im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
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everytime when i shave my legs, afterwards you can see like the little hairs. it looks like a bunch of like black dots on my legs. i change my razor very often but i think it is just because my leg hair is dark. i hate nair it doesnt work and hurts! any tips?? thank you :) (link)
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well what i do it i wate a couple of days dont do it like every day and after shaving put lotion on!
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what exactly does it mean when a girl is giving a guy head? and can girls get head too? thanks guys (link)
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ok it means a girl is giving a guy a blow job where a girl is sucking a guys dick penis. and no girls can not!
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Stories always seem to have happy ending, so why isn't real life the same?
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in movies they do that b,c they dont want you to leave the theaters unhappy. real life just cant happen that way its just not happening that way. it sucks. but it ne thing eva goes wrong i alway go to this saying "life sucks then you die fuck this shit lets get high" haha ya well its better than nothin!
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whats the point of letting someone in your life if they just gonna walk out of your life eventually? why do people always have to leave? (link)
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no one knows. i guess its life. sometimes ppl walk out of your life and trust me many have with me. its sad but letting someone in your life is a risk you take, to be happy for a moment. id rather be happy for a min then never at all.!
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Would you rather be told the truth that could potentially destroy your life and change everything you know, or a lie that would save you from the truths?
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i would so rather know the truth about something even though it mite hurt me or "destroy" my life. telling the truth is so much better than telling a lie. b.c eventually whoever the lie was told to thier going to find out and its gonna hurt even more!
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How can i get my boyfriend to kiss me? (link)
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tell him to... or jut kiss him your self guys like that sometims. he must be shy. but he does want to i garentee it!
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please dont post anything negative, i dont need negativite right now. i need something that will tell me that everything will be ok.
anyways. ahh i bleached my hair. and then dyed it back to brown.
does bleach wear off?? or do i have to wait until my natural hair grows back?
and also how long before the dye wears off??
i reallllly want my natural hair color again.
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actually when u bleach ur hair its for dying your hair but the hair color comes out so bleach shows and then you have to redy it until your natural hair color comes back. im sorry!
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15/f
In the past couple days, i've been stinking up the bathroom pretty bad every time I went number 2. It's reaaal embarrassing.
I have been exercising alot these past few days (swimming and running), if it helps.
Is there anything I could be eating that's causing this?
Anything I could do to stop it? (link)
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actually evrery time i excercise that happends to me too! its cuz your drinking alot more water! and what your eating afterwords!
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If doing push-ups is for your chest muscles, will your breasts get smaller? Or less... flabby... as weird as that sounds.
Yeah, I am small on top, and I want to be smaller. That's probably a surprise to hear on Advicenators. So if I strengthen my chest muscles will they be smaller? Will doing push ups help? What are some other exercises?
If not, which muscles... which exercises? (link)
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well eventually i think you can a chest of a guy when they work out but no doing push ups dont really help just think when you do them do your boobs hurt or do ur arms hurt.? and your growing you dont need to get rid of them trust me i didnt want them either but now they are ok. so dont get rid of them they help in the future! :p
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Hi, I am david and i am from india, aged 25 years, i have a huge pain my butt from last 2 months, whenever i sit in my desk i feel a lot of pain in my butt cheeks and side of it,i feel like doing suicide, please help with this pain, i am very depressed. (link)
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umm well it doesnt go so well when ppl ask why he commited suicd b.c ur ass cheecks hurt. try like this sporting cream that like releves pain go into like wallgreens or Eckerd and ask them they will tell u!!!!! you mite be doing something as well that works out your butt so think are you doing anything new?
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Lay 'em on me girls! I want all your beauty tips - no matter how weird! Of course the guys can help too, but I though this would be more up the girls' alley!
What I mean is - I recently found out how amazing you look after tanning, or what a HUGE difference tweezing your eyebrows make! And if someone would have just told me this sooner I could have saved myself a lot of tears, i look 10 times better now and in 10 days I've gotten more boys than I ever have in my life! (i used to be bullied, boys wouldn't even look my way!)
So help me - tell me what you've got?! Any discoveries that completely changed your life (or atleast your look!) ?
Thank you! It could be anything from eye-make up to ... well, anything really. Haha :)
Thank you and have a good summer! (link)
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well for pimples if you ever get them put regular colgate whitining tooth paste on them over nite!! it helps i sware. and to keep your hair shiny wash it with shampoo when your hair is dry!!!! and also to keep the smell of your perfume going put it on your chest the scent is coming off more from there dont know why but it does!
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me again i'm 5'8" (link)
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yes thats totally normal!!! and just so uk it doesnt matter about the penis length its the width! so ppl told me!!!
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Hi... i'm 15 and my penis size is 5 inches is that normal? (link)
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depends how tall ru?!!
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I am 100% addicted to soda, my doctor has even confirmed my caffine addiction. However, I really need to stop drinking it for volleyball and just my own personal health. I'm in very great shape, but I feel the soda slows me down in conditioning. So, I would like to cut the drink out of my life.
I've tried so many methods, but I always give in and drink even more then I started with. I drink about three a day right now. Any ideas how to quit? (link)
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DONT buy it make sure that you dont have it in your house instead buy a flavored water call crystle light it has no calories and flavor its really good i love it! and you can buy gaderade it pumps you up! and snaple is good for you too. but if you still cant get soda off of your mind then buy DIET soda it has no calories.!
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I know this isn't the right category but it's the most popular so please just bear with me.
I am so miserable. I've had nothing but a run of bad luck for the last two months.
First the business I worked for closed down, so then I had to find a new job, I found one but hate it.
Then my car was broken into $600 dollars worth of damage.
I live with my grandparents and my grandma is so strict on me, I do absolutely nothing wrong, I don't go out and drink and party, i'd rather stay home with my boyfriend or have a night with the girls. My friends are good people, most of them are at uni.
My boyfriend and I have been together for just over two years. I'm 19 he's 21 in 3 weeks.
In my new job I have to study for it. I have a computer at home but it's easier for me to use a laptop so I could study quietly in my room so my boyfriend lent me his.
We plan on moving in together in the next 12 months so instead of me buying a laptop he's getting a desk top computer and i'm using the laptop.
Well last night I was saving things in my memory stick so he could have all his stuff on the new computer then I cam across conversations between him and all these other girls.
Ok mind you the conversations were two years ago just as we got together but they were dirty conversations with other girls and some of them even said um you have a girlfriend and his response was what goes on here stays here.
I was hurt although they happened a long time ago it was hard to read something like that from someone you love so much. At that stage he was sweeping me off my feet and tell me he loved me for the first time.. why was he still talking to these other girls...??!
I confronted him about it and he said they meant nothing and that none of the convos went any further then that.. where has my Mr Perfect gone?
Am I over reacting because they were a long time ago..?? I guess it was just a shock to see that side of him.. I have never seen that dirty side of him... never!
Could he have just been after a bit of fun because I wasn't there? But then again that's still no excuse right??
I live in a small town so I know who all these other girls are.. I guess I just feel embarrassed becaue those girls knew that I was with him and he was still after more.
Now back then, I was still at school.. As I said my grandma is very strict so I want only allowed to see him on the weekends.. We did only just get together.. about a month before those convos started.
Should I give him credit for waiting for me or be mad at him for disrespecting me?
I'm tired of being miserable.. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and I know he loves me and I know he has always been faithful to me.
I can kind of understand if he was looking for someone else back then but I just wanted to know if it was right to be mad at him..!
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i wouldnt be to mad i mean they were two years ago and he has changed! he sounds like a great guy and that he would never try to hurt you so dont worry about it im sure you have flirted with otha guys when you were going out with him i mean ive done it too. im not proud and i try to put myself in his postion if i found out he was doing what i was i would be super mad. just sounds like he was a having fun one night everyone does it. dont be mad at him.
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which way down you shave when you shave down there? (link)
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shave the opposite way the hair is going.! and when you do shave down there you need to put alot of shaving cream and then after that do it with soap and then after that body lotion and then put like skin cream so its smooth!!!
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15/F
Lately, I've been getting really popular, after my first year of high school (I'll be a sophomore now). Anyways, basically, throughout middle school, not a SINGLE guy liked me. Now, I have like a lot of guys wanting me, but thats a different story. So basically, my family doesn't think that I'm popular because of the way I was in middle school (but I wasn't like a loser...). Anyways, I hang out with all these popular guys that want me AND theire ppopular friends like every day now, but my family doesn't know about it. Should I tell my mom that I'm hanging around boys, because she knows them: I went to elementary school with them and she thinks theyre all "sweet." What she DOESN't know is that together, we drink, and occasionally get high. So if I told her, she'd probably suspect that we're drinking, and then forbid me to hang out with them. (link)
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well then dont tell her if she asks one day where are you going then tell her. but other than that dont!
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16/m
i was wondering something I heard about. I got some spermicide condoms with nonoxynol-9 and I was wondering if they often irritate women? I just want to make sure my girlfriend is comfortable during and after sex. What do you guys think? Should i go get diffrent ones? (link)
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actually studies showed that those condoms have a better increase of passing a STD!
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Hi to every body.I am from Kuwait
really i m in trouble thats y now a days i m searching internet for my solution. Problem is that i have hairs on my whole pennis. i started using Hair removal cream but after 2 or 3 days my hairs get hard and after two months i will be a married person. if i will shave my whole pennis then it may cause injury in my wife's vagina. Plz can any body help me that how can i get rid of those hairs completely.
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OH no u cant use that down staris haha wash well. go to a specialist they will tell you wat to do !
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to start off
i'm 14/f
almost 180lbs =/
and about 5'5"
what should my weight goal be?
i would really like to be a size M in shirts.
i'm XL now.
advice on how to lose the weight would be helpful too.
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ok at your age and hieght you should be like 130 ish im 14/f and 5'7 and 130 what you should do is change your eating habits its summer now and not being in school has the more temtation to eat alot. in the morning istead of waffles and cearal have half a bagel or oat meal special K cearal or rasion brand. in the afternoon dont over load your sandwich with mayo. instead of a yogort or salad. and for a snack have an apple or fruit. for dinner dont go for seconds. dont eat the skin off of the turkey or chicken. have more salad then seconds. and for excersizing start of by walking for an hour one week and then when your done walking do 50 crunches and then next week start jogging and doing 52 crunches and remember drink A LOT OF WATER! hope i helped but if Cosmo girl has a wonderful colum all the time on how to loose weight and start getting healthy! so buy that.
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