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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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K, so I have no idea what to be for Halloween. I'm broke and need something easy on short notice.

use your pj's and just walk around with them.. and if you have curlers put them in your hair and then maybe a rob and a stuffed animal and slippers =] good luck hun

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When a girl fingeres herself does it hurt? How does it feel?

it really depends.. i mean it you do it really hard then of course it's gonna hurt... but other wise it's supposed to feel good..

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During 4th period yesterday, my friend, Ryan had my cell and I forgot to get it back from him at the end of class. So he had to keep it and his 5th and 6th periods are football. All the football guys know me so I guess they thought they could mess with my phone and it would be alright. Here's just a few things I found out they did:

1. changed my b/f's name to "cock sucker"
2. took pictures of themselves in the shower (surprisingly enough, I wasn't turned on)
3. sent dirty texts to people
4. changed my dad's name to "do not answer"
5. downloaded all these songs and games
6. i have a "never delete" folder for the texts i want and didn't want to delete and they of course, deleted them! (they claim this one was an accident)
7. and changed the language to German

I was furious with them when I saw my cell. Mostly at Ryan for letting them do it. So, I am not talking to any of them until I figure out if they're worth it or not. Specially Ryan. Now, he claims he is mad at me because I had no right to be mad at him because it wasn't his fault! How immature is that? I don't care that they used up my texts or downloaded stuff that cost money and I don't want them to pay me back or anything but what should I do?

omg you deff. have the right to be mad at him! he should have been responcible for the cell phone and not let other peopel do that to YOUR property.. but i do think you should make them pay for anything that they did.. other than that hun i don't know what you should do :-( hope i helped if you need anything else let me no

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ok, so i like these two guys and ones gonna ask me out so they say, when they do i'm gonna say yes but does that mean i stop liking the other guy? I Need ur help emm!!pleez help!!

Maxx&&Drew

you should.. because if you still have feelings for the other guy it should effect your relationship with the one your gonna say yes too .. if you need anythign else just ask

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Ok....I've been talkin to my boyfriend on the phone alot But he ingores me almost all the time!!!!!!...all he does is plays his football/basketball game on his x-box and ingores me!...what should i do dump him or what?!?

i say don't dump him yet... tell him about it.. and if he doesn't do anything about it or try to correct it.. THEN dump him... and if you already told him about it... again.. Dump Him

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How does soccer help your heart? so far i have Soccer will help you improve your endurance, agility, hand eye coordination (goalies), foot-eye coordination, and muscular strength in your legs and arms (throw-in), speed, and......am i missing anything?

hmm.. i would say your metabolism because when you excercise (soccer is excercising) then it speeds up your metabolism :-) heres a website about metablism that i would look at.. http://consumeraffairs.com/nutrition/metab_speed.html ((when your metabolism speeds up it helps you loose wait faster ;-) ))

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Does anyone know that song that goes " over my head, over my head" Its a guy that sings it. And its pretty new.

try sum 41 over my head or David Gray over my head if that's not it.. give me some more of the lyrics that you remember.. just anyting that you remember of it.. and i'll find the correct one :-) hope those are it.. if nto let me no

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umm is stealing street sign illegal, like a stop sign or a name of a street, i think i know the answer but if you could help id appreciate it

yeahh it's illegal

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im 14 f this weekend i got really drunk, and had sex, i didnt even no it till the next day wehn my friend told me, and i was sore. the guy i did it with is nice and all but he took advantage of the situation...i've liked him for a while and he is older then me but my friend told me from her own experience that i should just forget about him... should i confront him or not talk to him or what? and what do u think of my situation in general...if u can give me any feedback that would be great...please help!

omg i'm so sorry i took so long! i've just been fixuated on school and stuff :-O omg i feel so bad.. but anywayy moving on.. i think that it is bad that you got out of control and you need to be more cautious next time.. because you never no.. you could have gotten preganant or maybe even be preganan right now.. as i type .. i think you should talk to him .. because if you don't then it's all gonna be bundled up inside and everytime you see him your gonna think of that insedent and that's not what you want.. you want to make peace with yourself and him etc. hope i helped..

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okay well there's this girl named danika and i'm like madly in love with her .. and my locker's right by hers and i always ask her for gum and she's on my bus and she's in my english class and i sit across from her in lunch .. how do i confess my undying love for her?

tehe =) x0*

HAHA

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13/f

I need help with getting wavy hair, I have really thick hair and would really love some advice! I rate evryone a 5!

thank's & hearts

french braid your hair and then sleep with it in all night.. then the next morning take it out and wah la you got yourself wavy hair :-)

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15/F
for halloween i wanna be somthing kinda sexy n kinda cute... wat are some ideas... rate high for alot

:-) i would say a nurse....you know those cute little nurses ;-) that's what i recommend

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im thinking of either being a boy or a hillbilly for halloween
13/f
what can i do to make either one REALLY convincing?

for a hillbilly you can get black out for teeth and put it over one tooth or whatever.. and then you cna get like a brown shirt and rather cut it off or like tie it in the back etc. and overalls if you wanna

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How do I upload a picture?

you go to a website like www.tinypic.com and click on browse and then find that picture and then click on host :-) if you need anyting else let me no :-)

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where can i put all of my AWSOME quotes for all my friends to see?? my aim profile cant hold all of em of course!

thank you much

you can put it in like a buddy4u (extended profile) or a madprofile

www.buddy4u.com
or
www.madprofile.com

hope i helped

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thanks for the advice, i did flirt with him... and he does like me , well so ive herd. but the weird thing is that his mom doesnt let him have a gf...i herd it was cus she doesnt trust him cus of one time she found out stuff he did with a girl... which doesnt bother me bcus it isnt my buisness, but he doesnt want her to find out so he doesnt want me to talk about it to ppl... which i kinda understand...but i donno if he'll ask me out...he told my friend that if he liked a girl enough he would hide it from his mom...i know you need specifics but what do u think about my situation

i think that if you two like eachother a lot .. you should go for it.. you shouldn't let parents get in the way of your relationship.. and if or when his mom find out.. i'm sure she will be mad at first but in the end she will realize that he really does like you .. you know what i mean?.. so don't let his mom stand in front of your feelings... hope i help and hun if you need anything else just let me no

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Hey I was wondering...
I have an xanga & how do I get a song to play on it? Like not a music video..just when you go to y xanga I want a song playing. How Do I do that?
Thanks!

let me no what song you want and i will get it for you and give it to you.. but if not here's what you do you can go to this site www.musicgalore.net and find the song you want... then you will see somethign that say play 16g or somthing like that... and then play 32g or something.. right click the play 16g or w.e it is.. then click on properties.... highlight the [URL] and that you will place in your look n feel of your xanga under where it says music.. if you don't get how to do it .. want me to do it.. etc. just let me no and i would gladly get you the code so you can put it in!

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anyone know how to make xanga layouts?

you have to get print shop pro.. and you make it with that.. you can download it off of jasa.com i think it is or something around those lines.. but i'm gonna tel you right now it costs about 100$!

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Okay.. Some friends and I decided we wanted Tattoos. So we used a needle and Permanent Marker to do them. We scratched/poked the skin a few layers deep.. just enuff to make it almost bleed. Then put layers of marker over the design we carved into ourselves.


Will these Tattoos stay on .. and for how long will they be there?

they won't stay on.. because permanent marker comes out.. lol it's actually not permanent on skin.. plus.. i woudln't even try to do it.. because the markers could give you some kind of skin disease... but i don't know how long they will be there for... i'm better on at the most 2-3 weeks?

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ok this is really confusing... i REALLY like this guy he is 16 he is my friends brothers friend...im 14 one... is that to old? and two... i dont know if he likes me... my friend told me that that guy and her brother said i was hot... but i really like his personallity and i REALLY like him... should i tell him... flirt with him and see if he says anything... bcus he does flirt with me... i dont kno what to do!

im sorry i haven't been here on a while.. i hope im not too late.. yeahh.. flirt with him... because that what makes the connection/relationship tooken to the next level.. you also have to make sure that he nows that you are intrested... you know what i'm saying? hope i helped :-) if you need anything else... just let me no..!

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