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I'm 13 and my brother is 15. He picks on me a lot and sometimes makes me mad but i love him very much. I just wish we were closer. I try to talk to him but he don't talk to me much. How do I get my brother and me to be closer?

Why dont you do something together, something that you both would enjoy doing? Think of something you could do together like sports,play games on pc, and have fun with him.

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What is Chlamydia?

Chlamydia is a sexually transmitted diease. You can get them if you dont use protectiom when having sex. Just keep safe.

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My best friend was/is a guy. We'll call him Bob. Well Bob just got a girlfriend and they had been extremely tight before they went out. Now all of a sudden, Bob's barely talking to me or hanging out with me anymore. I miss hangingout with him. If I confronted him he'd probably listen but not do anything because he'd forget. Please help I really miss him :(

You need to tell him how you feel, Be honest and confont him and just tell him what you feel. That you can never spend anytime with him and when you want or need to talk to him hes always with his girlfriend. See what he says if he says ok he will hang out with you then say ok cool. If he says your been perfectic, tell him he just lost a friend. And walk away.

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I have gone shopping for a dress for the "big dance" at the end of the year. And every dress I've tried on shows the little "pudge" on my stomach. Is there anything I can wear under the dress to kind of hide it? If so where can I buy it and for how much?

Yes they do, Some under wear called spandex that are suposted to pull your stomach in. Just have a look at all the underwear stalls and shops your bound to find some somewhere.

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Alright, so.. I'm torn between two people. I was asked to this dance, by a guy completely out of nowhere.. I mean, he was more of an older brother than anything.. I was hoping the guy I like would ask me, (( keep in mind I've liked him since sixth grade )). Anyway, so.. I'm not sure if should give up on my crush and try and like my friend.. or still hold onto my crush.. By the way, me and my crush are really good friends too.. have known eachother since kindergarden..

i think you should stay with you crush and give him a change to come round. If this guy you dont know asked you mabe you could dance with him and show your crush that You cant wait around for ever for him to ask you out.

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well...i just saw the movie 'something like love' and it got me thinking. does love like that actually exist? i'm sure not many people have seen it yet as it is a new movie...but they just seemed so, i don't know, made for each other. it was surreal. i know in real life guys might not stand outside and sing to you with a guitar to win your heart...but the way they felt for each other...does that really happen? thanks!

I believe that its real but other people dont. So what ever you believe stick to it. There are some times people are made for each other and just fall in love. But sometimes people have to work for it, So you believe what you think is right.

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My webcam comes out a little blurry, is it just my cam or can i fix that..

Try going to webcam settings and tweek then contrast. Thats works.

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I'm a shy girl (13/f) and I always feel lonely. I was wondering what's an easy way to make new friends?

Dont feel so shy. The one thing to make your self feel less shy is feel good about your self. Take a look in the mirror and say what you think are your best bits. Then you can just talk to a few girls and boys at school. There you go good luck.

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I Bought some sunglasses, and I want to put a small heart decal on the lower corner! anyone know where to get this decal??

thanks in advance!!

Try stationary shops. I live in the uk so i dont know any shops in the usa. Have a look around and see what you can see. Sorry cant say much more.

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I look absolutly dreadful in the mornings, like most people. I get big bags under my eyes, I tend to break out right when I wake up, my face looks oily and dirty, my eyes look small and tired. I wash my face every morning and night, put on lotion morning and night, and I use concelar and foundation. Most of it wears off after a few hours, but my eyes are the same most of the day. Of course if I'm getting ready at night, everything is gone. Please if anyone has any tips to looking better in the mornings, let me know! THANKS!

Get more sleep. When you go to sleep that night wash your face and get rid of all the dirt and make up. Put some cream on your face, so im the morning your face will look smoother and in better condition. Most people look awful in the morning and it cant really be helped i look awful as well lol.

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i have naturally curly hair, and i want to straiten it. i have a revlon flat iron and it works ok, but it makes my hair look dry, and burned...i use silk therapy, but it still looks dry. do you know any straitner under 50 dollars that will straiten my hair, but not burn it? thank you so much!

You can get your hair permantly straighten at hairdressers for under 50 dollars. It usally last about 4-6 mouths so when you wash it it will be straight so you dont have to keep straitening it. Go for it.

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I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do?

I think you should invite her to hang out with you. Its been nice to her if you like her then thats cool, that your letting her hang out with you if your friends dont like it forget them. Or tell them thats shes really nice and they should give her a chance.

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i crack my neck and my friend thinks that it will make my neck all messed up when im older...is that true? i dont wanna be messed up when im old!!! lol
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Yes it is possible that you will have something wrong with your neck when your older. Go see that doctors and ask them for some advice about it.

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Is it possible to be in love when your 13? Im turning 14 in July but still....his mom wont let him date until like a 'year down the road" (thats what she told me) and we are both willing to wait until his mom 'allows' him to date....ive never liked somebody so much in my life! And hes not even the hottest thing in the world hes the sweetest, funniest, adorablest guy in the world....and ive NEVER felt this way about ANYBODY....i LoVe him....but still is it possible to fall in love when your 13?

Yes it is possible to fall in love, Because no matter what age you can feel love towards a guy/girl depending what sex you are. So anyways when hes aload to date ask him out.
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is it normal that when you put your hand on your stomach you feel a heartbeat-like thing? it like pumps and feels like there is a heart beating in your stomach? everytime i touch my stomach it is like that, as if it has its own pulse or something.

Yes it pefectly normal. Its usually a vien that your touching, that can sometimes move or vibrate.

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I'm gonna be in a guard picnic this saturday and i'm suppose to bring a side dish...i dont know what to bring. would please give me some suggestions and maybe a recipe? THANKS i'll rate 5's!

Bring, chrisp, salad with a dressing, bread sticks and dips. Search side dishes on google.
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i want to join cross country next year, and i was wondering... what all do you do and how far do you run?

You can do upto 3-4 miles. Some people walk it or some people run. Just search its in google and see if there is an age limit.

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I want to dye my hair... not permanent, but not too temporary. I found a hair dye that's made by L'Oreal, called Color Pulse, that comes in a color that I would like for my hair. I have dark brown hair, and Color Pulse supposidly works on dark hair. It lasts for 8-10 shampoos, and also contains no peroxide or ammonia.

Has anyone used this before? What do you think? Is there anyother types of dyes that you would recommend in place of this? I am looking for a dark purpleish plumish type color, if that helps.

Thanks!

I havent use it but my friend has. Its really good because if you get sick of it in a few days it washes out, it looks really good and takes a few minutes to do it. I think you should stick to the colour pulse.

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I dont know how to do very much with me hair and i want to learn how to do those twistie things so if someone could like give me a site or something with steps that would help me a lot thanks! x0

Search on google hair tips and make ideas. It will come up with loads of sites.

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my friend has been acting weird ever since her new step father moved in she's been dressing differently and she's been really quiet which isn't like her at all. Then the other we were walking down the hall and her boyfriend put his arm around her and she flinched like she was in a lot of pain and he barely even touched her i think her step father might be beating her but i'm not really sure what should i do?

I think you need to talk to her about it, She might be needing your help right now but doesnt no how to get it from you, just ask he if there is anything up and that she can always talk to you if there is a problem with friends or AT HOME. Then she might feel shes able to tell you.

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