oka i have this friend that stayed over at another friend house and at the middle of the night she had left that friend and sneak out of the house with a boy to have sex with. Should that friend be mad at her for doing that?
Yeah ..I would be.
Especially if she SNUCK out.
It's almost like she used 'sleeping over at a friends house' just to get out with a guy.
Because if she would stay home and sneak out.. there's chances of getting caught by her parents = TROUBLE!
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ok im 13/f and i dont want you to think that im a freak but lately i have been having these really weird dreams and they are about girls making out and having sex.
last night was the seconds time that this has happned. i dont like girls. i like guys. what is wrong with me?
I wouldn't worry about it. We all have random dreams. Some dreams are so unreal and others.. [like those] you wouldn't expect to be doing.
You can interpret it in many ways.
But believe what you WANT. if you know you don't like girls, don't think much of it.
Maybe you heard, read something or talked about something similar to that..
When you think of something.. it may trigger and show up in your dreams.
It doesn't have to mean ANYTHING unless you make it to be like that.
It happens.
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ok i am just curious
when a girl gives a guy a bj
why should she enjoy this?
i mean isn't just the thought of having his thing in her mouth disgusting? and swallowing his cum... wouldn't that just taste and make you feel disgusting?! i'm just wondering cause i don't get it at all why anyone would want to do that!
She would enjoy giving him pleasure. That's the whole point. If she doesn't enjoy doing it then there's no point because she wouldn't be focused on getting him to cum. Most girls think that way about it but obviously things change later.
Oral sex is to give and to receive. It wouldn't be fair if the girl never gave.
The girl doesn't have to swallow his cum. That's like.. in porn. He can tell her when to pull out so she doesn't have to swallow. She can always spit too.
Some girls do like giving head. There's girls that don't but do it anyway just to give him pleasure.
I don't think it matters how you feel when you're giving.. Some girls don't mind the taste and others find it sweet. It depends on the girl.
I mean you don't have to do it I guess but.. then your guy probably wouldn't give you oral either. He might but.. to receive all the time is a bit selfish in a good relationship [to get to oral that is]
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Would a giirls mullet suiit me thiis is me
>> http://coookiieloove.piczo.com
Thxx Muchh =D
No.
Those fashion mullets only look good on certain face shapes. Your forehead is a bit small, so if you get bangs.. it wouldn't look good.
Maybe get layers.. but i don't think the mullet thing would look good.
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I hate it when girls look at me like a teddy bear and not dating material. Like they pat me on the hea and stuff. How do I make myself seem more mature or whatever
i don't think it's about being mature. you are small, that's not your fault. i don't know. I find myself going after short guys. You've got to tell them to stop. Tell them you don't like it when they do that. Back away if they try to pat your head. If they still don't understand.. just walk away. Sooner or later, they will get it.
You've got to be more confident. I'll take 'teddy bear' as being cute. Use being cute to your advantage. Be really sweet to girls.
Or you can try this different approach. Ask a girl how you can make yourself seem dating material. Since she's probably around your age.. she would know what type of guys.. girls are after. She would most likely give you tips and such.
but that doesn't necessary mean you have to change completely. :] it could give you an idea.
Just be yourself, soon or maybe in a year or two.. you won't be a teddy bear. Some girls are blind and don't realize something good in front of them.
You've also got to put yourself out there. Ask for numbers and invite a girl to hang out.. It doesn't mean it has to be a date but you know it just makes yourself look good. You'll have girls hanging out with you as friends and will probably have them talk about you to other people. Someone would find you dating material that way.
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so my bf and i really like eachtother and he's really sweet. yesterday he actually had the guts to say to my face that he didn't know how to make out.etc. and i really want to with him..its just he is very shy. idon't know how to get him out of his shell and just make out with me already..he said he wanted to..and i told him theres nothing to worry about..but do you have any idea's how to make him not shy?
You'll have to make the first move.
:]
Find a place to hang out and if the moment is right.. start kissing him slowly. Put his hands on your hips/waist or somewhere else [hah]
It would probably help him open up a little. Since he's really shy, you'll have to make the moves to make him comfortable and it would let him know that you're okay with him putting his hands there and stuff.
He just needs to know what to do so you'll have to show him [by kissing/french kissing] and putting his hands in places you want them to be [on your hips, around your neck]
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i was just wondering..which year of highschool was the hardest for you? like in working AND in relationships with everyone and everything. im going to be a sophomore next year and i wanted to take some extra courses but im not sure. thankss.
Sophomore year for classes. A lot of homework.
Freshmen year with relationships because most people don't favor the freshmen.
Extra courses might be difficult. Most people that try out... usually stay in that class for a month and drop out. If you can handle a lot of work then go for it or if those extra courses are needed for a certain job/college then try? If you want to have some time to spend with friends/do homework, then don't take any more.
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i want to make my boyfriend a ffriendship bracelet exept idont know what style or color to make it. Do you think that maybe you could send me a link to a picture or somthing of a style that a boy would like? Idont want him to think its to girly. Thanx so much!!!
P.s 13/F
Hes 13 too
this is good
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Friendship-Bracelet
ask him what his favorite colors are.
because i don't really think there's "boy colors"
i know some guys that like pink and purple.
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Does anyone here have social anxiety disorder? How old are you? How is it treated? Do you take medication, have talk therapy, or both? What medication do you take? How does it work?
thanks
Yes. I'm 15. Currently untreated but on my way towards antidepressants.
Therapy didn't work for me. It made my disorder so much worse.
Medication is supposed to treat the imbalance in your brain. So anxiety wouldn't be a big problem.
I'm not sure how it works.. but it's supposed to make you feel comfortable.
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what does this say to you
im a 14 yr old girl
does it say i like you
or like i want to be your friend with benefits???
what does it say
im way confused...
would you makeout with me me?
[] Hell Yea [x] Yes [] No [] Maybe
Would you sleep with me?
[] In an instant! [] Yes [] No [x] Maybe
Am I attractive?
[] Heck no [] hot as Hell [] Fine [x] Cute [] Okay [] Ugly!
Do you think I'm a virgin?
[x] Yes [] No [] Don't know
Name one thing you would like to do to me... [eh hang out]
I look like..
[] A player
[] One time thing
[/] Next bf/gf
[x] A friend
[x] A friend with benefits
[] A possibility
[] A loser
If you saw me for the first time would you talk to me?
[x] Yes [] No [] maybe
Would you rather.. ??
[x] Hook up with me
[x] Cuddle with me
[] Date me
[x] Friends
[] Friends with benefits
On a scale of 1-10 (10 being the highest), rate me..
[] 1 [] 2 [] 3 [] 4 [] 5 [] 6 [x] 7 [x] 8 [] 9 [] 10
What would you want me to be to you?
[x] Friend
[/] Girlfriend/Boyfriend
[x] Friend with benefits
[] Husband/Wife
Would you give me a lapdance?
[x] Hell Yea [] Yes [] No [] Maybe
Would u give me your number if so let me get it?you got it
thanks
It's aiming towards more of a friends with benefits to me.
Maybe he does like you, but he's unsure and leaning towards friends with benefits.
Because keeps slashing the girlfriend/boyfriend option
AND he said he would rather hook up with you.. [meaning a one time thing] than date you.
It just seems like a perverted boy to me.
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Okay, so my friend and I are singing Girl Next Door by Saving Jane.
Does any one know where, hopefully on the internet or itunes, we can get it with out the lyrics? Or a way to edit the lyrics out. Or what to type in on itunes or google to find it. But I would really apprectiate it if you were to tell me a place where we could get it. Thanks sorry for being long.
I'm not sure if I'm answering this right.
But have you tried looking for it while putting 'karaoke' next to it?
Karaoke songs? You can get it off limewire or something, I'm sure.. But I don't have itunes.
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Hey. Well, I'm 13/f and I go to middle school, 7th grade. I know, please believe me, that labels are the stupidest thing on the Earth, but I have to use them just for this particular question.
Okay, well, I used to be 'prep' but now I find myself likeing things the 'emo's' were and at my dad's house, in his neighborhood, I hang out with the 'emo' people. I really like all the things they do, like, the eye makeup, the styles[kind of], and stuff like that.
Problem is, if I just, one day 'become' 'emo' then everyone will call me a poser. What do I do?
And, I have blonde hair and blue eyes, and I love cheerleading. I know, that's kind of 'preppy' but I like being 'emo' more than being 'prep'.
Start off small to avoid the 'poser' labels.
Ask the people around your dad's neighborhood where they get their clothes at.
You can start with makeup.
I wouldn't do anything too drastic with your hair, like dyeing it darker.
Then try accessories.
Some necklaces, earrings, wristbands, bracelets, headbands blahblah.
Then work your way up to the clothing. If you are used to wearing certain clothing labels like A&F or whatever then buy 'emo' shirts and wear them with regular jeans.
Cheerlead if you enjoy it. Wear what you want.. and look the way you want. It's simple but you can get hurt along the way.. with people calling you poser. Sudden changes in appearance can scare people.
But if you are ready to go through that, then go ahead and enjoy your appearance.
I personally like colored hair, chains, dark colors and stripes. Labels are stupid. Don't take 'poser' to heart.
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Hi!! Im LIFEis2cute4u. I just did my nails with sharpie, and i got sharpie all over the skin around my nails and i heard that if sharpie gets into your bloodstream, it can cause cancer. If i do my nails once a week with my sharpie, will i be putting myself at a health risk? Thanc so much!!
Nooo Sharpies don't cause cancer. I heard that there's ink poisoning but that's merely a myth. You aren't putting yourself at a risk.
People have always been drawing on themselves with sharpies.. if it were serious like that.. then someone would have announced it by now or would have put some kind of warning on the pen.
You are okay :]
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my boyfriend is a REALLY bad kisser. i mean i'v kissed people who were bad before, but my boyfriend is really bad.Like he shoves his tounge down my throat literally. i mean im not going to dump him over this. i juss want to be able to kiss him. How do i fix this? thank you for any help.
My boyfriend was the same with the shoving his tongue down my throat.
You can either bring it up.. which could possibly hurt his feelings. Even if you offer 'kissing lessons' .. it would do some work to his poor ego.
He might be embarrassed
Or just continue to kiss him. Practice makes perfect? Hah.
Kiss him slowly.. with pecks and if he tries shoving his tongue down your throat.. don't open your lips. If he continues to push his tongue, then gently bite his lips and back away.
Hold the side of his face with your hand and kiss him the way you want to be kissed. Press your lips against his for a while and let go..
If you want to do french kissing.. then you'll need to slowly/softly graze your tongue against his. He should pick it up.
He'll know how to kiss you after time.
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okay so i went out with thys guy last summer. we went out for about 3 monthes. we were pretty close and everything but the small things that bugged me about him made me break up with him. then when school started up about 3rd qouater he asked me back out and i was hesitent at first but then i said yes. i started liking him more. but now about 1 month 2 weeks im really doubtin things. anyways my point is that he really likes me. but i hate tht i can say i love you to him but i question myself that if i really mean it. so i dont know what to do..i dont wanna break his heart again.. ughh help?
I don't think you can love someone that quickly. So maybe have a talk with him that you're not ready to say I love you. That you don't want to say it too soon. Just give him some time. Of course you'll question yourself if you really mean it. But it's best to stop saying it now or you would get into deep. Just have a talk with him about those words, saying it's going way too fast and that you do like him [if you do..]
You don't have to break up with someone because you don't think you love them. Love comes into play later in the relationship. It would be strange if it came too soon.
About those small things..
Was it something he did? Or said?
Something that you didn't like because it hurt you or you thought was immature? You should talk to him about that.
If you don't feel right.. then break up with him gently. You should have a talk about it before hand.. say that you are unsure of your feelings and that you're not sure if you want a relationship.. that you'll like to remain friends [if you do]
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Ok i know this might sound stuipid but do fashion people only exept people who are really skinny? :D
I'm not sure, it really depends on the person. I've seen plus size models and girls that aren't sticks... they were accepted and made it far with fashion. Those people prefer them to be skinny. From what I've seen heard.
Fashion people usually accept them. You just have to be able to rock your outfit. It has to fit your body and shape. Hit the right curves and everything without looking like a hooker I guess.
People that think they are super skinny and wear smaller sizes that don't go well with their body shape... don't get accepted.
It really depends on the group though. It's preferred to be skinny and some people don't accept those who aren't because of that.
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well my hair is currently dark brown but underneath it is dark red. and so i wanna dye it blue and or purple. only like tips or streaks havent decided yet. i got this blue stuff at hot topic and it came out. so anyone know of any inexpensive blue and or purple hair dyes that will last a while? and where mite i get these?
also i want to pierce my ears. i already have both ears pierced but i want a second piercing like right above. can i do this myelf with a needle or will that cause an infection? haah my first piercings hurt rite now cuz i shoved a 12 gage into them yesterday. im gonna stretch em out till maybe an 8 gage. so yea. thanx peeps. you rock. ;]
What dye brand did you use? Hot topic has two good brands Special Effects and Raw. Don't use manic panic, it fades quickly.
You could go to Sally's. They have some good dyes there. Look for Special Effects or something. Get a shampoo for colored hair. Don't wash your hair everyday though. The color should only last 2 weeks to 4 weeks... depending on how light your hair is. If you bleached your hair and put the color in, it should last longer.
It's not really wise to pierce things yourself. Maybe go out and get it done. I pierced my ear myself and it looked fine for 2 weeks. I cleaned it everyday and then it got a infection. Somehow I got this horrible tissue scar.. but I got it repierced by a professional, so it's all good.
If you are trying to gauge your ears.. then maybe wait for the second piercing.
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14/f. I have a hairy stomache. I thought this was normal untill my one friend said something to me. Theres like blonde hairs on my stomache, its not that noticable, but it is somewhat. Is this okay? If not what is wrong with me?
Everyone has body hair. You need hair to insulate your body. So I suggest no shaving or waxing.
Because I think it's really noticeable that you shaved or waxed a patch of hair off your stomach. The skin is lighter or something. When you look a bit closer, you notice it.
But no, there's nothing wrong with you. Don't listen to what your friend says. Your friend has body hair too
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which is better target or walmart for bras?
im a 30 A right now. ha. and um i was thinking victorias secret but not sure if i would fit..
thing is i want something supportive and padded to make me look bigger.
i have only ONE bra that i was everynight (because its the ONLY one i like) and so i really really really need some new ones.
any more advice about this tell =]
thanks.
Walmart!
I love the padded bras. They are comfortable and they are really cute.
I don't think Victoria carries that size. It's A 32 and up. But maybe you can try out that size?
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which on do you like better. (just so i know) list them in order .. the first being the one you like the most
-thongs
-bikini underwear
-boy shorts
boy shorts
thongs
bikini
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