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weLL im back again.
*im kinda tryin to move on from that one boi but not fully. i like this kid who i've only talked to online and who seems really cool. we're suppose to hang out sometime soon and just i guess get to know each other and whatever BUT theres another girl [as always with the guys i like] and its not like we're tiite but we talk a lot and stuff. idk if i should back off cause they were kinda talking first but i guess if they were REALLLY talking then they'd be going out right? what do i do
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The best thing to do would be to tell the other girl and the guy how you feel. This way no rumors and different stories get spred around. If there is anything that turns a guy off, it's lieing whether you are or not, it can seem like it to others when each of them hears another story. In the end if everything was ment to be, you will come out with what you want.
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I think you should continue to talk to this guy. I mean you're still getting over the guy you used to like so start associating with other guys . I know this is easier said than done , but do you want to waste your summer being a straight up doormat just waiting for the person you used to like . Talk to this guy and DON'T TRY TO STEAL HIM FROM HIS GIRL FRIEND BECAUSE, IN THE END YOU'LL BE THE ONE WHO WILL END UP GETTING HURT . Right now , YOU ARE IN A GOOD POSITION BECAUSE, YOU HAVE A GUY AS YOUR FRIEND . A GUY THAT'S YOUR FRIEND CAN COME TO KNOW YOU AND MAYBE HE'LL COME TO LOVE YOU . BUT FIRST COMES FIRST, WAIT . CONTINUE TO TALK TO HIM AS A FRIEND AND BE YOURSELF . HE'LL ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU .
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Well don't back down if they're not going out. But you shouldn't have to compete to be with this boy. Don't wait around for him to make a choice. Spend some time with him in person get to know him and see if he's really worth fighting for. And if ya'll do build into something or both start to have strong feelings for each other, then maybe you should ask him about her and what your status is, or her's. Just make sure he's worth the fight, but try not to compete with the girl, just be yourself. I hope everything works out for you!
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