HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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My friend really likes this one guy, but I talked to his friend about it and he told me that his friend really didn't like her that much. She REALLY really likes him, and I don't want her to get hurt. Should I tell her? (link)
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I think you should talk to your freinds boyfreind and get to the point.Tell him,look do you really like my freind or not,if you dont then just frikin tell me and stop getting her hopes up that you like her.If he tells you,then you should tell your freind.But her boyfreinds freind that you talked to could be lying to get them to break up so he can go for your freind,so you never know untill youve heard from her boyfreind himself.Its better of your freind hearing from you then HIM.Itll hurt alot more if he told her.
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does anyone know if doing those squats really benefits to your legs??
if so, how many should i be doing?? any tips?
thanks so much (link)
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Yeah they definetly work.They make your leg fat turn to muscels which makes your legs thinner.But make sure you dont stop cuz if you do,the muscels will turn back into FAT!You should do like 50 a day.
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what are some good eye shadow colors for brown eyes that make them like really pop? kthanks in advance (link)
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If you put black eyeliner on the top with silver eyeshadow itll make your eyes appear more.Theres also shades of gold thatll make your eyes godesse like.
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do guys like it better if your completely shaved down there? (link)
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DEFINETLY.When its all hairy it just looks disgusting.
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what does it mean when someone says you're blind? (not literally, obviously) they think they're so wise and stuff and when you ask them what they mean they say "you'll know later" (link)
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It means that you wont and dont want to see the bad side to things although they are right infront of you.Like your freind backstabbed you more than once and you still hang out with her,you must be blind.It can also mean blinded by love.Like your sooo in love to the poin that you wont see any bad things about your lover.
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ok lately all this stuff has been going on in my life wich sux cuz my life finally got normal again i was always good at dealing with stress but this time i think it has gotten to me i cry like alot and i wanna cut my wrists and i go through mood swings alot and i am lways tired and i am even pushing away my best freind sm seriously depressed do i need to get help or am i normal for my age 13/f and if i need help how do i get it cuz like i said my family is all going through alot i dont want to stress them out even more (link)
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You have to have hope for tomorrow and know that depression is only going to make your grades at school be low.If youre grades are low you wont be able to have a great future.What do you want to be when you grow up?To get to that you have to have straight A's and a college degree.Imagine,being rich and successful in a couple of years.The future is in YOUR hands now and if you want it to NOT be like your nowaday life,you have to have an aim in life and focus on y our studys.Anyway,its very normal to have moodswings and stuff like that at your age.You hormones are changing making things worse.I think that nomatter what problems your familys going through that you should open up to your mom about this,shes YOUR MOM and HAS to listen.PLEASE for ONCE think before you cut yourself.ITll get you scars,not just on your skin but will scar your life when you get older and look at it,youll get depressed AGAIN.It will also get you skin disease.Now why the hell do that to yourself?It wont even make you feel any better!What are you pushing your best freind into doing?Dont push her into cutting herself or youd be a really bad freind.So,open up to your mom,think about your future and how BRIGHT its going to be,bare in mind that your also going through mood swings and youll be fine!
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I am 13 and I want my eyebrows to be *ok* for school.
well she wont let me wax. but she wants to pluck them. o well again =\
well anyways my question, is that she tells me your not supposed to take stuff of the top. only off the bottom? is this true? id like to know! Thanks! (link)
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Thats VERY true.Your suppoesd to remove the thin extra hairs on the bottom and the middle of your two eyebrows that connect them.But if you remove from the top its going to look VERY abnormal,like your eyebrows on the to are now REALLY thin and get fatter from the bottom.
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every boyfriend iv ever had has beet me up.they have choked me,kicked me,punched me.chased me and jumped me,some of my guy friends have hit me with bats and the list gos on and on.i have NEVER had a boyfriend who hasent.there has to be somthing wrone with me because even some of my guy friends have beet me up. whats my problem that i always get beet up.13/f im currently single (link)
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HOLY SHIT!!!Its because you give them the CHANCE to do so!Lemme guess,it starts off by you guys calling eachother names as jokes THEN it gets to hitting eachother as jokes then when he gets mad at you,he HITS you.PLEASE dont tell me you did nothing to that guy that hit you with the bat.I woulda kicked his balls out.If you didnt then thats totally retarted of you but whats past is past,you desperatley need to CHANGE woman!If ANY guy EVER hits you,its considered physical abuse!YOU SHOULD GO TO THE POLICE STATION AND REPORT THIS not sit down and wait for them to kill you!Dont EVER joke around with guys by hitting them or calling them names,and if they start by doing that,tell them to show you a lil respect and if they dont then DUMP them.Im a 16 year old female and when i was 13 and guys joke around calling me names or as much as HIT me as joking i used to run after them with text books and beat em up!!And if a guy threatens you and tells you not to tell or theyll hit you MORE,then STILL go tell the police,dont be a cowarde,the police will put an end to it all.You need to show self RESPECT if you want guys to respect you.And i also think that since your 13 youve probably dated guys that are 13.13 is wayyyyy to young to be in a relationship but since its come to hitting with you,i think you should lay off the love and boyfreinds for a while and live your age.All i remember doing when i was 13 is having water fights with my freinds and acting like a retart running around playing truth or dare,i was more innocent than EVER and i still do that!!I never had a boyfreind cuz im living my age and life and ill have a boyfreind when im READY to,when im like 20.LIVE YOUR LIFE,did you even get your period?
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Boys always go out with me and end up dumping me after i get attatched. They tell my friends the only reason they go out with me is because they think i am hott and easy.What can i do to change that? (link)
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If when you happen to go out with these guys for the first time,you kiss them or do anything sexuall,then DUH theyll dump you.Guys test girls to see if theyre sluts or not.They see if theyre hard to get and will turn them down for sex when they ask for it.When you turn them down,they get the impression that"hey shes hot AND respects herself,now THIS is the kinda girl I wanna be with forever" but if you dont respect yourself they go"aw see that bitch,shell do anything i ask her,imma just use her for sex than dump her,but imnot gonna be her guy LOL HELL NO who KNOWS what she did with other guys"To change,even though you want it from them you say NO,like going out and stuff,dont ALWAYS say yes.And be the one to walk away from a convo and get off the phone with them first.Itll give them the impression that youre hard to get and will leave them wanting more.But if you give them EVERYTHING all at once,theyll dump you and go look for a girl that respects herself.
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I'm a 19 year old female and I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. I know it may sound crazy, but I havent told my parents yet. His parents know and they approve of me. But my parents seem to disapprove of him because they think having a boyfriend in college would distract me. I've already proved them wrong because I've gotten straight A's this past semester. My parents met him during thanksgiving, but still disagreed with me having a boyfriend. Theyre also very hard to talk to and are shallow saying that he's too short when he's taller than me by 2 inches. I respect my parents, but after a year of lieing to them about our relationship makes me feel guilty.
What do you think is the most proper way for me to tell them? Write a letter? Have my boyfriend's parents talk to them? Or... straight up tell them in person and hope for no lecture?? (link)
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well,you cant expect to not have a lecture when youve been keeping this from them for a year.they only worried about your grades going down which is totally normal of parents.if your sure this wont distract you,then start off by telling your mom.moms are usually nicer in a way.tell her that you have a boyfreind for a year now,its honest and to the point.tell her and promise that it wont distract you from your studies and that you proved it last time cuz you got straight A's.dont try telling them that there are people younger than you that have relationships because thatll prove you immature infront of your parents.tell her that your going to have fallen in love sooner or later.tell her that youre old enough and that you can take care of yourself and hopefully itll work.just dont keep it a secret from them any longer because if they find out by themselves,they wont be pretty happy.
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How old were you when you got your first kiss? (link)
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Im 16f and still didnt get it.Im saving it for when i get married.Cuz if i try it now,there will be nothing new left to try when im married.lol.
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im soo in love (:
can this be a bad thing? =/ (link)
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...........It depends really.On your age,on if the guy is not true to you,if he has STDs,if hes using you for sex.If all of the above are true then love can be a bad thing but if they arent then,its not a bad thing to be in love.
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Hey,
I want some ideas for my make-up when I go back to school this year. I have kind of fair skin, with some freckles on my cheeks and over my nose. I have really really dark brown hair, side bangs, and it is sholder length. My eyes are green, and pretty big. I think thats all you need. Thanks so much for all your help!
xoxo (link)
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Dont apply TOO much on.Remember,the best thing is to look natural.You can put a lil blush on and eyeliner.Since your eyes are big,then put black pencil eyeliner on the top of your bottom eyelashes.You can also have on a peach color lipgloss.To make you look better,you can have your hair up and your bangs arent up.
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Is masturbation wrong? (link)
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There are some religions that consider it a sin.If its something youre going to do then regret it then you shouldnt do it.But i think that if you reaaly want to do it,do it.Its better than having sex so young and getting STDs.It cant be any wronger than sex at this age.Ask a parent or trusted adult to know more.
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I need step by step help with my make up, with everything from foundation, to eyeliner to eyeshadow, blush....everything! Please help! thank you so much
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ok,first you start of by applying foundation the same color as your skin tone over your whole face,even above your eyelids.look in the mirror and smile,see these cheeks that pop out?THATS where you put blush.Then you can now start with the eyeshadow.But eyeshadow depends on your eye color.If you have brown eyes,you should use any shades of purple,beige,light brown,gold,silver
light pink.If you have black eyes,use light green,silver,white.If you have blue eyes use Light blue,white,silver,black.If you have green eyes use brown or gold shades.Hazel eyes would look good with brown and gold also.Say you have brown eyes.You will apply a shade of light beige on the entire eye.Then you put a medium tone beige on the bottom lid.Above that,but under your eyebrow bone use a darker tone of beige.Then on your brow bone leave the light beige you used to cover your entire eye.Now you have the eyeshadow looking like its medium on the bottom then gets darker.For the eyeliner,if you want your eyes bigger,apply eyeliner on the bottom of your bottom lashes,if you want your eyes smaller,put it on the top of your bottom your eyelashes.For the lip colors,if you want lashes.Mascara makes your eyelashes look thicker and longer.Just use mascara as if youre combing your lips bigger,then define them with lipliner.If you have on a lot of eyeshadow,then you shouldnt have on a lot of lipstick and vice versa.
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this guy asked me out about two days ago and he hasnt hung out with me since and he spent the night with his ex and a couple of his freinds the night he asked me out.
hes really nice
but do you think he accually likes me?
or is just trying to make his ex mad..
PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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It depends.Did he ever talk to you or like you before that?If he didnt then,say no to going out with him cuz hes using you to get his ex mad,ull regret it if you say yes cuz youll end up liking him and hes using you for revenge.If he did talk to you before but never mention that he liked you,then hes also using you.He doesnt like you,trust me,i know these kinda guys.Have dignity and say no to him before he takes advantage of you.
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for 5 months i couldn't bring myself to the make the moves on my boyfriend. and he never made them. so we didnt do very much of anything. but now we broke up and im dating a new guy name justin. and i really like justin and he asked meout. but everyones sayin that if i date him he's just goina fuck me and then once hes got that hes goina be done with me. and that makes me nervous but for once i actually think im ready to have sex for the first time, because i like justin that much, but everything everyones sayin about his reputation and stuff just makes me nervous. i dont wanna give it up to him just to have him be in it to say he fucked me first.
any ideas ... ? (link)
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I seriously dont think you should be with this guy.When it comes to sex,if he has a bad reputation then dump him.If they said that hes gonna have sex with you then leave you,then hes obviously done it a million times and can pass you STD's.Youre gonna be very heartbroken when you do it with him and end up pregnant with STDs and he dumps you.Im pretty sure you can find someone better than that.
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I lost my virginity about 2 months ago
aand I've only had sex 4 times
but recently I've been using a dildo and it hurts and stuff, but I keep going anyway because I want the pain to go away.
But now I'm really red and I kind of hurt
"downthere"
Could I have an STD?
or is this normal? (link)
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No,its not normal and you probably have STD's.Go see a doctor.
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i think my boyfriend loves my best friend and i think she also loves him. i have tried asking my boyfriend questions like if me and him werent going out then who would he go out with and he mentioned her straight away. they are always talking and gettin on even sumtyms mor than me and him do. i feel quite hurt inside but i want to sumhow get proof if he really does love her and if she loves him too before i start thinking of breaking up with him because i luv him so much. please reply back soon x x thanks x (link)
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HAHA(best freind)I dont really think shes a best freind.If she were she wouldnt have been falling for your guy,even if HE was the one that loved her.If i were in your freinds place,i would curse the guy out and go tell you straight away.You need to confront her about this and not confront her by saying"(giigles) HI!!!um,can you please,like,not love my boyfreind,it gets me maaaad" i mean confront her by saying,"HOE!!Keep the hell away from my boyfreind,some freind YOU are.Its either HIM or ME."If she says you and stops talking to your guy then good for her but you still cant trust her.If she says him then,screw her. dont get mad about what happened.Its good that this happened so you can know who to trust and not to trust people too easily next time....then mabey if she breaks up with ur guy and gets a different one....YOU CAN GO FOR HIM,give her a taste of her own medicine!!muahah
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I have this friend who gets mad really easily, but you can't tell her anything. She is so untrustworthy. If she thinks you like a guy then she'll claim she's in love with them and i'm an awful friend if i try for them. She gets jelous easily also. I can't stand her anymore, but I have all my classes with her and all my friends are friends with her...:( so what should I do? She is driving me crazy. Please help. Thanks! (link)
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Just dont tell her anything anymore.You just said shes untrustworthy which means there is NO reason for you to be hanging out with her unless you want to be backstabbed.Let them be her freinds if they want,one day they will see her true colors.Just dont get too close to her.If you want to confront her you can but shell deny it since she acts like this.
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