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well this past weekend, me and my friend snuck out. these two guys pciked us up. one which was her bf and this guy that i use to haev a crush on but we're jsut rfiends. he's going to be a senior and im goign to be a sophmore.well they were'nt suppsoe to pick us up it was suppsoe to be my exboyfriend nad his friend. but it turned out the other way well we went to the seniors house and we ended up hooking up i really like him now thougha dnwe're still talking.. he broke up with his gf. and were hanign out and talking ot he phone. but my ex found out and he acts likeit's nothing but hes pissed, especially since me and him use to be "hook up" buddies.. but i'm so confused. i fell bad b.c the senior had a gf. when we hooked up and shes sweet. and my hook up buddy idk i like him too..i guess i like them both. but i really dont kno what to do.. we're all in deiffernt grades. and idk im' soo lost.
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I thinkit's great that your giving this guy a chance but don't cheat and just be careful with yourself not all seniors are that way but some are just make sure he respects u
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Hmmm..well first of all I'd be a little cautious of this Senior guys intentions.Especially since your relationship began as a random hook up and not a friendship or a real mutual liking.You said yourself,it just ended up happening.Also,you say you feel bad for his ex,well,then think to yourself;if he did this to her,who's to say he won't do it to me??Would you want to end up being the one who's hurt?Sit him down and ask him what his intentions and feelings are.As far as choosing between the 2,think about it based on other factors such as how he treats you outside of the bed,who makes you happier,who makes you laugh,who is supportive and there for you,who shows true concern for your feelings.This decision shouldn't be based on sex alone.And no relationship should be only about sex unless that's what the 2 of you agreed upon that that's all you wanted.Always be sure that thru all of this,you're being safe and using protection!!!Best of luck!
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I think you should remain with this guy , but if the fact remains with u that u feel bad 4 his ex, then what to do is in your hands . This guy seems like he likes girls alot, and if u are going out with him, THEN I THINK U SHOULD BE EXTREMELY AND REALLY CAREFUL ABOUT NOT GETTING HURT & I THINK U NEED TO BE CAREFUL ABOUT HIS INTENTIONS . I HAVE A FEELING THAT HE'S GOING TO DO SOM THINGS THAT R REALLY GOING TO PUSH YOUR BUTTONS . VERY HARD . BUT THATS WHAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE BASED UPON . WORKING THROUGH PROBLEMS . HAVE A NICE DAY !!!
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If you feel that badley about it .. then tell your boyfriend that you still like you ex boyfriend .. and if he gets mad about it and stuff .. then go on to the other guy that you liked. He's prolly the one for you anyway. .. Seniors just want stuff .. the "fresh" stuff
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