mrs_radcliffe's advice column

hi i am had the injection as form of contraception is there any possiblility that i can fall pregnant on the injection is it 100% safe or 99%? im not sure and i really dont wanna sound dumb or anything?

Nothing is every not possible usually, it might not be 100% but its a big certain.

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hey im 15, and i was wondering can teenagers get breast cancer? like on my left breast i feel like some bump or something but i dont know if its really a bump and it hurts a little in that area. i was wondering could that be breast cancer? im really worried and i want to know, if any of you know what can that be, maybe its just that my breasts are still growing or something i really dont know. please help me.

Yes teenagers can get brest cancer. I surgest you go see a female doctor and get it sorted out. Some times girls can get little lumps but there usually sensative because there growing but id go see the doctor.

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what do you think about giving head do you think it is the rite thing to do I told my boy friend I would but I dont know if I am going to do something wrong what do yuo think about this whole siduation? PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVISE

I think that if you really love him or like him alot and you know your ready to move on then there is no reason not to.

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well i have a mole on my cheek and i told my mom i wanna get it rmoved she said yea, but it depends on when the doctors say i can... does anybody know if theres a certain age you have to wait til to get something like that removed?

There isnt really a age limit, its up to the doctors and what they think. You should be able to have it removed.

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Ok well im bi and my friend is freeking out about it and he is going to tell my parents and if they find out they will freek out and i dont know what to do cause he is really serious about this and i need help

There nothing wrong with been a bisexual, Tell him that its got shit all to do with him and that your not bothered that hes tell your parents (even though you are then he might think about it and stop) I think it would be best to talk to your parents anyway, there your parents and they should be able to help you and accept you for who you are.

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ok im 15/f and i really like this guy! so that guy already knows cause 1 of my friends blabbed and he said i was pretty and all, but he hasn't asked me out! i talk to him whenever i can in class and stuff, but it doesn't seem to be working! oh ya, he's never had a gf before! how i do i get him to ask me out? pleaz help!

He could be shy in asking you , Why dont you ask him to the movies or to the beach or to yours and watch a few films. Then ask him out if he thinks your pretty he might say yes.

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hey well im now 14, and embarringly i havnet had my period is this a bad thing?? I mean i havent know anyone that got it in high school , and like im embarrased to talk to my mom about it help me please

Hey god no. Its perfectly ok. Loads of girls start at different times and you will start when your body is ready for it. But dont worry talk to your friends about it if your emarrased friends are good at giving you advice and beening there for you.

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hey i hate the mintiness burn of toothpaste and i heard baking soda works, but how do i use it as a toothpaste?? thanks for anyone who helps!

Why not buy a different tasting toothpaste. Dont worry i cant stand toothpaste its awful!!!!! But i dont surgest baking soda.

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i just turned 14 and in janurary or feburary i got my first period. now its april and i havent had it since, i know irreguar periods are normal but for this long?!?!

Yes dont worry about it its very normal, lots of girls when they first start there periods are very irregular dont worry about it just get on with things and stop thinking about it and it will come soon.

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ok ther is aguy at skool and we r friends.. he is always tells me thing that he doesnt tell other people ... and same thing i can tell him stuff like that to.. and we always talk on the fone 24/7..... and we always flirt .. i dont kno if he likes me .. i really do and how can i find out??
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You will have to ask him. Thats the only way you will find out if you be trueful and honest he should tell you.

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My friend's b-day party is on Saturday. I also have a very important softball practice that same day. They are both at the same time. I

I think that your friend would be very upset if you didnt come. Friendship is more important in this situation and any situatio.

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does anyone know where a teenage girl, i know with acting you have to put a lot of time into it but, where i can do acting or audition for stuff in the NYC/NJ area? i've had no professional experience but i'm good

Try searching on google. Acting lessons around your area.

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I have a bad attitude about school and i cant change it. I have alot of missing math assingmets, i don want to do them: they are super hard. I hate school, I would rather laze around all day...

Just think positive and think that you can do the work that is set for you and you will do a good job and pay attention its ok to be a bit lazey in classes most of the people are just dont over do it.

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well theres guy that i like like and were friends and yeah he flirts but then again he has a lot of friends that are gurls and well he flirts with them to but how do i find out if he likes me but what i was thinking since he's gradurating this year should i tell him at the end of the year that i like him but i think if i do than he'll just think that i was just another one added on to the list but what i fear most is that he's going to leave with my heart and i didnt do anything about it but then again i act like i do and he can pretty much see it in my eyes i think

Why dont you just ask him, The only way you can find out if he likes you is asking him upfront and coming out with it. If he doesnt like you or only as a friend just ok just wondered.
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i love music but i dont always have to money to buy cds. can you give me some good FREE sites that i can download off of? also can you give me any that wont have spyware? thanks muchly.

Try on google search
WinMx.com
Kazaa.com
there really good and just download it to your computer and your ready to start downloading music.

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hey im 13 and lately ive been feeling left out. i have a whole group of friends who iused to hang out with but i cant hang out on the weekends anymore because i need to study for school and i also have something going on. even though i cant hang out really ive been feeling left out, my friends wont talk to me, and the only chance i can hang out with them they always have plans. ive been also trying to hook up with my friends ex so do you think its that they dont wanna be friends with me or what

Talk to them. If they dont want to here about it then there not good friends, find some new ones you dont need friends that leave you out and treat you differently from the other people in the group. If they dont see how special you are there lose.

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there is this guy and i have liked him for 2 years now. We went out last summer but the day before school started back we broke up. My dad found out some stuff we did and talked to josh and told him not to talk to me ever again. josh has a girlfriend now but i still want him so bad. My dad told me the other day i could talk to josh again. And i really want to but we havent talked in so long and i dont know what to say. I dont even know if he wants to talk to me anymore. Any ideas on what to do? i'll rate high for answers!!!

Well its not right good time when he has a girlfriend you dont want to tell him and have him feel the same and then dump his porr girlfriend if you feel really in love with him chat to him see what hes upto then mabe you can become friends and when you do they might break up and you can be there to comfort him, mabe it might get better.

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does bronze tanning lotion stuff really work? i mean does it really make you look tan or does it turn your orange? and how many times do you have to put it on before you look tan?

Yes it does work, but if you apply to much it can make you orange. Some expensive ones its only 1 apply that you put on and it starts working cheaper ones its about 2.

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My Birthday is today ^_^ im turning 14,and i dont no what to do for it [[im having to friends over but i dont want to bore them]] What should i do?

Play games rent some videos and come on here play a few games make some snacks and out to town or the beach.

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I have a "friend" that is sort of mean to my other friends. She excludes them and is very posesive of me. She gets angry when me and my 2 other friends do things together, without her. My other friends basically hate her, but i don't want to break the friendship off because i don't want to make an enemy. I hat being stuck in the middle!!!
~Stuck

Talk to her, tell her that shes been very mean and seems very upset if you want to do somethings with your other mates and not including her. If she doesnt like that you'll have to tell her that she cant be friends with you lot if shes that annoying.

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