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What's up? Well, I'm sure like each and every other advice columnist is that, we all enjoy giving advice . I like to keep things real and you'll find out how real when you ask me a question . I absolutely love helping people . Hollah at me sometimes !!! Oh, and yahoo me . Goodness sakes knows that I could do with the mail.
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well this past weekend, me and my friend snuck out. these two guys pciked us up. one which was her bf and this guy that i use to haev a crush on but we're jsut rfiends. he's going to be a senior and im goign to be a sophmore.well they were'nt suppsoe to pick us up it was suppsoe to be my exboyfriend nad his friend. but it turned out the other way well we went to the seniors house and we ended up hooking up i really like him now thougha dnwe're still talking.. he broke up with his gf. and were hanign out and talking ot he phone. but my ex found out and he acts likeit's nothing but hes pissed, especially since me and him use to be "hook up" buddies.. but i'm so confused. i fell bad b.c the senior had a gf. when we hooked up and shes sweet. and my hook up buddy idk i like him too..i guess i like them both. but i really dont kno what to do.. we're all in deiffernt grades. and idk im' soo lost.
I think you should remain with this guy , but if the fact remains with u that u feel bad 4 his ex, then what to do is in your hands . This guy seems like he likes girls alot, and if u are going out with him, THEN I THINK U SHOULD BE EXTREMELY AND REALLY CAREFUL ABOUT NOT GETTING HURT & I THINK U NEED TO BE CAREFUL ABOUT HIS INTENTIONS . I HAVE A FEELING THAT HE'S GOING TO DO SOM THINGS THAT R REALLY GOING TO PUSH YOUR BUTTONS . VERY HARD . BUT THATS WHAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE BASED UPON . WORKING THROUGH PROBLEMS . HAVE A NICE DAY !!!
ok im really in love with htis boy jon we talk on the phone a lot and we go ot the movies together and i have told him that i love him and he says he likes me to but he likes another girl and he doesnt wanna go out with neither of us cuz he doesnt wanna break eachothers heart but he has almost broken my heart because he wont go out with me i have been crying over him and i know that he is the one but i just dont know how to get him to go out with me! i am much prettier than the other girl but he just doesnt see how much im in love with him ... iv tried moving on but he is just ther and i want him so bad.. how do i get him to fall in love with me or whatever cuz i dont know what to do.. help me someone
I am sure that you know that you have to respect his decision .If he doesn't want to be with you, then that's that . IT MAY SOUND HARSH, BUT IT'S TRUE . Atleast, he's trying to spare u and this other girl from getting hurt . This means that he does care about u, but he is also inticipating another girl which he isn't sure about . You may think that he is the one 4 u now but, u have the rest of your life and plenty of men who are waiting 4 young women like yourself . It's not going to be easy , but it's a bit obvious that he doesn't want to be with U . AND U SHOULDN'T HAVE TO CHANGE YOURSELF FOR HIM TO BE WITH U BECAUSE IF YOU HAVE TO DO THIS 4 HIM, THEN
(1) HE'LL NEVER BE ABLE TO ACCEPT YOU 4 U.
(2) HE DOESN'T DESERVE U IF U HAVE TO CHANGE YOURSELF 4 HIM.
(3) SOMTEIMES THEY LIKE U LESS WHEN YOU REALLY AREN'T BEING CONTENT WITH YOURSELF WHEN IT'S OVER A GUY . THEY MAY FIND IT COOL, BUT IT REALL IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS .
SO ARE U GOING TO WAIT OR MOVE ON . REALLY, THE ANSWER IS ALWAYS LEFT UP TO U . I THINK U NEED TO MOVE ON, BUT i THINK U
SHOULD FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!
Alright, there's this guy who goes to my friends Church. His name is Collin. Anyway, I've thought Collin was cute for a while and I noticed him looking at me a few times during church and stuff. Well I told my guy friend, Aaron (who's friends with him) about it. Well a few weeks ago at a concert my friend Aaron went up to Collin and asked him what he thought about me (I didn't know what he was doing at the time... All I saw was Aaron talking to him and Collin smiling a lot.) Well Aaron told me that Collin smiled and nodded and said "Nice" (like he thought I looked good or something.) Aaron told me I'd have to start talking to him because he's shy or w/e. Well when I got home he was online and my friend Crystal (whom he barely knows by the way) IMed him...and asked him what he thought about me, again. And he told HER that he wasn't my type. So my friend kind've just left it at that. Well lately I've been noticing him looking at me more and stuff. Like one sunday he turned around and I didn't notice this but my friend Andrew told me Collin was checking me out. So what I want to know is do you think he likes me and... if he does why did he completely turn the tables like he did.. Why did he tell Crystal one thing and Aaron another??
I have been through the exact same thing , and you think they like you when, sometimes, they just like to look at you . Sometimes that is not the case . I think he told Crystal one thing because, maybe he wanted to get a shot with her or, maybe IT'S BECAUSE, YOU & HER ARE FRIENDS AND HE KNOWS THAT SHE WOULD TELL U HIS RESPONSE . Guys are more open minded with each other and this basically means, that they are more likely to tell the same sex how they feel about the opposite sex rather than telling the opposite sex how it feels about the opposite sex . We girls do the same thing as well . He may like u . Please , don't make the same stupid mistake like I did . I never asked the guy I liked if he was fond of me . Ask him how he feels about you, and tell him how you feel as well . There is a risk that this guy may not like you, but you can't be afraid of rejection . Not when it comes to your heart . If you don't tell him, then you'd probably want to make sure you don't regret it . Thanks. I understand how u feel . Trust me . Have a nice day .!!!!
I like this guy (we'll call him X). I met him on a Friday a few weeks ago, hung out with him for about 6 hours straight a few days later, and he tells me that he really likes me. I started talking on the phone and developing strong feelings for him. We hung out again and he talks about how much he likes me + also about trying to make a relationship work with the two of us. This friday, he cancells plans with me and says he's intimidated by relationships/commitment, even after everything he had previously said. Now, on Friday he says he's going to think it through and we're going to hang out on Sunday instead, so he asks me to clear my schedule. I do, and now he's not home, nor has he bothered to call me or sign online all day. How am I supposed to be reacting to this? Should I give him any more chances or is it not worth it?
I think you should give him some more chances because, people do make mistakes . But I think you need to talk to him . You need to talk to him about being there when you clear your schedule 4 a date that he set-up , and you all need to talk about his relationship/committment problems . In the topic of discussion, ask him things that he would feel comftorable doing while doing in a relationship, and ask him to mention some things that he wouldn't feel comftorable while doing in a relationship . Each of you can / actually need to set ground rules for each other and this would be the perfect opportunity to do this while discussing a possible relationship, but if he continues to be late to your evening meetings, then maybe he isn't ready and that is alright . Maybe when he is then you 2 can try it out . OH, COULD YOU RATE MY ADVICE . THANKS .
Back in January like January 10th, I met this guy, his name was dominique. Right away I fell in love with him. The way he looked, his smile, just everything about him was perfect. I nicknamed him oreo, this is because he acts white when he is black. I was his baby-d. Gah, I loved that boy to death. I just thought the world of him. There was nuttin I wouldn`t do for him. I would go to the moon and back just for him. He lived a 1 hour away from me,but did that stop me "No Way". I would always find a way to go see him. I mean he was the love of my life. I have dated other guyz before, but none like him. There was just sumthing special about him. I just couldn`t put my foot on it. We would stay up late at night talking on the telephone till 4 or 5 in the morning, even on school nights. We wnet out for a month and broke up. I was staying at a friends house the night of our breakup and boy did i cry all night long. I actually neva have eva stopped crying over him. Well anyways The strange thing is that I nva expected this to happen. That morning we were had just been talking on the phone for 2 hours and everything was fine. Well anyways after we broke up I tried to move on, but I couldn`t it was to hard. I would go out with guyz and I would always brake up with them the very next day. I cried for him in the morning when I woke up. I would hear a song on the radio that reminded me of him. I would pray at night and cry for him. I still do this tooo! Back in march he im me, and he told me sorry for all the pain I have cause you. He told me he wanted to be friends with me. So I accepted it. The only reason I accepted was because I thought maybe I could get him back that way. See I miss him soooooooooo much. I wrote sumthing for him and it goes like this. If I said I wanted u back today
Would u turn around and say u want me back 2 or would u just walk on by
If I said I love u
Would u say u love me 2?
If I said I need u baby
Would u say me 2, or would u shrug ur shoulders
I really need u in my life, plz say u need me too!
See thats how bad I need and want him. pLzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz sumone help me. U can im me at tastemebaby669 if u wanna!
Honey, you are obsessed . You have to move on . I know that it's going to be hard but you have to . Being this guy's friend is the only way I can see that u 2 will ever be as close as u 2 were when u 2 were going together . You have to move on . Whether you know it or not , but one day you will . And to me , it seems that he's already moved on . So now , it's your time . It's not easy but one day you will . I think that the only way this u r hooked on this guy because, u said 'there's somethin special about him' . Well ,u know what you have to do . By . It'll come to you . No one can help u with this feeling . its only you . trust me . been there and done that .
I am starting to do 20 min workouts, but what whould is better to loose a fat from my tummy and thighs. I am only looking to loose 15 lbs.
1. 20 minutes of pilates where I really feel a burn, but no sweat.
2. 20 minutes in the workout room on cross trainer, bike and stair stepper. I sweat enough where I need a shower after, but the burn isn't as painful as with pilates.
Which workout is better to loose weight?
Exercise Plan
1) Pilates = 100 just say 5 20 times .I mean the kind where you bend up like you r doing a stomach crunch and legs up .
2)Stomach Crunches = 25 up , 25 left, 25 right, 25 up .
3) Sit ups = 50 - 75 = break them down into twenties .
4) Squats = 35 = break them down into sets .
Only one sweet a day cut the caffeen and start streching . o.k. keep in touch .
Well, there is this boy that i like, and i used to think that he liked me, he used to tease me and blow in my ear, but from far away, like 5 inches... lol. well, n e way, ever since our teacher moved our seats, he doesn't really seem to notice me alot. I mean, he touches me and likes to play with me every now and then, but it looks like he hates me. Well, he talks to the other girls and my friends sometimes, but he never notices me. I kinda smacked him on the head today and he hit me back! i smacked him silly! so, it's like he doesn't rtespect me or something, does he like me or not? he lkes to look at me when im not looking and smile sometimes when he passes by.
DON'T SPEND ANOTHER SECOND THINKING ABOUT THIS GUY. HE WANTS TO PLAY MIND GAMES AND HE SERIOUSLY WANTS TO STRESS YOU OUT . HE WANTS YOU TO QUESTION YOUR EVERY MOVE , AND IF A GUY MAKES YOU DO THIS, THEN HE CERTAINLY DOESN'T DESERVE YOU . DON'T LOOK AT HIM AND IGNORE THE AFFECTION THAT HE MAY SHOW TOWARDS YOU . YOU COULD ALSO SHOW SOME MORE FLIRTATION TOWARDS OTHERS . THIS WILL SHOW THAT YOU AREN'T PLAYING ANY GAMES . AND HE'LL KNOW . HE'LL KNOW, TO GET OVER HIMSELF !!!!!
well, i have had my period but it's late. like a week and a half late, what should i do and why is this happening?
Well honey, if you haven't had sex ( even with or without a condum, we all no that they're not 100% effective) then no need to worry . Your body may be developing even more . I know trust me . Mine's was off for a month , but it came on . you'll be fine . If you have been in intercourse, I seriously advise you to go to the doctor and they can take a quick pregnancy test . Oh, could you rate my advice . Thanks and have a nice day .
ok, im gay and i love my best friend, i wanna do things with her...what should i do? i think she's the love of my life! i wanna have sex with her cause shes so hott and OMG i gotta tell her!
DIKEY
Dikey, are you a boy or are you a girl . Well, look at it from this prospective, if you're a boy, then you can tell her how you really feel about her and the things that you want to share with her , but I advise you to tell her that you are gay before you and her become sexually involved . It may not seem important to people, but you do love her meaning that she deserves to know this from the person that loves her and that would be you . If you are a girl, then I advise you to tell your friend how you are feeling alot of loving emotions towards her . I am only looking from 2 perspectives because, you did say that you were gay , and with me that's cool . It is all up to you . Oh, could you please rate advice . Thanks and have a nice day .
ive been going out with this guy for a couple of weeks and i really have fallen in love with him. weve kissed before, but i really want to take our relationship to the next level. i dont htink hell say no or anything, but im just really nervous. were going to the movies tomorrow, do i kiss him or even MAKE OUT with him??????
TOMORROW WHEN YOU GO TO THE MOVIE THEATER , TELL HIM THAT YOUR FEELINGS ARE GROWING FOR HIM AND THAT YOU ARE READY TO TAKE THE RELATIONSHIP TO A SERIOUS STEP. TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL , AND TELL HIM THAT IF HE DOESN'T FEEL COMFTORBLE WITH THIS YET THAT YOU COULD WAIT 'ITS UP TO YOU' . OH GIVE ME FEEDBACK ON WHAT HAPPENED AND GIVE ME FEEDBACK ON HOW YOU LIKED THE ADVICE .I AM ASK COURTNEY . OR EMAIL ME AT Courtney@hwynet.com . by and goodluck .
This is a long one. Okay. So there is this guy. I met him a few years ago. At the end of eighth grade. I'm now finishing junior year. But I knew as soon as I saw him that I liked him. A lot. Well, the summer after eighth grade, we ended up "dating." We talked on the phone for a few hours almost evey night. We were really good friends. But a few weeks later, he "broke up with me." It was more of a mutual thing. We never saw eachother 'cause he lived on the opposite side of town (only a few minutes away) but since we were all of 13, we couldn't drive to see eachother. So we decided, since we were more like friends, we should just leave it at that. Over the next few years, my like for him grew to more. I felt like i was falling in love. At the beginning of sophomore year, a group of friends went to six flags great america for fright fest. The wo of us ended up cuddling all night and it seemed to maybe be going somewhere, since this had never happened in our year and a half of friendship. But then i was told through a mutual friend that he didn't want a girlfriend right now. I was upset with him. Partially because he didn't tell me himself. Partially because I felt kind of betrayed. I know, it's silly, but i was 15 and had, like, no experience. Well, a week later, he got me to sit down with him and talk. He said now was not a good time for him to have a girlfriend because he was stressing about school and stuff, it was towards the end of the semester. But he said he really liked me... a lot. And he felt bad about leading me on. So we were friends again. Over the next few months, there would be random times at movie nights at friends' houses that we ould just start holding hands and cuddling, but nothing ever came of it. Over the last few months of sophomore year through the first few months of junior year, we started to distance. He was dating some girls but he stopped telling me about some of the more important things in his life. We didn't talk on the phone anymore. Then I went to California on a choir trip this past spring break. We started texting back and forth. He was very blatantly flirting with me, and I with him. We made plans to hang out when I got back. He would call me occasionally while I was gone, just to talk. When I got back, we decided to hang out. We didn't know what to do, since there's not a whole lot to do in our town, so we ended up making out in the back of his car for a few hours. Then the next weekend, we made plans ro go to this charity concert our school was holding. But he got stuck babysitting his little brother, so I went over to his house that night and the same thing happened. Only this time he tried to push things farther. Not all the way, but farther than I was comfortable with. And I told him so. He said that was okay, and backed off a bit. But then he'd bring it up, like, every hour. I told him no, and he didn't try to force it. The next weekend, I went over to his houes again, and he tried to push things farther again. This time it was REALLY hard for me to stop him. I didn't really want to. But I wasn't ready to go any farther than we had. And his parents were upstairs. The next weekend, I decided that I had really been the one who had called him to "hang out." He'd never called me. So I didn't call him. However, my friend stole my cell while I was at her house and texted him about what he was doing for prom. It was soming up in about a month. He avoided the topic. A few days later, a mutual friend, (not the same one as before. This one is one of my best friends. We've known eachother forever) told me that she had talked to him while I was in California. He called her asking if she wanted to fool around because he was horny and he knew she'd probably be willing. Trying to be a good friend and knowing how I feel about him, told him to call me. He said, he didn't think he could do that because he knew I liked him and he didn't want to hurt me. Well, when she talked to him while we were fooling around, he said he took her advice. He also said that other than friendship, he had no feelings for me whatsoever and what we did meant nothing. She yelled at him and he said he was just taking her advice. She still feels terrible about it. She thought maybe she could set us up. He never said anything to me. (He also told my friend that he slept with his ex. They broke up about a month/a month and a half bafore we hooked up. They'd only been dating for a few weeks.) Then a few weeks after that, he told me in gym class one day that he really needed to talk to me, but we had to go do gym stuff so he couldn't. I asked him what he needed to talk to me about a few days later, but he said he knew it was important but he forgot what it was. Then I had this whole conversation one night with the mutual friend. She said, first of all, that when they had that conversation after he and I, he said, he had thought he was the first guy I had ever kissed (he thought I would have told him if I had kissed anyone when said kiss would have happened because we were friends) but he had a feeling he wasn't. He was right. During this past Halloween, at a friend's co0ed sleepover, I made out with some random guy in a desparate attempt to get over the other guy since I was having such a hard time with it. I regret it completely. She also said that he considered our me his first girlfriend when we went out after eighth grade. And that he really liked me all of sophomore year but he was afraid to ask me out because he didn't know if I still liked him. He felt I was distancing myself from him. And I was. I was TRYING to get over him. Marvel at my lack of success. He found out a few days ago about me and my random Halloween guy. But he still doesn't know who it was. He spent an hour trying to get me to tell him who it was. I was also in a bad mood that day so I was kinda mean, and when he asked if I was mad at him, I told him that I was. I'm surprised that he didn't even guess that I might have been mad at him before now. I really don't know what to do. Part of me is really mad at him for what he did, but part of me doesn't want to ruin our friendship even though he did what he did. I don't know what all of this means or what to do.
kIKI714 , i THINK YOU NEED TO TALK TO THE GUY YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH . TELL HIM YOU WANT TO TALK TO HIM FACE TO FACE . YOU NEED TO TELL HIM THAT 'YOU WILL NOT GIVE YOURSELF UP TO HIM AND YOU WILL NO LONGER WAIT FOR HIM TO REALLY BE THERE FOR YOU AND TO START CARING FOR YOU . ALSO ASK HIM IF HE EVER CARED FOR YOU WHILE YOU AND HIM WERE MAKING OUT . TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND TELL HIM ( IF HE SAID HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU THEN DON'T TELL 'EM) THAT HE'S GOING TO HAVE TO CHANGE HIS WAY . HE SOUNDS LIKE A JERK THOUGH . TELL HIM THIS AND HIS RESPONSE MAY GIVE YOU QUICK INSENTIVE TO GET OVER HIM . OH CAN YOU RATE MY ADVICE AND LEAVE A RESPONSE . YOUR ARTICLE SHOWED THE PASSION YOU HAVE 4 HIM TOO .
OK. Well I'm not really like low self esteem or anything cause I know I'm just as good as all the other idiots out there but I guess I'm just tired of being treated like dirt. There are some really nice guys at school who make me feel good but there are also the not so good people who make me feel like crap. This guy who I barely even know and I accidently tripped during a basketball scrimage hates me and keeps calling me ugly and stuff. I mean I know that I don't need them or anything but I just want to know when some guy will come along and make me feel really god. But basically I hate everyone at my school...OK maybe thats not true I actually like almost all of them but you think it would kill them to be nice for once? Im not really asking for advice but some encouragement that the world isnt as crappy as it seems would be nice.
I know exactly how you feel because the 'popular' kids think everything is their's . well, one day they are going to wake up and smell the coffee . the one's who treat you bad aren't nothing .This guy is a jerk and one day he and the others will get there's . Just let some stuff ride . AND DON'T STRESS THEM NOT LIKING YOU . THERE'S OBVIOUSLY SOMETHING YOU HAVE THAT THEY WANT SO DON'T STRESS THE DETAILS . THATS WHAT THEY WANT YOU TO DO . I SHOULD REALLY TAKE MY OWN ADVICE . BY. OH , PLEASE RATE MY ADVICE AND LEAVE AN EXPLANATION . THANKS .
why is everyone so obsessed with giving hand jobs or all this other sexual stuff. I don't get it...to me it just seems so disgusting.
I so do GET WHAT YOU ARE SAYING ? I THINK IT'S DISGUSTING , AND I THINK WHATEVER ACT PEOPLE COMMITT DURING INTERCOURSE IS THEIR BUISNESS . NOT FOR THEM TO AIR IT OUT TO THE PUBLIC . THEY ARE OBSESSED BECAUSE, HIP-HOP HAS BEEN SAYING THINGS ABOUT SEX AND A WOMAN SUCKING A MAN'S PENIS . THEY JUST ARE TAKING THINGS A BIT FAR .IT'S A TREND THAT'S IN AND IF THIS DOESN'T STOP, THE U.S. WILL BE FULL OF PEOPLE WITH AIDS AND ALL HERPES . WELL , could you rate my advice and leave an explanation . Thanks .
ok im going out wit this super sweet guy right now and we just got off school he went out of town wit a friend so he miss a persons bonfire but me and but friend sally went thenn she started hanging bob so i had no one to talk to then i started talkin to mark and jake and there really cool id been talkin to mark for a while but its like the first time ive really talked to jake and then i was warin his hat and ridin his bike wit everyone then i started walkin around and he like kinda followed me and i was walkin up to these kids and he was actin like he was my b/f and the guys were really cool so i just igonored him and then sally told me jake liked me and thats wierd cause i never liked him what should i do? do you think he likes me? what should i tell him
You should be focused on that SUPER SWEET GUY RIGHT NOW . BE COMMITTED ONLY TO HIM . You'll have to talk to Jake and Mark NICE AND STEADY DOES THE TRICK . Tell them that, " you have a boyfriend that I am committed to, and I really don't know if I could betray him like that . I think of you as a friend and that is it . I don't know if you like me or if I am being conceted , but I just wanted to tell you . I hope you and I CAN CONTINUE TO BE FRIENDS" . Tell both of them this , and I am sure that they will understand you . Oh, please rate my advice and please leave a response . This is Courtney . Holla BACK !
Me and my neighbors are all in 8th grade. We talk a lot about 8th grade stuff, but my sister doesn't understand it, and she insists that she feels fine with us talking about things she doesn't understand. She is in fourth grade. I don't want to continue talking about things and ignoring her like that, because I think she actually does mind and would like to be part of the conversation. What can I do?
Your sister is in the fourth grade . Well , what you can do is include her in the conversation , and when you do this ask her if she's ever experienced anything like what you are talking about in the 8th grade . You can compare 8th grade to fourth grade or you could get her to open up to things that you could probably relate to in a situation she's or you've been in thats similar to her topic . Try to say something to her look her in the eye's and don't drive her away . That makes things worse . OH COULD YOU RATE THIS ADVICE AND LEAVE AN EXPLANATON . THANKS CARING SISTER !
i am SO sad. today my teacher yelled at me for doing nothing. Also today my friend abanded me. i was telling her somthing and she just left. I also wanted to tell her how i felt but of corase not she had to go with jordan aka the boy friend. he is my friend and all but he is ALWAYS with charley aka BF. i need some help on what to do i really like this kid but i dont know i would tell him i liked him or ask him out so hope you can help me.
singed trobuled teen AKA amy
DON'T WORRY , WE ALL HAVE BAD DAYS WITH OUR TEACHERS AND SOMETIMES OUR FRIENDS HAVE TO LEAVE BECAUSE , IT MAY BE CONVENIENT OR NOT . TRY TO BE UNDERSTANDING . Do you like Charlie or do you like Jordan because, liking your friends boyfriend would be bad ,SO I ASSUME YOU LIKE CHARLIE ? AMY, WHAT DOES YOUR HEART TELL YOU ? I THINK YOU SHOULD GIVE THIS GUY A CHANCE AND ASK HIM OUT - JUST NOT IN FRONT OF ANYONE OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT AND DON'T CALL HIM . ASK HIM FACE TO FACE . YOU WILL BE SCARED AND YOUR HEART WILL BE BEATING FAST , BUT IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS KID , YOU WOULD GIVE HIM A SHOT EVEN FOR THE BETTER OR FOR THE WORST . SO, AT THE END OF THE DAYS OF YOUR LIFE , OUR ADVICE MAY INFLUENCE YOUR DECISION , BUT IF YOU GO THROUGH IT, YOU SHOULD BE PROUD BECAUSE IT SHOWS BRAVERY . I WISH I WAS MORE LIKE YOU AMY . OH, PLEASERATE MY ADVICE ON YOUR OPINION,AND PLEASE LEAVE A RESPONSE . THIS IS COURTNEY.
this guy... we still hook up even though we broke up. idk if theyr'e are any feelings. i dont think i feel anything for him since really now i've jsut started thinking of him more of a friend than a boyfriend. some of my friends think i might be leading him on. i realyl have fun with him. and he's realyl sweet, but he could also be an ass. he's asking me if i've hooked up with anyone.(y would he care?) i liked it when we went out but now its like it's doesn't matter.. he's sually looking at me. and now i really odnt know hwat to do..?
Tell your guy friend that you can't be in a relationship with him because, you value your friendship with him and that you basically feel nothing beside friendly like feelings towards him . Also tell him that you two tried a relationship before , and that didn't work so well because in the article you called him, a 'ass' . Tell him you enjoy your friendship but you just aren't ready for one with him not now and anytime sooner . Oh, and apologize if he thinks that you led him on any wrong way if you know what I mean . Um , could you rate my advice whatever you want please .
i have this friend who had a bf for almost a year but lets jus say,,, i dunno how it lasted that long.. anyway the broke up lyk 8 months ago and she jus is gettin outta the depressed phase and is thinking about going out with this other guy.. or should i sey boy because she is soo shallow and immiture.. anyway she flirts lyk crazy with him and he barley cares... theyve talked on the fone and stuff but he always has his other friends on the line and ignores her completely.. Ie tryed to give my advice to her and she ses that its not my business and that i shouldnt give my opinion.. she also said that he might change if they got inot a relationship..in my own opinion she is jus desperate to have a bf and i deciving herself into thinking she likes the first guy she sees... i really dont want to see her hurt again.. what can i do???
thnx
All I have tell you is to sit your friend down and tell her 'to wake up and smell the cofee' . The cofee is that he seems to have no interest in her and if he doesn't have any interest in her now, (mainly acting like a jerk) how does she ever expect him to have any interest in her when thery're supposedly in a relationship . Also mention the possibility to her that he might be a jerk and turn her down and make her look and feel bad about herself . This brings low esteem and you will come to doubt yourself . Also tell her that she doesn't need a man just to be there for her because , most importantly , she has you there as a friend . If she doesn't listen , than it'll be another hard lesson of life hopefully well learned . Don't be the type that says, " I TOLD YOU SO" . Be the type of friend that says ," HE WASN'T, IS , AND NEVER WILL BE GOOD ENOUGH FOR A PERSON LIKE YOU " . Please rate my advice whatever you want to . O.K. BY .
me and my friend have a friend *sally* and she has a boyfriend which teyve been dating fro 7 months. she hasnt told her paretns because shes scared. and he wants thme to know . his name is not spoken at hi hosue at all. and she even has a code name for him. but other than that he's been thinking of breaking up with her . shoud i tell her? she's been thinking of having sex with him
You should definenitly tell her about that . I mean she's considering to have sex with this guy and there is a possibility that they'll have sex and he'll just break up with her . Tell her . She could be making one of the biggest mistakes in her life, and I know that she may be your friend and he may be your friend , but you got to do what's right and the right thing to do is to tell her about what he's going to do before she because intimate with him .
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*im kinda tryin to move on from that one boi but not fully. i like this kid who i've only talked to online and who seems really cool. we're suppose to hang out sometime soon and just i guess get to know each other and whatever BUT theres another girl [as always with the guys i like] and its not like we're tiite but we talk a lot and stuff. idk if i should back off cause they were kinda talking first but i guess if they were REALLLY talking then they'd be going out right? what do i do
I think you should continue to talk to this guy. I mean you're still getting over the guy you used to like so start associating with other guys . I know this is easier said than done , but do you want to waste your summer being a straight up doormat just waiting for the person you used to like . Talk to this guy and DON'T TRY TO STEAL HIM FROM HIS GIRL FRIEND BECAUSE, IN THE END YOU'LL BE THE ONE WHO WILL END UP GETTING HURT . Right now , YOU ARE IN A GOOD POSITION BECAUSE, YOU HAVE A GUY AS YOUR FRIEND . A GUY THAT'S YOUR FRIEND CAN COME TO KNOW YOU AND MAYBE HE'LL COME TO LOVE YOU . BUT FIRST COMES FIRST, WAIT . CONTINUE TO TALK TO HIM AS A FRIEND AND BE YOURSELF . HE'LL ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU .