna happen when they get drunk :( and like my new girlfriend now we been going out 4 3months now and we love each other to death and like she used2 drink but she stopped becuz of me but she is gonna go to dis birthday party dis week 4 her cousin and I know it's gonna be alcohol there but she said she wasn't gonna drink any but her cousins might pressure her or she might just sneek and drink some and I can't go to da party so idk wat to do I'm just scared she might get drunk I told her already but she said she's not how do I know she will never tell :( (link)
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my boyfriend is the same don't worry :)
your just protective of her because you care.
he says to me, that he trusts me...just not the people that might try something when I'm drunk. Because he said that, I only drink a little bit at parties and stuff.
If she loves you she will cut down abit and try not to do anything stupid,
And if you love her then you will maybe trust her abit more ?
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16/F
Alright, so I have a friend who's all cute and bubbly and she flirts a lot without realizing it (it's in her personality). The guys tend to flirt with her a lot, too, and she just got her first kiss this week by a guy she only likes as a friend.
It made me realize that I would like to be more carefree and stress-free like her so maybe I can stop being intimidating around guys and stuff.
I'm sort of the opposite of her: serious, sarcastic, stressed (lots of stuff to manage in my life right now), and sort of intimidating, I guess. People say I can be arrogant sometimes, but I never realize it and I really want to change.
I can talk to guys, but I don't always know what to say, or sometimes I say the wrong thing.
It's not just about guys, though, I'm having trouble keeping friends because of my personality, and I want to change.
I want to be more carefree and stress-free like her, but I'm not sure how since I'm usually a busy person cause of school and work.
I don't want a boyfriend just to have one. I just want to meet a guy who I like without being awkward. o.O
What should I do?
Thanks! (link)
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You shouldn't change who you are, or how you are just to be like your friend :(
She sounds like a fun girl but I'm sure you are aswell!
If some things in your life are stressing you out, you should get some help about it. write it all down or find someone to talk to about it ?
I've been very stressy at times and I know what you mean. Sometimes friends aren't very understanding about it and just think you're being moody :(
If your very busy, try to find a time when your not tired, and do most of your school work/ course work then? when you get most of it out of the way, you will have more free time and also you wont be worrying about things in that time :) that way you can enjoy it and be a bit more relaxed!
and trust me on this one>>
when you're looking for a guy, they don't just come along.. when your just focusing on having fun with your freinds, more guys notice you and want to get to know you, specially when you look like a fun girl to be around :D
hope this helps
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