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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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I was wondering if anyone knows of Greek gods? What were the powers of the Greek gods /What did they do? Which fictional mythical creatures would be good for a fantasy story?

hey i searched google and found these--

http://www.mythweb.com/gods/index.html

for the gods [ you have to click them for the storys and facts ]

http://www.paleothea.com/Majors.html

for the goddesses

cait ♥


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I use a sponge to wash my dishes -- wet sponge, squirt on detergent, wash dishes, rinse dishes and sponge, pretty standard. Every time I get out the sponge to wash the dishes again, it's hard and stiff and I have to wet it for it to be flexible. Is this the normal condition for used sponges or is there something I can do to make the sponge soft all the time? I tried rinsing it an extra long time last time, but it's still got hard again.

hey um yeah thats normal for sponges. they cant stay soft at all times. they have to get hard. cait ♥

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15/f

i've been going out with this guy for about 9 months. we're totally different and hang out with completely different people.

Me = the drama nerds, and preps.
Him = the ghettofabulous people.

for this whole time, i only hang out with a few of his friends, the ones i can stand. but tonight, he invited me to go to the roller rink with him. i said yes, thinking it was only me and him. but apparantly a few of his friends are going. ones that i've talked to, but never really wanted to be associated with. i guess i feel pretty obligated to eventually hang out with his friends since he hangs out with mine all the time.

any tips on how to get along with them and not feel like a total outcast?

hey just dont be socially retard. meaning dont jsut stand there and not say a thing. also when they ask questions answer them with an answer not with a i dont know. cait ♥

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Is there anything you can do to make a black eye go away faster? I've got one right now -- an accident -- and it's really gross looking and hurts.

hey umm ice it. thanks about all you can do. its got to go away naturally. you could also try coverup. cait ♥

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ive had my period for a year now. is it normal that im getting it every 2 weeks? please help! im kind of scared < 3

hey nope its not normal. you should go see a doctor and explain to them your problem. dont be worried tho at some point in girls lives they get irregluar periods. cait ♥

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13/f ok i really need money but i am way to young to get a job and i dont want to babysit what are some other things to do for someone my age and i need to make about a lot of money so if you have more than 1 thing please that would be great thaanks i rate 5s

hey you could get a newspaper route. cait ♥

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I just started working out last week , and every time after i work out, I have these semi-bad headahces that usually last the rest of the night. Does anyone know what this could be??

hey its dehyration. make sure you drink plenty of water before excerizing during excerizing and after excerizing. cait ♥

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19/Male...I finally got up the nerve to talk to this girl in a lunch line. She seemed decent and smiled at me while we talked and introduced ourselves. But it was very short (maybe 2 minutes). I didn't get her number or anything but I see her everyday, and I still want to pursue her. It's hard to me to think of what to say and I really want to avoid that awkward silence that sometime happens. Any advice?

hey well you already have the hard part done. now the next step is small talk. ask her simple everyday questions like whats up? or how did you do on that math test last period?. give her compliments also. like say wow you look really pretty today or something sweet like that. cait ♥

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How can I find the best way to make my boyfriend to open his soul and heart in front of me?We have a relation since 9 years and we have now this problem. I'm a female and I'm 28

hey well if you have been trying to get him to open up to you for 9 years and he still hasnt maybe hes not ready for a relationship ro maybe he doesnt know how to open up to you. have a one on one talk with him and let him know how you feel. cait ♥

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I'm 18, and my child is due on March 3rd. I'm really excited about this, but the problem is with the father.
Don't get me wrong--I really love him, but I'm scared we leaped into everything too soon.
We were dating for 3 months when I found out I was pregnant. I was scared to tell him, but he was so supportive, and he ended up absolutely ecstatic about it once we'd both been reassured about some things. We're engaged now, and things are going great.

But, that's the problem.

I think things are too good, and that once the baby is born that things might fall apart. I really want to talk to him about this, but I don't know how to approach it.

Any help is more than appreciated.
Thanks for your time.

hey well to me things seem to being going great. just because you love your life and think its the best it has ever been before doesnt nessasarily mean that things will go downhill from after the baby is born. keep your head up and be thankful that things are going this well. cait ♥

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hi

well i appologize now fore making my question so long!

i really like this guy named ned! and he's in 9th grade i'm in 8th grade and i dont see him very often but he's often in the same bus when i drive home and well i think he likes me 2 because he is smyling at me very often and he also is looking at me all the time! but i kinda am a shy person (with boys normaly i'm everything but shy) so i never smile back even if i like him so i think ji'm kinda confusing him cause once he was in the same bus than me and i was just sittin there looking out the window and than he comes next to me and he was like:

ned:hi
me: uhm hi?
ned: how are you?
me: uhm i dont know
ned: you dont know how you are?
me: thats what i'm saying
ned: well ok..anyways are you good in school?
me: uhm i'm ok but not the best
ned: do you want a basketball? ( i think he said that because we were just driving next to a basketball field and he didnt know what to say :-)
me: uhm no?
ned: yeah me neather
me: 2 bad
ned: yeah seriously 2 bad
me: whatever
ned: soooo are you proud to be the new classpresident was it your dream?
me: no not really
ned: uhm ok do you like robert? (some guy in 8th grade 2)
me: NO WHY???
ned: because i hear rumors that your going out with him (which is totally not true!)
me: WHAT WHO SAID THAT???
ned: well i cant tell you that its a secred
me:whatever
ned: so who is like your best friend?
me: i dont have any friends (because i had this big fight that day but everything is fine now:-)
ned: so do youu wanna be friends with me?
me: dunno
ned: why are you being so mean to me? your not answering any of my questions!
me: uhm...

well yeah and than my busstop came so yeah well now i want to apollogize but he wasnt in school for one week now and uhm do you think he likes me? please i need some advice!

hey um im pretty sure he likes you = ]. well uh yeah tell him that it was an off day for you and apologize. also dont act like you dont care about hsi questions just answer him honestly and with confidence. cait ♥

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okay so, me and my best friend have an xanga together. we make layouts.. i don't want to make her mad or anything but i hate having her as a partner. i mean, i still want to make layouts but she pretty much ruins it for me. i don't know what to do. any advice?

honestly i agree with thug girl. make another layout site on xanga without ehr knowing. but if you dont want to do that then i would just tell her that you really dont like having her as a partner because of whatever reason it is. cait ♥

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I just started dating this guy a little while ago, and I like him, but it's so hard to talk to him. He's really sweet and I really do like him, but we can't ever have a conversation without awkward silences. Should I continue to go out with him and hope things get better, or should I just break up with him? Thanks.

hey it will take time. dont ruin your relationship over something as little and as silly as no convoversation topic. cait ♥

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My son is going through a difficult period. my husband and I split up in july and my son who is 19 and in college met up with a girl who has a boyfriend and is engaged my son is not in school and says hes returning in summer but I'm afraid hes not going back and she is ruining his life she wont leave her borfriend will he go back to school

hey usually people who quit dont go back. they might in there later lifes but not usually soon. just let your soon know that your concerned wiht his decision. also let him decide to go back by himself dont force him to. cait ♥

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So I am a twenty-one year old female and I've suffered from panic attacks since I was a pre-teen but have managed to get them pretty much completely under control with therapy and medication.

My problem is lately I get these really weird little attacks that last only 5 – 7 seconds. I've always been told that real panic attacks last much longer but these feel just like the big ones, I stop breathing, I felt hot and sweaty and everything feels doomed and I'm terrified for no reason, but then it's just over and I only feel a little shaken by it. Has anyone else ever experienced something like this? They are so quick I can't seem to stop them, any ideas?

hey these will probably last your whole life. just keep going to therapy and everything will be okay. cait ♥

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Since I joined Frappr I have been messages when someone wants to be my friend, added a comment, etc.
I normally check my Frappr everyday, so these messages are uneccesary.
My question is how do I get these messages to stop?

hey you need to edit your group notifcations. cait ♥

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Hey, you answered my question about the Joan of Arc presentation thing, and firstly, thanks for the help, and second, you mentioned something about a costume. I wanted to ask you, what did you wear as a costume?

hey um i wore this brown long sleeved shirt with fake armour from a costume shop and then a brown like longish skirt. i also carried a sword. cait ♥

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i had some drama within my group of friends. me and my 2 bffls told some of our other friends how it annoyed us that they always talk about their amazing sleepovers infront of us and we're never invited. They all hate me now, and they really dislike my 2 friends, but since i did most of the talking, they especially hate me. They said some really mean stuff about me and even said they "never liked me." i know i shouldn't care about girls who pretended to be my friends for 3 years, but it really makes me so mad! i have friends on my side too, but i feel so crummy about the things that said about me, calling me a b*tch and a hoe and annoying and stuck up. what should i do? i'm so mad at them!!!

15/f

hey dont let the haters bring you down hunnie. you dont need them. you have toher amzing friends. dont pay attention thatany of there bullshit = ]. cait ♥

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my friends are inviting me to a sleepover but my mom would not let me sleepover how can i convince her

hey have your friends mom take your mom. then she will know that everything will be a okay. cait ♥

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how early on can you tell if your pregnant..

&& what is the chance of getting preg on birth control. I Didnt take it how they told me to && I missed it a fiew times. I didnt know i was taking it wrong but someone told me today sense I didnt take it the right way it wont work fully.

I dont think im preg actualy im like 99.9% sure im not..

but you can never be to safe && sure

hey take the " day after " pill. also take a pregnancy test. the first sign is usually a missed period. cait ♥

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