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>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.
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I really really like my boyfriend but he's always doing things on the weekend to do with scouts and his church and things. I don't think he's only saying that to avoid me but I really want to spend time with him. What should I do?
well u can try new things and do the things he does...or u can just ask him, u know like 'jon, when can we spend time 2 gether. lately u haven't been spendin time cuz of ur schedule'. hopefully, u'll find a better way to say it and he'll undersatnd.good luk..
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My friend who is a guy (tom) told me that my boyfriend (jon) had been in touch with one of jon's ex's. He said they'd been sending each other dirty texts and that jon had said if his ex didn't live so far away he'd break up with me and go out with her. I asked jon about it but he said Tom was lying. I want to believe him but why would Tom lie to me? Tom keeps trying to get me to break up with jon but he's one of his best friends, what should I do?
rite... maybe tom is jelous and he likes u or sumtin. either that or ur bf is really doin dat. well, just tawk wit them together or seperatley.good luk.
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im 15 year old male.
okay i got a prob. I like this one gurl and she asked me to go to the movies with her. When i went to her housr to pick her up her friends were wit her. i kinda wanted to be alone wit her. well in the movies we were about to kiss wen her friend intterupted. 2 weeks later we go alone i try to kiss her but she shyly pulls away saying not here. I no she lkes me.
Wat do i do? WAt do u think hapened in between those times.
PLEASE ALOT OF PEOPLE ANSWER I NEED AS MUCH HELP AS I CAN GET
ok, i have the same problem...she's just shy. that or she just isn't ready?well n e way, it's normal for her to pull away, maybe she doesnt feel like she knows u enough or she's just shy. hope i helped...and good luk...
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One day me and my friends were hangin out and this gurl came up to me and smiled. WEll that day she hung out with us. The next day at lunch she sat by me and we talked. the next few weeks we got closer. And we started to kiss and go out. Well one of my friends likes her and i dont want to hurt him. To make matters worse i over heard him and her talking and she really seemed to like him.
Im confused should i bring my game up and not be friends or should i let him have her and still be friends. I dont want to give her up
she could be the pimpette. so just ask her straight foward. or just ask sum of her friends. if ur friendship with ur friend is valuable, dont throw it away on a girl that seems like a pimpette..lol. hope i helped...
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SORRY IT'S LONG
It it normal to get vaginal discharge even before you have your period?
Like I'm gunna be 14 in a few months, and I've been having discharge, and I've NEVER had my period.
So my questions are, is it normal that I don't have my period?
and is it normal that I'm getting discharge?
What should I do, we don't have any pads around the house, and I'm not a fan of tampons, also I find it really akward to talk to my mom about that kind of thing, so I don't want to like go out and get pads or anything until I actually have my period
What should I do?
well, first of all, not tryin to be motherly or n e thing, but u alwayz have to have pads around the house. it might cum overnight or while ur in the house.u don't really hav to tawk 2 ur mom, there are many websites. so if u want to go out, go to the drugstore and tell ur mom or dad, i just need 2 get sumthin personal. or u can go alone(wich is more comfortable).good luk and i hope i helped.
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is it ok to go out with a perosn that is younger than you?
dat is soo not tru. age doesnt matter. itz just a #. just make sure u r comfortable with the person no matter wat.
hey im 16 years old/male
ok one day my girl friend came over to meet my parents. My psrents loved her till i mentionrd that she was my girl friend. They kicked her out of the house snd told me to never see her again.ONe night i snook out to see her and was caught. I just love her to much. HERE ARE MY QUESTIONs
ONe should i say forget my parents and go out with her?
Should our relationship go on?
WAt will i do if her psrents want to meet me
ok... i udastand how u feel cuz my friend had a prob. lik dis. if u love her a lot, dat u really want to b wit her, go for it. ur parents don't hav a say in what ur heart feels.(no offense).secondly, like i said if u love her to the point that u would do anything to b wit her, i think ur relationship should go on. just dont let ur parents kik u out. i mean, if it gets 2 a point where dat might happen, tell them how much u luv her and that it's tru. and if her parents want to meet u, go for it. maybe they wont kik u out of thier house... good luk
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is age nuthin but a number? i mean like im gonna be 14 soon and i like three ppl who r all juniors and im a freshman. thats not bad at all but i am a young freshman ya kno? and my mom doesnt have a problem with me going out with ppl who are older then me but i kinda do. i just feel so young and these ppl r like 16, 17 and almost 17. how do i stop falling for older guys?
well, age is nuthin but a #. u cant stop falling for guyz. its justnatural. but, if an older guy does want to go out wit u, just make sure itz for da rite reasons. hope i helped
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i have a problem with my ex boyfriend.... when i was going out with him he hit me a few times.... twisted my arm and hurt my side and i have bruses from him.... but lately i have been with him more and more and then last nite he kissed me and he told me that he loved me still... i don't know what to do?
tell him u don't like it wen he hates u. tell him ur feelings and if he tries to hurt u again...well, you kno wat to do. if he promises to stop and tries his best to get help, then giv him a chance, but if he tries to hurt u, even in the smallest way, let him go....hope i helped,
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I am 14/f
i like this guy but i am afriad to talk to him becuase i dont think he will like me back. I also think he still likes his ex-girlfriend. Do you think i should talk to him and if so, how do i talk to him?
im goin throgh da same thing. my crush has an ex who he still likes and i still like him hes a jerk. just talk to him like you would normally would.say hi or ask him for sumtin and give him ur best smile.good luk.
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I HATE MY DAD! hes such an idiot... hes not in my life at all. hes a co dependant jerk. when i was little he didnt make me lunch and he makes me do everything for him... he can b OK sometimes but yeah its not enough i still hate him... hes not in my life at all but he'll pick random times to step in and ruin it. like something that my moms been letting me do for 7 months all of the sudden i cant do bcuz of him. I HATE HIM SOOOOO MUCH. my mom wont even stick up for me or what she knows is right... what should i do?
thnx
i know how u feel. i have the same problem......with my MOM. just don't do anything and tell him everything u told us, IF he was dat bad to u. thats wat i did wit my mom and wen she needed me tha most, she came bak to me.
Sometimes my boobs get really sore and tender and they hurt alot..I know they get that way during ur period, but sometimes it randomly hurts..whats that mean?
growin...painful but good.
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ok well yesterday morning i woke up and i had this thing EVERY1 has like stuffy nose sore throat and coughing . well this morning i woke up and still had it so my mom let me stay home and she stayed home with me and took care of me. well then i just layed in bed and i got this TERRIBLE stomache ache under my breasts and it hurt SOOOO BAD! i was rolling in bed screaming and crying it hurt so bad! so my mom got me a heating pad and put it on it and like 10 minutes later it went away after ive had the stomache ache for about 20-30 mins. my ? is - what was wrong bc ive NEVER had a tummy ache like that before. and has anyone had that b4? oh and i was sweatin REEEEALLY bad! plz respond! oh ANY1 who answers i rate 5!
ok i have never heard of any symtoms like dat but they're rite. go see a doc. asap. it might be serious(dont freak out), or it might be just anything goin around
I sometimes get pimples around my mouth. Just little ones but they annoy the hell out of me and are ugly. Do you know of any good products that would help?
i use clean and clear astringent to help my oil and my acne. i also use clean and clear advanced formula to help get rid of my pimples in eight hours.
I have a really really low self confidence, if someone compliments me I immediatly think they're only saying it to be nice or they're taking the mickey. How can I be more positive and self confident?
i know exactly how you feel. i also have low self confidence. i know this may sound stupid or unhelpful, but it has helpd me dis year. you have 2 choices. you can go to ur guidence counsler in ur skool, and have 'therapy' with her, or u can be ur self and act positive. today i did the same thing im tellin you and guyz were throwin compliments my way. nice perfume,etc. and im not even dat pretty. or u csn just twk to me. crazyflirty@yahoo.com
Okay, sorry if this is a little long, but please read it. There is this kid I met at the beginning of this school year. He's in some of my classes and I talk to him online. I like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me. He talks to me a lot online, and he looks at me in class. He also waves to me sometimes. I just met him too, so it's not like we are close friends. So what do you think about this? Thanks!
this happened to me last year... i sent him a note and i got crushed by my crush. it sux. well maybe he does like you, or maybe he's just bein freindly. u say u guyz tawk online, so just bring it up like'do u like anyone in da class'. maybe he'll respond da rite way.
i think i am being stalked. i get weird emails from somone named "zoner" and when i walk home from skool theres someone close behind me but after i turn around a few times they go away. what should i do?
don't reply to his emails cuz he could be a hacker. and tell ur parents about this...maybe they know what to do. just don't try to handle this ur self. you might get hurt.sounds chessy but im serious!!!lol
well sum of u know im 13 n he's 14.So yesterday after i wrote this i went outside 2 get the mail n then i was gunna wait for mah bf cuz he sed he was gunna come to mah house.So when i was waiting anthony came n sat down next to me.(anthony-guy on mah str33t).And i didnt say ne thing to him but then i looked at him nreally quick he kissed me(me not knowing mah bf was across the str33t, so he just walked home)n then i smacked anthony n ran inside.n then mah cell rang, i picked it up n it was mah bf n he sed "i guess i wasnt the only one" n he hung up! Ok NOW WHAT SHOULD I DO!! anthony STILL doesnt get the point!And wut should i do anout mah bf?? plz help!!
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tell ur man that he came, kissed you, and then u slapped him. tell him that you didn't know that anthony was gonna do that and tell him it wasn't on purpose.
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Well I'm going withtwo guys at the same time!!I love both of them and they don't know bout each others presence.But the thing is that I don't want any of them to come to know!!Could u plez advice me on how I can go out with both of them at the same time??
im sorry 2 burst ur bubble, but sooner or later... they're goin to find out. which choice would u rather pick..
a. losing both of them when they find out about eachother.
or
b. choose the one who u think is right and gently dump the other one.
i would choose b becuz then i would have one rather than none.
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Is it good or bad to be sensitive?
u can be sensitive, but not over the top sensitive.
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