okay im 16/f to start off =]
well there\'s this guy named jamie in my school... he just moved like 2 weeks ago i guess... i never saw him until last thursday... because he just started eating outside during lunch time(where i sit)
so we started talking and he seemed cool enough... and definetly cute and handsome xd
and then day after that i asked him if he had msn and he said no... i asked for myspace and he said yes but i couldnt remember his url because it was too long so i told him to give it to me later and he said i can call him so he can tell me then... so wow i got his number out of nowhere (score!!)
so i called him later when i got back... his phone was still from where he used to live so it was temporarily out of service... wtf... did he do it intentionally???
so then on monday i saw him so i asked him wud up? and he said yeah but i can give you my house number if you want at lunch because we just got it... and im like okay...
so at lunch i ask for it and he said he doesnt rly remember so i should give him my number so he can call my cell because i have caller id...so im like okay and give him my number...
then i ask him if he wants to hang out with me and whole buncha other people on friday and he said
yeah ill ask my parents and call you tonight...
so he hasnt called yet but i dont get it... does he not like me that he\'s avoiding or something? with the phone number i mean...
and how do i play hard to get? im so confused!!!
well since hes new to the school, maybe hes still a little shy.
But he also kinda seems weird for giving you his cell number when its where he used to live, and its kinda weird that he was like i'll give you my home phone, and then can't remember it. kinda werid
But just b/c he didn't call really dosn't mean anything yet. If he keep blowing you off then i would get a little worried.
but as of now hes new and is meeting new people everyday. Just give him a little while to settle in
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16/F
105 lbs/5'4"
I recently came out to my family that I've lost 10 pounds in the last two weeks due to not eating and throwing up when I do eat. Now my parents want to send me to an in-patient facility for rehabilitation. I'm really really scared/angry because I think that I can beat this or figure it out myself with a little help from my family...I'm not even that underweight. I feel like this whole thing is ridiculous and I shouldn't have tol them about it. What should I do? I need to convince them otherwise very soon...
I'm sure that the idea of going to a rehabilitation place sounds scary now, but maybe just try it? Try it out and maybe it'll help you fight it faster. if you think you can fight it yourself with a little help, the rehab will prob. get you more on track, and help you get through it a lot faster
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okay well i'm just going to make up names before i start.
alyssa and rob are dating.
dana and nick are dating.
rick is my ex boyfriend who i dated for a year and a half.
alex is my ex boyfriend who i recently broke up with.
oh and i'm 13/f by the way
okay well here it goes. after a year and a half of dating rick, on and off because he broke up with me 6 times during then but whatever, i broke up with him and to get him jealous, i went out with alex also because i though he was nice and cute. well me and alex dated for about 5 months exactly the day we broke up. alex and i used to always hang out with our best friends/couples. (alyssa, rob, dana, and nick). so once i broke up with alex because i really missed rick, alex was reallyyy upset and for awhile was always telling me how much he loved me and missed me and crying all the time and stuff. then i found out that rick never stopped liking me since the day we broke up. so me and him would hang out occasionaly and stuff but then the next thing i know alyssa, rob, and dana are all super pissed at me and telling me that i was leading alex AND rick on becuase they both thought they would get me in the end even though i told alex i didn't want to date anymore and stuff. well as of yesterday(2 or 3 weeks after alex and i broke up) i told rick i wanted to go out becuase he had been telling me he wanted to really bad and stuff. but alyssa and dana and rob would all rather hang out with alex than me it seems. yeah occasionally they'll invite me to hang out, knowing i really don't want to hang with alex just yet, and so i'll agree to it and then the next thing i know alex is hanging out too. its like he stole all my friends from me and i don't know what to do. i'm really happy to be back with rick again, but i want my friends back. and its hard because i'm already in this down and depressed mood lately because i HATE my dad and stuff and i have no one really to cheer me up. all my best friends would rather alex over me and all my other friends don't call me or anything. my dad was recently arrested, and is back on herion and cannot afford anything anymore. yes my parents are divorced but he lives about a mile down the street. and my mom is getting married but they're always fighting. and i just don't know what to do anymore. i'm going to a different school next year to hopefully start off fresh and if that doesn't work were moving down south to south carolina from massachusetts. please, some advice on what to do to be somewhat more happier please!
oh wow. that really stinks...it all.
but ok its really stupid that your friends are picking alex over you. but just hang out with them all + rick. Possibly find another friend that Alex can hangout with/like w/e you want to say. And when you move to the new school. it is a lot like a new slat, find some new friends. And if you not still dating Rick then possibly find a NEW guy :) haha
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I started playing volleyball and im on the team now. My friend (P) made it too and she's with 1 of her best friends. All the other girls on there I really dont even know them...and the problem is they are not friendly. They are nice and friendly to my friend (P) but not me. Im nice to them but alls they do is completely "ignore" me. Its very ah-nnoying. And everytime I go to practice I feel like a loser because not only are they not even talking to me my friend (P), she is getting all the attention because shes so sweet and shes totally leaving me out of it. So I feel like a pathetic loser now everyime I go to practice. Its Like everyone hates me. I love volley ball but I hate everyone on the team. What Should I do about this? Should I quit?
Well you shouldn't quit if you enjoy playing. But just give the girsl some time and maybe they will be a little more friendly. But as of now just consentrate on playing, but don't quit if your a fan like me :) haha
But give the girls some time to kinda warm up to you. And maybe just politly ask your friend whats her deal and ask her to actually talk to you..then again you are FRIENDS
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I have a boyfriend and hes awesome and everyhting and we KNOW we are SO gonna have sex VERY soon and ya any tips or advice 4 the first time over here :$ lol haha ya I'm 13 yrs old and my bf is 13 and we're both virgins
I don't want you to say you should wait you're making a mistake your too young blah blah blah Please just some advice for a virgain
i agree with the first 2 girls...
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okay im sry but this is gonna be long... Okay 15/M Im currently in a relationship and i guess things are goin good she always goes to her friends houses though and they are boys but those boys are geeks and she says she doesnt like them, and my ex sammie whom cheated on me(well was through up against a locker and made out with some dude) is still in love with me and we had sex be4 and she wants to agin and says she is still in love with me after 6 months(we constantly talk) and i love her still to then this girl i just meet liek a week ago tiffany is soo awsome she keeps beggin to me that she wants a long relationship and wants to hang with me and chill and i guess one of my asshole friends told her i want to bang her which i wouldnt mind but never said and Tiffany goes to me tonight on aim so i hear you want me, baby i want you too how about tom night? omg everyone what do i do?
umm gosh, you have a lot of problems, decide who you like and then go for her. but if all you want to do is bang them, well on behalf of MOST girls fuck you
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well i used to have a myspace.
then i got tired of it and deleted it.
people have been asking me to get it.
so what the heck.
i got a new one.
but it seems like all the websites that i USED
to get layouts from, well they just arent
as unique as they used to be.
does anyone know a place where i can
get really unique (but not emo/scene) layouts.
i like skinny, no DIV, and simple things.
thanks so much you guys. (:
did you try www.whateverlife.com it has some skinny layouts
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hey well my ex broke up with me on december. so weve been talking and lately he's been saying that he misses me and that he wants me back. so like i decided to just step away for a while. by the way we latsted 10 months.
so during that time i decided that i missed him so much so i wrote him a myspace comment. i cant call him because he doesnt have his cell anymore. so he told me that he wanted me back and i told him that i dont know because im really scared of getting hurt again. and he said it wont happen again because he feels something more. so he told me to be straight up with him so i did. and i told him that i rally like him and i asked him out. was that weired for him? if so what else did he want me to do. that was like my only choice. so i waited and i saw he was online on myspace and he never wrote back to my message. what do i do now.
srry if it was long thanks so much!
well i'm kinda in the same sittuation, my ex wants me back now too. we messaged a few times back and forth on myspace, and the one time it said that he had read the message, but he didn't send me anything back. but then a few days later he ended up sending me a message back. So maybe hes just trying to think of something good to send back or something? but from the looks of it he does want you back, so if you do truely want him back too, don't sweat it :)
Like I said i'm in the same sitt. and it kinda stinks for now, but i guess give it some time and it'll get better?
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what do girls look for in guys?
someone that'll make them laugh
that they can have fun with
someone thats themselves, and nothing else
someone that can keep a conversation going
someone tahts comfortable with themselves
someone thats not afraid to actually flirt with them
somone that'll call them beautiful!
someone that'll always make them happy
someone who will make them smile
someone that'll make stupid like jokes that are totaly cute
someone that'll actually make fun of them, in a cute way
...haah well thats enough! I hope i helped a little :)
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i am horrible at making conversation. especially when it comes to talking to someone i like, who happens to only be an acquantaince.
so, november (yes that long ago) i went to a school football game with my friends and i met a boy who is a year older than me. we have a mutual friend i guess. (that friend now knows i like this boy... but he doesnt know that i know he knows... wow sorry if thats real confusing)
anyway i didnt automatically know i liked him. i never really gave him a second thought until a few days later. i realized i had felt so comfortable talking to him (which was probably only like 3 minutes haha) and thats very unusual for me to find in a person, especially a person i just met. i started to be a little interested in him and then i realized he is just flat out adorable.
well since then we exchange a hey in the halls, but since hes older we dont share any classes. and recently, my best guy friend, who knew him 2 years ago, tried to help me out. he saw him at a basketball game and talked to him and asked him what he thought about me. his reply was "what do you mean?" so my friend asked if he thought i looked good. and he apparently "said yea in a 'duh' tone of voice" according to my friend. haha so im glad with that. and ever since that day, in the hall he would just give me a funny face or something or purposely like dramatically look away and then look back.
he also requested me on myspace and facebook, and i would talk to him there if i knew him better but i dont want to be like creepy online stalker and never actually talk to him in real life.
anyway, point is, i still like him after a long time and i havent had the courage to say pretty much ANYTHING to him. i mean maybe 2 or 3 times we've had a really short "conversation". i just never have any idea what to say - and i know i was so comfortable with him when i met him, but ive become so like obsessed with him (not literally but i still feel like ive convinced myself to like him more than i originally did? i dont know how to explain it) that i have psyched myself into being afraid to talk to him.
the few times i see him daily are for short periods of time so its not like i can start a huge conversation, we only pass by each other... is there something i can say to maybe get his attention in those couple seconds? something funny? i dont know. i just wish i could get to know him better. hes really cool.
i know the whole confidence deal with guys being attracted to confident girls.. and i try but im kind of helpless. i always feel awkward because i cant think of what to say in conversations even with good friends sometimes... and this will sound stupid but i never know what to do with my hands ever... like just walking i cant keep them at my side.
im a mess lol anyone want to help out?
I know excally how you feel...
but umm maybe try leaving him a comment, something just stuipd and little like hey whats up?!
just something little like that will get him thinking about you :)
and if you guys talk on aim (or w/e you have) then sometimes i like to play 20 questions with people. Just ask him 20 random questions, and then he can ask you 20 random questions. If a good game and can kinda break the ice.
&& also maybe see if he wants to go see a movie, or go bowling? anything your into. & then see were things go from there :)
i hope i helped. but i totaly know how you feel it sucks. ahah
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Hey,
I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 18 months now, and before recently all we had done was making out. I'm 15 (16 in 2 months) and he has just turned 16.
However, he's started fingering me and I've been giving him hand jobs and stuff. I'm really happy about this, I'm ready and everything, and he waited until I was completely sure, so all is good.
But what is your opinion about doing these things and at what age? How young is too young? What age do you think is okay for these kind of actions?
Thanks :)
i think that as long as you know hes not taking advantage of you, and you both feel comfortable and are ready to do stuff...then your not to young.
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okay. so like when my crush ims me hes like ehy cutie =D what do i say? do i just say hi or?
say something cute back like hey handsome! he'll totally love it, and you :)
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okay i reallllly likke this guy. When ever i think about him i smile and i get this weird feeling in my stomach, its not like butterflies though. He just makse me so happy =D. when ever i talk to him i feel like i can tell him everything and we are the only two people in the room or something, Its just such a great feeling :d. we hung out the other night with a couple of other people and it was SOOO fun. while two friends [ girl ] went off with there boyfriends, me my crush my best friend [girl] and my other fiend [boy] just stayed together, it was really great. Then my two friends left cus my friend thats a boy had to go get somethintg and they left me adn my crush alone, it was soo perfect, we talked and laughed, and flirtedd :-*! We even held hands for like a couple seconds! i almost dieddd. i could keep typing foreverrr
uhh yes i would say its more lust/crush for now. but idk i could turn to love :)
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So yeah I'm 15 and a boy,
I know this might be strange, but I just suddenly started liking this girl recently. I can't ever stop thinking about her. I don't think about her in a sexual way, but more of a loving way.
There are problems though. This girl goes to a different school than me and I'm hesitant about going out with someone that doesn't go to my school.
The second thing is, all my friends told me that dating is a complete waste of time until you're older.
This seems like the first time I've REALLY liked someone. Unlike some of my friends, I don't really look at the size of girl's boobs or anything, I tend to look at the inside. Does that make me more mature or something, or am I being rash? Tell me what you think.
well dating a girl from a differnet school isn't that big of a deal.
and OMG i really wish that more guys were like you! haha
but don't worry about your friends saying dating is just a waste of time, because well it really isn't. Your young, so you should have fun and do what YOU want to.
& mattering more of whats on the inside, is kinda more of a mature thing, but its also just the person you are. But i say just go for the girl :)
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Okay so Im talking ot my friend on IM and we can never think of anything to talk about. Got any ideas? Thanks.
Sometimes i like to play 20 questions. They ask you 20 random questions (or whoever many) and then you ask them 20 questioins.
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well i have this problem with my dad. it would take a while to explain so im not gonna get into that but ill just tell u somthing that happend. i have been getting good grades for a while now and that never happens to me and my dad never said good job or anything to me and he always compares me to my 'perfect' sister she was good at everything and im just not. he makes me think that im not good at anything and i sometimes believe it. but lately i have been being a real bitch to my bf and i just cant help it. i dont want to take my anger out on him but idont know how to stop or how else to get rid of my anger..i cant really just talk to my dad about this. so what do i do? i really love my bf and i dont want to loose him because of this and it seems like that is whats going to happen if i dont knock it off.
well isn't of taking your angry out on your bf, maybe just talk to him about it. It will help you. i know thats not much advice but maybe just try it?
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My youngestr sister has been so mean to me for some reason. We just went through like a family crisis and she is like meaner than she used to be to me. I don't know why though. Please help.
Alex
Don't mind this, my computer won't erase things right now.- eds
Well since you guys just went through a family crisis shes probably taking it harder then you are. just give her some time, but talk to her, let her know that you love her, and that your always there for you. Take her out and do something fun to get both of your minds off the crisis.
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I am very shy about my body.
I never get in a bathing suit even around my friends because i dont have big boobs, and like they all do. I always feel so insecure. I don't like it. I was invited to a pool party and i'm mainly going because of the reason
but thats not the fool reason.
any help I can get on being comfortable with my body ?
Well i think that every girl should be very proud and happy about their bodies but obviously everyone isn't going to be...try somthing like wrting hello beautiful on you mirrow. Just something simple like that can make you feel beautiful. But i don't know its your body, so you should be compfortable about it :) i'm sure that your pretty isn't and out, and who cares if you don't have big boobs
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hey.
my guy friend who i really really like asked me if i would be his girlfriend earlier in the week and i was really happy and everything
Well i'm sure the guy still likes you, if you both decided taht you would just figure things out after your friend out over it. But maybe he dosn't konw that shes completly over it and that now you can go out! But maybe just ask to hang out and see if he tries to "make a move" on you. and if he does then i'd say hes ALL YOURS :)
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ok i have this so called guy friend who likes my good friend, my friend knew that he has a crush on her and he knows it too
and him and i always talk about her and i always listen and trying to help him out and he said this to me after my friend told me to tell him:
"friend": she said she likes someone ?
me : yeah
"friend": : ic...
me : yeah
me: ey no meeting in the library for a while
me : cause people are being UGh
me: so annoying
"friend": : well theres no need to talk to you anymore
me: as in?
"friend": : i only talk to you cause of her...
me: icic
me: umm ok then
"friend": : nice knowin you
and he signed out so was he using me?
omfg. what an ass. Thats soo rude. hunny forget about that kid. and jsut move on. hes not worth your time, and yes he was using you...
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