HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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I would like to know what the difference is between using a tampon and using a pad for girls when they have their periods. (link)
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A pad is like a towell in a way and it sticks on your underwear and the blood leaks on it.Tamposn are dangerous i encourage you to not use them.Its like a lipstick but longer and fatter.You stick it up there and no blood comes out.You cant have one in there for more than 4 hours and if you leave it in there too long you can get toxic shock syndrome which is a sickness you get down there that includes painful peeing.
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My best friend is Bi, she smokes weed, she cuts, and is into the whole "Emo, scene, be yourself type of phase"
She thinks I'm fake because I love to dress up nicely, wear "preppy style" clothes, and I like country music. She thinks everyone is really bi, and if you don't admit it youre fake. I'm sick of her and her other bi friends ragging on me cause I'm not like them! They're all like "hardcore" and they hate it that I'm friends with all sorts of people. I just relate to everyone a little bit, I'm just the type of person that will talk to anyone, they think I'm after popularity and I'm all fake for not sticking to one "type" How do I get them to stop ragging on me about this, and show them that this is the real me! (link)
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Even if she is your best freind,i think you should stay away from her.If they want to beilive your fake then they can beilive what they want.Youve told them more than once that youre not and they refused to beilive you so they can beilive what they want.I think youre freind here is jealous of you and thinks youre fake because she cant beilive that someone can be all pretty and popular like you,because shes depressed and hates her life.KEEP AWAY from her before you turn into one of them.Best freinds ALWAYS influence one another in SOME way.
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ok. so i have really bad bags u nder my eyes. tehre like practically like black. and they go far down. i tried cucumbers and wash cloths and the spoons. taht lightened them a little. like barely where you can notice. so how in the world do they go away!?!?!!??! cover up barely works. so what are some "cheap" products or other ways to get rid of them??? and fast
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If you put wet tea bags under your eyes,everyday for 15 min,your bags will lighten up.Keep doing this till you see a result.
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hey im 13/f
my mom says if i ever get a boyfriend and she knows about it, shell be really pissed cuz im not aloud to be dating yet. i really like this guy and theres a rumor going around that hes gonna ask me out. well my best friend said and these are her words.."ill make sure your mom knows." i cant not tell my best friend that i have a boyfriend and even if i dont, itll get around. i just dont know what to do. (link)
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I think your moms right to not let you date now.You are way too young.Shes worried because at your age your personality is still being built and it will till youre like 20.And if this guy breaks up with you or something bad happens,youll get depressed and this will affect you from growing mentally strong,and you will grow up having a weak personality.Wait till youre old and mature enough to date.Im 15 turning 16 and i never dated.Im waiting till i can MAKE a correct decision.I think you should do the same.Dont do anything you will regret later on.
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16/f
i wish i would have more friends...all the so-called popular people at my school make me feel so retarded! they talk to me and stuff but i never hangout with them- i DONT want to be like them... i mean im not a geek at all but im not someone you would call popular. im a prep. i have my few close "girl" friends. not many guy friends i dont know why? but i feel like such a loser when all these people go out and hangout every single day but the stupid thing is they have to drink or get high to have fun which is stupid to me and thats why i dont care about hanging out with them. but everyone is out partying and hanging out -even the people who dont do drugs and stuff and im just sittin at home with my mom and on the computer! i never know what to do. i dont have many friends i can call. im not able to join a club or a sport (dont ask why). i am getting a job soon and school is starting up in a couple weeks. for some reason im getting really depressed over this..ive never had a boyfriend but most people tell me im so gorgeous or hott or beautiful and sometimes i believe them but i just dont know whats wrong with me!!
any suggestions to turn my life around? and just have more fun. my brother is 19 and he even makes fun of me and says im a loser and have no friends and just sit at home and i know its true and i hate hearing about it. (link)
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I think you should be happy with your life.You are beautiful and VERY smart to be keeping away from the popular kids.They are popular,but for what?FOR DOING THE WRONG THINGS.They smoke,drink,get high,lose their virginity,get pregnant and come complaining.DO YOU want that to happen to you?The popular people are just not for you to hang out with.Well,a new years starting and youll meet newer people and make new freinds.Just be more sociable with the people your gonna make freinds with and keep away from the popular people.Youll regret it if you dont.Youll find them pushing you into doing EVERYTHING you never wanted to do and all of this,to be POPULAR.You need to have a strong personality and not let anyone push you into doing something you dont want to.Good luck
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my best friend in the entire world isnt speaking to me!! i dont even know what i did wrong, and she just wont tell me. whenever i approach her she just turns around. any ideas how i can find out whats wrong? (link)
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There are many reasons why she could be mad at you.Do you flirt with a guy she likes?Did you talk about her behind her back?Do you do drugs or smoke now(mabey she found out)Did you CHANGE in ANY WAY???Ask yourself that.Go ask and make your freind listen to you(if you have NO idea what you did)and ask her what was it that you did wrong.You HAVE to get her to listen.Even if it means GOING to her house uninvited.You cant lose your best freind THAT easily!!
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how in the world do i stop bitting my nails???? they are soo short that sometimes they bleed. i tell myself not to, but i keep bitting them. please help me
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This is a psycological problem.You do this when you feel stressed out.And you just cant stop even though you KNOW your fingers will bleed.I think you should try to relax a bit and whatever it is thats stressing you,open up and tell someone about it.
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so theres this one kid that i liked alot
and i belive he lead me on
and its so hard to get over him now
ive cried my self to sleep 2 nights in a row
thats how much i care for this kid
and now he treats me like it was nothing
i spent all my 500 texts on him!
he used to tell me how much wants to hold me and he would kiss me and that he wants to see a movie with me and nothing will ever change between me and him and that he loves me so much
i fell for it all!
well my best firned is friends with him and suppoubly he liked her his whole life
and all this happened with me and him while my friend was on vacation
and now he doesnt even say he loves me or anything
and i seriously dont know what to do!
but she doesnt like him because she likes this other kid
but i feel like shes saying i love you behind my back to him
and just trying to get me jelous
i hate boys! but girls are just as bad
its so hard to get over someone that i really care about
help?!
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Its ok,everyones liked a guy that didnt like us back at a time.You need to first of all talk to your freind about how you feel and just let it all out in her face.Tell her how she wouldnt like it if SHE liked a guy and you went for him.I dont think you should stay freinds with this girl,she doesnt give a damn how you feel.As for this guy,you need to know that you are still young and pretty and MILLIONS of guys would do ANYTHING for a girl like you.To HELL with him!Hes not the last guy on earth.Youll find plenty of guys.Dont even bother telling that guy how you feel.Itll make him HAPPY to know that you feel bad and hell go and brag about it.This will teach you a lesson that next time someone says he loves you and sweet talks you,tell them to PROVE IT.Not everything thats yellow and shines is pure gold and not everyone that says they like you and nice is really being true to you.Dont beilive everything thats being said to you.Dont worry,time heals everthing
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Ok well i started going out with this one guy named jonathan.The thing is dat he knows i like somebody else and i know he likes somebody else.Yes it seems wierd but we told each other that since the beggining.Its like we like each other to but it kind of feels wierd to know he dosent only think of me...i know he probably feels da same way but i dont know.I seriously dont think we are going to last.Although i wish it did=/So if you were in my place what would you do?? (link)
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I would definetly NOT be with a guy that i know likes a different girl.Hes obviously using you to get the other girl he likes jealous.And i dont even think you like this guy.You guys are both wasting your time in a realationship that will get you noowhere.I think you should dump him before you start to REALLY like him and it will be harder to break up.Go for the other guy you like.
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is it normal for a gf to not want her bf to look at other girls? (link)
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Ya,very normal.Its because you want to be the only one he will ever look at.Ha,i would get really mad if my guy looked at other girls.
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if a guy says he luves and then wen he wit his friends he starts to act diffrently tease and hurts me but i dumped him but when i did i felt so lonely and empty inside like i'm missing something then i kan't stopp thinking about him should i get back together with him or stay alone until i find someone better? (link)
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He doesnt like you man.He says he does to get your hopes up then he embarrases you infront of his freinds,which obviously means he trys to seem like he has a personality infront of his freinds.He wants to seem all cool infront of his freinds by hurting your feelings.Good thing you dumped him,dont EVER go back to him,thatd make you look desperate and that you have no persoanlity.Its ok to feel bas for a while,but you desserve someone better.Wait for a while,cuz love comes when you least expect it.
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16f
hey ya'll sorry i'm always askin question about, well, privates, but i guess i'm just not educated about her enough. so the other day i was masturbating, and i felt something pop, and i thought "well how weird, b/c i know i've not got my hymen anymore." so i'm freakin a little bit, and then i look and theres some blood (not much, but it worries me nonetheless, b/c ive had my period this month already.)
so for two days i was fine, and then yesterday it was kindof itching a little, and then today, it was itching alot, and it stings very bad! i know this is not an std transmitted from another person b/c ive been checked since i last had sex.
so my question now is, what's going on? should i go to a doctor? can you get diseases or infections from masterbating?
any and all help is appreciated! thank you! (link)
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Sometimes even after youve had sex,your hymen doesnt completly break.You probably just broke it completly this time.I think you should definetly see a doctor to make sure.
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I don't know what group to place it in, but it is mental I can tell you that. My boy friend was the best person you could have ever imagined. Even though he is only 14 [so am I, female] He was great. He has the potential to do anything he sets his mind to, music, school, great with kids & adults, wonderful. One of the ,main thing I was attracted to, was his childness-ish. He was funny, not in a dirty way either, didn't swear, proclaimed to be saved and was ever-so respectful.
After about a few months af dating I allowed french kissing and holding, sorta a low quality makeout.Then it grew and grew, now, we didn't get into sex or anything and stayed on top of clothes, but I noticed a difference in him, about two months ago.He has always told me how he feel about everything, absolutely EVERYTHING, I asked him what was wrong, hios reply was always something but he never got to the point. I started telling him that there was somthing he wasn't telling me, he would always say no, there wasn't.
After a long while of thinking, praying and asking God for guidance, I realised that we should never have started the whole "kissing process" so we could regenerate our relationship, the way it was before. At first he was scared, he'd say "What?I thought everything was fine, why shouldn't we?" and My answer would alaways be "It is wrong and I believe God would rather otherwise" Then there'd be a conflict, and those always hurt the heart.
Now he gave me his msn password and I thought "I don't have anything to hide or lose" so I gave him mine. He forgot that He gave me his password and the other days I checked it.Was I ever shocked, hurt, crushed, heart broken...It just hurt so much, I was crying outloud saying "no....no, he couldn't have done this to me..." He had "porn4free!", "sexsearch", "you have received a wink from...blahdiblahblah"
PAIN CRWLS IN, I...I COULDN'T BREATH, I FELT AS IF IT WAS ALL MY FAULT AND THAT I WAS BLIND TO NOT HAVE SEEN IT COMMING.
Later to find out, He called me [after I ave him my two cents on msn, really, it wasn't much] He denied it, telling me they were spams...right.I didn't believe him, he blamed it on his computer breaking, and It was right in front of my face...all of it, his name, his way of talking, even his special password was there... the girls... the pain was Unbearable :"( ... Everytime I gave him proof, he said sorry and agreed...and He kept telling me half truths, I got him to tell his parents and they have taken the computer away form him for a month.
What could I do to help him[he said it started about after we stopped the kissing process [which was two months ago]And I want to know What can I do, how should I react? What can HE do, It is 2:30 in the morning, I couldn't sleep, I was bawling my eyes out and dind't want to bother everyone else.So I came down, wanting to ask questions to people, including you people.
I'm afraid to go near him showing my arms now, and look at my body in disproval, why did God create man to be pigs and women to be their food?
Thank you, I hope this question doesn't comfuse you, I just nee help, please. (link)
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ok if the food was in a covered box,the pigs wouldnt be able to EAT it!Meaning that if you didnt do what you did,he wouldnt have changed this way.Its ok,stop crying.You need to get the old him back again.Tell him that you want the old him back again and that he has to change if you want your relationship to go on.But at least you learned a BIg lesson,not to go TOO far with guys.You should have stopped at holding hands or kissing.Its 2:30 now like you said.Write down a list of things youre going to change about yourself,starting from sunset.Tell him that you love him and that there are some things about him that he has to change and that you wrote it down for him on a paper and to change these things about him if he loves you.You can even let HIM give you a paper that says things you need to change.A brand new start,whats past is past you just need to change the future from turning worse.If you need more help my msn is mariyn_monroe_4_arabs@hotmail.com
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Okay, im not one to ask for advice but i really need to know something, im 15, and i jus recently lost my virginity to a boy that im not even in love with or have a simple crush on. i felt like sucha a hoe/slut..what ever.. but i felt used because as soon as me and him were done after the second time he went threw all my friends like 6 of them. but no i sorta like him because its the simple fact that i lost my virginity to him. but here is the real question, after him i had sex with another boy, but i think im in love wit him we were dating for 2 yrs and never really did anything except made out and i gave him head & a hand job but what do you expect we were together for 2 years. so i had sex a total of 7 times in 2 months. i dont really like to tell people that because i feel really slutty, and the first time i really wanted to do it was with my first love. i totally regret it.
please tell me
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wow!yea you ARE a slut!OMG!!jeez!Cant you people WAIT till your OLD enough?!?!?I wouldnt be surprised if you said guys use you all the time.HA,they definetly do.No guy respects a girl that has no self respect for herself.Youre never going to be in a long term relationship like this.All guys will just use you for sex.Im turning 16 and i never did one thing you just did cuz im LIVING MY AGE and life,im going to get screwed one day so why the hell rush it?You know,by the time you are married,you will have had STDs,pregnant before AND a sucky ass reputation.If i were your freind,i dont think id hang around you anymore.Guys probably say this behind your back "yea shes hot but i never be in a relationship with this hoe,PLEASE!!How do you know she didnt do this before 28936928 times?I cant trust her!"And you were in a relationship with that guy for 2 YEARS and you cheated on him with a guy you barely even know?ARE YOU THAT CHEAP?If a guy just TOUCHED me id kick the balls outta him!Its girls like you that give us good RESPECTFUL girls the names slutts and hoes.And i know your parents have no idea what you do.God!Go learn more about your religion and show a little respect.Wow and 2 years ago youve known this guy,woman you shouldnt even BE in a relationship at this age.Your parents dont pay money for you to go to school and buy you what you need so you can go around screwing everything that moves.If you like screwing that much then leave school and go work as a prostitute.If you dont change,youll regret this for the rest of your life,cuz NO guy likes a girl that done what you did sorry but truth hurts.im not trying to offend you in any way,im giving you an honest answer,get mad if you want.Whoever on this website tells you that what you did wasnt wrong is just saying that to get rated high.
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i think i have started my period. I have told my mum and i have now got some pads of my own. But, Now blood isnt coming out alot and brown marks/stains are coming out on the pads. Im very worried about it so please help me. thanx X (link)
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Dont worry,youre getting discgarges.These are the brown discharges you get right before you get your period,so expect it anytime soon:D
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I havent gone all the way with my boyfriend, but hes given me oral sex. Every time he comes over, we do it!! Im 13 and want to be a virgin. Am I considered a virgin or not? (link)
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ew,your 13 and your getting oral sex?What are you going to do when your older?If you start doing this shit from now,by the time your married,youll have STD's,have gotten pregnant before AND a sucky ass reputation.People are going to consider you as a baby whore like this.I seriously think you should live your age and life.Dont worry youll have sex one day when youre older and when you know more about it.See?Your doing something you know nothing about cuz your here on this website asking!You will really regret this later on,im telling you.Im 16 and i never did that!cuz im living my life and age,i can get screwed when im older.
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I've been dating my best friend for almost a month. I really care about him, but right before we started dating i met another guy. At first i had no interest in him, and now that ive gotten to know him, im really beginning to like him. I'm 16, my boyfriends 18, and this other guy is 22. I really like this 22 year old guy, and he really likes me. Today one of his friends took me and my best friend and the guy I like out to the woods to walk on some trails. The guy I like and I were holding hands like the whole time. On our way home, we stopped to get food and drinks and I was alone with this guys friend. I was asking him about the guy i like and he told me that hes never seen him act like that around a girl. He's never been the type to walk around holding hands and to show affection.
Should I break up with my boyfriend and just be friends with him and date this other guy? Or should I leave it alone and just stay with my boyfriend?? (link)
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Youre kinda failing your boyfreinds trust in you like this.He trusted you,how can you do this to the poor guy?Would YOU like it if that happened to you?This guys 22 wayyy tooo old.He can be playing around and just wants to have sex with you.What goes around comes around and if you dump your boyfreind for this guy,this guy can dump YOU for another girl.And besides,if you dump your boyfreind for him,the 22 year old guy will never be able to trust you,therefore he will use you for sex.He will think,i cant have anything serious with this girl!If she dumped him for me then she will definetly dump me for someone eles.Stay with your boyfreind is the best advice you can get.
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i need advice on moving back with my mom.. i cant take this anymore.. i need answers from people with ideas of excaping my parents ..im not trying to say anything bad.. but i am really depressed unless im with my mom again!!!!! i know this sounds kind of bad because i want to get rid of these people in my life.. but let me explain:
they made me get adopted to them 3 years ago when i was 12..ive been on hold with my life ever since..so i need help..major help!! i dont want any answr about trying to get along with my adopted female and male guardian....i just want to know if there is any way to excape...without being in trouble...if there is no way you can help.. my life is totally ruined...i rather be dead than to live with these people..just saying.. I CAN"T TAKE IT!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I think you should tell the police about this.Theyll help you get back with your mom again.If your mom dont have any money to take care of you then get a job,im sure 15 is old enough to work somewhere.That way youll live with your mom AND have money.Also keep an eye on your future.One daitll all change and youll have a real job and college degree but you have to be good in school.The future can be different.If you need any more help id be glad to help you just drop me a question.
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well, here's the whole story.
this girl, samantha, is the most annoying person on earth. she cussed me out twice for no reason what-so-ever and then no one would shut up, so i forgave her, stupidly.
she copies every single thing my friend does and says, "i only do the same stuff you do because i think it is a good idea and i appreciate you."
all she does is talk about people behind their backs, copy everything me and jessica do, make all these retarded noises, if you don't tell her a secret between you and another person that has nothing to do with her she gets really mad at you, she sings along horribly with every song that we listen to, gets mad for no reason, follows us and wont leave us alone, she's obsessed with being popular, and she's changed a lot since i first met her.
i seriously hate her now. i really just want to kind of keep my distance from her so that maybe i dont have to be such close friends with her. she doesn't even get the hint i don't like her and she doesn't realize that she's change a lot in a bad way!!
ugh! SHE'S ANNOYING THE CRAP OUT OF ME!!
what do i do or say to her to just get her to back off?! (link)
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I think you should first know if your freind jessica cant stand her too.If she cant then both of you go confont this girl.Tell her that you dont like her anymor cuz she changed since the first time you met her and that she copys everything your freind does which makes her have no persoanlity and let it allllllll out in her face.Itll get alot off your chest.I would do that if i were you.
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i know this is really random, but what are push-up bras?? sorry, i just need to know (link)
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They are bras that push your boobs up and make them seem like they have more shape
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