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sO a friend of mine told me that if u take aderol... that it will make u not hungry aka you'll loose weight... does that work? and is it safe? thanks!

dont take pills to make you not hungry. Thats not safe. If you wanna loose wieght eat diet foods or healthier foods but you MUST eat ... not eating no matter what the circumstance is highly dangerous.

gl xoxo

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Do you all think that you are responsible for what you dream about? Like, lets say for example, you don't cuss or something...Well, are you responsible for that kind of stuff?

knoW .... like my moms had dreams shes cheated on my dad but she would never... she's perfectly happy in her relationship...... it rele freaked her out too. what you dream is where your mind wanders in the unawake state... not what you want or will do in life.

gl xoxo

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what should u do if i have to cook dinner for ur bf but i dont know how to cook?

search online easy things to cook. Just take instructions or whatever and cook it up :-D try recipes.com

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what should i do if i do not like to clean my room should i pay some one to do it?

well no because most people dont know which of your stuff goes where. I would say ask a friend to come help you do it. Make it fun, turn up the radio, get some stuff you can dance around with, get the windex, paper towels whatever you need garbage bages, and start cleaning. Plan on going to the movies after you finish so you have some sorta motivation. good luck ! xoxo

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Ok so Im a 15 year old girl. I consider myself to be attractive. I have never ever had a boyfriend. I have had many friends with benifits and random hook ups but I really am getting sick of that and want a boyfriend. The problem is I can't find any. Maybe my standards are just too high or i'm not looking in the right places or something but I really want one. Any advice? Please help me out!

well its good your not rushing anything. High standards are good as long as they include:

looking out for: personality, good attitude, makes you laugh, you can see yourself with him

not including: Does he look good? Would he impress my friends/old boyfriends

Although that may not be you lol im not trying to make you feel like an iddiot just thought those pointers my help. hmmm ..... besides all that look for the qualities under what your looking out for. Prince charming will come, and hey he might be right in front of you you just gotta follow your heart. gl xoxo need more help? inbox me.....

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I'm kind of talking to this guy friend of mine, but when we get on the phone with each other, we dont say much, and its the same thing in person. Does anyone have any good topics to talk about with each other?

Music, TV, common interests, where you stand on certain issues in your life. Try just conversing and comparing and contrasting wat you guys have in common.

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hey you know how on most peoples advice columns they have their name and age and where they live and all that stuff on the side. how do you do that? please help.

look to the l eft of the screen where it says profile settings, its under where it says "Welcome ____ (whatever your user name is" then it asks for your age and all that. gl xoxo

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i have had my period 4 a awhile and i have basketball it is 4 days a week and i dont want to wear a pad cause i dont really lyk them it feels lyk a diper and ya i odnt lyk it wut shoudl i do and how can i ask my mom!

i dont no wut to do

explain to her your uncomfortable wearing a pad and you think your mature enough to use a tampon. She should be fine with it, she'll understand that it's for the comfort of your game.

gl xoxo

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ok im not fat or anything i weight 103 but i think i have some extra tummy fat that i dont want what should i eat and do to lose it?

Stay really healthy. Rather than fried chicken eat grilled and stay away from fast foods. If you must eat fast food, get a salad. Also, try going on the tredmill three times a week for a 1/2 and hour period.

GL!
xoxo

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wut is the best way to get a rid of pimples or acne quickly? i rate!

use oxy pads they're really good. Or if your looking for a home remedy, try tooth paste.

--Good Luck--
~happy fall~

xoxo

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r there any websites for hair styles? i'm going to a semi formal!! any ideas??

here, hope this is of help.


gl!!
http://www.ivillage.com/arrival/0,,603097,00.html?arrivalURL=http%3A//beauty.ivillage.com/hn/hairstyles/&arrivalPromoID=603097&arrival_freqVal=24&arrival_freqInterval=hours&arrival_freq=1&cobrandRef=0

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but see, the only problem is....i dont go to the same camp anymore because he's in a different grade thing..and im in CYF now, and hes still in Chi Rho......so0o0....thanks :)

aww. Well all the more reason things may just have to stay friends. so sry.... gl xoxo

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hi my names jessica im 12 yrs old and i really want to find the perfect guy for me but its not happening does any one know what i can do to find the one?
p.s if u have anymore ideas i m me at lilhottie921012

unfortunately the right guy will come along. I mean i know it sucks and stuff but you gotta enjoy being single and having time to yourself. I guess you could understand this more if you read the book " I kissed Dating Goodbye" its really good and helps being single and stuff like that. It doesnt mean you never have to date it just means that if you rush things you may miss out on meeting a better guy.

gl xoxo

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okay im 13/f and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month and like 9 days and we havent kissed yet and i want him to make the first move but i want him to do it and get it over with and like yeah and his friend said that i should just do it but im scared...what should i do?

tell him your really not good at making first moves. Or if you dont wanna tell him that and you just wanna make the first move go to the movies or something, sit next to him, grab him by the shoulder and just kiss him. guys like it wen girls are agressive... its somethin to be like proud of. I know it gets really scarey but just think he wants to kiss hes not gunna flip he'll like it ... and be rele glad u did it. gl

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I`ll start off by saying, I`m very shy when it comes to guys. Now with that said, I like this guy in one of my classes. I`ve never really talked to him before. Here`s my question.
- What should I say to him?
Also,
-I want him to know that I like him, but I don`t have a clue what to say to him, or how to tell him that I do.

Gah, please help. =]!

just say hi and introduce yourself. You know its not as hard as it may seem. Plus you shouldnt tell him you like him before you guys are like friends. So get friendly, and then once you are, id say have a friend tell him or if your that comfortable go on the phone or online and just tell him you like him more than a friend. Just like that. Wow, i hope you have fun meeting him lol i would love to see how this situation goes.. gl xoxoxo

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Alrite i know acting doesnt go along with music but you see, ive always wanted to be a singer...always been my dream acting is also another dream of mine...does anybody know how to get recognized by people within the music biz?? If it means anything I live in Tennessee and also near nashville but i dont want to sing country just not me! any suggestions?? :0\

get an agent its expensive but omg does it help!!

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is there any way to delete a question that u have answered once its already on ur column?

yeah, go to "Edit" it and backspace the whole thing and save.

gl xoxo

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okay i have a big problem! i was all excited because i just got my cartlidge done! but i came home and told my best friend! and she asked what ear i got done and i told her my right one! and she said that if a girl gets just her right cartlidge done...that means shes a lesbian?! omg i'm all upset now! is that realli what rumors say?! because i'm definitly NOT one!
i'll rate you a 5!

no, i've never heard that. wow your friends just really jealous.

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my bday is comin up i wanna have my bf over for halloween but my house isnt the place. i have 2 bros and my parents r the type of ppl where..idk im just confused i guess i cud have his friend have him over and we could meet up but idk. my moms met him before but i hate haven ppl over.

go to his house . . . your friends house, like plan on having a big group of friends and your bf go to someones house just not yours. gl xoxo

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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

yes, its illegal anywhere!!

gl xoxo

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