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hey everyone...well heres my problem...my boyfriend and i have been dating a little over a year now and things were pretty good...the biggest problem he has with me is that he says i talk to too many guys at my school...we dont go to the same school so hes bothered by it and i understand y...but thats just me and part of my personality...as long as i can remember ive always had a lot of guy friends...now like a month or so ago he wanted to take a break cause hes been busy and he wanted me to change...like not talk to too may guys...we're still faithful to each other but until i stop talking to as much guys as i used to he doesnt wanna get back with me...he wants me to prove to him that i dont talk to as much cause apparently i said i would before but didnt...i dont know how to "prove" to him that i dont and thats the only way hes gonna get back with me...the problem with that is is that he doesnt talk to anyone at my school he doesnt know anyone at my school so i dont exactly know how to prove it...ive been thinking about it for a while now but i just cant think of anything...i already dont talk to as many guys that part doesnt bother me but just to prove it to him...thats what i really really dont know...do you think you could help me find some ways to solve this and possibly help me "prove" to him that i dont anymore...its killing me and i really wanna get back with him id do anything for the relationship...DONT tell me to dump him cause thats now happening...thanks so much....
btw im 17/F
Without trust, this relationship isn't going to get anywhere. & you need to let him know that. You have been faithful & you don't seem to be mistrusting him around other girls. So if anyone needs to change in this relationship, it's him. If you have never cheated on him or done anything to give him an idea that you were flirting or spending more time with other guys, then he has no reason to not trust you. If he can't learn to trust you, then how is this relationship going to last? Personally, I do not see any harm in simply having a lot of guy friends. You have done nothing wrong, therefore you do not need to prove him anything. Don't shut the world out just because your boyfriend is insecure. Yes, you need to make sacrafices from time to time in a relationship, but you cannot change yourself. This is you & he needs to learn to accept it & grow some trust. Keep reassuring him you are only interested in him. & if he can't handle that, then he obviously can't handle a mature relationship with you.
alright so me and my boyfriend jake have been dating for mmm around 2 months .. and there is nothing going wrong in the relationship everything is all good.. but . now there is all of a sudden a problem.. see both of our birthdays are coming up in february .. ill be 15 and he'll be 18 .. and now hes getting all worried about what can happen if cops or someone found out he was dating a 15 year old and so we might have to break up and i just wanted to know if anyone knew a way that we could date without getting in trouble and shit . thanks :)
I believe it IS okay to date him as long as your parents are okay with it. If at anytime they don't feel it's right, they can press charges for statuitory rape. I think it's best to sit down with your parents & discuss your situation. If they don't agree to you two dating, it's best to end the relationship as soon as possible to avoid him getting jail time.
so im goin to the pediatricion tomorrow w/ my mom for a check up. last time i went i had to wear a hospital gown so that they could check me out & stuff.. but like.. last time i went was like 2 years ago & i had only shaved my private area like once so it wasnt noticable , but do doctors care? i mean.. im 14 so i dont see that it matters. but my mom doesnt know i do it, and i dont want the doctors to say anything
they wouldnt say anything would they?
First off, your doctor is there to check up on your health. Not to judge or discuss your grooming habits down south. Secondly, there's no reason the subject would even come up. Not only is it impolite to talk about, but it's not even a big deal whether you do or do not decide to shave that region. It's a personal choice & not the kind of information that would be shared with your mother. So don't worry!
Is it safe to put a picture of yourslef on your advice coluum? I dont really trust the internet...
As long as you don't give out any personal information like your full name, location, myspace page, or anything linking to somewhere that the general public can find information on you. Do whatever makes you comfortable.
I'm going to be wearing high heels [3 inches] for the first time tomorrow.
I can balance..
Is there anything I should know about wearing them?
Like.. how do I get up stairs and stuff without getting the heel part off?
I really dont want to fall or slip.
The only advice I can give you is practice wearing them around your house for an hour or two.
ihad sex about three weeks ago and he used a condom. But i usualy have my period either the 20th-21st of every month and this month i missed it.
*im pretty sure the condom didnt break but when he pulled out the condom was like half way off.
so my question is should i take a test tomorrow ( which is kinda what i was planning on doing ) or do i just wait?
thanks
You're only 4-5 days late. It's possible it's just abnormal right now. Save your money & take a test in about 5 days if you still haven't gotten it yet. In the meantime, try not to stress too much because that can also delay your period.
Okay ..
This weekend my friend and i want to go get our 2nd holes pierced at Claire's.
I also want to get the top of my ear done.
I've heard it hurts reaaally bad, though.
Can anyone with experience tell me what the pain's like?
Also, how much each piercing costs at Claire's & if they do a good job!
thanks :]
First off, anyone who knows anything about piercings knows to avoid places like Claire's because they use guns, not needles. Go to a real piercing place that knows what they're doing. As far as pain goes - it depends on the person so you can never really say. If you experience any pain for your second holes, it's a pinch that'll only last a few seconds. As for your cartilage piercing, I've never had it done so I can't tell you from experience. But everyone I know who has had theirs done has said it hurts. All I can tell you is - don't worry about the pain. If you experience any at all, it won't last very long. Typical pricing for ear piercing is around ($30-$40). Less or more depending on the place you go to.
Hi im 14 male,i was wondering,how old would most parents say you should be before your girlfriend could sleep over,like in the same room/same bed.I know some parents are strict, but what would most parents say is old enough?
Thanks,
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and its not to have sex...its just to cuddle with eachother and to kiss eachother goodnight..
I'd say a majority of parents would be more comfortable with that when their kid turned 18. 18 is kind of an age where you start getting most of your legal freedom (& freedom in your house, if you don't have it already). But it all depends on the parents. Some are obviously more lenient with that stuff while others would never THINK about allowing their 18+ year olds to have their boyfriends or girlfriends spend the night.
I was to easy
and i gave a guy what he wanted.
Yeah, he pretty much used me and screwed me over.
He said he hated me for a good amount of time because everyone found out about what we did.
After a good 5 monthes, he told me he didnt hate me anymore and he was being nice to me again.
I like him alot, and i always have no matter how mean he was to me.
And I know he doesnt like me like that, but i'm pretty sure he would want to do that stuff again and the thing is, i dont want him to use me and screw me over but i really want to do that stuff again too.
We havent really talked in about a week, but im just so confused
help? please
I believe in second chances, but when it comes to respecting you for sexual "favors", you should NOT give this guy another chance. Even if he is being nice to you again, how do you know this guy isn't back for seconds? I know you like him & I know you would like to do that stuff again, but have some respect for yourself. Most girls have been in your shoes; a position where they wanted to be liked & wanted to experience those kinds of things...with guys who don't have any respect for them. If you can't trust the guy, why would you want to have any sexual relations with him? The truth is, you need to get out, meet a wonderful guy; a guy who respects you as a person & doesn't use. A guy you care about & can trust. Once you do find this guy, you'll practically mature over night, have new standards & will never have any desire to look at someone who screws you over like that again. Trust me, I've been in your position. I've been a little desperate to jump into things & liked a guy who was extremely mean to me. But all it takes is some time & some maturing & you'll realize that those are not the guys you want to get involved with. I really do hope you make the right decision. If not, you're only lowering yourself to him & a losing any respect you have for yourself.
How can you make your boobs look bigger naturally without surgery or water bras?
When you're bra shopping, try on a variety of different brands. I notice some make you look bigger than others. I'd suggest sticking with padded bras and/or push up bras.
everytime Im w/ her with no one around she is always throwing sexual geustures, ie hand near my dick, un buttoning my shirt, her shirt and showing me her thong, yeah i get hard around her but I dont want to have sex with her becuase of my religon. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
It's possible she doesn't want sex either. Maybe she's just be trying to turn you on without going any further either. Just sit her down & let her know your choices to save yourself. If she cares about you, she'll completely understand. If not, she's not the girl for you. Good luck. :)
if a girl and a boy both wear a condom, doesnt that make it way likely yuo cant get pregnant? or can you not wear both
If you're referring as the female condom as a diaphragm, yes.. you can wear both. But it's not a very good idea. Just one condom & you being on birth control is more ideal. That way you both are protected even if one protection fails.
what are some good tampons for teens?
im a dancer & i exercise alot so im active
Tampax Pearl or Playtex Sport.
my guy friend goes to a different school. he was supposed to go to the dance with this other girl but those plans fell through. i was thinking if he still wanted to go, i could get him a ticket. but maybe his plans fell through cause he didn't want to go??? i don't want to be turned down, but should i ask him anyways? i think it would be fun if he came. what should i say to him?
Of course you should ask him. What do you have to lose? The worst thing that could possibly happen is finding out he doesn't want to go. But by not asking him, you're still in the same position. You can't always fear rejection. You gotta put yourself out there in order to get what you want! :)
I really want to make banners and stuff for myspace and stuff.
what program do I have to have? Can I do it on paint and make them cool? Or do I have to download a program, and if so, what program?
Paint is alright if that's all you have, but if you have any other image editing program (such as Photoshop), that works better. :)
I'm in 7th grade & I'm taking Algebra1. Do you think this is advanced?
Depends on the state. I believe most people took Algebra 1 when they were a freshman in high school at my old school. So compared to some states, I'd say you're ahead by a year or two.
Alright this is kind of a weird question butttt is it a serious problem that whenever I pee it's been burning? This has been going on for about a week now. I'm on birth control and have sex if that helps? Right now it hurts a little and feels like I really need to pee when I definitely know I don't need to. Does anyone know what could be wrong? Should I go see a doctor? helppp =[
15/f
Sounds like a urinary tract infection. If it has lasted longer than a day, I'd suggest seeing a doctor.
14/f
okay, so heres the deal. i always know when im about to get a sore throat, i feel my throat acting weird a few days before, and i get chapped lips. well i got that sign yesterday and its a little worse today, but im not totally sick yet. i have something important to do saturday, so i need something to stall my sore throat until late saturday or something. ive been drinking alot of orange and grapefruit juice for the vitamin C and ive been using chap stick for my lips and everything. i need something to stall/eliminate this cold or whatever it is, so please, if you know anything that will help let me know asap. home remedies are great also! early answers are appreciated
THANK YOU!
There's not much more you can do besides take your vitamins, drink lots & lots of fluids, take some Theraflu or Sudafed (both work wonders) & get some rest.
Theres this hot guy, and i want to hook up with himm. I talk to him on facebook, and see him on weekends. What are some things that i can comment his facebook with that will make me sound sexy&that will make him want me?
While there's no way to MAKE him want you, you can still flirt. But I would suggest doing it in person as oppose to online. I think it'd just be more effective if it were verbal & physical. That way your body language is brought to his attention rather than just words on a screen. When you're hanging out with him, just be confident & be yourself. Don't be too forward until you know whether he's comfortable with you coming onto him. :)
15/f
When a guy asks you to see a movie, does that necessarily mean it is a date? What if he is bringing one of his friends but doesn't care if you bring someone?
I suppose I am going to get different answers, but I'm sure there must be a way to figure it out.
Thanks! =)
I think there is a thin line between a date & just going as friends when it comes to going to the movies. If he's bringing a friend along, I would see it as just going as friends. But I believe the best way to know for sure is just to ask him yourself.