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okay well i just wrote a question about going on a diet togain weight since im only 100 pounds... well i was jw... but do guys prefer girls that are skinny... or girls of average weight?? (link)
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average weight..totally. i mean. why would guys like those skinny girls.. the ones that look like they eat napkins. ew. but yeh.. i would try to say in your weight range (w.e what would be) dont go over.. dont be under. yyou'll be finee
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Hello, sorry I didnt know what category to list it under i think this should be ok.
Well i have a brace and I think it looks really ugly! Im not sure weather boys take intrest in me anymore and I'm really scared incase it ruins my 'love skills' aka kissing etc.
Also how could I kind of "hide" them so people dont notice them so much?
Sarah-lee 13 (link)
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draw attention to some thing/some were else on your body. like mayeb wear some prettty, dark eye makeup. or a low cut shirt.. that will make all the boys stop looking at your braces ((if they aree)) and for the kissing partt, it will probably bee odd the first time, but after that.. it will be fine, you get used to them.
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i asked my friend to go to prom but he doesn't want to but he said he wants to go to an after party party with. i don't understand. what should i do?? should i tell him i would really like him to go or ask someone else? (link)
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well did you ask him to go as a friend.. or as a date. maybe he doesn't want to go as a friend. or maybe he just isn't into you. i would talk to him and be like heyy.. i really like you. do you feel the same. and if he doesnt, then try to find some one else. but try to not let this ruin your friend ship.
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Hello im caroline! I'm 14 years of age and i have really bad acne! I keep picking it and it just wont go away its so ugly and annoying how do i get rid of it! All the boys say i have a fanny rash on my face :S or spot the dog how do i make it go away! please help!!
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well if you picking it..thats your problem! it you stop picking. and maybe use proactive, or origins has good stuff (i use that) or just some at target.. wash your face 3 times a day, morning after school and night. and just dont tuch it a lot.. i think it will go away. also you could go a little light on make up.. that would help to
and for the boys.. they go threw it too. so just laugh when they do!
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ahh ok so i have this friend and we r really good friends and i like him a lot but i used to like him when we were friends before then all of a suden he like hated me so its been like two weeks since we r friends again and he imed me and said we need to talk and we did and he said i missed u and stuff like that and now we r back to normal and he always stands up for me and he says i lu2 after i say it when i get off im and he just broke up with his girl friend a week ago and he still isnt over her but when he is should i ask him out??????? (link)
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do you want to ruin the friend ship? yes, you might like him. but do you really want to ruin the friend ship. cuz ya'll might break up and never bee good friends again .. and that woulnd't be good. so think about the friendship, and then if your sure you want to aske him out.. then do it.
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i recently got my hair cut but they cut it way too short for my liking, it just reaches my shoulders and is layered all over and i cant do anything with it so i was just wondering if theres anyone out there that can give me advice on what i can do with it or a way of styling short hair really anything
thanks alot xoxo
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awww. it sounds super cute =) well you cant do anythhing.. just kidding you can doo tons! i straighten my hair.. and it is like yours. and it is super easy..so you can straighten it. or you could crunch it.. and how you do is at night while your blow drying just crunch up your hair in your hands, and then blow dry, when you get it half way dry, stop crunch gell into it. and then blow dry again. it will look really puffy, but will go down while you sleep. then in the morning, just fix it up with gell. orr you could curl it.. like with the iron. first straighten it, then heat up your curling iron and then wrap 1 to 1 and 1/2 inch peices around the iron.. but dont curl all the way up to the top, just like .. 4 or 5 inches down from the top. umm. you could also put it up in cute thinggs. like take a thick peice from the top of you hair, after you straighten it, and put hair spray on it and then twist it back, and then take a bobby-pin and stick it in there. ahh. i could go onn.
im sure you hair looks great, hope i helped
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as stupid as it sounds, i don't care! i just need help! im 13 and have been going through puberty SLOWLY. its so annoying, but my cousin is a bit older than me and is telling me when your breasts grow while your going through puberty-they hurt! and now im noticing it! my right breast is starting to hurt and grow a little more. but my left breast isn't doing anything! im getting worried that ill look like a freak because my right breast will grow faster and not gradually with the right one! i don't feel comfortable talking to my mom about it... is this normal???
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no. thats not normal. just kidding. yes that is fine. your not sick or anything. while they are growing out, just wear sports bras. they make you look equal.. your finee and for the pain, take montrin. or just deal with it. and your left one will start growing soon. trust me.
every thing will start to equal out.
hope i helped, hang in here!
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Hey thanks for everything! You helped alot. And no, im not depressed, im just a simple girl that is trying to find something i like. And i finally found it. Even though i lost some friends im finally happy with myself. Im takeing your advice and im just going to not care. Because my true friends are still here with me even though ive changed. Well just wanted to let you know that!
Thanks so much once again!
Signed No LoNgEr CoNfUsEd (link)
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yepp, any time. and i thank you for not carring what other people think. other should be like you!
hearts - me
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Ok, im 14 and all of a sudden my style of clothing is getting different. Im changing my stlye of clothing but i still have the same personality. I am just starting to like differnt things and im getting into other stuff, so my clothing is changing also. I kinda use to be a a girlie girl who shopped at hollister and abercrombie. Now i wear covnvers, vans, spiky belts, ect. But i like the style im wearing now!! I luv it. Im glad i change because im more happy. But some people dont see me as still being the same person in the inside. I still have the same personality and eveything. Well through this change my true friends have been there through it all! But i lost some people as friends. They think im weird now that ive change my style. I didnt do it just to be popular im just trying new stuff and this time i accually found a style i liked! The point is that should i not care what people think of the new me? And should i just forget those friends that i lost and keep the new me that dresses different? Please help!
Signed CoNfUsEd (link)
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yes, you shouldnt care what others think about the way your dress! duhh! and the friends you lost.. who needs them. they only dont like you because your diffrent now!. i think your wonderful, being able to change your style! lol. but just making sure. your not depressed or anything? right? some people change their clothes when they are depressed.. or need help. so you are fine? thats good. well just keep dooing what YOU want to do.. dont care what others thing! you rock!
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is there anyway you can dely your period but in a healthy way? cuz im goin on a trip next weekend and my period is planned to come around then! how can i cope with this? (link)
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no. not really there are those things out there were you only get your period 4 times a year.. but they are crap. i would just bring tampons and padds and midol (sp) that should work. i wouldn't take any pills or anything..you need to have your period every month.. it is kind of un-normal not to have it
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What can you do to stop the annoying sound of hearing yourself breathe in your ear? Anything? Or you just have to let it go away on it's own? (link)
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hum. i donno. i dont hear my self breath... maybe you should just clean out your ears.. that could help
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k well i want to get a lipring. i dont know how it will look though, so i was wondering if theres a way to get a fake lip ring (that actually will stay on my lip) so i can see how it looks...i dont wanna go thru all that pain for something that will look tacky. any help or suggestions is appreciated! (link)
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well you could go out and get one of those clip on lip ringss. but in my oppin.. lip riggs look tacky. i mean.. they say a lot a bout you..and not good stuff. so i would save you money and maybe get your belly periced.. or another one on your ears.
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OK heres the dealio
i HATE showers...they just seem like a waste of time for me. Does anyone know any ways that will make showering fun?? no sarcastic answers please. Thanks (link)
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i used to be like that .. when i was like 5..but i still showerd, cuz i knew i had to. i donno. maybe you should listen to music while you shower.. or something like that. because you have to shower.. that is just kind of .. yuckky if you dont. so listen to music.. or take the 15 min that you shower to relfect on your day.. or think about stuff. who you like. your friends. what you did today. what you wanted to do.. stuff like that
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Me and my best friend Ashlee are REALLY close but lately shes been really into guys. I mean, I am just not the way she is ..I mean were 13 but I guess Im kind of prude. Well, one night Ashlee got invited to a party with my other 2 friends Lindsay and Courtney. A few other people in my circle of friends (And I) didnt get invited. But, I didnt think much of it and I didnt care at all. Then, the other day, I was on the phone with my friend Alex (Shes one person who didnt get invited either) and Alex told me that Courtney, who was at the party, told her that the party wasnt really a party. It was just a few guys and Ashlee, Lindsay, and Courtney. Courtney said they played spin the Bottle and Ashlee (Who had never kissed anyone before) made out with 4 guys at the party! The worst part was that she didnt even tell me. I dont know what to do! I told Alex (Swore on my life, basically) NOT to say anything about what Ashlee did (especially to Ashlee) because she would know Courtney told Alex and Alex told me! Im so depressed! what do i do? (link)
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to start off with, her being SO into guys, is just a stage. and you being prude that is okay. and with the whole thing about the girl didn't tell you.. dont freak out. you said you were a little prude so maybe she doesn't want you to think badly about her. or maybe sence you haven't m/o with anyone (or so i got from reading this) she doesn't think she can connect to you. so maybe you should talk to her. .and be like. so how was the part? who was there? what did ya'll do.. but dont be all like.. i know what you did. lol. just make it casual.. and maybe she will open up. and if she doesn't that is okay. she will soon. but dont think of her as a bad friend, cuz she isn't.
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Tell me if I'm over-reacting, but...
My best friend Sara came over yestery, and we started watching a movie, Raise Your Voice. And, well, these guys call her. Background info about the guys, one of the guys and sara were supposed to go out but sara's best friend (now ex) stold him away from her, and the other, well they kicked it and he started standing her up, so things stopped. But yeah, they called her saying they were going to some park/lake nearby and they wanted her to go with. She knew I couldn't go, and then she called another friend and begged HER to go with. Then when she got off the phone she looked at me and was like, are you mad?e I said yeah maybe. Then she's like oh I'm such a bad friend... and calls the guys back saying come pick me up! Agg! Who does that? Thats the reason her last friendship, fell apart, her other friends ditched Sara and so she should know how it feels. This isn't the first time we foughta. We fight a lot. And today in the morning I didn't call her up for school like usual and she calls half hour later saying why didn't i call her to wake her up?and i said that i thought she'd be up already, and sjhe clicked. so then at the bus stop i didnt go anywhere nearher and then she came to me to give me my books back and take hers and said something ... then called me abithc. I dont know what to do, everyone likes her. SHe talks about everyone behind their back. Agggh it drives me insane because no one believes me! I will give you a 5 if you give me a good response. Thanks in advance! :=) (link)
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no. your not over-reacting. that so wasn't right of her. she was at your house hanging with you and bloew you off for some guys.. chicks before dicks.. so you have a right to be mad at her for that. maybe she didn't realize that she blew you off. maybe you should call her up and be like heyy is now a good time to talk? and just be like. the other day when you were over and you left.. it was like you were blowing me off. i know you know how that feels, and it doesn't feel good. i was just wondering, did you relize you hurt me? and then just take it from there. i think if you just talk to her, you 2 will connect, and start to understand eachother.. and hopefull that will never happen again
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Ok, this past week, I went to Disneyworld to march in the parade with the band. (yes, I'm a bandgeek...) Well, my really good friend, Nicole, was sitting with me on the busride to Floriday (24 hours, yuck!) and the way there and the 1st few days of Disney were fine, but then she started getting on my nerves. At the time, I didn't think she was a lesbian at all. She was just NOT giving me my space and was hanging around me A LOT. She basically wouldn't leave me alone. And from then on, she started acting really weird. I'm gonna tell you the things that she did, but they're not gonna be in order lol. Well, for one, we were at Epcot and playing in the fountain like 4-year-olds, but hey it was fun lol. She kept picking me up and trying to get on top of me. And then, long after we dried off, she had wet spots on her boobs. So disgusting. On the bus ride home, I'm like, trying to sleep, and every time I look, she's watching me. Then later, I woke up later that night and her butt was pressed against mine and if I'm not mistaken, it was moving up and down. Then on the monorail, she has all this room, but is like, on top of me. So I move over, and she moves closer, and that kept happening. Just a lot of that kind of stuff. So me and my new friends Kelly and Molly and my other friend Amber ditched her at Magic Kingdom, and yeah, we're not talking (not that I care). But now, I'm just really freaked out. I told my friends, and we thought about it for awhile, and a lot of stuff she told us before was all starting to make sense and we really think she's bi or a lesbian. So what should I do? I don't really want to be her friend anymore, and I'm just really freaked out. I could probably say more, but I don't want this to be too long, so if you want more details, IM me on x HappyBunni16 x. Sorry so long, but I'm really scared.
P.S. I have nothing against lesbians, just when they hit on me and my friends. (link)
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lol your spelling mistake.. totally fine =)
but with your question. maybe she isn't lesbo, or bi. she just got to confortable with you. cuz you did sit with her for 24 hours.. straight. so maybe she thought you guys were just like.. super tight. or maybe she is lesbo/bi. and that is nothin to be scared of. but what i hear you telling me is that you dont want to be her friend because she might be lesbo/bi. and that just inst fair to her. she cant help who she likes, we all know that. but i would most deff. talk to her. take her aside and be like. i think you possible might be lesbo/bi, are you. and just make sure she can trust you, and talk with her. but i wouldn't just drop her like that.. if she is.. she needs some one to trust, and to be there for her.. so maybe you could the be the person
hope i helped, i/m me if you need any more help on this ( i am who i am 345 ) or you can ask me more questions
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i would most deff talk to her .. about the whole staring thingg. eww. and the whole.. smelling and wearing the same shirt.. that is just disgusting.. im not to sure what to do. ew. maybe when you are talking to her.. you could bring it up too.?
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omg i've gained so much weight in the past month it's driving me crazy! i'm trying to lose it but i just can't and summers coming soon and i don't want to be a fat blob! is there anything i can do to try to lose like 10 lbs. i really need it. (link)
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umm. there are tons of thinggs. you can starve your self. you can throw up. you can stop eatting. but all of those things are totally stupid..so dont do them. but what you should do it just excersize, like do crunches (start out at like.. 20 then go up every night) also run (start out either running like 1/4 of a mile and go up, or start out running like 10 min and then go up) those are the things i do to lose weight. or you could also do all the weight lifting stuff, but that makes you all buff.. ew. also maybe you could stop eating junk food, and eat more heathly, that works.
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I sweat A LOT like I just can't help it...no kidding. But when I wear a dark shirt it SHOWS and it's so embarrassing... is there like something wrong with me? Because it always seems like I'm the only one having trouble with this! (link)
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yes. your about to dieee haha. just kidding. nope nothing is wrong with you, your body it just changing. you just need to make sure you wear deotorant every day. or you can go to your dr. and they can give you some perscription stuff, i think. but yea. it isn't anything to be worried about, your body is just changing, your not going to die
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my parents have to find a place for me to stay for thursday to saturday but the problem is my mom set me up at my bff's house but im mad at her and i think we are separating apart from each other cause i have new bffs but i dont no how to tell her i dont want to stay at her house because my bff is on the same bus as my other bff so she will no im staying at her house what do i do?????????
signed
Lonely
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well why dont you try talking it over w. your other friends and say.. hey i was supposed to stay at ...'s house but we are now in a fight, can i stay at one of you'r houses.
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you can still go over to your old bff's house and take this chance to get back to being bff's.. cuz as the word says.. best friends forever.
i would most deff. do the 2nd one.. you dont want to lose a friend.
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i am best friends with these two guys! I love them to death more then anything in the world. But the problem is I have always liked the one or the other and I dont kno why i just switch on and off, what should I do. THe one guy i went out with for like a day then we were done but hes amazing. the other guy i have never gone out with but i sorta like him more but they would never like me its REALLY confusing but can you help me AT ALL? Female obviously --> 13yrs (link)
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well first you need to decide, who do you like more. then just flirt with that guy, but still stay friends with the other guy too. or maybe some time you should try going some were with only one of them, and seeing how that goes. like maybe to the movies with only one guy, and then the next weekened with the other, and see wich one you have more fun with, and you laugh more with, and w.e else you are looking for in a guy.
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