I`ll start off by saying, I`m very shy when it comes to guys. Now with that said, I like this guy in one of my classes. I`ve never really talked to him before. Here`s my question.
- What should I say to him?
-I want him to know that I like him, but I don`t have a clue what to say to him, or how to tell him that I do.
Mercy_x_Me answered Sunday October 10 2004, 2:57 pm: just say hi and introduce yourself. You know its not as hard as it may seem. Plus you shouldnt tell him you like him before you guys are like friends. So get friendly, and then once you are, id say have a friend tell him or if your that comfortable go on the phone or online and just tell him you like him more than a friend. Just like that. Wow, i hope you have fun meeting him lol i would love to see how this situation goes.. gl xoxoxo [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
MolliM answered Sunday October 10 2004, 2:57 am: Well get to know him better and become friends. After you feel more comfortable around him then maybe you could talk to him about ur crush and see if he feels the same. Ask him what he got on a paper or start up a convo about a mean teacher. Hope it helps...P.S Worked 4 me!
JennaRESPECTS answered Sunday October 10 2004, 2:16 am: I'm still kinda goin through the same thing as you.There's this hot guy at my skool and i want to go out with him sooooooo bad.What i am doing(and it is working for me)is that i became really good friends with him( i did) then start hanging out with him like at skool like talk to him like hang out with him like he is your bff.Then tell your truest bff that won't ever let u down and knows the boy u like and tell him/her that u like the boy.Then ask this person if they could tell the boy u like that u like him.I know it may sound confusin but it's workin for me! ; ) I hope i helped u out!!!
adviceguy answered Sunday October 10 2004, 2:00 am: It makes me feel great answering this question because I once was in the same shoes as you.
To begin here are some simple equation:
1. TALK TO GUY = CHANCE OF SUCCESS
2. DON'T TALK TO THE GUY = AUTOMATIC FAILURE
It looks like the first equation is your best bet. Many people ( you included) are shy around talking to guys because you probably fear rejection. The only way to get anywhere is to TALK to they guy. I know that your shy and that's ok. No one is asking you to walk up to the guy and kiss him.
Here are a few simple tips to help let him know that you like him:
1. Start off with at least saying hi to him each day.
2. SMILE- Showing off that beautiful smile when you around this guy will definetly give off a few hints.
3. Try to find common intrests with this guy. Find out what he is interested and start up a conversation.
Considering that this guy is in your class, the easiest way to start of a conversation with him is to ask about the homework, or how his term paper is coming along.
Im going to give it to you straight out: BEING SHY WILL GET YOU NO WHERE!!!!!
There is nothing wrong with being shy, but you must learn to overcome it in order to get what you want in life.
MoonFisher answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:31 am: Hey, can I borrow your pencil, is always a good line to start talking. Or, you can ask him what the homework was, even if you already have the assignment, and then write it down and try to continue the conversation. I know you're shy, but if you can ask him if he wants to hang out some time, that's the best approach. You could also always do what I did when I was younger and shy; I wrote a letter and then fled into the darkest cave to hide and wait for his response, lol. [ MoonFisher's advice column | Ask MoonFisher A Question ]
BehindBluEyes892 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:06 am: if you dont feel comfortable talking to guys in person, you can write him a letter. do you have any classes with him? because then you could pass a note to him before or after class...or, if you dont feel comfortable giving him the note yourself, then ask a friend to do it.
i used to be shy when it came to guys too, and then as you get older, you open up some! you get to know them better and the shyness wears off.
how old are you?
if you need any more advice, or just want to talk...feel free to IM me or email me,
honeybuns530 (screen name) firstname.lastname@example.org [ BehindBluEyes892's advice column | Ask BehindBluEyes892 A Question ]
MJHBlondie answered Saturday October 9 2004, 11:45 pm: Well here's how you start:
Start be making conversation! If you never say one word to him.. you don't have a very good chance with him!
Second.. So you want him to know you like him, eh? Well, its much more comfortable to tell a guy this if you know him a bit.. When you have gotten to know him comfortably.. break the ice.
Well hope i helped.. bye!
-MJHBlondie [ MJHBlondie's advice column | Ask MJHBlondie A Question ]
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